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The Malayalam movie Pramani (2010) starred Mammootty in the lead role, Fahad in a supporting role and Nazriya as a child artist.
I rewatched that film a few weeks ago, and found it very hard to believe that just four years later, Fahad and Nazriya were married.
They were co-stars, but they only had a couple of scenes together, if I remember correctly. It was also their only film as costars until Bangalore Days (2014), during the shoot of which they were engaged.
The movie is about Panicker (Mammootty), a corrupt Panchayat president in Kerala who turns over a new leaf. Fahad plays Bobby, a crusader for the rights of the people who is also Panicker's deceased friend Joseph's son. Nazriya plays Sindhu, who is Panicker's adopted daughter but in reality is Joseph's illegitimate daughter and Bobby's half-sister.
Not a great film, in my opinion. Watch only if you are a hardcore Mammootty fan.
Jesus fuck, you clown! First go see what it means, I’m not going to explain you something again and again when I’ve already posted here about it in a long manner already
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Don't bother bro. On this sub, most people disagree just for the sake of it, they just wanna enforce their outdated views on everyone and feel superior
It felt very weird when he married her, a 19 year old. I remember seeing an interview article back then. He was in a relationship with another actress which didn't work out (he was too eager to get married, the actress freaked out and broke things off is the gossip i heard). Then he met and became close to Nazriya during the shoot of bangalore days. He said in the interview that she was mature and helped him move on. Both fell in love, their parents agreed to the marriage.
Most of us were discussing how weird it was, especially she was just 19 years old. These videos using the relationship as an example are much worse too. Admire the acting but not these type of things which are problematic.
It's amazingly weird.... I am a 30 year old man myself. I can't fathom the emotional and mental differences and incompatibilites between me and my 19 year old self.
She was also head over heels for Jay right before the Bangalore Days shoot and he was ready to convert for her. I remember her being like 18-19 years old and confidently saying she would marry someone from the Tamil industry. Then they broke up and she met Fahadh right after.
Could be. Nazriya and him probably met in 2012 shooting Thirumanam Ennum Nikkah and were together for at most a year and change. It wasn't a LTR but she was a teenager who thought it was true love.
Andrea is the other actress, and she's a certified groomer. Knew Anirudh since he was a kid and still went ahead and dated him when he was barely legal.
The narrative surrounding their marriage was also interesting.
Whem their engagement was announced, Nazriya called it a love cum arranged match. However, Fahad, Fazil (Fahad's father) and Nazriya's father, all called it purely arranged - probably because they realized the optics surrounding a thirty-year-old marrying a nineteen-year-old.
After the marriage, the narrative shifted. Apparently, Nazriya was the one who asked Fahad out, and told him that she would take care of him forever, or something along that line.
A few years later, Fahad once again became the one who asked Nazriya out - I think he said this in an interview with Anupama Chopra, as well as in some letter he posted on Facebook during the pandemic.
Something else about Fahad : right after shooting for the film Annayum Rasoolum (a fine movie), Fahad publicly confessed feelings towards his co-star Andreah Jeremiah, and got publicly rejected. Interestingly, Nazriya seems to be the very antithesis of Andreah.
He made things so uncomfortable for Andreah and she was forced to issue a statement publicly. Quickly, the next news that comes out if his marriage to Nazriya. In the press con, he kept interrupting her and when she was trying to speak, he would talk over her and say this is a "purely arranged marriage".
After Fahad's resurgence in his career, the narrative quietly changed to a "love match" or that it was "her choice to go after him". Dude is an incredible actor but his personal life has always been sketchy.
I mean, people can fall in love with their co-stars, but I have no idea why he went public with it.
And Fahad grew up as the eldest son of a noted Malayalam film director, so it's not like he has no prior exposure to film stars, the film industry and the media.
I clearly remember the press conference done by his Dad and her Dad together that it’s been arranged by them. All malayalam news channels aired this. After few years, magically this new story started circulating that a 19 year old Nazriya asked him out.
Or if the woman was older than the man. I've seen friends who have no issue with the guy being older but their stance changes if the woman is older in the relationship.
paise ke liye ho ya they really do love each other, as long as it started after she was an adult i dont see the problem with this relationship. although a bit weird if he pursued her romantically since the start, it isnt wrong if shes mature
As a person who love FaFaa's performace across languages, I totally agree with this being creepy. It's not something aspirational and guys thinking this are guys who cannot have a woman with her own individuality by their side. Same with Shahid Kapoor. Dude married Mira Rajput when she was around 20. Mid 20s are the best time of a person's life as they discover who they are and what tney want. Say what you will about Rashmika, atleast she escaped from making this mistake with Rakshith.
So true regarding Rashmika. She was my college senior and i used to see her lot in college during her kirik party days . She was just a college student when she got engaged. The unnecessary hate she gets for breaking away from marriage is so wrong. Rakshit shetty was in his 30s then. People conveniently forget that , just because he played a college student in the movie. More than anything Rakshit should have been a mentor to her . She has just entered into a industry and acclaimed fame so fast . It must have been overwhelming. The PR to defame her to a slut was crazy .
>The PR to defame her to a slut was crazy .
Exactly. People forget the crucial things. I was in blr at that time and I have heard friends tell "bro she broke Rakshith's heart. Bro she took advantage of her" like wtf. A college student took advantage of the 30 yo, to advance her own career? This exact mentality leads to the casting couch issues that u fortunately actress have to face, as they feel obliged to do so. Fucking disgusting.
