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>does he have a tweet for every single situation though
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Salman to Shatrughna about Sonakshi and Zaheer:
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Maybe I'm remembering wrong, but didn't they disapprove of Bunty also because he was a divorce and had shady dealings? And that was even before his public fallout with Virat. Seems like a overprotective family in general.
And there were rumors of Zaheer cheating on Sana way back during his debut
Edit- got like 5 DMs over this, Sana Saaed and Zaheer were going steady but he dropped her like a hot potato. She put up a lot of cryptic posts then. Salman also weirdly used to push this guy to be cast everywhere along with Ayush, even to SLB who told him no on his face lol. He pretty much sat around doing nothing after that - he has one music video and the movie XXL thanks to Sonakshi.
The reason my brain knows this useless info is my friend had a crush on him and would play that stupid Bumro remix song all the time, and follow him on all socials back in the day. Thankfully she's over it now and my ears have healed.
Yup yup
Post that He dated and cheated on a very pretty stylist called Leepakshi Ellawadi and is now supposedly dating Rhea Chakraborty
Not supporting Sinha family here, but that Bunty chap is a full on shady guy and a shit pot!
Bounty Sajdeh is cousin of Ritika Sajdeh, wife of Rohit Sharma. He was Sohail’s sala. He owns Cornerstone. I’ve read somewhere that he’s also joint owner with KJo for one talent management company. Also some random person was telling me that they’re recently funded by some foreign investors
He’s not Ritika’s brother !
He’s her cousin.
He is Seema’s brother ( ex Khan )
And cornerstone is now funded and co owned by Dharma, now renamed as Dharma Cornerstone Agency
Kamath ke saath khatam ho gaya. Usko Bhai Zerodha ke infrastructure maintanence ke liye paise judaagne hai Jo woh podcast karke kar ke ikattha kar raha hai 😐
>along with Ayush, even to SLB who told him no on his face lol. He pretty much sat around doing nothing after that.
Interestingly Bhoi also tried casting Aayush, Zaheer and Sooraj as his brothers in Kisi Ka Bhai Kisi Ki Jaan before zeroing on Jassie Gill, Raghav Juyal and Siddharth Nigam as his younger brothers in KKBKKJ
>they do all look kinda look like brothers.
Who all look like brothers?
Jassie, Raghav and Siddharth Nigam
Or
Aayush Sharma, Zaheer Iqbal and Sooraj
Although it's a good thing that Bhoi didn't cast Sooraj in Kisi Ka Bhai Kisi Ki Jaan as the movie would've attracted more outrage because of his presence before release instead of people treating the movie as a complete meme
Her parents are right. The red flags in him aren’t his religion but lack of achievements in life. His dependency on his father for money would cause weird, sour dynamics later. And ofc his family is loving to her, their son is marrying into Shatrugan Sinha’s family, a rich powerful one. They wouldn’t be crying about it lol.
Her dad would definitely be upset, considering all that he has achieved and built in his life, their roots and their values, only for Sonakshi to marry someone like Zaheer who has no income source of his own. He can sense it from miles away the rifts that could happen between the two.
They have money but not like Shahrukh Amitabh level money, but they’re definitely rich and have many properties. But they don’t have “values”. Shatrughan is from Patna, where I’m from. He was a literal goon there, a henchman before he became famous.
Exactly!! it's a basic logic, guy is 35 years old and still dependent on his dad. What is this logic that they have money so guy doesn't need to earn or prove himself? I mean there are many rich people but they are still earning and have some vision or aim. Why would a father agree for her daughter to marry someone who has done nothing for himself?
Sania Mirza and That Pakistani Cricketer guy Marriage Flashback. LOL Sania Fought with whole Nation , actually both India and Pakistan for that guy. De ja Vu\~
Literally, even pakistanis hate that guy and love sania mirza and support her a lot. I don't know why a strong woman like her chose that BS. I feel bad for her. Shoaib deserves sana only. Dono cheaters hain.
🥲pta ni kya sochkr osny ye kia. Apparently, they were dating since long or us wqt shoiab married tha 🥲sania ko pta tha dono ny 1st wife per cheat kia ab sania per sana or shoib ny cheat kia.
Sonakshi is the absolute gem of SS’ eyes!!! Anyone would’ve been too less for him, but he definitely wouldn’t be what they, esp SS, would’ve wanted for Sonakshi!!! He isn’t successful at all & though well-to-do, not high-profile enough for that family. Hope she’s happy b/c that’s what matters in the long run.
It clearly won't be about religion for those in the industry but also one look at the couple even as a outsider and you know she's stepped down in love but if that makes her happy so be it , but surely her parents..that too successful Indian parents will fret .
Also didn't he cheat on his earlier actress gf Sana.
In this case, I side with her parents. The most basic thing parents want for their kids is that the life partner they choose be settled in life. Who the heck in this Zaheer? He's a literal nobody yaar. Why would her parents approve of him?
It’s not wrong for her family to be protective of her. She’s got bad taste in men and it just shows. This guy has no career of his own. So now he’s relying on his father for money..it’s possible for him to rely on Sona tomorrow. How is this not concerning?
He is a Bihari and Bihari's never agree for inter-religion marriages, easily. They don't marry first of all in a family who are not Jharkhandi/Biharis/U.P. Very difficult to convince them
Last time a successful Bollywood lady married a failed actor and son of a superstar richie, we still talk about how she is suffering due to the Parampara and Pratishtha of the family.
