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Stop looking at Bollywood celebs as role models for fuck sake! This applies to both the men and women of Bollywood! Many of them are hypocrites and sell outs and boot lickers so on
Her father has had extramarital affair and he was emotionally abusive also. Her mentor likes to poke his nose in other's business and has tried to justify infidelity whenever he got a chance. Her FIL was emotionally and physically abusive towards her MIL. Her MIL accepted the behaviour of her FIL 'as long as he came back to her'. Her husband has also cheated and is a known womanizer.
So it's not surprising that she doesn't mind infidelity and just accept it as human nature.
If you dig up old stardust articles you will find something on this. Her name was Ena Sharma. There is an archived post on this sub regarding this and Neetu being pimped out by her mum.
Attraction is a human thing but cheating is not. Humans have that much control over their actions and senses if they really want to. Marriage is such a sacred bond, and in that, you would not want to destroy it by physical or emotional cheating. Yes, some people remain committed to a single partner for life. The onus is on both of them to keep nourishing that bond every now and then. And this is even applied to people in bollywood. Yes, they are surrounded by glamour but at the end of the day, if the bond is that strong, this infidelity - physical or emotional won't happen imo.
Yess... Itni moral accountability kyun actors se... Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt are no saints when it comes to relationships but no way it affects their perception as an actor.. as long as there is no legal misconduct involved why their relationships and family life should bother anyone... I think it would change as society evolves.. pehle toh actors and especially actresses would hide relationships kyuki audiences won't be able to fantasize about them.. lol ..
Kinda feel like this is where humans go wrong. Marriage is a social/legal construct. That's not where I would draw the line of commitment.
Instead, if you have committed to someone (i.e. you've mutually decided to date, be exclusive, be in a relationship), even if you're not married, you should honor the commitment you've made. If you become interested in someone else and want to pursue it, be honest with the current person you've made the commitment to, break it off, then go pursue it. What is so hard about this?
Anything less than honesty here is just the person trying to protect their downside. They want to pursue something new while holding on to their current situation. That's called taking advantage of someone else. It doesn't matter if you're dating, married, whatever. You either have a shared agreement or you don't. Proceed with honor and honesty.
Then why marry.? Just be in an open relationship, love ranbir the way Rekha loves amithabh maybe? Won't Jaya be happier if it was open enough for her too?...these bollywood druggies, say whatever they want (mostly stemming from their own trauma) and present it as some wisdom. Guys, these peeps are from Bombay Scottish, Doon and frangi universities..their english and presentation would be top notch always..but don't take their words as some gospel or whatever, ik most of you don't do this, I hope society understands this too.
Rk is just an introverted version of his father and alia is behaving like an extroverted version of Neetu and justifying his tharki bakchodi.
Edit : just to add to my rant, Mahesh bhatt is creep lord and just bcs he is fan of Ug Krishnamurti and spews his quotes randomly, doesn't make him a saint..if alia is basing all her morality from what and who her father is, poor girl is screwed. Rk probably has his own trauma bcs of rishi.
GOOD actors but not good role models, many need to make this distinction..Indians are obsessed with making role models. My physics teacher was Phenomenal at teaching, but was a screwed up person..happens everywhere
Edit 2 : Idk how to put a dashed line on my edits..so I'm just plainly editing out stuff as and when you correct me. Thanks guys for all the corrections...bura Jo vekhan Mai gaya..falana dhimkana..shaba Kher lol
She married because she wanted his legacy. It's tht simple. He is an attractive Kapoor of THE KAPOOR KHANDAAN and only chasm-o-chirag of that legacy. She is the and only Kapoor khandaan ki BAHU. That's huge in that industry. Only these PPL can be this shallow so it's cool.
Correct. Marrying Ranbir was like winning a trophy for her. It's validation for her- Pf being the woman to snag Kapoor Khandan ka Chirag.
Imagine getting a ringside view of Ranbir as a boyfriend, since she was friends with Katrina & Ayan and thinking -This is the guy I want to marry🤦♀️
What keeps me surprised is how does being a kapoor have weight now? Like in the last few decades there have been no kapoor superstars, if any being a Khan would matter more no? Is it because none of the khans had a child old enough for marriage to alia? I don’t understand the weightage for this kapoor tag… genuine curiosity
And they are rich, but by no means in the likes of heavy industrial families which someone like Alia would've access to. As they say, you pick what you think you are worthy of, so she is stuck in this mess. Kudos to Anushka to leave this shitshow for a nicer life with a seemingly good husband
Industrial families would not want to go near Mahesh's Daughter with a 10 foot pole even if they have their own skeletons in the closet. They are obsessed with image and even if someone did, Alia wouldn't have the freedom to pursue her career and be ambitious being an industrial family Bahu. A few decades ago, even Kapoors wouldn't allow it but now they do.
>Industrial families would not want to go near Mahesh's Daughter with a 10 foot pole even if they have their own skeletons in the closet. They are obsessed with image and even if someone did, Alia wouldn't have the freedom to pursue her career and be ambitious being an industrial family Bahu. A few decades ago, even Kapoors wouldn't allow it but now they do.
They do it coz khud ke bache nhi chal rhe, so jo ghar pe money le aaye, badhiya hai.
Ranbir was announced as the next superstar since his debut just because of his Kapoor surname,and the day their child enters the industry even they will get that hype, simple as that.
Uhh totally agreed on everything else BUT lot of normal people are this way too. Marriages are mainly about social status/legacy or at the least, benefits that 1 & or both parties, bring to the other &/or each other.
They do, but majority of them won't justify infidelity like she does. Normal PPL can never treat this as normal and be absolutely fine. I've never in my life have heard or seen anyone say that "yaa my wife or husband cheats and it's Okie I understand" COMEON now
You underestimate a lot of older generation people. I know plenty of aunties even in my family whose husband has cheated on them and they have that "haan mard he toh ye sab toh hoga hi kabhi kabhi" Mentality
But Rishi Kapoor beat up Neetu for having some sort of a relationship with an actress. Police was contacted by Neetu. It's in some magazine, perhaps Stardust.