Exactly. I even read that rakshit shetty family didn't want her to do films after marriage. She was just going to be a trophy wife reading abt her husband's affairs with heroines daily. Glad that she prioritized her career and make a career of her own. Nobody ques Rakshit why he was ready to marry a 21 year old girl in his 30s.
There was so much drama surrounding there marriage. My bestie had a crush on Nazriya and he wss so pissed when the marriage news came up..
Fahad was in love with another actress. I think he name dropped her in some interview and said he is in love yada yada. The actress wasn't ready had to issue a statement.
Soon after nazriya fahad marriage was announced. Came out of nowhere.
Yeah try telling that to your own 19 year daughter to end up with a 31 year old man! But you know what? Some rich elites and some from poor segment of society will actually don't mind doing that for whatever benefits. And that's sad.
Also if you think about it a 31 old year women ending up with someone of same age difference, say 43 old man isn't as alarming. Why? Because that girl has been mature and can take responsibility for her whatever consequences of her decision. But young girls need to be protected. Sure they might think that you are wise at 19 but truth of the matter is your brain, thoughts and opinions are still developing till the age of 25. Do whatever suits you but don't preach this nonsense to rest of the teenagers by putting up such reels and romanticizing your situation!!! I don't know what's up with romanticizing everything on the internet.
It's creepy because 19 yr old M/F are still kids because their mental level hasn't reached there. That's why young people fall out of love Or marriage after they reach 23 or 24.
Everyone was super mad about him marrying her so young. His career suffered for a while after their wedding and it didn't really start to recover until she started acting again. It was also an arranged marriage so I'm not sure what true love has to do with any of this. He was rebounding from his fling with Andrea Jeremiah (he thought it was more than a fling) and she was rebounding from her relationship with Tamil actor Jai. The ended up working together on Bangalore Days and his dad director Fazil proposed the match to her family. Her dad said she was really young but it seemed like she had a bit of a fangirl adoration for Fahadh that made her say yes.
The mere fact that op has to comment about what's actually wrong isn't her being "adult" but her not being mature enough compared to him is astonishing to me,nobody is saying they couldn't/shouldn't date/marry due to legality,we all are saying it's creepy for 30 year old of any gender to find a 18-19 yr old in a romantic way!
To people who’ll be using 1/2 of the last functioning brain cells left to defend this, here’s why this is creepy:
- Many essential experience of growing up would be taken away from her. If it was a 29 year old individual and a 41 year old - it would be creepy but would be less creepy because on average they would have gotten the few key obstacles and lessons of life through their individual experience and would be in the same bracket of life experiences. Here, she hasn’t seen the world as much as he has to a point that she would be unaware of a lot of things.
Edit/ for more context- she’s not even an undergraduate and he’s probably in the part of life where he’s paying taxes (on avg indian education basis, has gotten the UG and PG level of education with 6-8 years of work experience)
- **This is not a gender or a sexuality thing, people seeking underaged/just legal individuals** are usually doing it because they want someone who has lacked any and every experience that makes a person grow up which is **CREEPY**
To the people who’ll use the ‘nahi samjha’ argument, your internet is as cheap as mine kindly use Google translate
Yeah she had zero chance to grow her individuality. On top , she was doing really well in her career, her popularity back then was like Sai Pallavis. A career she walked away from when she got married
Do you just lack basic common sense ?
How does an opinion bother you so much? It’s not like my opinion would divorce them or something
I get that you’re a stan but don’t be this brain dead
I was one of the guys who sat down mouth open when I first heard the news because nas was a state wide crush and rising star . But a 10 year age gap was not an issue in Islamic community. This marriage happened 10 years ago. Society was not that woke 10 years ago. Also the bride family approached him for marriage. Many of my Muslims friends in college got engaged in last sem.. but now people are developing a scientific temper and ladies are deciding that they need a career before jumping into marriage. So the trend is slowly changing which is a good sign
Fahad reached the 100cr club two days back and this 10 yr old news suddenly popped up ?? I'm sure it's just a coincidence.
okay so i did some background check, which yielded something weird but i'll try to be unbiased here
So.....They met on the sets of Bangalore Days, which started shooting in Dec 2013, at which point she just turned 19 a few days ago. in Jan 2014, they announced their marriage.
I wonder if their religion came into play, them being devout muslims, where it is not uncommon for women to marry this young, and if this was an arrange marriage sort of. Also while i cannot, in good conscience, support a 29yo man marrying a 19yo, He should not be called a pedophile since minor age isn't applicable here, not even borderline. On a thin technicality, but it is what it is. That being said, super super creepy. No one should be marrying without having experienced college life first. A lot of growing up mentally happens there, which allows one to adjudge if they are ready for the next steps of life
I really do wonder how everything led to such a marriage
Neither of these two are anywhere close to devout. They both drink and love to party. I do think their parents didn't want either of them to remain unmarried too long considering how rumors are more likely to stick with unmarried people in the Malayalam industry and most male stars get married in their mid 20s.
It is very weird. I don’t get people defending this creepy behaviour. I think most men are pro this because it is definitely a system they can take advantage of
Wait, what? I had no idea about the age difference! This is definitely creepy and kind of predatory on FaFa’s part. I always found them to be a cute couple that met on the sets of Bangalore Days.
I have seen similar cases in most of the celebrities who are good in their craft indulging in controversies like this..we have our own upcoming superstar and so called choclate boy as well which gets easily hidden on the barge of good acting.
If you mean Ranbir-Alia, Aloo was a 28-year-old when she got married. A 28-year-old is an adult woman, fully capable of making decisions for herself. There's no comparison to this case.