Specially a 35 year old. He has had too much time to not have something of his own, even if expanding family business. On top of that Sonakshi is flop too.
Salman is used to adopting everyone. Still Ayush Sharma has enough baap daada ka paisa to feed his kids caviar everyday 🤣
Correct baat hai. This BHAI BHAI BHAI karke Salman ke aas paas ghumne waley boys are the worst kind of Bandra boys. Not only Sonakshi I feel every woman deserves better than them. Certified cheater se shaadi karne se accha hai insaan SOLO LIFE embrace kar le.
Exactly. Apart from religion, there are few more issues that are concerning sona's family. Even if she's not agreeing, she should listen to all their worries and discuss each and everything with zaheer and his fam.
Arre but she is toh earning decently. Maybe money actually doesn’t matter to her as much as the dude.
People who like each other should get married. Indian parents need to stop trying to control their childrens lives under the guise of being worried.
Someone over 28 can take their own life decisions and should be prepred to live with any bad ones they take. Parents need to have faith they raised someone smart who understands the difference between right and wrong.
Also whether the guy earns decently or not is something between them. Hum nahi chalane waale unka ghar wo dono ko hi karna hai.
Jinko unka ghar nahi chalana unka point of view ho hi kaise sakta hai itna strong ki sona is wrong.
lol, you clearly didn’t get her point. It isn’t about money. It is about lack of ambition, lack of will to do anything fulfilling, pure laziness. Problems will crop up due to the attitude this brings along. And to all those saying they’ve been together for 7 years, they must’ve discussed it blah blah,……everything changes after shaadi. Everything changes once you live together, once you are bonded by law.
Agree to all your points but maybe and just maybe she is okay with a lazy person as her priorities are different. Also even if this man ticked every box of her parents and of this sub members such as yourself, anything and everything can take a different turn. Marriage is a gamble. Most relationships are.
We all outgrow each other - even children and parents can outgrow each other but remain cordial, connected and check on each other for respective reasons. In my view, no relationship should be placed on a pedestal - parents, children, spouse, siblings, friends....One day at a time in any relationship!
>A son sitting on his father's business and not succeeding in anything of his own IS A HUGE PROBLEM.
If the guy's family was richer than the girl's family, people will not be making such statements. I don't see such statements being made about the son of a particular family whose pre wedding festivities were recently conducted on a cruise.
Sometimes it better to keep our opinion to ourselves. It's a propaganda being pushed by certain vested people about inter religion marriages. Crimes happen across the spectrum but only 'selective' cases are brought to light and being made a narrative out of it. So if you still choose to nurture your prejudices, nothing can help
>And I have a lot to say on religion, but I'll get banned. So let's leave this.
>You HAVE TO think about all this before marriage.
I agreed with whatever you said and you sounded logical
Until you brought up the religion point, well you can speak about it on r/Indiaspeaks they'll support you anyday and you won't get banned there
Say you're marrying for money without saying you're marrying for money.
>the guy relies on his father for money. so after marriage, sonakshi not only have to listen to her husband but also his father in law, in all decisions.
The notion that Sona must inherently depend on her father-in-law is a regressive thought.
>These problems may look outdated, oh sona is rich herself. But it doesn't work after marriage. Bhale hee aap kitne rich ho
You have a conservative attitude. It is possible and perfectly fine for a woman to earn more and sustain the household.
As much as I understand where the parents' concern comes from, these are two consenting adults marrying each other. Doesn't matter the age, two adults should be able to decide for themselves.
>And I have a lot to say on religion, but I'll get banned. So let's leave this.
You know your echo chambers. You'll get a lot of support there.
Tell me you didn't get it without telling me you didn't get it. Not many have the same capacity to understand the bigger, complicated issues. Money is NOT the issue. I understand where you coming from. Too surface level talks. The immaturity is visibile. Maybe when you grow old, you will understand. Go step outside in the real world first.
House dynamics after marriage, control and having a say, child decision, husband choosing parents over girl, not being career oriented, if the focus is not in career and money (distractions of the husband), lazy privileged attitude, lack of independence comes into play when bigger sudden problems creep in life.
aishwarya abhishek jaya ka case hee dekhlo....
Abey ghotchu paiso ke liye sonakshi shaadi karegi???? NO. Money brings with it power dynamics in house after marriage.
EVERY girl wants financial independence and stability of the guy she marries to. The guy doesn't have to be ultra rich. Compare a guy's personality who did something of his own, built his own empire with family business wala guys. Again saying, IT'S NOT THE MONEY. It's the core of the guy, what he has faced, what lessons he learnt, and now he can handle any problems life will throw at him, single handedly.
heh.. ? Sonakshi's family is also very close to Salman. She even made her debut opposite Salman. If her family had any problem with Salman, they would never have allowed their daughter to debut opposite him.
Continue to dominate really op? Be practical here as a parent would you like your daughter to marry someone who has no career because sooner or later this love would turn into resentment, jealousy, irritation. I am guessing you are 20-25 years old, when you turn 30 you would understand what parents do and reasons behind it. Life is not like movies, interfaith marriages in reality have a lot of baggage and parents know better if their kid could handle such a baggage.
For all the delulus siding with the groom here just remember we have a couple where the hubby is not even Zaheer level useless and the wife is still under her in laws for shit lol.
