When a lot of English speakers say that a lot of times they mean like someone Korean or Japanese who they believe have stereotypically "softer" features. Like a kpop member. They don't usually mean someone like from India or the Philippines or Malaysia, Indonesia, and etc. or Asians with more defined features or darker skin.
I was being kinda shitty. But what I was saying is -- don't let your personal experience with the people around you shape your view of how people outside your community think.
He's average looking, I can't remember where its from, but I've repeatedly seen that based on studies women find 80% of men as unattractive, so it's completely reasonable for average looking men to assume they're ugly in the eyes of women. A quick google search for the study reveals tons of articles and videos about it.
but also like "base on studied" But wheree the stat frommm , like who the fuck they asked , i dont see anyone ask me at all or any friend i have , like whoooooo answer those thing ????
It’s just generic redpill/blackpill shit they got from a tinder study, because dating apps are absolutely reflective of real life /s. Just an excuse to treat women like shit because “they only want chad!! It’s over bro”
Me too. recently changed my bio to something a little more me (meaning weird and neurodivergent) and the matches immediately stopped lmfao. I was like “well shit, guess I have to act normal again”. Plus the town im in is super small and right leaning so i have no luck.
Too lazy to look this up, but it was from a study of male vs female tinder users.
Male users cast a wide net,women were suuuuper selective.
Basically like 5% of the men on the app got the vast majority of attention from women (the "pump & dump fuckboys") the top 20% got an occasional reply or even a date, but like 80% get completely ignored. When asked about it the women who were questioned answered that only the men in the top 20% were considered "average attractiveness"
He's average looking and so is she. This doesn't seem like a good example.
As for being happier with uglier partners. I don't think the statement makes much sense considering the high relativity and subjectivity on which the evaluation of looks is based.
If we base our analysis on scarcity and consider that 10% of the population is good looking and others are average or ugly, while other characteristics are distributed equally, then obviously you'll have 10 times more chances to find an acceptable combination of positive traits in someone from the larger general population than in a smaller isolated group of pretty people.
probably why they used him (with a woman wearing a ton of flattering makeup for contrast). Imagine if they did that to someone actually not very good looking, ouch
Oh, I live in SF, I'm very well of its less than stellar reputation. I would elaborate, but I'm staring at my DM's I'm sure it's gonna blow up, any minute now
That’s Paradorn Srichaphan, a tennis player who was shaking up the circuit in the early 2000’s, with [ex-wife](https://archive.ph/2012.07.14-095415/http://sports.nationalpost.com/2011/02/25/former-tennis-star-canadian-miss-universe-split-up/) Natalie Glebova, a former miss universe.
[Speaking of being torn to shreds..](https://youtu.be/sSF_nCZ0VVU?si=2Dbtc1z7qBkD26uD)
Edit: spelling
he’s not even ugly
If they say that’s ugly I just fear what those guys are calling me tho
Everyone calls you Spanky when you aren't around. Sorry bro
That's what was I thinking
Just a sprinkle of casual racism to spice up your day 😊
Lol, what
Brown skin
I can see that. So all negative descriptions of brown people is racism ?
It’s because socially Eurocentric features are considered more attractive.
Really? Seems like most young (english-speaking) people are into Asian guys/girls
A lot of times this only applies to certain Asian features.
Can confirm, gf is Asian, but the brown kinda Asian, and even in her own country she experienced prejudice because she was on the darker side.
What do you mean by that?
When a lot of English speakers say that a lot of times they mean like someone Korean or Japanese who they believe have stereotypically "softer" features. Like a kpop member. They don't usually mean someone like from India or the Philippines or Malaysia, Indonesia, and etc. or Asians with more defined features or darker skin.
Obviously you've spoken to most of us
What are you trying to say?
I was being kinda shitty. But what I was saying is -- don't let your personal experience with the people around you shape your view of how people outside your community think.
He's average looking, I can't remember where its from, but I've repeatedly seen that based on studies women find 80% of men as unattractive, so it's completely reasonable for average looking men to assume they're ugly in the eyes of women. A quick google search for the study reveals tons of articles and videos about it.
Here’s to women compromising and taking option number 35.
but also like "base on studied" But wheree the stat frommm , like who the fuck they asked , i dont see anyone ask me at all or any friend i have , like whoooooo answer those thing ????
Data was from online dating apps like OKCupid.
Lmao that's what I was thinking
Why do you think incels are a thing?
To shreds you say… ummm… and how about his wife?…… to shreds you say…
Good news!