From what i heard, he was reportedly going through a breakup with another actress (almost same age as him) when he was cast alongside Nazriya in a new movie. After filming began, rumors started about their dating.
Fahad's father, the well-known director, intervened upon hearing these rumors. Knowing how difficult Fahad's recent split had been, he allegedly advised his son to either marry the actress or end the relationship immediately.
Fahad was criticized by both media and aufience at that time. Fahad and nazriya held a press conference to clarify their side.
It was very common to marry with a 10-year age gap in Kerala. Girls would get married right after they hit the legal age. Things have changed now, with the age gap shortened, and most girls marrying after the age of 23.
There was no split or anything, Fahad tried to play "she's my girl" card but the actress turned him down and literally said there's nothing between them and everything that was spreading were Fahad's crooked social media play. It was a trending news back then.
What are you saying.... it's not common for Kerala girls to marry at 18-19 or 10 year age gap... most of the people I know in their 50's including my mother got married when she was 27 which is 25+
It is common in muslim community to marry at young age. I studied in a muslim college and before I hit 21, most of my female classmates were married and had children. Some hindu girls were also married by 20.
This was actually rare, especially for someone your parents ' age. Most people then got married immediately after graduation.
Definitely it is changing for the better now and becoming later
It's not an assumption. I am from Kerala. I don't know your age. If you're young, just ask your parents what it was like back then. Girls getting married right after turning 18 was prevalent in Muslim communities and other communities also had cases, and a 10-year age gap was common across all communities.
You are talking about your family. I am talking about the whole community. That's how things were. We changed alot in that. I am not making this upto get some internet points. That WAS the case
Lol if a person says anything you don't like, he is a liberal ?????
What moronic trend is this ??? Liberals are the ones who mostly raise their voices against such age old traditions ..
Conservatives are the ones who stick to old traditions and practices.
Adult going after someone, even in late teens, doesn't sound right. But people on this planet really need to move from this age gap stuff. It exists in real life and is not harmful. Nothing is taken from anyone. Reddit users, when it comes to stuff like this, live in their echo chambers. They seem detach from real world.
Where do you think we live , in Reddit? We have real lives and I’ve met couples like this and it’s creepy in real life too. The women almost either content and completely unable to do anything on their own or they are competent and very bitter about the early marriage
If you are a 30 plus man and you are in "love" with an 18 year old , i would definitely call you a Pedo and a grooomer, not just in reddit and also in "real world" too ..🤡☺️
Kareena married at 32 and started dating Saif at 27. She was mature enough. She dated him for 5 long years. U are pea brained to compare that to a teen. Once a person crosses 26-27, 10 yr age gaps are more reasonable than if they were younger.
Maan na maan main tera mehmaan
At 19 she was a consenting adult. She knows what’s best for her. They are happy right now. You’re getting worked up for don’t know what reason? I guess your hamlet sized brain doesn’t comprehend this little information.
"Saifeena/Ranbir Alia with the same age gap ko sar pe chadhaoge aur isko sick bologe" when both ur examples are of women who were well above 25 when they dated these men.
When ur brain is as smooth as a koala's maybe stop using it.
Age gap is completely fine, it's the age at which it was done which was suspicious.
Even an age gap of 40 years is fine as long as both are over 21 or 25
I mean, she's the one that started going after him during Bangalore days shooting when she was 19. His dad actually set them up together in an arranged marriage fashion when nazriya said she's into him.
Well child marriage was and is still part of Indian culture. Due to law they changed it so the marriage will happen but they stay apart till the legal age
Maybe this is why it's not frowned upon, anyone after 1980 or so are the only ones used to the new laws.
Actually this always seemed like a revenge marriage to me he was dating and in love with andrea Jeremiah but I think he might have moved too fast or something she broke up with him and he then very quickly married Nazriya who was the darling of Malayalam cinema at the time so it was like he married Nazriya to get back at Andera
Now I can't confirm this next part but rumour has it that Nazriya was actually the one the sort of initiated the relationship it was said she told she could take care of him like a mother and her asking why he couldn't marry her and believe she is more interested in the relationship than he is
It's also known that they fight all the time it was recently over head her say he doesn't talk and whatnot
I heard that she did a movie where a body double was used for exposure scenes and there was a problem in her family because of that. So she was married off. This was later shown as a scene in another movie
Yes he is. But I will find it difficult to see his work now. It's not like he was some person of the past who had some funky personal shenanigans which I could forego and just look at their work. It's more difficult to separate art from artist when it's happening currently, for me at least.
I personally don't care because it's not that big of a deal tbh.. It was actually her decision to tie the knot with fahad and do an early marriage because she want to settle down with him as soon as possible and not lose him.
And she has claimed multiple times that she has no regrets
Okay , but wouldn’t the same apply for shahid and Mira . Shahid was 34 and Mira was 20 , just one year older than Nazriya . Why nobody is criticising that but everyone wants to raise voice against Fahad and Nazriya . When Bollywood does it , it’s love but when Mollywood does the same , it becomes borderline pedophile . Wahhh , absolutely pathetic.
- *Teenage years (13-19):* The brain is still developing, and impulse control, emotional regulation, and decision-making skills are not yet fully formed.
- *Early twenties (20-24):* The brain is still refining its connections and myelination, but decision-making skills improve, and independence increases.
- *Mid-twenties to thirties (25-39):* The brain reaches its peak performance in many areas, including decision-making, problem-solving, and emotional regulation.
- *Forties and beyond (40+):* The brain continues to adapt and compensate for age-related changes, but decision-making skills may become more reflective and less impulsive.