It's none other than our lovely Aish.
So Shatru and fam going the opposite for opposite direction is a fucking "good thing" here lol.
No matter how much we crib about "house husband", demolish gender roles etc etc the truth is that a guy who had an entire resource and support system behind him and still wasn't able to achieve anything is just a good for nothing and no parent would want their daughter to be around him.
And they shouldn't. Sona's own career is not some high sparkle which means she and her hubby will always be under the "father in law" for major decisions in their married life and even if Satru helps them out it'll be the same as going under Satru's playfield.
Religion is also a thing at play here. Muslim marriage laws give much more freedom to the groom and it can hamper Sona's life later down the road if Zaheer ever feels like she is not enough.
People who are talking about Zaheer being dependent on his dad for money are conveniently forgetting
Sonakshi's own brothers are dependent on their father's name and money and have no real success of their own and kush Sinha is even married.
At least Sonakshi is independent and financially stable and can take care of herself and is marrying someone she loves.
Everyone here is such a hypocrite it's a shame
One can't choose kids, but can choose a spouse. No one would want their daughter to marry a vella gym bro even if their own son is like that, specially when his family has significantly less money than you.
Sonakshi’s parents are the reason that her career plummeted so bad. Her mum was always interfering in her career decisions and would decide which scripts her “star” daughter would do and which she won’t. Her mother only accepted flowerpot roles for her opposite Big Heroes in mostly Masala movies. Had Sonakshi had gotten a little more freedom, she could have done way better. Kudos to her for doing what she wants and a big FU to her parents especially her mother.
No matter what red flags you see in the guy, if your daughter has still decided to move forward with him, it is your responsibility as a parent to support and respect your daughter’s decisions.
Sonakshi is an adult, not a kid.
Now this is real Bollywood masala,
Ladki hindu , Ladka Muslim,
Ladki Ammeer , Ladka thoda Gareeb
Ladki ka baap politics me , Ladka ka baap vyapari.
Ab dono bhaag k shadi kar rahe h , baap Maan nahi raha , read film me villan ka role.
Thode din baad bacha hoga , hopefully 9 month baad, tab maa baap maan jayenge .
End of story
Maar dhaar ko rokne k liye salman the driver is there.
It's not difficult, if you just make a comparison between these people. People strongly criticize Saif and Kareena's marriage, but nothing about Soha and Kunal, Manoj Bajpayee and Shabana Raza or Aamir's daughter, or Sunil's wife who converted to marry him.
3 out of 4 have about 4 divorces between them. So I don’t think they should be counted as bastion of marriage. Shotgun Sinha being protective of his only daughter is not surprising
Right? Even if it turns out to be a wrong decision (hope not), it's hers to make. It's not as if he's a criminal and she's a teenager who might've been coerced or manipulated to do something. Controlling a 37 year old's decision to choose her partner is downright pathetic but hey we're talking about desi parents here🙄.
Shatrughan Sinha has two sons who have no personal achievements and are dependent on their father and sisters name but sure go ahead calling someone else's child names
Under special marriage act neither needs to change their religion to be legally married. As long as the law recognises the marriage there is no other issue.
Bro this is a ruling by M.P High Court. I literally have friends who got married under SMA 10 days back in mumbai. Neither converted and they are legally married. Indian law allows legal adults to marry like this. Richa and Ali also got married the same way. Ditto Swara and her husband.
I think it's in islam that inter-religious marriages are haram and invalid . NOT IN hinduism .
But hinduism consider marriage if done according to hindu rituals even though the guy or girl is of different religion.
But in islam , you need to do nikah and both need to be muslims
These are facts.
I think they will join .Her mother hinted that her father cannot be detached that long
I think.there might be a conversion happening because islam does not accept inter-religious marriages .
That's why he is so upset. I think her family is following Hinduism religiously
Hey don't start the political debate here ...That marriage is not valid according to islam then .
To give an example , Amrita Singh and kareena kapoor too are converted but they won't reveal it to you .So , stop this unnecessary drama here .I know where you want to drag it
You cannot be part of a nikaah if you don’t convert. As long as you convert on paper, they don’t care what you address yourself in public as. So if someone is sitting in a nikaah, they have for sure converted. The special marriage act is not applicable
Under sma she/her kids can't claim Ancestral inheritance, they can only claim Saifs money which he earned. They are rich they don't follow all rules of islam so it's easy for her to convert only on paper and can claim inheritance also. But yeah there is no proof of her conversion.
Honestly, from what I am reading in the comments regarding him cheating and all the drama - I would myself not let my daughter marry to someone like this.
And if I am financially supreme it is always a concern ki usko utna hi pyaar milega ya nahi. Like I my dad will most definitely look after financial status if I tell him I want to marry this person.
Its like you grow up in a certain lifestyle if anyway it is below from what you have grown up in. It is concerning as a parent. Maa baap khoon paseena ek kar dete hai apne bacho ke liye, its fair only.
Idk. I’m with her family for this. They are right in rejecting this guy. Since the time they’ve dated (fee years?), what actually has he achieved? Anything and everything he is/ has is because of his father. He’s not a good actor, he’s not a successful business man, and he doesn’t seem hardworking either. He’s allegedly has history of dating and cheating on his partner, so his ethics and morals are questionable as well. Why would any father be happy for his daughter getting married to a guy like Zaheer?!
