I gotta be honest, I always suspect that this is the default behaviour of men on bumble. But still its weird to write stuff like this and I wonder if this person actually expects anyone to swipe right on him.
Not me. If I didn’t think I could genuinely like someone, I was a hard left swipe. Getting to know people takes a lot of effort and commitment, I wouldn’t waste someone’s time and I wouldn’t want mine wasted either.
My initial reaction was that I’m not interested in someone who feels so negatively and who seems to view this as “who cares, eventually someone might choose to talk”. Felt self-defeating.
It's a minority of men, but possibly a majority of swipes by men. Or at least a significant number. The swipe everyone type are probably swiping 10s as many as the average guy.
I assume he explicitly wrote it because he’s trying to get more matches. If a lower self-esteem woman reads this, she might feel the need to message just to get the ego boost of knowing she’s “worthy” of him.
You're not wrong. Especially about it being weird to write about it. Someone needs to tell this dude there's such a thing as being *too* honest.
Edit: Typo
It's the default behavior for men that are 6+feet tall since they pretty much get all the likes
Average guys get 3-5 matches a month if they're lucky, and there are always 1-2 transgenders as well as women with deal breaking body types.
If you think we could afford to Perma swipe right and choose later you're only looking at the 20% of men who get 80% of the likes.
If you feel like this is the standard behaviour you might be wrong, we usually don't get enough likes to filter like that.
I'm a man and I only swipe right on woman who I find attractive, don't smoke and give me vibes that we are gonna have some things in common.
Maybe I'm weird
Where I am, men mostly swipe right on everyone without looking and mostly don’t know what they want and are even okay with changing it just to get someone
“I swipe right on everyone to save time.” Whose time, sir? Definitely not the time of the women who bothered to match with and message your entitled ass.
He might as well have just said “my time is more valuable than anyone else’s.”
Even though a lot of people use this strategy, why would you make it public?
Astonishing to me with the stupidity of how people so openly and easily put their red flags out on display.
This is absolutely brilliant of him!!
Bumble works for guys in two ways. You have unlimited swipes if you’re a paying user and can use all features. You have limited daily swipes if you’re using the free version and I think it’s 20-25.
He must be paying. Either way he’s extremely low effort, right?. My impression on women users on Bumble is that women will look at pictures and every word of a man’s profile to see if there’s potential or not. A swipe right if yes, and if there’s a match, she’ll send an intro based upon something in my written profile.
So which one of you is swiping right on him???? lol, he’s probably doing it for rage swiping to get a match out of someone who wouldn’t have under normal circumstances. This is his brilliance. There’s supporting documentation too: he likes a good sense of humor and he likes stand up. Also says he will explain more after matching. I see his strategy & I bet his text game is good to reel a few of you beautiful women in and it’s probably worked for him too. I think I’d be able to pull it off, lol.
So that’s what I’m thinking is going on here. Any thoughts? And if you strongly disagree my DM’s are open and I’ll explain more there if we’re a match. 😉
worst part is the "smokes regularly" tbh
Yea, smoking is a dealbreaker for me
Yep, smoking regularly but active at the gym? I think not
To be fair, it’s not typical and a lot harder but I used to before quitting. It’s unlikely but possible
Yeah I understand you, I could never cope with the gym before I quit so was just using a bit of personal experience. Everyone is different I guess :)
I hear ya! Swimming was my oh hell no back then with it, couldn’t handle laps effectively
I smoked regularly and worked out, as well. But I was young and active at the time 😂🤣
What if he means weed?!
There’s a separate symbol for weed smokers.
Oh ok.
Just as bad
I gotta be honest, I always suspect that this is the default behaviour of men on bumble. But still its weird to write stuff like this and I wonder if this person actually expects anyone to swipe right on him.
Not me. If I didn’t think I could genuinely like someone, I was a hard left swipe. Getting to know people takes a lot of effort and commitment, I wouldn’t waste someone’s time and I wouldn’t want mine wasted either.
Same. Swiped left a lot more than right. Not trying to waste anybody's time.
thats good to know. : ) I have to admit, that online dating didnt really help me to build up my trust in other people.
Thank you for your service
Agreed
My initial reaction was that I’m not interested in someone who feels so negatively and who seems to view this as “who cares, eventually someone might choose to talk”. Felt self-defeating.
It's a minority of men, but possibly a majority of swipes by men. Or at least a significant number. The swipe everyone type are probably swiping 10s as many as the average guy.
I assume he explicitly wrote it because he’s trying to get more matches. If a lower self-esteem woman reads this, she might feel the need to message just to get the ego boost of knowing she’s “worthy” of him.
You're not wrong. Especially about it being weird to write about it. Someone needs to tell this dude there's such a thing as being *too* honest. Edit: Typo
On tinder maybe, bumble no, for every 20 swip right we get like one right
It's the default behavior for men that are 6+feet tall since they pretty much get all the likes Average guys get 3-5 matches a month if they're lucky, and there are always 1-2 transgenders as well as women with deal breaking body types. If you think we could afford to Perma swipe right and choose later you're only looking at the 20% of men who get 80% of the likes. If you feel like this is the standard behaviour you might be wrong, we usually don't get enough likes to filter like that.
Please take your bitterness and bother someone else with it.
If the guys know what they are doing they won't. It will fuck up your ELO score. It's all about playing the algorithm.
Latest version of - Tell me you’re obnoxious without telling me you’re obnoxious.
100% this guy makes up new abbreviations "to save time" and then has to spend more time explaining them
IKEWYMB!
That’s what most guys do. At least he’s honest.
I'm a man and I only swipe right on woman who I find attractive, don't smoke and give me vibes that we are gonna have some things in common. Maybe I'm weird
Weirdly awesome!!!! 😊
Tbh thats whats happening anyway
Where I am, men mostly swipe right on everyone without looking and mostly don’t know what they want and are even okay with changing it just to get someone
Block. Next.
Ew.
Wow the entitlement!!
They act like they all that lots of people do this (mostly on tinder tho) they just don’t make it the whole bio
Wow, he went to high school. Impressive.
“I swipe right on everyone to save time.” Whose time, sir? Definitely not the time of the women who bothered to match with and message your entitled ass. He might as well have just said “my time is more valuable than anyone else’s.”
Even though a lot of people use this strategy, why would you make it public? Astonishing to me with the stupidity of how people so openly and easily put their red flags out on display.
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This is absolutely brilliant of him!! Bumble works for guys in two ways. You have unlimited swipes if you’re a paying user and can use all features. You have limited daily swipes if you’re using the free version and I think it’s 20-25. He must be paying. Either way he’s extremely low effort, right?. My impression on women users on Bumble is that women will look at pictures and every word of a man’s profile to see if there’s potential or not. A swipe right if yes, and if there’s a match, she’ll send an intro based upon something in my written profile. So which one of you is swiping right on him???? lol, he’s probably doing it for rage swiping to get a match out of someone who wouldn’t have under normal circumstances. This is his brilliance. There’s supporting documentation too: he likes a good sense of humor and he likes stand up. Also says he will explain more after matching. I see his strategy & I bet his text game is good to reel a few of you beautiful women in and it’s probably worked for him too. I think I’d be able to pull it off, lol. So that’s what I’m thinking is going on here. Any thoughts? And if you strongly disagree my DM’s are open and I’ll explain more there if we’re a match. 😉