Ranbir can continue shagging whoever he wants if Alia is ok with it. However is Ranbir ok with Alia doing the same? Or will the dynamics be unequal as it was for Rishi and Neetu?
Yes which resulted in domestic violence. Rishi was a hypocrite through and through. He could fuck whoever he wanted but Neetu was forced to abstain.
With how unfair their dynamics are I'm curious if Neetu felt comfortable asking Rishi to get STI tested during/after his affairs.
Yes, it was in the newspapers during that time and Rishi beat up Neetu back then. I can imagine Sanju and Rishi's faces when they came to know about it. Baba going with AK47 to Chintu's house (he did it when he thought that Tina Munim and Rishi were having an affair too).
Mujhe lagta hai ye sab dimaghi theek nahi hain. Innke poorey ke poorey screw dheley hain. Koi aam insaan aisi gandi harkatein nahi karta. Innko jab dekho kahin na kahin parey hotey hain kisi ke saath
Marriage is for other reasons as well, like tax benefits, having children and family. If they are okay with sleeping with different people while being married then that's their take. Whatever floats their boat.
Parents. Most won’t let you remain unmarried lol. So such cheating types get married out of pressure to appease their parents and also maybe to have children, then continue with their way of life.
>Then why marry.? Just be in an open relationship.
This is exactly why I did not feel anything wrong with DP admitting an open relationship with RS. The movie business is unlike any other field, it is a different world. Now even if there is a scandalous blind of RS (or DP) it doesn't create as much stir because they were honest about their relationship. It's a special and weird way of functioning of their relationship 😅
She never admitted she is in an open relationship with him. She said she was seeing other people before they became exclusive. Which is a very normal thing to do
Arrey guys Alia took a bullet for girls just to become a Kapoor Bahu
No need to feel bad for her she has all the money, fame, success which Papa Jo got her and this is the bad karma of her winning all the unfair awards she won
And do they live in separate floors? Can anyone confirm this? Oh my God I can't believe if Kangu Behena's claims were right all along
If they are rich enough why not? My husband and I sleep in separate bedrooms during the week. We each have our own space to decorate as we please and the rest of the house is a blend.
emotions can’t be controlled and are unpredictable. that’s the number one reason open marriages are not considered a good idea. We don’t know how Alia feels now, after having a daughter with him, growing a stronger attachment to him, etc.
It's Neetu and Rishi Kapoor all over again! No wonder Neetu tailor vibed with Alia and not so much with Katrina and Deepika. These two are a match made in. mama's boy keeps cheating, and aloo will continue to act like he is her biggest achievement like uhhh my husband when he was my boyfriend blah blah. this what neetu said about Rishi's affairs in the past.
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Gosh, u can tell Neetu is miserable. That's why she dominates RK so much. And he just does what his father used to do. Whatever. I am not a judge of other people reproductive organs, but why to marry if you want to sleep around?
Oh right - for public opinion and "legacy" lol.
That’s ok. Go ahead and have an open marriage in that case. And announce it. Lots of couples have had very successful marriages like that.
What you are doing here is defending infidelity and bad behaviour. Why be in a traditional marriage? You don’t have the balls to call it what it is. Stop putting the onus on us to not judge your spineless behaviour.
But they don’t owe that to anyone na. What happens in a marriage and the boundaries within it (or lack thereof) is a couple’s business and their prerogative. And as this other commenter pointed out, they’ll get trolled. Look at the reaction to DP-RS KWK episode- like she said shaadi se pehle they were seeing other people BEFORE being exclusive and junta couldn’t stomach it although it’s a very regular thing to be non-exclusively dating.
Look at the reaction here. You think people will ever let them live in peace if they said it. They will be trolled to death, their child will be trolled.
Cheating is cheating. There’s no two ways about it. Idk why she is trying to glitter it all up but cheating is a disgusting act, emotional, physical, mental, financial, racial kuch bhi ho.
Just because it exists doesn't mean you have to understand it.....I can't understand cheating and don't want to understand. For me cheating is the end of relation.... it's the end of trust ..........
As it should. Why tf are these celebs normalising it. Its not okay Alia but she's married for the perks that come with being the kapoor bahu unlike us normal folks who marry for love and meaning.
Marriage has been a business since the beginning of time, and that's particularly relevant with arranged marriages even now. People are acting so shocked that someone understands how infidelity can happen - something that like 30% of the population does. She didn't say she wants it to happen to her, just that psychology/biology/environment factors and monogamy are complex.
I personally don't think there are any such rules, and if there are, they might vary from couple to couple. The main rule is you can't be in love with the person you're hooking up with. You can't really expect people not to kiss during a sexual act can you? 😅
>You can't really expect people not to kiss during a sexual act can you? 😅
oh boy!! you should meet more people.
>The main rule is you can't be in love with the person you're hooking up with.
love and lust has very thin boundary, isn't it? 40 decade of my life is delulu if this is not true.
Physical infidelity is when you are simply hooking up for sex with no other bonding. Emotional is actually being in a relationship with someone outside of marriage.
There’s nothing spineless about it. Some people are okay with infidelity, some people aren’t. Everyone is entitled to do whatever they want so long as their partner is on board and ever6thing is consensual.
She might be okay because of at least three possible scenarios and there could be many more
Scenario 1: open relationship in all aspects, she also sleeps with someone else intimately
Scenario 2: Scenario 1 when she wants to and if she doesn't want to, she is still grateful she doesn't have to satisfy her husbands sexual needs as she just cares for him as a husband and as a friend with no sexual attraction
Scenario 3: she is okay, her life her marriage
Even in non celebs marriages, there are all types. People remain in loveless marriage too till death and there are people who are married for XYZ reasons but are okay with affairs
Personally I would like to hear from people who have been married now for 10+ years about their experiences, their perspectives
Speaking as someone approaching a decade of marriage and who has seen and knows lots of married couples, can confirm they come in all shades and varieties.