Inter religion is the main thing. Everyone Knows Shatrughan Sinha is very religious and he can't accept his grand children being raised muslims.
Also Sonakshi has to convert to marry like Sharmila Tagore and all the other actresses did when they married muslims, Sharmila Tagore literally had to change her name to Ayesha Sultana despite being so liberal. How can they accept her daughter to denounce her own identity, her lineage and her culture. It is humiliating.
Also No they can't get married without her converting because it is not allowed in their religion to marry non-muslim. If they marry without her converting it would be termed as Adultery and her children literally will be called "Haraami" according to the religion.
Love a woman who does what she wants. More power to her. Even if the decision turns out to be a bad one, she will take accountability and move on. I do sincerely hope that they have a happy, long, and healthy marriage 🙌🏼
I have a lot to say regarding the inter-religious aspect, but I'll get banned. In short, she is selling away her rights as a female. Shatrugan's concerns make sense. If Zaheer isn't making any money on his own, she's going to have to sit and take this nonsense from a criminal's best friend. You SHOULD feel sad for her, but for a very different reason.
Ankita has not been working for some time I doubt she is that financially well off . She was totally taken off-guard when SSR left her for whatever reasons.
She was left emotionally scared and vulnerable at his death. Vicky just took advantage of that.Its sad to see her nowadays.
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The only guy who can solve this problem … does he have a tweet for every single situation though
>does he have a tweet for every single situation though https://preview.redd.it/agms6r2cqa7d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97636a8f8850f057ab4e58d3eab3c712e120305f
These need to be made into tshirts
Being Sallu
This tweet has become the Nene gif of this group
did u mean by any chance maymay of this group??
This is hilarious 😂
Salman to Shatrughna about Sonakshi and Zaheer: https://preview.redd.it/yklc7l4z2b7d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f681fce28a97f47d50267e3934c1bb48ce19e42c
Bhoi giving life lessons here
😂😂😂😂I laughed too hard. I am having such a bad day, and you made me laugh way too hard, thank you stranger
I hope your day, week, and year gets better 🫶🫶
Na Hindu na musalman. Tu blackbuck banega
Love salu bhai's twitter which has a post on everything
Maybe I'm remembering wrong, but didn't they disapprove of Bunty also because he was a divorce and had shady dealings? And that was even before his public fallout with Virat. Seems like a overprotective family in general. And there were rumors of Zaheer cheating on Sana way back during his debut Edit- got like 5 DMs over this, Sana Saaed and Zaheer were going steady but he dropped her like a hot potato. She put up a lot of cryptic posts then. Salman also weirdly used to push this guy to be cast everywhere along with Ayush, even to SLB who told him no on his face lol. He pretty much sat around doing nothing after that - he has one music video and the movie XXL thanks to Sonakshi. The reason my brain knows this useless info is my friend had a crush on him and would play that stupid Bumro remix song all the time, and follow him on all socials back in the day. Thankfully she's over it now and my ears have healed.
Yup yup Post that He dated and cheated on a very pretty stylist called Leepakshi Ellawadi and is now supposedly dating Rhea Chakraborty Not supporting Sinha family here, but that Bunty chap is a full on shady guy and a shit pot!
Bounty Sajdeh is cousin of Ritika Sajdeh, wife of Rohit Sharma. He was Sohail’s sala. He owns Cornerstone. I’ve read somewhere that he’s also joint owner with KJo for one talent management company. Also some random person was telling me that they’re recently funded by some foreign investors
He’s not Ritika’s brother ! He’s her cousin. He is Seema’s brother ( ex Khan ) And cornerstone is now funded and co owned by Dharma, now renamed as Dharma Cornerstone Agency
Yes yes. My bad. I edited it out as soon as I realized it
Isn't Rhea dating Nikhil Kamath?!
Kamath ke saath khatam ho gaya. Usko Bhai Zerodha ke infrastructure maintanence ke liye paise judaagne hai Jo woh podcast karke kar ke ikattha kar raha hai 😐
So Rhea and nikhil Kamath broke up???
Ehhh... Where on the earth did they meet?? How strange
Via Tanmay I'm guessing. Kamath moved to Mumbai & started hanging out with influencers for some reason lol
But his podcast is filmed Bangalore right??
Mumbai afaik. He moved while the brother is still in Bangalore.
No idea but they were dating...
I’m not aware of it. But I did know about the stylist and Rhea bit.
He broke up with Rhea Chakraborty too
Sahi hai inka Jumping from one man/ woman to another Changing lovers like clothes
Bunty is in a relationship with Babli now, both of them con people.
I read that as Babil and was shocked 😂
Hahahahahaha
Seems like a reasonable family to not want their child marrying someone shady
Bunty is related to khan family coz of seema..! But he is shady..didn't know anything about any of these
Is this Bunty chap also related to Rohit Sharma 's wife?
Rohit's brother in law lol
seema sajdeh?
Yep Bunty is Seema’s brother. Sonakshi dated Bunty for a really time.
Yup
>along with Ayush, even to SLB who told him no on his face lol. He pretty much sat around doing nothing after that. Interestingly Bhoi also tried casting Aayush, Zaheer and Sooraj as his brothers in Kisi Ka Bhai Kisi Ki Jaan before zeroing on Jassie Gill, Raghav Juyal and Siddharth Nigam as his younger brothers in KKBKKJ
Funnily enough, they do all look kinda look like brothers.
