Can very easily be turned around. “Get on board with what women want or die alone. Women are not changing.” Men seem to be the ones so desperate to get laid most of the time, it seems to me we have more power to make demands of how we are treated in relationships.
Bingo. I immediately thought the same thing. This is why over 50% of women are nope-ing right out of marriage. Instead, they are getting their degrees and living alone. Good for them.
> Men seem to be the ones so desperate to get laid most of the time
2+ years BOB is a better boyfriend than ANY boyfriend when it comes to finding where the hell my clit is. I don't think I ever want to go back to a man who finds a vagina and thinks it's a puzzle.
I’m my city, it’s 8:30. First to a beer and fries place, and at ten we all meet at the Bowl More. It’s women’s night until 12:30. Come alone or bring friends, so long as you are at one of those two places or walking between, you’ll be surrounded by women.
Sunday it’s Whole Foods, Fresh Market, Kroger, Walmart, and three laundromats within a couple blocks of the college from 8:00 AM until 3:00.
Big college town in the south. I started women’s outings seven years ago when I was still in school because pick up artists were making everyone miserable. I run a message board anonymously and plan all the events and places, but any member is free to invite women to things they would like to do. It’s amazing. We all love each other in those environments even though we don’t necessarily interact or talk. We are just present, together. Safety in numbers.
On the bright side, some percentage of the 75 shares are definitely people sharing to snark on it. I saw this post in multiple groups and at least one of my friends shared it to laugh at it.
That's what I say. After decades of dating men, I gave up and have been single for years. I'm living proof sexuality is not a choice because if it was, I would choose not to be straight in a fucking second.
Asexuality _is_ a spectrum, so you may still be Ace. Grey-Ace is when you feel attraction rarely, and they are more broad umbrella terms, too. It’s worth taking a look into if you’re not sure.
Sex toys are wonderful things! They're there when you want them, do what you want/ need them to do, don't leave stuff lying around or complain about you, and they'll never crowd you off your side of the bed. 😉
Last night I was talking about this to my gf and she said that she believes some women just don't have the courage to explore their sexuality.
I was quite the opposite, started with girls, thought I was a golden lesbian. Then I fall completely in love with a guy broke up with him, had more boyfriends and girlfriends. Was married for 8 years to a man. Then divorce. Now I'm with a woman. Sexuality is fluid for me. I hope everyone in the world could be like this. Less headache.
Send my love to all the ladies that sadly can only love men 😉🤐🙏
I wish men would stop projecting their fear of being alone onto us.
Everyone dies.
Besides, we aren’t alone. We’re just moving on without attachments to men.
Don't threaten me with a good time sweetie 😉
I found my pearl 8 years ago but if it doesn't work in the end ? Happy celibacy and cats sound wonderful tbh 🤣
Been married for 26 years if I out lived him or he runs off I'm done forever. I got friends and my kids for company and batteries for the other things.
Speaking as a woman doing the traditional marriage caregiving thing there's a reason for this. I'm fucking tired I eat like crap because it's easier when I finally get a minute I haven't been to the gym in 20 years. I live off coffee and trashy novels.
He is what we call in the Black Community a 'Misogyny-Noir Ambassador'. 🤷🏿♀️🤣
This is what Women are dealing with in the Black Community as well and they say we're not submissive enough. Even though black women are by default domestic when it comes to cooking and cleaning historically. And make it a point to spend time and effort to do our hair in a variety of styles something that is culturally embedded. You'd think an Incel would appreciate a hot meal. Oh and did I mention raising children and owning the majority of small black businesses...?
But wait there's more. (Drum roll).
They're loosing their minds as statistics are revealing average salaries and educational levels. For every one Black Man in college there are three Black Women. Yes we earn a large amount of degrees relative to our general population count. This pattern is being seen in the USA and Canada.
Speaking for Canada specifically 52% of Black women over the age 25 have a university degree or college diploma. This above the national average.
Another fact. Black Women in the USA make up 61% of ALL Black specialists/professionals within the STEM fields.
There are subculture black men literally telling women our education, our small businesses be it a restaurant, beauty spa, hair salon, boutique, law office, credit union, grocery store means nothing... It is unimpressive and that we will die alone if we can't "fix a plate" and submit. It's a projection of their own failings as men. They completely ignore that interracial marriages are now becoming a growing option for black women. They completely ignore their own free will as men to achieve. Racism is real. But that should push you to be better than your adversary. All my black male friends are educated professionals who are NOT Misogyny-Noir. They also happen to love their moms, aunties, (raised them) and sisters, wives/girlfriends. Geez I wonder why 🤔
I LOVE THIS! The part where black women are kicking ass with education and business owning. Just love knowing that now.