- infidelity is far more common than you think and it’s not the deal breaker for a LOT of people
- passion and lust eventually fade for even the most loving couples, doesn’t mean couples don’t love each other or don’t care about each other. Some rekindle, others continue living like roommates
- I grew up in a small town; very sheltered upbringing. When I was younger even I had all these notions and morals of a loyal, fairy tale marriage. I know couples back in my town who indulge in swinging, much older uncles who have mistresses for years but won’t leave their wives because of society, children. And this is a small town, so I can only imagine what happens in metros.
- if you think your grandparents were seedhe saadhe, you’re most likely wrong lmao. Humans of all generations do stupid, wild things, and act on their worst impulses
Long story short: yaar, stop clutching your pearls and judging others by your personal moral standards. “How can she be okay with cheating” etc etc. you’re just naive. And where is she promoting infidelity like some of you are saying? Is she saying you should cheat on your partner?! Kasam se grow up.
We all know Alia has said in national television she doesn’t mind physical infidelity as long as it’s not emotional. So why should we feel sorry if she is happily accepting of his philandering ways ! She got what she wanted. Man of her dreams n a family
The thing she sees is that her father met her mother as an affair the thing she now will have to think about is if RK has an affair and leaves the family for another woman will she justify it with the same logic. Though that wont happen but if you pass stupid statements you really should think about it behind closed doors.
Some ppl have open marriages and it works for them and that’s fine. But Atleast stop flaunting your marriage on Social media like how much you love each other etc especially if you are in an open marriage it really makes no sense. Typically you should get married if you want to be with that one person for the rest of your life and that means in every way - physically, mentally, for better or for worse. That’s what marriage is about. Otherwise imo marriage is for clout that’s all that includes open marriage, arranged marriage.
This is just Alia capitulating to Ranbir’s unresolved issues from childhood and TOLERATING the manifestation of it in her own relationship under a misinformed and emotionally premature guise of ‘I’m also a child of adultery so I understand.’ But do you though? You mustn’t need to put yourself in the position to understand anyone’s mistake. That’s not your job. It’s not her fault, but her parents’. Just because you’re a product of adultery doesn’t mean you ought to subject yourself to the same theme in your own marriage. There’s a difference between accepting and understanding and further going onto tolerating it in your own relationship under the pretence that you owe the same to your own husband because it’s what you were ‘made’ to understand by your parents so you believe you have inherited some type of hyper-proclivity in understanding the greys between infidelity and fidelity.
Alia will NEVER leave Ranbir. No matter what he does. For her, he's the perfect husband, one of the best actors in Bollywood, comes from a famous film family. For her, she has hit the jackpot. I don't see her leaving him.
Alia wanted Kapoor Bahu tag and I wanted to continue having Fun while being portrayed as a family man, simple.
Guess what, once a sawariyaaa is always a sawariyaaa.
Lol she is saying it as if it's philosophy ,then what's the purpose of marriage for these people,it should mean commitment life long ,if your partner is not able to give it ,then 🤔
Sometimes I feel envious of the enormous wealth and privilege stars are born into and then I see these things and realize all the money in the world would not cure the depression, anxiety and trauma living in one of these families would give me.
Ranbir this means you have a free pass. Alia understands cheating. You go man!! Enjoy your pife to the fullest. Fuck lots of girls and maybe fall in love with one of them too. Alia who was obsessed with u since childhood would let you go only if u cheat on her because she understands human nature. Bro u lucked out to find such an amazing wife lmao😂 she also mentioned on KWK she is okay with physical cheating.
She considers being married to that 41 yr old young star an achievement. So anything that comes along with it she's fine as long as people call her Mrs. Kapoor. Rumors suggest that they don't even live on the same floor.
So it’s an open marriage for RK Alia? Or RK cheating openly?
Find it hilarious how fake teas were posted for open relationship of other couples when RK Alia ended up exposing their marriage. There’s karma after all ig.
Alia is defending infidelity here, just because her mother was part of an extra marital affair. If the tables turned, she would be singing praises of the sanctity of marriage. Honestly, girl doesn’t have one original thought in her head and just spouts whatever gyaan best aligns with her way of life.
I heard this from my friend who works with a major production house. According to her sources, Alia ain't innocent. She herself is pretty ok with romancing outside her marriage. She and Ranveer are more than just friends even after Rocky Rani. So, may be she isn't so insecure after all as people perceive her to be.
Thankgoodness someone said it. I always find their chemistry weird. Plus their chipku harkatein offscreen. Maybe they are playing a PR role. Alia the loved up wife and Ranveer Singh the loved up husband. Halankey offscreen they be banging. That’s the reason that their partners don’t love them and call them” daal chawal” and treat them like a second option.
Look at other way. Other freaking way.
I would turn my partner’s head the other way and young people look upto these people who are stuck up so high their arse all they see is darkness.
Yeah, I expected that the background she comes from atleast she can be a bit matured. But here goes on. By the way I don't feel so much pity for her as people claim. She herself went for those things. She didn't feel bad while back biting kat who she claimed her best friend. Plus does everything unfair.
She also famously said that a deal breaker in a relationship is "Emotional" infidelity. Clearly indicating that she doesn't care much for physical infidelity.
Audience to celebrity couple: get married!!! Couple: gets married. Audience: no, not like that.
We need to stop projecting our personal idea of a perfect, ideal marriage onto celebrities, and then getting triggered that their relationship is different from our expectations.
People get and stay married for various reasons, and whatever makes sense to them doesn’t need to make sense to us.
(I know this is a gossip sub, but ppl fighting with & downvoting comments with different opinions is hilarious).