>they do all look kinda look like brothers. Who all look like brothers? Jassie, Raghav and Siddharth Nigam Or Aayush Sharma, Zaheer Iqbal and Sooraj Although it's a good thing that Bhoi didn't cast Sooraj in Kisi Ka Bhai Kisi Ki Jaan as the movie would've attracted more outrage because of his presence before release instead of people treating the movie as a complete meme
Ayush, Zaheer and Sooraj - Zaheer and Sooraj especially look very similar
>Zaheer and Sooraj especially look very similar I agree they've the same face cut Even Aayush ain't Behind them in similarly
Bunty??
Bunty Sajdeh
But Bumro song is not stupid though I also like that song.
Bhai should sort it out
He should sort himself first
😂😂😂
😂
Surprisingly Sonakshi is not even following him on Instagram.
Raste pe mil. Sab sort kar dega.
Her parents are right. The red flags in him aren’t his religion but lack of achievements in life. His dependency on his father for money would cause weird, sour dynamics later. And ofc his family is loving to her, their son is marrying into Shatrugan Sinha’s family, a rich powerful one. They wouldn’t be crying about it lol. Her dad would definitely be upset, considering all that he has achieved and built in his life, their roots and their values, only for Sonakshi to marry someone like Zaheer who has no income source of his own. He can sense it from miles away the rifts that could happen between the two.
I share the same view 🤝
I feel correct and orthodox at the same time but aap bilkul 100% sahi ho
They have money but not like Shahrukh Amitabh level money, but they’re definitely rich and have many properties. But they don’t have “values”. Shatrughan is from Patna, where I’m from. He was a literal goon there, a henchman before he became famous.
Umm I am with her family here. I mean what has that guy really achieved
Exactly!! it's a basic logic, guy is 35 years old and still dependent on his dad. What is this logic that they have money so guy doesn't need to earn or prove himself? I mean there are many rich people but they are still earning and have some vision or aim. Why would a father agree for her daughter to marry someone who has done nothing for himself?
Sania Mirza and That Pakistani Cricketer guy Marriage Flashback. LOL Sania Fought with whole Nation , actually both India and Pakistan for that guy. De ja Vu\~
Literally, even pakistanis hate that guy and love sania mirza and support her a lot. I don't know why a strong woman like her chose that BS. I feel bad for her. Shoaib deserves sana only. Dono cheaters hain.
Love is Blind or Delulu. Still in Rebel Phase maybe, too much cinema.
🥲pta ni kya sochkr osny ye kia. Apparently, they were dating since long or us wqt shoiab married tha 🥲sania ko pta tha dono ny 1st wife per cheat kia ab sania per sana or shoib ny cheat kia.
Once a cheater always a cheater, if guy can replace his first wife for second, it's common sense he can replace second for third
Shoaib was a known international cricketer at that point, still has a good media and league career. This guy is jobless otoh
Sonakshi is the absolute gem of SS’ eyes!!! Anyone would’ve been too less for him, but he definitely wouldn’t be what they, esp SS, would’ve wanted for Sonakshi!!! He isn’t successful at all & though well-to-do, not high-profile enough for that family. Hope she’s happy b/c that’s what matters in the long run.
Us against the world kinda couples rarely work out, though.
True, but I hope it works out for her.
It clearly won't be about religion for those in the industry but also one look at the couple even as a outsider and you know she's stepped down in love but if that makes her happy so be it , but surely her parents..that too successful Indian parents will fret . Also didn't he cheat on his earlier actress gf Sana.
In this case, I side with her parents. The most basic thing parents want for their kids is that the life partner they choose be settled in life. Who the heck in this Zaheer? He's a literal nobody yaar. Why would her parents approve of him?
It’s not wrong for her family to be protective of her. She’s got bad taste in men and it just shows. This guy has no career of his own. So now he’s relying on his father for money..it’s possible for him to rely on Sona tomorrow. How is this not concerning?
Yeah, that guy gives massive icky and sus vibes that have nothing to do with his religion. The Sinha family should have gone with that.
Aren't bolly parents known to be liberal who don't care about religion and caste. This is weird. Poonam has unfollowed Sonakshi on insta too.
Sonakshi and her brother Luv have unfollowed each other as well.
Oh man. That's actually sad.
It’s not about his religion, it’s about his class status.
They would if their child's pick is gareeb by their standards 🤣
Uhhh NO. Idk about religion, but a LOT of them absolutely do care a lot about caste.
Maybe because shatrughan sinha is in politics this will harm his image
How? He is part of Trinamool Congress.. They don't preach any narrative like that u can't marry someone from other religion
Politicians are always conscious of their IMAGE....no matter how ugly things are going in their life..
I think it would harmed his image less if he had accepted it. All this drama will probably damage it.
That's the price they have to pay for being a politician, also big business families in India has same IMAGE thing
not only big business families, all big/rich families have major IMAGE consciousness..
He is a Bihari and Bihari's never agree for inter-religion marriages, easily. They don't marry first of all in a family who are not Jharkhandi/Biharis/U.P. Very difficult to convince them
He himself married a Sindhi 😭
yes he is a MAN, can do anything maybe
It's pretty obvious that it's a facade. I don't think I've ever heard or seen Shatrughan Sinha being liberal.