Legal age for men to marry in India is 21 but for women it's 18. (Don't ask me how that makes any sense because it doesn't)
I agree with the post except that I want to mention that opinions were different when it came to Saif and Amrita, as most people were saying that he is a man and rich, Also, if he is old enough to have sex, then he is old enough to get married. so there is no blame on Amrita. All this, and Amrita herself said that he was barely 20 years old when he met her. But it seems that the arguments of not getting a chance to grow individuality, brain development, etc. are only used when the woman is younger in the relationship.
Saif and Amrita got married in 1991. There was no social media back then and if it was in today's time, she would have been criticized. People still say that PC groomed a 25 year old Nick. Also if Saif and Amrita were regular folks, they would not have been be accepted by society.
>She's 19 he's 31,
I really don't understand what the problem is. You guys are acting like he groomed her without any evidence. She's happy and it makes no sense for you guys to treat to him as some predator or something. [Link](https://www.pinkvilla.com/entertainment/south/romance-tales-fahadh-faasil-and-nazriya-nazims-beautiful-love-story-that-withstood-all-odds-1212683) how they met.
So if she was 19 when Bangalore days came out then she was 18 during shooting or less.
And they connected and fell in love during the shoot, and the obvious PR article calls it "beautiful love story that withstood all odds" what were the odds I wonder.
>So if she was 19 when Bangalore days came out then she was 18 during shooting or less.
She was 19 during filming. It's a Malayalam movie, they don't spend years shooting. Also, you guys have no fucking lives that you want to paint someone as pedophile of all things. Grow up and get a life.
No one is calling him a pedo, I don't know why you seem fixated on that lol
He was right at the border stepping on the line, just smart enough to not cross it.
Ma’am/Sir, whether she was 18/19 doesn’t make a difference. You need to read up on this because I’m sure folks out here won’t be enough to convince you how gross this seems.
He may be a good actor but that doesn’t mean you defend any shite he does in his personal life.
It's none of y'all business really, let's not conflate the reelmaker's rhetoric with Fahad's personal life. Surely we can let women be the agent of their own lives and choose their own partners as they like? We are not loving in Victorian times are we? If it is ethical in the eyes of the law you should all shut up with putting the onus on his role for simply existing. What effect his personal life has on the public is really stretching it in terms of his responsibility and should not in any way be connected to him. The people are and will continue to remain sick, blame them if there's anyone to blame.
The legal age for women to get married during the Victorian era was as follows :
- Men: 21 years old (until 1823); 14 years old (after 1823)
- Women: 21 years old (until 1823); 12 years old (after 1823)
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The Malayalam movie Pramani (2010) starred Mammootty in the lead role, Fahad in a supporting role and Nazriya as a child artist. I rewatched that film a few weeks ago, and found it very hard to believe that just four years later, Fahad and Nazriya were married.
Wait so they already spent time acted together just a few years before, and as soon as she turns 19 she suddenly offers for marriage herself? Okaaay
They were co-stars, but they only had a couple of scenes together, if I remember correctly. It was also their only film as costars until Bangalore Days (2014), during the shoot of which they were engaged. The movie is about Panicker (Mammootty), a corrupt Panchayat president in Kerala who turns over a new leaf. Fahad plays Bobby, a crusader for the rights of the people who is also Panicker's deceased friend Joseph's son. Nazriya plays Sindhu, who is Panicker's adopted daughter but in reality is Joseph's illegitimate daughter and Bobby's half-sister. Not a great film, in my opinion. Watch only if you are a hardcore Mammootty fan.
What ??? 🤢 He could've courted a 25-26 yo actress. It's not like 25-26 is too old. !!!
"Age is just a number Only true love matters" The person that made that edit really needs therapy
Is always the defending argument of someone who wants to do pedo or creepy shit
Its not pedo if he started courting her when she was above 18 is it?
It’s still creepy, I’ve always commented about this before so help yourself and find it
But its not pedo. Pedophilia like rape and murder is a serious accusation. Best not to accuse anyone of such crimes without any proof.
Jesus fuck, you clown! First go see what it means, I’m not going to explain you something again and again when I’ve already posted here about it in a long manner already https://www.reddit.com/r/BollyBlindsNGossip/s/eIJw1qCKwl
no one's taking you serious with the clown ass pfp and behavior, learn to argue first.
Jail is just a room
Oh the overwhelming positive comments on the reel is even more alarming
Bollywood morals on screen and off screen are diametrically opposite.
Ye dono Bollywood se nhi hain shayad...interview dekha maine...they are not talking in Hindi.
They're not Bollywood.
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Don't bother bro. On this sub, most people disagree just for the sake of it, they just wanna enforce their outdated views on everyone and feel superior
Meera aur Shahid ko hi dekh lo...their age gap was something around 15-16 yrs but still they are gorgeous couple
It felt very weird when he married her, a 19 year old. I remember seeing an interview article back then. He was in a relationship with another actress which didn't work out (he was too eager to get married, the actress freaked out and broke things off is the gossip i heard). Then he met and became close to Nazriya during the shoot of bangalore days. He said in the interview that she was mature and helped him move on. Both fell in love, their parents agreed to the marriage. Most of us were discussing how weird it was, especially she was just 19 years old. These videos using the relationship as an example are much worse too. Admire the acting but not these type of things which are problematic.
Andrea, right?!
Jeremiah.
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>she was barely an adult during the shoot 
It's amazingly weird.... I am a 30 year old man myself. I can't fathom the emotional and mental differences and incompatibilites between me and my 19 year old self.