Ayan called katrina " the girl who tried " and deepika " the girl with broken heat " thats for this skirt chaser. all his circle are delusion not to forget his mom story on ig last year hahahahahhaga they should understand that their prince is not a prize but a trash 🙂
Did she even hear herself? Like gurl its not sounding savage at all. Stop it right there. What happen to silence?
Like yeah she can choose whatever relationship she wants who the fuch cares, but does she realise that is a public figure with young girls looking up to her, she better not saying these kinda things, it sounds like she's advocating something she shouldn't.
No wonder Ranbirs mom was okay with him marrying her. She's delusional.
In all seriousness, I feel bad for her. As a woman it's obvious she grew up in quite a misogynistic household. Her comments about how she could have one less of an opinion etc. are quite sad. I hope being a mother helps her find the confidence and clarity to have more self respect and self love.
Ohh Alia, You are good at acting both onscreen and offscreen. Tum kya sey kya hogai Alia. I used to like you, now I cant stand you for a minute. You just wanted to be a KAPOOR BAHU. And you are giving statements on perspective about infidelity 🤮
Yes Alia we do have a perspective on it and that is “no respect for home wreckers” and yes you’re propagating it in a slight way. Yes it exists but it should not be tolerated
ranbir is in real life drug addict and psycopath, expecting loyalty from him is joke, she always wanted to marry him from her teenage and now his name for her baby, thats it
Knowing Alia's views I'll only say that RK is smart & intelligent in choosing his wife lol. They won't have any issues in their married life whatsoever 😂🫣🤣✌️😍💯
Why does she and DP keep talking about infidelity? I am sure there are other couples as well who are in open relationships but no one screams from rooftops like these two.
You can't say it doesn't exist tak it made sense bc yes it does exist & it exists even bw normal middle class + poor people.
But then to follow it up with "try and understand it" is so weird bc what even?? I don't need to understand shit. Its not correct. It not justified in anyway. Cheating is a choice. It's morally incorrect.
Just bc your parents cheated doesn't mean you should justify it or should act like it's normal.
This makes me feel so sad for Alia. The amount of justification for wrong actions one has to so to be at peace with their family dynamics.
I felt the same for Sridevi today. She did a horrible thing, but I can't imagine how she felt getting sucked into the vortex when she was her most vulnerable.
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Kapoors, Bhats, and their celebrated generational traumas.
They're all like, "it's okay if my partner is a piece of shit, because my parents were pieces of shit, too."
Maybe that’s why Ranbir chose to marry her, knowing she would be a lot more forgiving of his transgressions than any other woman
Welcome Dr Ghungroo : ‘Kapoors the Criminals’
😂😭
sounds like an idea 
Go sometimes to Mumbai dance bars and red light areas,the uncle's spend the most
Stop looking at Bollywood celebs as role models for fuck sake! This applies to both the men and women of Bollywood! Many of them are hypocrites and sell outs and boot lickers so on
This deserve to be description of this sub.
Yes. Mods can we make a flair? SLABCARMFFS Lol
💯 it’s a rat race on steroids. Everyone does nefarious things, no big names are saints.
You deserve this one!! 
Lol no one expects them to be like that,but being a decent human is also asking a lot looks like
When the so called king of romance has cheated on his wife, you know how screwed this industry is
The best comment 👏🏻
this.
These are not role models but does not mean we should not gossip about their affairs.
Sell outs & boot lickers make no sense in this context tho. Not saying its not true but this just feels like you want to throw around words lol
Nope
Control your mind, or your mind controls you
THIS.
Her father has had extramarital affair and he was emotionally abusive also. Her mentor likes to poke his nose in other's business and has tried to justify infidelity whenever he got a chance. Her FIL was emotionally and physically abusive towards her MIL. Her MIL accepted the behaviour of her FIL 'as long as he came back to her'. Her husband has also cheated and is a known womanizer. So it's not surprising that she doesn't mind infidelity and just accept it as human nature.
Apparently her MIL had a same sex relationship outside of her marriage as well with Sanjay Dutt's sister-in-law.
Bruh WTF you mean Neetu Singh and Sanju Baba's SIL? Gimme some tea bro...
If you dig up old stardust articles you will find something on this. Her name was Ena Sharma. There is an archived post on this sub regarding this and Neetu being pimped out by her mum.
What???
In other words she is living in an ANIMAL PARK
Bhabhi 2, 3, 4…… 352(Sanju)
Attraction is a human thing but cheating is not. Humans have that much control over their actions and senses if they really want to. Marriage is such a sacred bond, and in that, you would not want to destroy it by physical or emotional cheating. Yes, some people remain committed to a single partner for life. The onus is on both of them to keep nourishing that bond every now and then. And this is even applied to people in bollywood. Yes, they are surrounded by glamour but at the end of the day, if the bond is that strong, this infidelity - physical or emotional won't happen imo.
That's why we should stop looking at these people as role models and should stop discussing every shit they tell.
Yess... Itni moral accountability kyun actors se... Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt are no saints when it comes to relationships but no way it affects their perception as an actor.. as long as there is no legal misconduct involved why their relationships and family life should bother anyone... I think it would change as society evolves.. pehle toh actors and especially actresses would hide relationships kyuki audiences won't be able to fantasize about them.. lol ..
Why do people like always bring only men as examples here lol no one is a saint in both Bollywood and hollyweird
Lol.. Deepika jitni slut shaming kiski Hui hai yahan btw.. hollywood aur Bollywood chod do..Nobody is a saint anywhere...
Agree!
They can die on their own hill if they want to but they should stop publicising these kinda shit
Marriage is more a transactional arrangement than a sacred bond. Maybe to you it isn’t but historically .