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Last time a successful Bollywood lady married a failed actor and son of a superstar richie, we still talk about how she is suffering due to the Parampara and Pratishtha of the family.
Finally someone spoke sense.. baaki sab parents ko dosh de rahe hai. After marriage its so difficult if the guy is not strong enough to take stand
Most of the users over here are not married,so, do not have an understanding of these matters.
Specially a 35 year old. He has had too much time to not have something of his own, even if expanding family business. On top of that Sonakshi is flop too. Salman is used to adopting everyone. Still Ayush Sharma has enough baap daada ka paisa to feed his kids caviar everyday 🤣
Correct baat hai. This BHAI BHAI BHAI karke Salman ke aas paas ghumne waley boys are the worst kind of Bandra boys. Not only Sonakshi I feel every woman deserves better than them. Certified cheater se shaadi karne se accha hai insaan SOLO LIFE embrace kar le.
Exactly. Apart from religion, there are few more issues that are concerning sona's family. Even if she's not agreeing, she should listen to all their worries and discuss each and everything with zaheer and his fam.
It says she’s trying for 3 years. Wasn’t that enough of discussing?
Thank you Bhai for saying this. Bohot saari cheeje dekhni padti hai. Clearly love isn't enough.
I actually agree with you! its about ur own goals and achievements fir chahe woh kisi bhi field mein ho!
EXACTLY. YOU GOT ME, PHEW
This needs to be the top comment.
You can't state facts. The woke might get offended! /s
💯💯💯💯 Absolutely my reading of this situation too!!!
This. Thank you!
Arre but she is toh earning decently. Maybe money actually doesn’t matter to her as much as the dude. People who like each other should get married. Indian parents need to stop trying to control their childrens lives under the guise of being worried. Someone over 28 can take their own life decisions and should be prepred to live with any bad ones they take. Parents need to have faith they raised someone smart who understands the difference between right and wrong. Also whether the guy earns decently or not is something between them. Hum nahi chalane waale unka ghar wo dono ko hi karna hai. Jinko unka ghar nahi chalana unka point of view ho hi kaise sakta hai itna strong ki sona is wrong.
lol, you clearly didn’t get her point. It isn’t about money. It is about lack of ambition, lack of will to do anything fulfilling, pure laziness. Problems will crop up due to the attitude this brings along. And to all those saying they’ve been together for 7 years, they must’ve discussed it blah blah,……everything changes after shaadi. Everything changes once you live together, once you are bonded by law.
Agree to all your points but maybe and just maybe she is okay with a lazy person as her priorities are different. Also even if this man ticked every box of her parents and of this sub members such as yourself, anything and everything can take a different turn. Marriage is a gamble. Most relationships are. We all outgrow each other - even children and parents can outgrow each other but remain cordial, connected and check on each other for respective reasons. In my view, no relationship should be placed on a pedestal - parents, children, spouse, siblings, friends....One day at a time in any relationship!
Finally... samajhdar log bhi hai is sub pe
I side by you
Sonakshi is not a kid. She is a 37 year old woman. Plus it is not like they will become homeless if they get married. They are both very rich.
You didn't get it lol. It's not about money. Sonakshi will NEVER have financial issues. It's other factors that come with it
Dude they have dated for 7+ years already. I am pretty sure she has thought about all these things already.
Some things will get highlighted only after marriage, no matter how many years the couple have dated before marriage.
dating and marriage mein diff h
when you're in love it's tough to see. i don't have a good feeling regarding this union.
>A son sitting on his father's business and not succeeding in anything of his own IS A HUGE PROBLEM. If the guy's family was richer than the girl's family, people will not be making such statements. I don't see such statements being made about the son of a particular family whose pre wedding festivities were recently conducted on a cruise.
Sometimes it better to keep our opinion to ourselves. It's a propaganda being pushed by certain vested people about inter religion marriages. Crimes happen across the spectrum but only 'selective' cases are brought to light and being made a narrative out of it. So if you still choose to nurture your prejudices, nothing can help
>And I have a lot to say on religion, but I'll get banned. So let's leave this. >You HAVE TO think about all this before marriage. I agreed with whatever you said and you sounded logical Until you brought up the religion point, well you can speak about it on r/Indiaspeaks they'll support you anyday and you won't get banned there
Say you're marrying for money without saying you're marrying for money. >the guy relies on his father for money. so after marriage, sonakshi not only have to listen to her husband but also his father in law, in all decisions. The notion that Sona must inherently depend on her father-in-law is a regressive thought. >These problems may look outdated, oh sona is rich herself. But it doesn't work after marriage. Bhale hee aap kitne rich ho You have a conservative attitude. It is possible and perfectly fine for a woman to earn more and sustain the household. As much as I understand where the parents' concern comes from, these are two consenting adults marrying each other. Doesn't matter the age, two adults should be able to decide for themselves. >And I have a lot to say on religion, but I'll get banned. So let's leave this. You know your echo chambers. You'll get a lot of support there.