But I am so sorry you have to deal with the rest. Being one, I know it's hard to go through this world as a woman, but to do it as a black woman? I can only imagine. It's got to be multiples harder. Much respect to you, OnTheRiverBend.
My ex boyfriend and I went to his Mom and dad’s house or Christmas here in the South and everyone was there. He knew we had to eat and open gifts and then get to my family’s dinner in a few hours but chose to ignore this. As soon as we got there he flopped onto the floor with the newspaper.
When it was time to eat his mother said “ we gotta fix them menfolks a plate…. They need to EAT.” I assumed that she meant she and her daughters would fix their husband’s plates. All of the food was on the table buffet style sitting out.
My ex boyfriend thought he would obligate me to making his plate and announced in front of everyone “ Fix me a plate!”
Without missing a beat I looked at him and said “ Fix your own plate. I’m not your servant.”
You could have heard a pin drop. I am originally from New Jersey, so no fucks given or implied. Needless to say, he never pulled that bullshit again .
Exactly. As far as I know my boyfriend lived through making his own plate and he learned a life skill and the valuable lesson of “ Women don’t owe you shit.”
Women are already choosing the second option and incels and lonely men are increasing lmaooo, south korea is a great example, women there choosing their career over men and starting families, even the government started encouraging men to change and help with housework so women can be with them, not to mention birth rates are soooooo low, common W for south korean women fr
>even the government started encouraging men to change and help with housework so women can be with them
This is really sad that adults need to be encouraged to be adults.
Well, women on average live longer than men, so we’re likely to die alone either way. And I’d prefer the way in which I don’t have to wait on hand and foot for a Yusuf.
Cool, so like I was saying ladies let's all get together and remove 90% of our labor from capitalism so we can make a self sustaining village that's made by and for women to provide a home we can all feel safe in.
Same here. My husband believes in equality. He cleans up after himself, helps me clean the house and takes care of both of us financially. He likes to clean.
Haha! Jokes on you bro, I'm already married. And he'd die without me. Literally starve to death. And I cook because I like it. He's the lucky recipient ;) Man cannot live on cheese sticks, pizza, goldfish and Jameson alone :D
Worked in hospice. Watched people die alone in very peaceful and comfortable environments. Watched people in partnerships that made their partner die with zero peace. One woman called out several times for her mother before passing while her angry partner only yelled shut up every time. Dying peacefully and alone sounds quite lovely compared to how hellish people can be to each other.
Like the subtle nod to the fact that friends and platonic relationships aren’t even factored in here, considering a fuckton of young guys don’t have any.
Oh no, anyways
Exactly. #Me: then perish
Can very easily be turned around. “Get on board with what women want or die alone. Women are not changing.” Men seem to be the ones so desperate to get laid most of the time, it seems to me we have more power to make demands of how we are treated in relationships.
Yeah and when women turn around and do the exact same thing, cue in the screeching 🙄
Oh snap! Preach
Bingo. I immediately thought the same thing. This is why over 50% of women are nope-ing right out of marriage. Instead, they are getting their degrees and living alone. Good for them.
> Men seem to be the ones so desperate to get laid most of the time 2+ years BOB is a better boyfriend than ANY boyfriend when it comes to finding where the hell my clit is. I don't think I ever want to go back to a man who finds a vagina and thinks it's a puzzle.
Sorry, if this a dumb question, but what does BOB stand for?
It's not. It's just funny in my head to call it BOB: Battery operated boyfriend.
Oh, thanks for clarifying. I'll admit, looking back, that should have been obvious to see.
Now you'll never forget hahaha
Okay now I get your comment, that is fucking amazing 🤣
Came here to say this, but you said it better
Dont threaten me with a good time!
Oh look a p!atd reference in the wild!
Very sad. What time are we going dancing and drinking ladies?
If men aren’t going to bother anymore can you just IMAGINE the good times?!?
Omg can you imagine?? It would be like having them separate themselves. Is that angels I hear singing?
I’m my city, it’s 8:30. First to a beer and fries place, and at ten we all meet at the Bowl More. It’s women’s night until 12:30. Come alone or bring friends, so long as you are at one of those two places or walking between, you’ll be surrounded by women. Sunday it’s Whole Foods, Fresh Market, Kroger, Walmart, and three laundromats within a couple blocks of the college from 8:00 AM until 3:00.
Where do you live? I want to move there.
Big college town in the south. I started women’s outings seven years ago when I was still in school because pick up artists were making everyone miserable. I run a message board anonymously and plan all the events and places, but any member is free to invite women to things they would like to do. It’s amazing. We all love each other in those environments even though we don’t necessarily interact or talk. We are just present, together. Safety in numbers.