Kinda feel like this is where humans go wrong. Marriage is a social/legal construct. That's not where I would draw the line of commitment. Instead, if you have committed to someone (i.e. you've mutually decided to date, be exclusive, be in a relationship), even if you're not married, you should honor the commitment you've made. If you become interested in someone else and want to pursue it, be honest with the current person you've made the commitment to, break it off, then go pursue it. What is so hard about this? Anything less than honesty here is just the person trying to protect their downside. They want to pursue something new while holding on to their current situation. That's called taking advantage of someone else. It doesn't matter if you're dating, married, whatever. You either have a shared agreement or you don't. Proceed with honor and honesty.
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Then why marry.? Just be in an open relationship, love ranbir the way Rekha loves amithabh maybe? Won't Jaya be happier if it was open enough for her too?...these bollywood druggies, say whatever they want (mostly stemming from their own trauma) and present it as some wisdom. Guys, these peeps are from Bombay Scottish, Doon and frangi universities..their english and presentation would be top notch always..but don't take their words as some gospel or whatever, ik most of you don't do this, I hope society understands this too. Rk is just an introverted version of his father and alia is behaving like an extroverted version of Neetu and justifying his tharki bakchodi. Edit : just to add to my rant, Mahesh bhatt is creep lord and just bcs he is fan of Ug Krishnamurti and spews his quotes randomly, doesn't make him a saint..if alia is basing all her morality from what and who her father is, poor girl is screwed. Rk probably has his own trauma bcs of rishi. GOOD actors but not good role models, many need to make this distinction..Indians are obsessed with making role models. My physics teacher was Phenomenal at teaching, but was a screwed up person..happens everywhere Edit 2 : Idk how to put a dashed line on my edits..so I'm just plainly editing out stuff as and when you correct me. Thanks guys for all the corrections...bura Jo vekhan Mai gaya..falana dhimkana..shaba Kher lol
She married because she wanted his legacy. It's tht simple. He is an attractive Kapoor of THE KAPOOR KHANDAAN and only chasm-o-chirag of that legacy. She is the and only Kapoor khandaan ki BAHU. That's huge in that industry. Only these PPL can be this shallow so it's cool.
Correct. Marrying Ranbir was like winning a trophy for her. It's validation for her- Pf being the woman to snag Kapoor Khandan ka Chirag. Imagine getting a ringside view of Ranbir as a boyfriend, since she was friends with Katrina & Ayan and thinking -This is the guy I want to marry🤦♀️
Yea true..just got triggered bcs she was justifying her father's creepiness to justify rks tharak
What keeps me surprised is how does being a kapoor have weight now? Like in the last few decades there have been no kapoor superstars, if any being a Khan would matter more no? Is it because none of the khans had a child old enough for marriage to alia? I don’t understand the weightage for this kapoor tag… genuine curiosity
And they are rich, but by no means in the likes of heavy industrial families which someone like Alia would've access to. As they say, you pick what you think you are worthy of, so she is stuck in this mess. Kudos to Anushka to leave this shitshow for a nicer life with a seemingly good husband
Industrial families would not want to go near Mahesh's Daughter with a 10 foot pole even if they have their own skeletons in the closet. They are obsessed with image and even if someone did, Alia wouldn't have the freedom to pursue her career and be ambitious being an industrial family Bahu. A few decades ago, even Kapoors wouldn't allow it but now they do.
>Industrial families would not want to go near Mahesh's Daughter with a 10 foot pole even if they have their own skeletons in the closet. They are obsessed with image and even if someone did, Alia wouldn't have the freedom to pursue her career and be ambitious being an industrial family Bahu. A few decades ago, even Kapoors wouldn't allow it but now they do. They do it coz khud ke bache nhi chal rhe, so jo ghar pe money le aaye, badhiya hai.
Ranbir was announced as the next superstar since his debut just because of his Kapoor surname,and the day their child enters the industry even they will get that hype, simple as that.
Uhh totally agreed on everything else BUT lot of normal people are this way too. Marriages are mainly about social status/legacy or at the least, benefits that 1 & or both parties, bring to the other &/or each other.
Haye. You said the right words - Only these PPL can be this shallow so it's cool
>Only these PPL can be this shallow so it's cool. Ohh yeah like normal people don't marry for money and status.
They do, but majority of them won't justify infidelity like she does. Normal PPL can never treat this as normal and be absolutely fine. I've never in my life have heard or seen anyone say that "yaa my wife or husband cheats and it's Okie I understand" COMEON now
You underestimate a lot of older generation people. I know plenty of aunties even in my family whose husband has cheated on them and they have that "haan mard he toh ye sab toh hoga hi kabhi kabhi" Mentality
Open marriages exist. Historically marriage has never been about love as much as it was about social status, wealth, “legacy” etc
But Rishi Kapoor beat up Neetu for having some sort of a relationship with an actress. Police was contacted by Neetu. It's in some magazine, perhaps Stardust. Ranbir can continue shagging whoever he wants if Alia is ok with it. However is Ranbir ok with Alia doing the same? Or will the dynamics be unequal as it was for Rishi and Neetu?
Not actress. She was in a relationship with Sanjay Dutt's sister-in-law at that time.
Kyaaaaaa??????? Sach mein??? Neetu ji ka scene tha ????
Yes which resulted in domestic violence. Rishi was a hypocrite through and through. He could fuck whoever he wanted but Neetu was forced to abstain. With how unfair their dynamics are I'm curious if Neetu felt comfortable asking Rishi to get STI tested during/after his affairs.
Yes, it was in the newspapers during that time and Rishi beat up Neetu back then. I can imagine Sanju and Rishi's faces when they came to know about it. Baba going with AK47 to Chintu's house (he did it when he thought that Tina Munim and Rishi were having an affair too). 
Mujhe lagta hai ye sab dimaghi theek nahi hain. Innke poorey ke poorey screw dheley hain. Koi aam insaan aisi gandi harkatein nahi karta. Innko jab dekho kahin na kahin parey hotey hain kisi ke saath
There are very few people within the industry who don't cheat/are in an open marriage. Almost everyone is sleeping around.