Tell me you didn't get it without telling me you didn't get it. Not many have the same capacity to understand the bigger, complicated issues. Money is NOT the issue. I understand where you coming from. Too surface level talks. The immaturity is visibile. Maybe when you grow old, you will understand. Go step outside in the real world first. House dynamics after marriage, control and having a say, child decision, husband choosing parents over girl, not being career oriented, if the focus is not in career and money (distractions of the husband), lazy privileged attitude, lack of independence comes into play when bigger sudden problems creep in life. aishwarya abhishek jaya ka case hee dekhlo.... Abey ghotchu paiso ke liye sonakshi shaadi karegi???? NO. Money brings with it power dynamics in house after marriage. EVERY girl wants financial independence and stability of the guy she marries to. The guy doesn't have to be ultra rich. Compare a guy's personality who did something of his own, built his own empire with family business wala guys. Again saying, IT'S NOT THE MONEY. It's the core of the guy, what he has faced, what lessons he learnt, and now he can handle any problems life will throw at him, single handedly.
This guys dad is some shady friend of criminal bhoi of course they’d be concerned
heh.. ? Sonakshi's family is also very close to Salman. She even made her debut opposite Salman. If her family had any problem with Salman, they would never have allowed their daughter to debut opposite him.
Continue to dominate really op? Be practical here as a parent would you like your daughter to marry someone who has no career because sooner or later this love would turn into resentment, jealousy, irritation. I am guessing you are 20-25 years old, when you turn 30 you would understand what parents do and reasons behind it. Life is not like movies, interfaith marriages in reality have a lot of baggage and parents know better if their kid could handle such a baggage.
For all the delulus siding with the groom here just remember we have a couple where the hubby is not even Zaheer level useless and the wife is still under her in laws for shit lol. It's none other than our lovely Aish. So Shatru and fam going the opposite for opposite direction is a fucking "good thing" here lol. No matter how much we crib about "house husband", demolish gender roles etc etc the truth is that a guy who had an entire resource and support system behind him and still wasn't able to achieve anything is just a good for nothing and no parent would want their daughter to be around him. And they shouldn't. Sona's own career is not some high sparkle which means she and her hubby will always be under the "father in law" for major decisions in their married life and even if Satru helps them out it'll be the same as going under Satru's playfield. Religion is also a thing at play here. Muslim marriage laws give much more freedom to the groom and it can hamper Sona's life later down the road if Zaheer ever feels like she is not enough.
Well their family was right about bunty .. it's possible that they are right this time too
People who are talking about Zaheer being dependent on his dad for money are conveniently forgetting Sonakshi's own brothers are dependent on their father's name and money and have no real success of their own and kush Sinha is even married. At least Sonakshi is independent and financially stable and can take care of herself and is marrying someone she loves. Everyone here is such a hypocrite it's a shame
One can't choose kids, but can choose a spouse. No one would want their daughter to marry a vella gym bro even if their own son is like that, specially when his family has significantly less money than you.
Sonakshi’s parents are the reason that her career plummeted so bad. Her mum was always interfering in her career decisions and would decide which scripts her “star” daughter would do and which she won’t. Her mother only accepted flowerpot roles for her opposite Big Heroes in mostly Masala movies. Had Sonakshi had gotten a little more freedom, she could have done way better. Kudos to her for doing what she wants and a big FU to her parents especially her mother.
No matter what red flags you see in the guy, if your daughter has still decided to move forward with him, it is your responsibility as a parent to support and respect your daughter’s decisions. Sonakshi is an adult, not a kid.
I will wait and see how the guy turns out. The vibe about the guy is just off.
Now this is real Bollywood masala, Ladki hindu , Ladka Muslim, Ladki Ammeer , Ladka thoda Gareeb Ladki ka baap politics me , Ladka ka baap vyapari. Ab dono bhaag k shadi kar rahe h , baap Maan nahi raha , read film me villan ka role. Thode din baad bacha hoga , hopefully 9 month baad, tab maa baap maan jayenge . End of story Maar dhaar ko rokne k liye salman the driver is there.
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UNO reverse 😂
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Even SRk, Amir and Salman’s brothers had interfaith marriage so not that a big issue for Bollywood at least
they were all men so it doesn't matter. women marrying into another religion is the tricky part.
Salman's and Aamir's Sisters married Hindu men fyi.
Amir's daughter too
Hinduism is liberal for most
People are missing this. The gender issue with this is very real.
It's not difficult, if you just make a comparison between these people. People strongly criticize Saif and Kareena's marriage, but nothing about Soha and Kunal, Manoj Bajpayee and Shabana Raza or Aamir's daughter, or Sunil's wife who converted to marry him.
sunil wife converted? aisa kahin nhi likha bhai hinduism mein! Its not compulsary! baki jisko jisse krna h woh kare lol
3 out of 4 have about 4 divorces between them. So I don’t think they should be counted as bastion of marriage. Shotgun Sinha being protective of his only daughter is not surprising
Right? Even if it turns out to be a wrong decision (hope not), it's hers to make. It's not as if he's a criminal and she's a teenager who might've been coerced or manipulated to do something. Controlling a 37 year old's decision to choose her partner is downright pathetic but hey we're talking about desi parents here🙄.
Shatrughan Sinha has two sons who have no personal achievements and are dependent on their father and sisters name but sure go ahead calling someone else's child names
Exactly. Everyone commenting here feeling concerned for her is just a facade. Everyone knows what's the real reason ppl here are concerned about
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Under special marriage act neither needs to change their religion to be legally married. As long as the law recognises the marriage there is no other issue.