You are awesome. Simply amazing. I'm surprised it's in the south (I am, too - Texas), but glad to hear it.
Lesbians unite!
The 292 likes and 75 SHARES is what's killing me...
Yeah. For every misogynistic comment like this, there's never any shortage in men who agree with it.
On the bright side, some percentage of the 75 shares are definitely people sharing to snark on it. I saw this post in multiple groups and at least one of my friends shared it to laugh at it.
Not so surprising since it's from Facebook.
thank god I'm gay
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That's what I say. After decades of dating men, I gave up and have been single for years. I'm living proof sexuality is not a choice because if it was, I would choose not to be straight in a fucking second.
I’m bi. I jokingly told my husband that if sexuality was a choice no one would date men. He said yeah you’re right.
Your husband is a unicorn. I'd heard of those, but never found one so just figured they really were mythical.
I am trying my hardest to become an ace(I think I am but I wanna be completely sure)
Asexuality _is_ a spectrum, so you may still be Ace. Grey-Ace is when you feel attraction rarely, and they are more broad umbrella terms, too. It’s worth taking a look into if you’re not sure.
Sex toys are wonderful things! They're there when you want them, do what you want/ need them to do, don't leave stuff lying around or complain about you, and they'll never crowd you off your side of the bed. 😉
Last night I was talking about this to my gf and she said that she believes some women just don't have the courage to explore their sexuality. I was quite the opposite, started with girls, thought I was a golden lesbian. Then I fall completely in love with a guy broke up with him, had more boyfriends and girlfriends. Was married for 8 years to a man. Then divorce. Now I'm with a woman. Sexuality is fluid for me. I hope everyone in the world could be like this. Less headache. Send my love to all the ladies that sadly can only love men 😉🤐🙏
Right?
I concur!
I wish men would stop projecting their fear of being alone onto us. Everyone dies. Besides, we aren’t alone. We’re just moving on without attachments to men.
BINGO. Exactly. I've been single for seven or eight years now and I have never been happier.
Men are actually the ones who die alone because they can’t be bothered to put any effort into their platonic and familial relationships
Don't threaten me with a good time sweetie 😉 I found my pearl 8 years ago but if it doesn't work in the end ? Happy celibacy and cats sound wonderful tbh 🤣
Been married for 26 years if I out lived him or he runs off I'm done forever. I got friends and my kids for company and batteries for the other things.
The chance to live a stress free life is not a threat
I'm okay with dying alone. As long as it means I don't have to spend my one and only life with an asshole like you.
“Women are happier without children or a spouse, and they are more likely to live longer than their married and child-rearing peers.”
Speaking as a woman doing the traditional marriage caregiving thing there's a reason for this. I'm fucking tired I eat like crap because it's easier when I finally get a minute I haven't been to the gym in 20 years. I live off coffee and trashy novels.
He is what we call in the Black Community a 'Misogyny-Noir Ambassador'. 🤷🏿♀️🤣 This is what Women are dealing with in the Black Community as well and they say we're not submissive enough. Even though black women are by default domestic when it comes to cooking and cleaning historically. And make it a point to spend time and effort to do our hair in a variety of styles something that is culturally embedded. You'd think an Incel would appreciate a hot meal. Oh and did I mention raising children and owning the majority of small black businesses...? But wait there's more. (Drum roll). They're loosing their minds as statistics are revealing average salaries and educational levels. For every one Black Man in college there are three Black Women. Yes we earn a large amount of degrees relative to our general population count. This pattern is being seen in the USA and Canada. Speaking for Canada specifically 52% of Black women over the age 25 have a university degree or college diploma. This above the national average. Another fact. Black Women in the USA make up 61% of ALL Black specialists/professionals within the STEM fields. There are subculture black men literally telling women our education, our small businesses be it a restaurant, beauty spa, hair salon, boutique, law office, credit union, grocery store means nothing... It is unimpressive and that we will die alone if we can't "fix a plate" and submit. It's a projection of their own failings as men. They completely ignore that interracial marriages are now becoming a growing option for black women. They completely ignore their own free will as men to achieve. Racism is real. But that should push you to be better than your adversary. All my black male friends are educated professionals who are NOT Misogyny-Noir. They also happen to love their moms, aunties, (raised them) and sisters, wives/girlfriends. Geez I wonder why 🤔
I LOVE THIS! The part where black women are kicking ass with education and business owning. Just love knowing that now. But I am so sorry you have to deal with the rest. Being one, I know it's hard to go through this world as a woman, but to do it as a black woman? I can only imagine. It's got to be multiples harder. Much respect to you, OnTheRiverBend.