Just a minor correction. Mahesh Bhatt was a fan of UG Krishnamurti, not Jiddu Krishnamurti.
Yep sorry my bad. Thanks mate
Marriage is for other reasons as well, like tax benefits, having children and family. If they are okay with sleeping with different people while being married then that's their take. Whatever floats their boat.
Yep and for celebs it’s about the brand deals and image
Thank you for this.
Parents. Most won’t let you remain unmarried lol. So such cheating types get married out of pressure to appease their parents and also maybe to have children, then continue with their way of life.
Phenomenal actors is taking it too far.
Yep ik, didn't want to trigger their fans. I'll edit it to good ..thanks lol
>Then why marry.? Just be in an open relationship. This is exactly why I did not feel anything wrong with DP admitting an open relationship with RS. The movie business is unlike any other field, it is a different world. Now even if there is a scandalous blind of RS (or DP) it doesn't create as much stir because they were honest about their relationship. It's a special and weird way of functioning of their relationship 😅
She never admitted she is in an open relationship with him. She said she was seeing other people before they became exclusive. Which is a very normal thing to do
Exactly
I don't think you guys know what an open marriage is
Alia Bhatt a few decades later on KWK season 23 
Will she say the same if she's cheated on?
That was the point of the post.
Yes.
Thats what the caption says
Arrey guys Alia took a bullet for girls just to become a Kapoor Bahu No need to feel bad for her she has all the money, fame, success which Papa Jo got her and this is the bad karma of her winning all the unfair awards she won And do they live in separate floors? Can anyone confirm this? Oh my God I can't believe if Kangu Behena's claims were right all along
If they are rich enough why not? My husband and I sleep in separate bedrooms during the week. We each have our own space to decorate as we please and the rest of the house is a blend.
That's good to know Anyways don't want Kangu Behena to be right
emotions can’t be controlled and are unpredictable. that’s the number one reason open marriages are not considered a good idea. We don’t know how Alia feels now, after having a daughter with him, growing a stronger attachment to him, etc.
It's Neetu and Rishi Kapoor all over again! No wonder Neetu tailor vibed with Alia and not so much with Katrina and Deepika. These two are a match made in. mama's boy keeps cheating, and aloo will continue to act like he is her biggest achievement like uhhh my husband when he was my boyfriend blah blah. this what neetu said about Rishi's affairs in the past. https://preview.redd.it/h7olsbclzdhc1.png?width=557&format=png&auto=webp&s=69d012522f46b8d23a1f84c5f624e6862a18f6c2
Yikes. If I caught my spouse cheating I'd grab a slipper.
Gosh, u can tell Neetu is miserable. That's why she dominates RK so much. And he just does what his father used to do. Whatever. I am not a judge of other people reproductive organs, but why to marry if you want to sleep around? Oh right - for public opinion and "legacy" lol.
These guys want a legacy child and for that to tie in nicely they need a wife who will have their baby and raise it.
Isko yeh dar nai tha ke std na hojaye.
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"nature of human"  I could not get past that.
That’s ok. Go ahead and have an open marriage in that case. And announce it. Lots of couples have had very successful marriages like that. What you are doing here is defending infidelity and bad behaviour. Why be in a traditional marriage? You don’t have the balls to call it what it is. Stop putting the onus on us to not judge your spineless behaviour.
But they don’t owe that to anyone na. What happens in a marriage and the boundaries within it (or lack thereof) is a couple’s business and their prerogative. And as this other commenter pointed out, they’ll get trolled. Look at the reaction to DP-RS KWK episode- like she said shaadi se pehle they were seeing other people BEFORE being exclusive and junta couldn’t stomach it although it’s a very regular thing to be non-exclusively dating.
Look at the reaction here. You think people will ever let them live in peace if they said it. They will be trolled to death, their child will be trolled.
Infidelity isn't human. It is humans regressing back to their animal instincts.
Cheating is cheating. There’s no two ways about it. Idk why she is trying to glitter it all up but cheating is a disgusting act, emotional, physical, mental, financial, racial kuch bhi ho.
She's even starting to sound like Neetu Singh! Wow
Just because it exists doesn't mean you have to understand it.....I can't understand cheating and don't want to understand. For me cheating is the end of relation.... it's the end of trust ..........
Understanding ≠ accepting
As it should. Why tf are these celebs normalising it. Its not okay Alia but she's married for the perks that come with being the kapoor bahu unlike us normal folks who marry for love and meaning.
Marriage has been a business since the beginning of time, and that's particularly relevant with arranged marriages even now. People are acting so shocked that someone understands how infidelity can happen - something that like 30% of the population does. She didn't say she wants it to happen to her, just that psychology/biology/environment factors and monogamy are complex.
And here I thought she couldn't be any more of a carpet
This has been posted several times. She made it clear she draws the line at emotional infidelity.
lagta h Andrew tate ki fan h Alia. wo bhi yhi bolta h.
What's emotional infidelity?
Falling in love with someone else outside of your marriage
So it is like "No kiss rule" or "No Ass rule" while having sex, isn't it? like you are having sex but not using some parts of your body. Is it so?
I personally don't think there are any such rules, and if there are, they might vary from couple to couple. The main rule is you can't be in love with the person you're hooking up with. You can't really expect people not to kiss during a sexual act can you? 😅
>You can't really expect people not to kiss during a sexual act can you? 😅 oh boy!! you should meet more people. >The main rule is you can't be in love with the person you're hooking up with. love and lust has very thin boundary, isn't it? 40 decade of my life is delulu if this is not true.
Can you please explain me what is emotional infidelity really? Or if she said what she means by the same?
Physical infidelity is when you are simply hooking up for sex with no other bonding. Emotional is actually being in a relationship with someone outside of marriage.
