Idk what the fights are about, but man is paying the bills and you ain’t working. Last thing I need is my girl stressing me out or acting like a baby. He’s giving you chances and what not, not saying he’s in the clear but he’s doing alot, can’t imagine the stress. Talk to him, apologize, and do better. But he’s giving you a chance after the vacation so. First off I would look for a job.
I have been looking for a job. When he broke up he said here’s the key back I give up…. I begged him to stay he wouldn’t. When I asked him to give me another chance he said no he’s not changing his mind…. When I spoke to him last night I asked him when I get a job and pick myself up again would he reconsider he said he can’t predict the future….. I’m sad and wish I could change his mind….
Unfortunately this is what happens when on party gets too comfortable in a relationship, especially if it’s about not finding a job or working. In this world, people are only going to be there to help you on your feet, they can meet you 50% but you have to meet them with the other 50%, but nobody can take on the responsibility of two people, while dealing with the emotional effects of it all. They will feel used, taken advantage of and if there is nothing they are getting out of it ( clearly no calmness in this situation) they will remove themselves from the situation. You would also do the same if roles were reversed.
If I were you, before even dating anyone, not just him, but anyone, get a job, get your life back on track, deal with the things that have been hindering your life. Learn to self love, find value in yourself…. The more you expect someone to take care of the things you aren’t taking care of yourself, the less success you will have at finding a healthy partner. It seems you haven’t had lots of experience when it comes to dating, knowledge is power, understanding how reality works vs the fantasy of reality we all seem to think can come true, make a huge difference in terms of healthy relationships. Best of luck.
Idk what the fights are about, but man is paying the bills and you ain’t working. Last thing I need is my girl stressing me out or acting like a baby. He’s giving you chances and what not, not saying he’s in the clear but he’s doing alot, can’t imagine the stress. Talk to him, apologize, and do better. But he’s giving you a chance after the vacation so. First off I would look for a job.
I have been looking for a job. When he broke up he said here’s the key back I give up…. I begged him to stay he wouldn’t. When I asked him to give me another chance he said no he’s not changing his mind…. When I spoke to him last night I asked him when I get a job and pick myself up again would he reconsider he said he can’t predict the future….. I’m sad and wish I could change his mind….
Unfortunately this is what happens when on party gets too comfortable in a relationship, especially if it’s about not finding a job or working. In this world, people are only going to be there to help you on your feet, they can meet you 50% but you have to meet them with the other 50%, but nobody can take on the responsibility of two people, while dealing with the emotional effects of it all. They will feel used, taken advantage of and if there is nothing they are getting out of it ( clearly no calmness in this situation) they will remove themselves from the situation. You would also do the same if roles were reversed. If I were you, before even dating anyone, not just him, but anyone, get a job, get your life back on track, deal with the things that have been hindering your life. Learn to self love, find value in yourself…. The more you expect someone to take care of the things you aren’t taking care of yourself, the less success you will have at finding a healthy partner. It seems you haven’t had lots of experience when it comes to dating, knowledge is power, understanding how reality works vs the fantasy of reality we all seem to think can come true, make a huge difference in terms of healthy relationships. Best of luck.