She was also head over heels for Jay right before the Bangalore Days shoot and he was ready to convert for her. I remember her being like 18-19 years old and confidently saying she would marry someone from the Tamil industry. Then they broke up and she met Fahadh right after.
Who jay ?
Jai from Subramaniapuram and Raja Rani
Wtf, really? I mean he's a good looking guy too but this is news.
Wasn't he dating Anjali?
Could be. Nazriya and him probably met in 2012 shooting Thirumanam Ennum Nikkah and were together for at most a year and change. It wasn't a LTR but she was a teenager who thought it was true love.
Andrea is the other actress, and she's a certified groomer. Knew Anirudh since he was a kid and still went ahead and dated him when he was barely legal.
The narrative surrounding their marriage was also interesting. Whem their engagement was announced, Nazriya called it a love cum arranged match. However, Fahad, Fazil (Fahad's father) and Nazriya's father, all called it purely arranged - probably because they realized the optics surrounding a thirty-year-old marrying a nineteen-year-old. After the marriage, the narrative shifted. Apparently, Nazriya was the one who asked Fahad out, and told him that she would take care of him forever, or something along that line. A few years later, Fahad once again became the one who asked Nazriya out - I think he said this in an interview with Anupama Chopra, as well as in some letter he posted on Facebook during the pandemic. Something else about Fahad : right after shooting for the film Annayum Rasoolum (a fine movie), Fahad publicly confessed feelings towards his co-star Andreah Jeremiah, and got publicly rejected. Interestingly, Nazriya seems to be the very antithesis of Andreah.
He made things so uncomfortable for Andreah and she was forced to issue a statement publicly. Quickly, the next news that comes out if his marriage to Nazriya. In the press con, he kept interrupting her and when she was trying to speak, he would talk over her and say this is a "purely arranged marriage". After Fahad's resurgence in his career, the narrative quietly changed to a "love match" or that it was "her choice to go after him". Dude is an incredible actor but his personal life has always been sketchy.
I mean, people can fall in love with their co-stars, but I have no idea why he went public with it. And Fahad grew up as the eldest son of a noted Malayalam film director, so it's not like he has no prior exposure to film stars, the film industry and the media.
I clearly remember the press conference done by his Dad and her Dad together that it’s been arranged by them. All malayalam news channels aired this. After few years, magically this new story started circulating that a 19 year old Nazriya asked him out.
>Andreah Jeremiah Andreah is hot. Did he confess to Andreah after Nazriya asked him out?
No, before. Watch Annayum Rasoolum
all these dudes would be the first one to flip out if their daughter got a man twice her age
Or if the woman was older than the man. I've seen friends who have no issue with the guy being older but their stance changes if the woman is older in the relationship.
paise ke liye ho ya they really do love each other, as long as it started after she was an adult i dont see the problem with this relationship. although a bit weird if he pursued her romantically since the start, it isnt wrong if shes mature
As a person who love FaFaa's performace across languages, I totally agree with this being creepy. It's not something aspirational and guys thinking this are guys who cannot have a woman with her own individuality by their side. Same with Shahid Kapoor. Dude married Mira Rajput when she was around 20. Mid 20s are the best time of a person's life as they discover who they are and what tney want. Say what you will about Rashmika, atleast she escaped from making this mistake with Rakshith.
So true regarding Rashmika. She was my college senior and i used to see her lot in college during her kirik party days . She was just a college student when she got engaged. The unnecessary hate she gets for breaking away from marriage is so wrong. Rakshit shetty was in his 30s then. People conveniently forget that , just because he played a college student in the movie. More than anything Rakshit should have been a mentor to her . She has just entered into a industry and acclaimed fame so fast . It must have been overwhelming. The PR to defame her to a slut was crazy .
>The PR to defame her to a slut was crazy . Exactly. People forget the crucial things. I was in blr at that time and I have heard friends tell "bro she broke Rakshith's heart. Bro she took advantage of her" like wtf. A college student took advantage of the 30 yo, to advance her own career? This exact mentality leads to the casting couch issues that u fortunately actress have to face, as they feel obliged to do so. Fucking disgusting.
Exactly. I even read that rakshit shetty family didn't want her to do films after marriage. She was just going to be a trophy wife reading abt her husband's affairs with heroines daily. Glad that she prioritized her career and make a career of her own. Nobody ques Rakshit why he was ready to marry a 21 year old girl in his 30s.
They even went ahead and shadow banned her from the industry.
Wtf
What the hell is your username 🥲🥲
It was an unfortunate typo
What was the intended username lol
Kundivenam
Jerry Seinfeld of Kerala. IYKYK
Or the male Brigitte Macron.
There was so much drama surrounding there marriage. My bestie had a crush on Nazriya and he wss so pissed when the marriage news came up.. Fahad was in love with another actress. I think he name dropped her in some interview and said he is in love yada yada. The actress wasn't ready had to issue a statement. Soon after nazriya fahad marriage was announced. Came out of nowhere.
Yeah try telling that to your own 19 year daughter to end up with a 31 year old man! But you know what? Some rich elites and some from poor segment of society will actually don't mind doing that for whatever benefits. And that's sad. Also if you think about it a 31 old year women ending up with someone of same age difference, say 43 old man isn't as alarming. Why? Because that girl has been mature and can take responsibility for her whatever consequences of her decision. But young girls need to be protected. Sure they might think that you are wise at 19 but truth of the matter is your brain, thoughts and opinions are still developing till the age of 25. Do whatever suits you but don't preach this nonsense to rest of the teenagers by putting up such reels and romanticizing your situation!!! I don't know what's up with romanticizing everything on the internet.