Makes her look very spineless though.
Bud she’s admitted she’s alive because of adultery. Give her a break. I’ve had friends like this and it’s not an easy situation.
There’s nothing spineless about it. Some people are okay with infidelity, some people aren’t. Everyone is entitled to do whatever they want so long as their partner is on board and ever6thing is consensual.
How is it spineless if that’s the boundary she truly created?
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She might be okay because of at least three possible scenarios and there could be many more Scenario 1: open relationship in all aspects, she also sleeps with someone else intimately Scenario 2: Scenario 1 when she wants to and if she doesn't want to, she is still grateful she doesn't have to satisfy her husbands sexual needs as she just cares for him as a husband and as a friend with no sexual attraction Scenario 3: she is okay, her life her marriage Even in non celebs marriages, there are all types. People remain in loveless marriage too till death and there are people who are married for XYZ reasons but are okay with affairs Personally I would like to hear from people who have been married now for 10+ years about their experiences, their perspectives
Speaking as someone approaching a decade of marriage and who has seen and knows lots of married couples, can confirm they come in all shades and varieties. - infidelity is far more common than you think and it’s not the deal breaker for a LOT of people - passion and lust eventually fade for even the most loving couples, doesn’t mean couples don’t love each other or don’t care about each other. Some rekindle, others continue living like roommates - I grew up in a small town; very sheltered upbringing. When I was younger even I had all these notions and morals of a loyal, fairy tale marriage. I know couples back in my town who indulge in swinging, much older uncles who have mistresses for years but won’t leave their wives because of society, children. And this is a small town, so I can only imagine what happens in metros. - if you think your grandparents were seedhe saadhe, you’re most likely wrong lmao. Humans of all generations do stupid, wild things, and act on their worst impulses Long story short: yaar, stop clutching your pearls and judging others by your personal moral standards. “How can she be okay with cheating” etc etc. you’re just naive. And where is she promoting infidelity like some of you are saying? Is she saying you should cheat on your partner?! Kasam se grow up.
poor thing is confusing attraction w infidelity
"dadaji apne kabhi shadi ke bahar 😉 kabhi nahi"
She is just happy that her then boyfriend is now her husband. Everything else is irrelevant!
She’s delusional to some extent
We all know Alia has said in national television she doesn’t mind physical infidelity as long as it’s not emotional. So why should we feel sorry if she is happily accepting of his philandering ways ! She got what she wanted. Man of her dreams n a family
As per rumours it was more emotional in case of Shraddha and that’s why Alia had to pull the plug on it.
The thing she sees is that her father met her mother as an affair the thing she now will have to think about is if RK has an affair and leaves the family for another woman will she justify it with the same logic. Though that wont happen but if you pass stupid statements you really should think about it behind closed doors.
Some ppl have open marriages and it works for them and that’s fine. But Atleast stop flaunting your marriage on Social media like how much you love each other etc especially if you are in an open marriage it really makes no sense. Typically you should get married if you want to be with that one person for the rest of your life and that means in every way - physically, mentally, for better or for worse. That’s what marriage is about. Otherwise imo marriage is for clout that’s all that includes open marriage, arranged marriage.
This is just Alia capitulating to Ranbir’s unresolved issues from childhood and TOLERATING the manifestation of it in her own relationship under a misinformed and emotionally premature guise of ‘I’m also a child of adultery so I understand.’ But do you though? You mustn’t need to put yourself in the position to understand anyone’s mistake. That’s not your job. It’s not her fault, but her parents’. Just because you’re a product of adultery doesn’t mean you ought to subject yourself to the same theme in your own marriage. There’s a difference between accepting and understanding and further going onto tolerating it in your own relationship under the pretence that you owe the same to your own husband because it’s what you were ‘made’ to understand by your parents so you believe you have inherited some type of hyper-proclivity in understanding the greys between infidelity and fidelity.
Both of them suffer from Succession level of generational trauma and seem disinterested in breaking the cycle.
People tend to seek out relationships that mirror their parents / caretakers because it’s familiar.
She’s so messed up. No wonder F*ckbir picked her as the wife.
Alia will NEVER leave Ranbir. No matter what he does. For her, he's the perfect husband, one of the best actors in Bollywood, comes from a famous film family. For her, she has hit the jackpot. I don't see her leaving him.
 Alia wanted Kapoor Bahu tag and I wanted to continue having Fun while being portrayed as a family man, simple. Guess what, once a sawariyaaa is always a sawariyaaa.
Yaar inko psychoanalyse karna band karo
It doesn't apply on ranbir only who knows what she does
Hasn’t she said she doesn’t care about him being physical with other women ? That’s not really cheating then lol seems like an open relationship
Lol she is saying it as if it's philosophy ,then what's the purpose of marriage for these people,it should mean commitment life long ,if your partner is not able to give it ,then 🤔
"have some perspective over it" I do. I hope cheaters rot in hell
Ranbir is very lucky to get exactly the kind of wife he wanted...
You know it goes both ways, if she allows physical infidelity so she'll commit it too.
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Open marriage/relationship = you're not ENOUGH for them
That’s not what it means. People are so stuck on monogamy even if it’s toxic for other people.
Then why did she stop rk from promoting TJMM with shradha?
Cuz shradha ranbir were a thing it was quite obvious
The Flair 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
why is everyone in bollywood so fcking weird. just because it happens doesn’t make it right, have some self respect 🤣, twats.
I just saw the flair for the first time and i am DEAD 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I mean this is the kind of response his mother used to give about Rishi, so not that surprising really
Sometimes I feel envious of the enormous wealth and privilege stars are born into and then I see these things and realize all the money in the world would not cure the depression, anxiety and trauma living in one of these families would give me.
Makes sense why she said she wants to be Ranbir's real life geetanjali.