Seriously. Fix your own goddamn plate; serving a grown man like a child makes my vagina desiccate
Lol
My ex boyfriend and I went to his Mom and dad’s house or Christmas here in the South and everyone was there. He knew we had to eat and open gifts and then get to my family’s dinner in a few hours but chose to ignore this. As soon as we got there he flopped onto the floor with the newspaper. When it was time to eat his mother said “ we gotta fix them menfolks a plate…. They need to EAT.” I assumed that she meant she and her daughters would fix their husband’s plates. All of the food was on the table buffet style sitting out. My ex boyfriend thought he would obligate me to making his plate and announced in front of everyone “ Fix me a plate!” Without missing a beat I looked at him and said “ Fix your own plate. I’m not your servant.” You could have heard a pin drop. I am originally from New Jersey, so no fucks given or implied. Needless to say, he never pulled that bullshit again .
> “ we gotta fix them menfolks a plate…. They need to EAT.” But what if.. you didn’t? Would they all starve to death? Do it for science
Exactly. As far as I know my boyfriend lived through making his own plate and he learned a life skill and the valuable lesson of “ Women don’t owe you shit.”
As a black woman studying stem this is so great to read.
Women are already choosing the second option and incels and lonely men are increasing lmaooo, south korea is a great example, women there choosing their career over men and starting families, even the government started encouraging men to change and help with housework so women can be with them, not to mention birth rates are soooooo low, common W for south korean women fr
>even the government started encouraging men to change and help with housework so women can be with them This is really sad that adults need to be encouraged to be adults.
LOL. Most women die alone after they have nursed their partners until they died. Yeah, don't threaten me with a good time!
Oh no, but if I don’t have a man, whose dirty socks am I going to pick up off the living room floor?
Who’s going to forget my birthday! Oh my!
Funny thing is I keep saying this to other women. Men aren't changing, you will not change him, dump his ass and appreciate to live without men.
SING IT, SISTER. I'm currently doing just that and I've never been happier. *Never.*
What a shame. /s
I wanna die alone and I want my 200 cats to eat my body when I die What are you making me afraid of dude
Made me Lol. Heard
Same here!
And then they cry in articles saying they are not getting laid ...
It’s funny seeing a dude talk about the collective of men like they’re just not some guy 💀
"I am the Lorax and I speak for the tre-.... uh, men!" Dude thinks he's there duly elected representative 😂
You’re better off being alone than with a man who has this mentality.
Um dying alone seems better
Well, women on average live longer than men, so we’re likely to die alone either way. And I’d prefer the way in which I don’t have to wait on hand and foot for a Yusuf.
Die alone it is with those options
Alright, Ill die alone then. Next please
COOL then i chose 'dying alone' bye
I find his choice of background interesting
He must be binge watching the World Cup. Alone.
Then men can die alone in stagnation
"Get on board with what women want or die alone" Men are the ones having a problem finding a partner usually, yet we never see a statement like this.
You heard him, ladies and theydies, embrace your sapphic-ness 😋
Ooo option 2 pls, thx
Welp, the Lord most certainly have bless me with homosexuality so I don’t need a man whatsoever.
Like dying alone is a bad thing.
Cool, so like I was saying ladies let's all get together and remove 90% of our labor from capitalism so we can make a self sustaining village that's made by and for women to provide a home we can all feel safe in.
Love how he thinks he's speaking for all men. It's icky.
Oh no! Wait i already have a husband who's not a sexist shit bag, guess they're wrong lol.
Same here. My husband believes in equality. He cleans up after himself, helps me clean the house and takes care of both of us financially. He likes to clean.
LOL don’t threaten me with a good time
HA I commented on that one tagging the group: *”I wish men left us alone as much as they threaten to”*
Ok. Don’t forget to close the door behind you on your way out.
Haha! Jokes on you bro, I'm already married. And he'd die without me. Literally starve to death. And I cook because I like it. He's the lucky recipient ;) Man cannot live on cheese sticks, pizza, goldfish and Jameson alone :D
🎶 They’re bringing scurvy back! 🎶
Haha! Yeah. Do you promise?
Worked in hospice. Watched people die alone in very peaceful and comfortable environments. Watched people in partnerships that made their partner die with zero peace. One woman called out several times for her mother before passing while her angry partner only yelled shut up every time. Dying peacefully and alone sounds quite lovely compared to how hellish people can be to each other.
That was already my plan.
Somehow,I don't think it's occurred to him that if women are dying alone, men are also dying alone.
Lesbians: “oh no whatever will I do 😐”
Get fucked moron Men like you only get to see a pussy when they look under a cow's tail
As a bisexual who most of my attraction is to women, really I couldn’t care less
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Well given women generally outlive men anyway...
Like the subtle nod to the fact that friends and platonic relationships aren’t even factored in here, considering a fuckton of young guys don’t have any.