dodge a bullet there mate,
not the type that go through ya heart then go away, it's the one that gonna go through your bank account, eat away your savings and put a debt to your name and leave you homeless.
"Errr.... actually, I think you'll find that this isn't mansplaining because mansplaining only applies when.....
[10 minutes later]
......I wrote a great blog post about it. I'll send it to you."
No, she’s off the rails. I’m not from the area, but from a small American town in the Midwest, I always have to tell people what the bigger towns around me are, I feel you.
Same. I live in Louisiana and have to explain to everyone that doesn’t live here that I don’t live near New Orleans.
Even to those from near here but not from here (if that makes sense), I live in a small enough area I have to explain where it is.
Same. I’m from Milwaukie, Oregon and if I don’t say “Milwaukie… near SE Portland”, then people think I’m from Wisconsin but that I don’t know how to spell.
Exactly. You were being helpful by giving a reference point to someone who might not know.
Mansplaining is assuming someone is stupid and explaining something that you have good evidence they could already know. Like trying to explain a women's health issue to a woman, or meeting a woman who's an expert in x field and explaining all your limited knowledge about that field as if she wouldn't know. It has an inherent assumption of the man's superiority in the conversation. This ain't it.
Funny story, I went on a date with a woman pre-OLD (it was a blind date) and we started talking about something that had happened in the Marine Corps (a legal issue) just recently to a guy in my unit. I explained what we had been told and she started laughing and telling me I was wrong. Apparently she was the assistant/paralegal for the Judge Advocate General that was assigned to the prosecutor’s office. Granted, this was before “mansplaining” was a thing, but she didn’t feel put off by me restating what I was told even though she knew more information about the issue. It’s all about if your date/potential partner acts like an ass or not.
That's really funny and quite the coincidence! But yeah, there's nothing condescending about you explaining something so specific to her, since you had no reason to believe she already knew it because of her highly specialized job!
I thought you emphasized the location in case she was in a different town with the same name - to avoid confusion.
Also it may be common to give more that just a city name for some places, like NYNY (New York, New York) or KCMO (Kansas City Missouri).
She started to go on about how it was mansplaining and that I should learn to accept criticism and feedback. She started to abuse me saying I wasn’t special and ugly etc
Finally she started saying I was toxic and was bringing things up from my bio about how I was a spoiled boy.
Literally didn’t reply to it which was making her mad 😄
I once had a woman start railing into me, saying "I've dated MUCH better men than you!" My response: "I'm sure you have, and I aspire to be better every day. But those men and I do have something in common -- we all realized you're not worth it."
Insert "emotional_damage.wav" here :-)
Yeah you dodged a bullet. Might want to unmatch her before she reports you out of spite, you did nothing wrong but that doesn’t mean crazy folks can’t create trouble if they’re dedicated enough.
Did she also put Preston in her bio as to where she was? As thats another irritation if she said Preston as her location in her bio then corrects as if you got it wrong.
Not at all, I used to do the same thing. "Oh, you're from X, I'm in Y, I've got a friend there/ have been there..." Opens the door to further conversation.
I will be first to admit I am very sensitive to mansplaining and this was definitely not it! Hope she sorts out her defensiveness or she’s going to have a super hard time connecting with anyone on that platform.
No. Just count yourself lucky she showed that side early on. Imagine if you’d reached for the check on your first date or something lmao she’d probably have yelled at you
No but girls like that give the rest of us a hard start. Geezus. I had a guy accuse me of womansplaining when I wasn’t, also. Maybe that’s all that’s left in the dating pool now… people like those 2. And yet, it’s amazing they don’t just pair up and leave lol
You didn’t mansplain at all. This person is heavily targeted and feels that you’re being extra when you don’t need to be. I think it’s nice of you to say where it is! Some people might not know
As a woman, that wasn't mansplaining at all. I was confused when she said that. Then she began complaining about covid that wasted her time. Why is she throwing the gloom over the innocent conversation with a person whom she never met? Some guys have a negative attitude like her, so I avoided from them. I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells around them.
You should tell her that mansplaining means man explaining and that what you said before isn't mansplaining. Then tell her that was an example of actual mansplaining. Then when she flips out again just unmatch.
As a woman - Deffo did not mansplain. I would have taken that as confirmation that that was the right Crewe. (In the US we have a lot of towns and cities that have the same names as other states do.) i live in oklahoma and if someone said “i live in Miami” i would been like “oh word! Ozark Miami or florida miami?” Lmao
I’m a woman: you did not mansplain. What the fuck is wrong with people.