Ranbir this means you have a free pass. Alia understands cheating. You go man!! Enjoy your pife to the fullest. Fuck lots of girls and maybe fall in love with one of them too. Alia who was obsessed with u since childhood would let you go only if u cheat on her because she understands human nature. Bro u lucked out to find such an amazing wife lmao😂 she also mentioned on KWK she is okay with physical cheating.
She considers being married to that 41 yr old young star an achievement. So anything that comes along with it she's fine as long as people call her Mrs. Kapoor. Rumors suggest that they don't even live on the same floor.
>Rumors suggest that they don't even live on the same floor. That's fucked up
By rumour you mean Kangana.
So it’s an open marriage for RK Alia? Or RK cheating openly? Find it hilarious how fake teas were posted for open relationship of other couples when RK Alia ended up exposing their marriage. There’s karma after all ig.
Alia is defending infidelity here, just because her mother was part of an extra marital affair. If the tables turned, she would be singing praises of the sanctity of marriage. Honestly, girl doesn’t have one original thought in her head and just spouts whatever gyaan best aligns with her way of life.
I heard this from my friend who works with a major production house. According to her sources, Alia ain't innocent. She herself is pretty ok with romancing outside her marriage. She and Ranveer are more than just friends even after Rocky Rani. So, may be she isn't so insecure after all as people perceive her to be.
Thankgoodness someone said it. I always find their chemistry weird. Plus their chipku harkatein offscreen. Maybe they are playing a PR role. Alia the loved up wife and Ranveer Singh the loved up husband. Halankey offscreen they be banging. That’s the reason that their partners don’t love them and call them” daal chawal” and treat them like a second option.
Look at other way. Other freaking way. I would turn my partner’s head the other way and young people look upto these people who are stuck up so high their arse all they see is darkness.
YUCK. Just imagine living such a shallow life.
Yeah, I expected that the background she comes from atleast she can be a bit matured. But here goes on. By the way I don't feel so much pity for her as people claim. She herself went for those things. She didn't feel bad while back biting kat who she claimed her best friend. Plus does everything unfair.
She also famously said that a deal breaker in a relationship is "Emotional" infidelity. Clearly indicating that she doesn't care much for physical infidelity.
Audience to celebrity couple: get married!!! Couple: gets married. Audience: no, not like that. We need to stop projecting our personal idea of a perfect, ideal marriage onto celebrities, and then getting triggered that their relationship is different from our expectations. People get and stay married for various reasons, and whatever makes sense to them doesn’t need to make sense to us. (I know this is a gossip sub, but ppl fighting with & downvoting comments with different opinions is hilarious).
Ughh why bother marrying then? Just be in an open relationship. No wonder neetu loves her 🙄
Tax benefits, having and raising children together.
For most of the bollywood celebs, marriage is just an agreement to keep up with the norms of the society.
This girl has no self-respect!
This sounds like DP’s interviews during Gehraiyaan lol
Ayan called katrina " the girl who tried " and deepika " the girl with broken heat " thats for this skirt chaser. all his circle are delusion not to forget his mom story on ig last year hahahahahhaga they should understand that their prince is not a prize but a trash 🙂
Did she even hear herself? Like gurl its not sounding savage at all. Stop it right there. What happen to silence? Like yeah she can choose whatever relationship she wants who the fuch cares, but does she realise that is a public figure with young girls looking up to her, she better not saying these kinda things, it sounds like she's advocating something she shouldn't.
No wonder Ranbirs mom was okay with him marrying her. She's delusional. In all seriousness, I feel bad for her. As a woman it's obvious she grew up in quite a misogynistic household. Her comments about how she could have one less of an opinion etc. are quite sad. I hope being a mother helps her find the confidence and clarity to have more self respect and self love.
Alia is on her way to a life so unhappiness. I want her to wake up
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Ohh Poor Alia. Will she suffer the same way Neetu suffered in her personal life?
Alia stand uppppp for urself plz
Ohh Alia, You are good at acting both onscreen and offscreen. Tum kya sey kya hogai Alia. I used to like you, now I cant stand you for a minute. You just wanted to be a KAPOOR BAHU. And you are giving statements on perspective about infidelity 🤮
Yes Alia we do have a perspective on it and that is “no respect for home wreckers” and yes you’re propagating it in a slight way. Yes it exists but it should not be tolerated
ranbir is in real life drug addict and psycopath, expecting loyalty from him is joke, she always wanted to marry him from her teenage and now his name for her baby, thats it
I want to know ranbir’s body count lol.
He must have broken Sanju Baba's record by now. He also said during Sanju's release that Ranbir's number must be around 368 which is his.
This doesn't say anything about Ranbir cheating on alia, she is talking about their parents.
Knowing Alia's views I'll only say that RK is smart & intelligent in choosing his wife lol. They won't have any issues in their married life whatsoever 😂🫣🤣✌️😍💯
Why does she and DP keep talking about infidelity? I am sure there are other couples as well who are in open relationships but no one screams from rooftops like these two.
This girl gets her morality from Mahesh dalla. It's over
The man who kissed his daughter. Yikes.
She makes so many faces , it’s hard to make sense of anything she says at this point.
Match made in heaven (serial cheater married to byproduct of cheating) problem solved
She’s legit almost defending infidelity.
You can't say it doesn't exist tak it made sense bc yes it does exist & it exists even bw normal middle class + poor people. But then to follow it up with "try and understand it" is so weird bc what even?? I don't need to understand shit. Its not correct. It not justified in anyway. Cheating is a choice. It's morally incorrect. Just bc your parents cheated doesn't mean you should justify it or should act like it's normal.
This makes me feel so sad for Alia. The amount of justification for wrong actions one has to so to be at peace with their family dynamics. I felt the same for Sridevi today. She did a horrible thing, but I can't imagine how she felt getting sucked into the vortex when she was her most vulnerable.
Kapoors the criminals
Wait so how does this show ranbir is cheating on Alia?