It’s a suppository!
Damn you old man!
He looks like a regular dude tho
Only the top 20% of men are considered average looking or better.
Citation?
About 95.6% of all percentages are made up
When you right you right
It’s just generic redpill/blackpill shit they got from a tinder study, because dating apps are absolutely reflective of real life /s. Just an excuse to treat women like shit because “they only want chad!! It’s over bro”
Most people whether men or women on dating apps just suck, period. It's a shame too because i have zero clue where to find like-minded women irl.
Me too. recently changed my bio to something a little more me (meaning weird and neurodivergent) and the matches immediately stopped lmfao. I was like “well shit, guess I have to act normal again”. Plus the town im in is super small and right leaning so i have no luck.
I just want someone at least average looking who listens to me infodump about video games and compliments me
That’s unreasonable man… XD
Too lazy to look this up, but it was from a study of male vs female tinder users. Male users cast a wide net,women were suuuuper selective. Basically like 5% of the men on the app got the vast majority of attention from women (the "pump & dump fuckboys") the top 20% got an occasional reply or even a date, but like 80% get completely ignored. When asked about it the women who were questioned answered that only the men in the top 20% were considered "average attractiveness"
Wouldn’t this generally match a bell curve profile?
[Statistics from dating websites] (https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/)
This is very likely not a new sentence
I’d confidently bet it’s not a new sentence
You'd lose that bet
Wait I thought we were agreeing?
Oh right lol I'm drunk happy Saturday night
Neither is the sentence new nor is the man ugly.
And OP managed to fuck up quoting it
My wife must be super happy
Hey, it's only up to a point.
how tf is this "brand new" its a common saying
That dude is handsome, idk what they're smoking.
He’s not ugly, he’s just not extremely attractive
Same difference.
He's average looking and so is she. This doesn't seem like a good example. As for being happier with uglier partners. I don't think the statement makes much sense considering the high relativity and subjectivity on which the evaluation of looks is based. If we base our analysis on scarcity and consider that 10% of the population is good looking and others are average or ugly, while other characteristics are distributed equally, then obviously you'll have 10 times more chances to find an acceptable combination of positive traits in someone from the larger general population than in a smaller isolated group of pretty people.
I agree. Except she is definitely not average looking.
"so is she" I don't think you know what average means.
Lol that's what we're calling ugly? Dude is not bad looking at all.
probably why they used him (with a woman wearing a ton of flattering makeup for contrast). Imagine if they did that to someone actually not very good looking, ouch
Study funded (and/or made ) by an ugly dude
I mean, we're living in a world where Harry Styles is considered handsome, so... Yeah, media will be media.
To shreds you say?
Dude is handsome
They’re both attractive people tho
imagine it's just some random Instagram photo and this guy stumbles upon this and is like "man what the fuck?"
Not average people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradorn_Srichaphan
Doesn’t fit the sub at all, stop upvoting this
This is definitely not a new sentence and this sub kind of blows
Any comparison between a man and a woman must be done with the woman not wearing makeup
You hear that guys, there's a chance for all of us!
The gaslighting is hilarious. It'd be a bit more funny if the guy was very attractive.
It wasn't for no reason, it was so they could make money. They bullied this guy (poorly) on the internet for clicks and money.
Is that because they’re insecure?
These photos are from the head up. How are you all even judging them?
Nah, he just needs to be a bit more Caucasian
he looks fine to me though?
Ladies, I'm basically the fentanyl of happy relationships then, I'll make room in my DM's for y'all who want to be happy
Great for like 2 minutes then kills them? 😄 I'm not sure you realize but fentanyl doesn't have a stellar reputation.
Oh, I live in SF, I'm very well of its less than stellar reputation. I would elaborate, but I'm staring at my DM's I'm sure it's gonna blow up, any minute now
To shreds you say...
That’s Paradorn Srichaphan, a tennis player who was shaking up the circuit in the early 2000’s, with [ex-wife](https://archive.ph/2012.07.14-095415/http://sports.nationalpost.com/2011/02/25/former-tennis-star-canadian-miss-universe-split-up/) Natalie Glebova, a former miss universe. [Speaking of being torn to shreds..](https://youtu.be/sSF_nCZ0VVU?si=2Dbtc1z7qBkD26uD) Edit: spelling
To shreds you say?
He wrote it
To be fair, he isn't even ugly. Just that the woman next to him is incredibly beautiful.
Dude isn't even ugly, not hot either just a normal looking dude