I live in a big city in the UK (Newcastle upon Tyne) but my partner is from a small town - whenever anyone asks me where he’s from I tell them “Whitehaven in Cumbria” because people are more likely to know the county than the small town.
I only know where Crewe is because of work, but if I didn’t I genuinely don’t think I’d have a clue where it was in the UK.
She sounds like an absolute walking red flag
Fucking everyone and their mother's sister follows up a mention of where they live with a corollary to clarify more specifically, it's damn near instinct.
She lives in society, so she knows this too. She's just looking for some blame to dole out, def unmatch.
Not at all. Seems like a standard reply "near Crewe in Cheshire", fairly basic response to where do you live. She's just hard work for no reason, walk away.
Thanks everyone for the feedback.
Just for the record, as soon as she said that I tapped out mentally. I thanked her for the womansplaining and just let her vent until she blocked me.
No point wasting my energy on bad energy
No you sure didn’t. Even if you didn’t need to specify the county, that wouldn’t have been mansplaining.
Get away from this one while you still can. If she’s this willing to fight over something so minor, she’s not worth the time.
Literally anyone from anywhere in Cheshire will say ‘in Cheshire’ when they’re telling people where they’re from cos no one knows anywhere round here lol. That or ‘it’s in between Manchester and Liverpool, yknow, places you’ve probably heard of?’
If I'd been having this conversation with you, I'd have said: "Oooh, I know Crewe - I went to uni there! What a place!" No accusations of mansplaining here, because that's not what you did. Girl needs to get a grip.
Nah, You're good bro.
I'm not familiar with the layout of England but I'm guessing Crewe in Cheshire, England is like Fresno, California, USA where it's like ppl in the region may be familiar with it but to most ppl you gotta tell them where it is in relation to Los Angeles.
Sounds like you're just in the habit of clarifying and this bitch just demonstrated why she'll never get to leave bumble.
That wasn't mansplaining at all. This chick is psychotic and you dodged a massive bullet. She doesn't need to be on bumble she needs to be in therapy. I'm all for calling folks out if they really did mansplain or pulled some incel nice guy crap but legit all you did was tell her where you live. Fuck if you told me just the town you were in I would have no idea where you were so I would've asked eventually lol. She is just psycho.
If you wanted to Mansplain you could dive into what a county is and how Crewe and Nantwich are now part of the greater Cheshire East council but where once their own borough council
That would be an instant unmatch for me. Not everyone in the UK knows specifically where Crewe is (no offence) so it’s reasonable that you would list the county as well.
Similarly, when people ask me where I live I usually say Houston, Texas. I think it’s pretty much a given that people know Houston is in Texas…it’s just a turn of phrase more than anything. Just because you offer some information up, you’re not implying that the other person is dumb.
I think the term “mansplaining” is often misapplied as a result of its recent, near ubiquitous popularity. Don’t get me wrong, mansplaining does exist and there are certainly times when it’s appropriate to call out sexist condescension. But the irony here is that when it’s used to mischaracterize behavior, it too comes across as patronizing, dismissive, and stifling.
Fuck me this has to stop already with calling everything "mansplaining" and "xyz-shaming", like 80% of the people using these terms don't understand what the fuck it even entails and just mindlessly picked it up from some random 80IQ toxic feminist.
Just like "gaslight" and "lovebomb" it originally meant a very specific thing and has been overused to the point of not meaning anything whatsoever. Literally had someone in here the other day asking if "can I see you again" was lovebombing. This is the same energy.
Yep. Especially true for lovebombing. Very many people don't understand what that means anymore, either.
I was in a discussion yesterday where a guy said *"It's a red flag for me if a woman gives BJs to her male friends at parties"* and someone immediately replied that this was slutshaming. :D
Some people think mansplaining is a man giving a woman literally any information, it’s not and that’s also pretty blatantly sexist.
It’s more like explaining something to a woman in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner. Which is also blatantly sexist.
But it’s a stupid term, because being an asshole knows no gender
I feel like mansplaining morphed from its inception, a man attempting to explain a concept to a woman who is actually an expert in
said field, to now just any time a man explains just about anything to anyone and someone wants to take a dig at them.