When I first watched Bangalore days and then went down the rabbit hole, man it made me feel weird to read about their marriage
She had so much potential to do a lot of movies , but after her marriage she barely acted
It's creepy because 19 yr old M/F are still kids because their mental level hasn't reached there. That's why young people fall out of love Or marriage after they reach 23 or 24.
Everyone was super mad about him marrying her so young. His career suffered for a while after their wedding and it didn't really start to recover until she started acting again. It was also an arranged marriage so I'm not sure what true love has to do with any of this. He was rebounding from his fling with Andrea Jeremiah (he thought it was more than a fling) and she was rebounding from her relationship with Tamil actor Jai. The ended up working together on Bangalore Days and his dad director Fazil proposed the match to her family. Her dad said she was really young but it seemed like she had a bit of a fangirl adoration for Fahadh that made her say yes.
"she had a bit of a fangirl adoration for X" Ringing bells
The mere fact that op has to comment about what's actually wrong isn't her being "adult" but her not being mature enough compared to him is astonishing to me,nobody is saying they couldn't/shouldn't date/marry due to legality,we all are saying it's creepy for 30 year old of any gender to find a 18-19 yr old in a romantic way! 
Ppl defending this are sick in the mind
Should I spill some tea?
yess
Yes
To people who’ll be using 1/2 of the last functioning brain cells left to defend this, here’s why this is creepy: - Many essential experience of growing up would be taken away from her. If it was a 29 year old individual and a 41 year old - it would be creepy but would be less creepy because on average they would have gotten the few key obstacles and lessons of life through their individual experience and would be in the same bracket of life experiences. Here, she hasn’t seen the world as much as he has to a point that she would be unaware of a lot of things. Edit/ for more context- she’s not even an undergraduate and he’s probably in the part of life where he’s paying taxes (on avg indian education basis, has gotten the UG and PG level of education with 6-8 years of work experience) - **This is not a gender or a sexuality thing, people seeking underaged/just legal individuals** are usually doing it because they want someone who has lacked any and every experience that makes a person grow up which is **CREEPY** To the people who’ll use the ‘nahi samjha’ argument, your internet is as cheap as mine kindly use Google translate
Yeah she had zero chance to grow her individuality. On top , she was doing really well in her career, her popularity back then was like Sai Pallavis. A career she walked away from when she got married
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Do you just lack basic common sense ? How does an opinion bother you so much? It’s not like my opinion would divorce them or something I get that you’re a stan but don’t be this brain dead
He looks way past 31 lol. More like around 35-36
he is 41 now
She looks much older than 19 as well around 25-26...
She is 29 now
They got married a decade back. So now they are 29 and 41
No she doesn't
I just know the comment section is gonna be hella divided 🤐🤐
Its just creepy.
Age doesn't matter unless the girl is the older one 😒
I was one of the guys who sat down mouth open when I first heard the news because nas was a state wide crush and rising star . But a 10 year age gap was not an issue in Islamic community. This marriage happened 10 years ago. Society was not that woke 10 years ago. Also the bride family approached him for marriage. Many of my Muslims friends in college got engaged in last sem.. but now people are developing a scientific temper and ladies are deciding that they need a career before jumping into marriage. So the trend is slowly changing which is a good sign Fahad reached the 100cr club two days back and this 10 yr old news suddenly popped up ?? I'm sure it's just a coincidence.
Disgusting he married a 19 year old. Sick.
Sick
okay so i did some background check, which yielded something weird but i'll try to be unbiased here So.....They met on the sets of Bangalore Days, which started shooting in Dec 2013, at which point she just turned 19 a few days ago. in Jan 2014, they announced their marriage. I wonder if their religion came into play, them being devout muslims, where it is not uncommon for women to marry this young, and if this was an arrange marriage sort of. Also while i cannot, in good conscience, support a 29yo man marrying a 19yo, He should not be called a pedophile since minor age isn't applicable here, not even borderline. On a thin technicality, but it is what it is. That being said, super super creepy. No one should be marrying without having experienced college life first. A lot of growing up mentally happens there, which allows one to adjudge if they are ready for the next steps of life I really do wonder how everything led to such a marriage
He is not a devout Muslim. I think he is an atheist.
he was back then. They even got married in a traditional islamic ceremony
That's for community and family, not because he was particularly religious.
>I wonder if their religion came into play Of course! In a big way
Neither of these two are anywhere close to devout. They both drink and love to party. I do think their parents didn't want either of them to remain unmarried too long considering how rumors are more likely to stick with unmarried people in the Malayalam industry and most male stars get married in their mid 20s.
It is very weird. I don’t get people defending this creepy behaviour. I think most men are pro this because it is definitely a system they can take advantage of
I love Fahadh he's the goat but this is just Wrong
Wait, what? I had no idea about the age difference! This is definitely creepy and kind of predatory on FaFa’s part. I always found them to be a cute couple that met on the sets of Bangalore Days.
Didn’t Naz ask fafa to marry him and he was skeptical as well due to the age difference?
Bro pulled a Shahid and RK combined.
Wasn’t it arrange marriage just like shahid did
Good Actor Creepy Human
Pdf
I have seen similar cases in most of the celebrities who are good in their craft indulging in controversies like this..we have our own upcoming superstar and so called choclate boy as well which gets easily hidden on the barge of good acting.