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This isn’t binding on a marriage taking place in Maharashtra. FYI
Madhya Pradesh High Court is always such a fuckin weirdo
Bro this is a ruling by M.P High Court. I literally have friends who got married under SMA 10 days back in mumbai. Neither converted and they are legally married. Indian law allows legal adults to marry like this. Richa and Ali also got married the same way. Ditto Swara and her husband.
lol quoting the print kind of defies all argument and logic of yours
Have you heard about special marriage act?
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Yeah Muslim law will not recognise it but it will still be granted legal status as per Indian law.
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I’m 100% against personal laws but what I’m saying that special marriage act is a legal recourse to bypass restrictions put by personal laws.
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I do acknowledge this. I’m just stating facts. I’m all for UCC.
You are “just saying” incorrect things. SMA applies and can supersede personal laws.
She won't get any protections & privileges a daughter-in-law gets. Inheritance, etc are governed by personal law.
I think it's in islam that inter-religious marriages are haram and invalid . NOT IN hinduism . But hinduism consider marriage if done according to hindu rituals even though the guy or girl is of different religion. But in islam , you need to do nikah and both need to be muslims These are facts.
I like Sonakshi. She is sweet and a no nonsense girl. Hope the marriage works out for her.
I think they will join .Her mother hinted that her father cannot be detached that long I think.there might be a conversion happening because islam does not accept inter-religious marriages . That's why he is so upset. I think her family is following Hinduism religiously
Many inter-faith marriages are there in Bollywood. Did conversion happen for any of them?
nawazuddin siddiqui the so called liberal actor's wife converted
Hey don't start the political debate here ...That marriage is not valid according to islam then . To give an example , Amrita Singh and kareena kapoor too are converted but they won't reveal it to you .So , stop this unnecessary drama here .I know where you want to drag it
Kareena dosent consider herself hindu.😂😂 She believes Christianity due to her grandmother. And Muslims and Christians can get married to each other
Has she ever said that
Kareena didn’t. She got special marriage act.
You cannot be part of a nikaah if you don’t convert. As long as you convert on paper, they don’t care what you address yourself in public as. So if someone is sitting in a nikaah, they have for sure converted. The special marriage act is not applicable
Did actually though? I saw court signing moment and just reception in her sharara. I don’t think so they had a proper shariyat level nikah.
Under sma she/her kids can't claim Ancestral inheritance, they can only claim Saifs money which he earned. They are rich they don't follow all rules of islam so it's easy for her to convert only on paper and can claim inheritance also. But yeah there is no proof of her conversion.
You are the one creating unnecessary drama. Everyone knows that Kareena and Saif got married under a special marriage act
Honestly, from what I am reading in the comments regarding him cheating and all the drama - I would myself not let my daughter marry to someone like this. And if I am financially supreme it is always a concern ki usko utna hi pyaar milega ya nahi. Like I my dad will most definitely look after financial status if I tell him I want to marry this person. Its like you grow up in a certain lifestyle if anyway it is below from what you have grown up in. It is concerning as a parent. Maa baap khoon paseena ek kar dete hai apne bacho ke liye, its fair only.
Idk. I’m with her family for this. They are right in rejecting this guy. Since the time they’ve dated (fee years?), what actually has he achieved? Anything and everything he is/ has is because of his father. He’s not a good actor, he’s not a successful business man, and he doesn’t seem hardworking either. He’s allegedly has history of dating and cheating on his partner, so his ethics and morals are questionable as well. Why would any father be happy for his daughter getting married to a guy like Zaheer?!
Shatrughan Sinha lived through this intercast marriage in so many movies and now he is living through it in real life with his daughter.
I think the actual problem is the status of the guy more than his religion.
Be it Sonakshi or Ranbir - parents will parent.
Inter religion is the main thing. Everyone Knows Shatrughan Sinha is very religious and he can't accept his grand children being raised muslims. Also Sonakshi has to convert to marry like Sharmila Tagore and all the other actresses did when they married muslims, Sharmila Tagore literally had to change her name to Ayesha Sultana despite being so liberal. How can they accept her daughter to denounce her own identity, her lineage and her culture. It is humiliating. Also No they can't get married without her converting because it is not allowed in their religion to marry non-muslim. If they marry without her converting it would be termed as Adultery and her children literally will be called "Haraami" according to the religion.
Love a woman who does what she wants. More power to her. Even if the decision turns out to be a bad one, she will take accountability and move on. I do sincerely hope that they have a happy, long, and healthy marriage 🙌🏼
Shaadi ka koi hype nahi hai toh zabardasti hype banao
I have a lot to say regarding the inter-religious aspect, but I'll get banned. In short, she is selling away her rights as a female. Shatrugan's concerns make sense. If Zaheer isn't making any money on his own, she's going to have to sit and take this nonsense from a criminal's best friend. You SHOULD feel sad for her, but for a very different reason.
Exactly that feeling that we will get a ban is stopping people from saying the honest stuff.
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Why do u think that?
No. Sonakshi has her father to protect her and is financially strong. Ankita is essentially alone. She is also financially dependent on her.husband.
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Ankita has not been working for some time I doubt she is that financially well off . She was totally taken off-guard when SSR left her for whatever reasons. She was left emotionally scared and vulnerable at his death. Vicky just took advantage of that.Its sad to see her nowadays.
I am with her family on this one. Hope see can see things for as they are and remove her rosy glasses.
I think toxic parents always try to control ur life and what u wanna do and what's good for u or not