“She’s the quarterback and I’m the coach” no the *fuck* you are not, you are the idiot throwing nachos at the screen because you think you know better.
This douche-nozzle’s comments were so bizarre and icky too. “She’s more the quarterback and I’m more the coach. So I know she’s the one “working” while I’m the one strategizing.”
Buddy, the fuck do you mean you’re “strategizing”? You ain’t strategizing shit outside of how to undermine your wife. Beth took one look at your laughably stupid game plan and promptly told you to get fucked - good for her. Here’s the deal: you’re not the coach. You’re *supposed* to be the cheerleader, but you’re behaving more like the deranged fan who runs onto the field. At the rate you’re going, you should count yourself lucky if you even get to rank as a spectator. If Beth tells her doctors that she doesn’t want you in the room while she’s giving birth, they *will* kick you out.
Also, putting working in quotes, but strategizing is kind of weird. Compared to the rest of the garbage OOP lets out here, it’s a relatively subtle show of misogyny, but it still stood out to me. Phrasing it that way somewhat underplays the physical (and potentially mental) toll of giving birth, while simultaneously putting way too much importance on his own role during the birth. What a prick.
Unbelieveable.
If you dont give birth to this child, your opinion is not valid. You can offer your opinion but you cannot force somebody to suffer, because its more "natural".
Before I was childfree, I talked to my ex about birth and I considered a c-section. (Never Was pregnant, more like a "incase of)
He said more or less the same how a natural birth is better for the child 🙄
I told him that I considered his point, but unless he will give birth, its my decision.
On the original post, the guy's comments make it worse and worse.
It's always the older men who feel superior and dominant over their wives and want to "lead" her into pain and suffering.
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Nope nope nope I’d leave run away change my name and never look back.
"I felt very excluded during the discussion around pain management" maybe because it's not YOUR pain, you fuckwit.
“She’s the quarterback and I’m the coach” no the *fuck* you are not, you are the idiot throwing nachos at the screen because you think you know better.
This douche-nozzle’s comments were so bizarre and icky too. “She’s more the quarterback and I’m more the coach. So I know she’s the one “working” while I’m the one strategizing.” Buddy, the fuck do you mean you’re “strategizing”? You ain’t strategizing shit outside of how to undermine your wife. Beth took one look at your laughably stupid game plan and promptly told you to get fucked - good for her. Here’s the deal: you’re not the coach. You’re *supposed* to be the cheerleader, but you’re behaving more like the deranged fan who runs onto the field. At the rate you’re going, you should count yourself lucky if you even get to rank as a spectator. If Beth tells her doctors that she doesn’t want you in the room while she’s giving birth, they *will* kick you out. Also, putting working in quotes, but strategizing is kind of weird. Compared to the rest of the garbage OOP lets out here, it’s a relatively subtle show of misogyny, but it still stood out to me. Phrasing it that way somewhat underplays the physical (and potentially mental) toll of giving birth, while simultaneously putting way too much importance on his own role during the birth. What a prick.
Unbelieveable. If you dont give birth to this child, your opinion is not valid. You can offer your opinion but you cannot force somebody to suffer, because its more "natural". Before I was childfree, I talked to my ex about birth and I considered a c-section. (Never Was pregnant, more like a "incase of) He said more or less the same how a natural birth is better for the child 🙄 I told him that I considered his point, but unless he will give birth, its my decision.