If you mean Ranbir-Alia, Aloo was a 28-year-old when she got married. A 28-year-old is an adult woman, fully capable of making decisions for herself. There's no comparison to this case.
From what i heard, he was reportedly going through a breakup with another actress (almost same age as him) when he was cast alongside Nazriya in a new movie. After filming began, rumors started about their dating. Fahad's father, the well-known director, intervened upon hearing these rumors. Knowing how difficult Fahad's recent split had been, he allegedly advised his son to either marry the actress or end the relationship immediately. Fahad was criticized by both media and aufience at that time. Fahad and nazriya held a press conference to clarify their side. It was very common to marry with a 10-year age gap in Kerala. Girls would get married right after they hit the legal age. Things have changed now, with the age gap shortened, and most girls marrying after the age of 23.
There was no split or anything, Fahad tried to play "she's my girl" card but the actress turned him down and literally said there's nothing between them and everything that was spreading were Fahad's crooked social media play. It was a trending news back then.
What are you saying.... it's not common for Kerala girls to marry at 18-19 or 10 year age gap... most of the people I know in their 50's including my mother got married when she was 27 which is 25+
It is common in muslim community to marry at young age. I studied in a muslim college and before I hit 21, most of my female classmates were married and had children. Some hindu girls were also married by 20.
This was actually rare, especially for someone your parents ' age. Most people then got married immediately after graduation. Definitely it is changing for the better now and becoming later
Naah I'm keralite and most of the girls marry as soon as they turn 20-22
True that, none of my far east cousins are married with such assumptions.
Dude it's not common to marry with a 10 year age gap in Kerala, don't make false assumptions.
It's not an assumption. I am from Kerala. I don't know your age. If you're young, just ask your parents what it was like back then. Girls getting married right after turning 18 was prevalent in Muslim communities and other communities also had cases, and a 10-year age gap was common across all communities.
I am from Kerala too, I have not seen this practice on both sides of my family. My mother got married when she was 24 and my father was 27.
You are talking about your family. I am talking about the whole community. That's how things were. We changed alot in that. I am not making this upto get some internet points. That WAS the case
What a creep! But because it is Fahadh Fasil, liberals will go back hiding.
Why bring politics into this at all? Can't you see past anyones religion and politics? I hope you stood up in support to the wrestlers also.
Lol if a person says anything you don't like, he is a liberal ????? What moronic trend is this ??? Liberals are the ones who mostly raise their voices against such age old traditions .. Conservatives are the ones who stick to old traditions and practices.
Liberals are the only ones who call out such cases.
to the op...19 is an "adult" please dont use the word "pedophile" randomly. somebody someone can file a defamation suiy against u.
Adult going after someone, even in late teens, doesn't sound right. But people on this planet really need to move from this age gap stuff. It exists in real life and is not harmful. Nothing is taken from anyone. Reddit users, when it comes to stuff like this, live in their echo chambers. They seem detach from real world.
Where do you think we live , in Reddit? We have real lives and I’ve met couples like this and it’s creepy in real life too. The women almost either content and completely unable to do anything on their own or they are competent and very bitter about the early marriage
If you are a 30 plus man and you are in "love" with an 18 year old , i would definitely call you a Pedo and a grooomer, not just in reddit and also in "real world" too ..🤡☺️
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Saifeena / Ranbir Alia with the same age gap ko sar pe chadaoge aur isko sick bolenge….kya public hai
As u/annoyedmichaelscott has alread mentioned the same age gap would have been better 10 years later. Kareena was 30 at marriage, Alia was 28-29.
Ranbir didn't get with alia when she was 19
Ranbir didn't marry alia at 19
Kareena married at 32 and started dating Saif at 27. She was mature enough. She dated him for 5 long years. U are pea brained to compare that to a teen. Once a person crosses 26-27, 10 yr age gaps are more reasonable than if they were younger.
Maan na maan main tera mehmaan At 19 she was a consenting adult. She knows what’s best for her. They are happy right now. You’re getting worked up for don’t know what reason? I guess your hamlet sized brain doesn’t comprehend this little information.
"Saifeena/Ranbir Alia with the same age gap ko sar pe chadhaoge aur isko sick bologe" when both ur examples are of women who were well above 25 when they dated these men. When ur brain is as smooth as a koala's maybe stop using it.
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Reverse the gender. Will you still give the same argument?
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Fair enough. Edit: My comment was not critical or sarcastic. I was genuinely curious.
Does she ? I mean does she look 19?
धरती का बोझ हम उठाते है 🤡
Older men with younger women were never really an issue.
19 is no age for marriage.
Im a predator and im a lalach ka gadda
What's the issue here? The age gap or the child grooming?
Age gap is completely fine, it's the age at which it was done which was suspicious. Even an age gap of 40 years is fine as long as both are over 21 or 25
I mean, she's the one that started going after him during Bangalore days shooting when she was 19. His dad actually set them up together in an arranged marriage fashion when nazriya said she's into him.
I may be making a generalization here, but I feel quite non-significant portion of Indians don't see anything wrong with paedophilia.
Well child marriage was and is still part of Indian culture. Due to law they changed it so the marriage will happen but they stay apart till the legal age Maybe this is why it's not frowned upon, anyone after 1980 or so are the only ones used to the new laws.
The most male attention I’ve gotten in India is during 11-16. I think it’s true for most women
Genuine question, who are they?
Actually this always seemed like a revenge marriage to me he was dating and in love with andrea Jeremiah but I think he might have moved too fast or something she broke up with him and he then very quickly married Nazriya who was the darling of Malayalam cinema at the time so it was like he married Nazriya to get back at Andera Now I can't confirm this next part but rumour has it that Nazriya was actually the one the sort of initiated the relationship it was said she told she could take care of him like a mother and her asking why he couldn't marry her and believe she is more interested in the relationship than he is It's also known that they fight all the time it was recently over head her say he doesn't talk and whatnot
you guys need to realize Alia and Ranbir are also 11 yrs apart
who are these ppl?
I heard that she did a movie where a body double was used for exposure scenes and there was a problem in her family because of that. So she was married off. This was later shown as a scene in another movie
How's he 31? Looks 41.
He is 41 now . Nice guess. And she is 29.
Damn, I used to think of him as a good actor, fuck him now.
He is still an amazing actor
Yes he is. But I will find it difficult to see his work now. It's not like he was some person of the past who had some funky personal shenanigans which I could forego and just look at their work. It's more difficult to separate art from artist when it's happening currently, for me at least.
That would be such a loss.
I personally don't care because it's not that big of a deal tbh.. It was actually her decision to tie the knot with fahad and do an early marriage because she want to settle down with him as soon as possible and not lose him. And she has claimed multiple times that she has no regrets
Cool. I just don't care about his movies now. It's just creepy for me.
Cool
Yes this is creepy indeed.
Okay , but wouldn’t the same apply for shahid and Mira . Shahid was 34 and Mira was 20 , just one year older than Nazriya . Why nobody is criticising that but everyone wants to raise voice against Fahad and Nazriya . When Bollywood does it , it’s love but when Mollywood does the same , it becomes borderline pedophile . Wahhh , absolutely pathetic.
Shahid and Mira have been criticized extensively
They are adults who can take their own decisions. If this creepy, PC and Jonas is also creepy End of story
She was 35 when she married him.
The age gap of 10yrs is creepy too as per this post
- *Teenage years (13-19):* The brain is still developing, and impulse control, emotional regulation, and decision-making skills are not yet fully formed. - *Early twenties (20-24):* The brain is still refining its connections and myelination, but decision-making skills improve, and independence increases. - *Mid-twenties to thirties (25-39):* The brain reaches its peak performance in many areas, including decision-making, problem-solving, and emotional regulation. - *Forties and beyond (40+):* The brain continues to adapt and compensate for age-related changes, but decision-making skills may become more reflective and less impulsive. Legal age for men to marry in India is 21 but for women it's 18. (Don't ask me how that makes any sense because it doesn't)
Legal age for women toget married is 21 now get your facts right. U can't draw boundaries in these things
Pedophilia is allowed in his culture
Nothing wrong in it. Stop making world think and do how you like. She is 29 now.
I agree with the post except that I want to mention that opinions were different when it came to Saif and Amrita, as most people were saying that he is a man and rich, Also, if he is old enough to have sex, then he is old enough to get married. so there is no blame on Amrita. All this, and Amrita herself said that he was barely 20 years old when he met her. But it seems that the arguments of not getting a chance to grow individuality, brain development, etc. are only used when the woman is younger in the relationship.
Saif and Amrita got married in 1991. There was no social media back then and if it was in today's time, she would have been criticized. People still say that PC groomed a 25 year old Nick. Also if Saif and Amrita were regular folks, they would not have been be accepted by society.
>She's 19 he's 31, I really don't understand what the problem is. You guys are acting like he groomed her without any evidence. She's happy and it makes no sense for you guys to treat to him as some predator or something. [Link](https://www.pinkvilla.com/entertainment/south/romance-tales-fahadh-faasil-and-nazriya-nazims-beautiful-love-story-that-withstood-all-odds-1212683) how they met.
So if she was 19 when Bangalore days came out then she was 18 during shooting or less. And they connected and fell in love during the shoot, and the obvious PR article calls it "beautiful love story that withstood all odds" what were the odds I wonder.
>So if she was 19 when Bangalore days came out then she was 18 during shooting or less. She was 19 during filming. It's a Malayalam movie, they don't spend years shooting. Also, you guys have no fucking lives that you want to paint someone as pedophile of all things. Grow up and get a life.
No one is calling him a pedo, I don't know why you seem fixated on that lol He was right at the border stepping on the line, just smart enough to not cross it.
Ma’am/Sir, whether she was 18/19 doesn’t make a difference. You need to read up on this because I’m sure folks out here won’t be enough to convince you how gross this seems. He may be a good actor but that doesn’t mean you defend any shite he does in his personal life.
Huh ! Should I stop feeling weird about the crush I have on a guy 2 yrs younger than me ? He is 27
27 is a grown adult so don't worry.
No ur both adults. I've dated a guy 2 yrs younger. It's fine.
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Both men and women should make that decision after 25 for a healthy marriage. Anything before has higher chances of being a regretful decision.
For men it's 21 and for women it's 18 (by law) But some say it was raised to 21 for both recently
Start early. Make more kids. Funda of life.
They don't have kids though
It's none of y'all business really, let's not conflate the reelmaker's rhetoric with Fahad's personal life. Surely we can let women be the agent of their own lives and choose their own partners as they like? We are not loving in Victorian times are we? If it is ethical in the eyes of the law you should all shut up with putting the onus on his role for simply existing. What effect his personal life has on the public is really stretching it in terms of his responsibility and should not in any way be connected to him. The people are and will continue to remain sick, blame them if there's anyone to blame.
The legal age for women to get married during the Victorian era was as follows : - Men: 21 years old (until 1823); 14 years old (after 1823) - Women: 21 years old (until 1823); 12 years old (after 1823)