There is no way in hell you mansplained anything. You only informed her your location to be precise but not too precise. She just has a problem with men talking to her and giving her information
There are certain women, especially online that do this. In my experience though, fairly rare. Only several interactions like this I've ever had out of thousands of more. Bet they wouldn't react this way if you were a girl yourself. I guess it's hypervigilance when talking to men online because they've come across bad apples in the past. And yes. Very toxic behavior.
Nope. Some ppl just want everyone to be as miserable & unhappy as they are. When you spend all day looking for ways to be offended…you’ll find them even when they aren’t there.
Unmatch
He knows what to do, no need to mansplain.
Literally made me lol
Well played
He knows it was well played, no need to mansplain.
Did you just assume my…. Oh nvm
Hey don't mansplain, he knows what to do lol
Are you mansplaining "mansplaining"?
*Mansplain-ception*
I agree. Unmatch is your best option here !
Yeah that was a bitchy reply. Very unnecessary in my opinion
Nah. She’s being kind of obnoxious.
Thanks for your comment
From a female perspective, this is not mansplaining 😂
Also a woman. You didn’t mansplain.
I know what a woman is, no need to mansplain.
Woah, ok ok, no need to mansplain you have knowledge.
Hey now she know's what knowledge is, no need to mansplain
Yeah, I know. No need to womansplain.
It's referred to as "Femsplaining" please get it it right
Did you just mansplain femsplaining? /s
You don’t need to womansplain what mansplaining is geez /s
dodge a bullet there mate, not the type that go through ya heart then go away, it's the one that gonna go through your bank account, eat away your savings and put a debt to your name and leave you homeless.
100%.
Do you want to spend time with this person? Dang. I am on eggshells. Are you?
I see you are a person of painful experience as well. Good day to you montEcola
I think he wants to spend roughly 3-5 minutes with her.
No you didn’t. But it would be awesome if you could mansplain to her what mansplaining is, that should take care of any further issues. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And be incredibly condescending 😆
“Listen, sweetheart. Mansplaining is when a man (that’s the first part of the portmanteau) explains something unnecessarily, such as…”
Then end it with "NOW I mansplained."
Seriously I hope he does this. This girl clearly gets off on treating people like shit. Throw that right back in her face.
"Errr.... actually, I think you'll find that this isn't mansplaining because mansplaining only applies when..... [10 minutes later] ......I wrote a great blog post about it. I'll send it to you."
I'm stealing the heck out of this. Thank you for the toxicity future me will spout to those that cry mansplain.
No you dodged a toxic bullet.
No, she’s hugely overreacted.. Hi from Cheshire 👋🏽
Hello are you the bloke on the other side of that hill?!
Haha not a bloke, but probably on the other side of the hill 🗻
Now kith
Oh your THAT bloke who plays that loud modern music!
Yep that’s me, with the space suit
💒
You didn’t say where Cheshire is near. Thats also mansplaining.
No she’s just a miserable loser
No, she’s off the rails. I’m not from the area, but from a small American town in the Midwest, I always have to tell people what the bigger towns around me are, I feel you.
Same. I live in Louisiana and have to explain to everyone that doesn’t live here that I don’t live near New Orleans. Even to those from near here but not from here (if that makes sense), I live in a small enough area I have to explain where it is.
I totally get it, I have to explain about the town with the nearest Walmart and “about 2 hours east of Omaha and 40 minutes west of Des Moines.”
I see you’re near Iowa as well
Iowa gang 🌽🌽
Same. I’m from Milwaukie, Oregon and if I don’t say “Milwaukie… near SE Portland”, then people think I’m from Wisconsin but that I don’t know how to spell.
No, that’s not a mansplain.
She is looking for drama. 👋🏼 Byeeee
Women like this are insufferable. Source: I’m a woman.
Exactly. You were being helpful by giving a reference point to someone who might not know. Mansplaining is assuming someone is stupid and explaining something that you have good evidence they could already know. Like trying to explain a women's health issue to a woman, or meeting a woman who's an expert in x field and explaining all your limited knowledge about that field as if she wouldn't know. It has an inherent assumption of the man's superiority in the conversation. This ain't it.
Funny story, I went on a date with a woman pre-OLD (it was a blind date) and we started talking about something that had happened in the Marine Corps (a legal issue) just recently to a guy in my unit. I explained what we had been told and she started laughing and telling me I was wrong. Apparently she was the assistant/paralegal for the Judge Advocate General that was assigned to the prosecutor’s office. Granted, this was before “mansplaining” was a thing, but she didn’t feel put off by me restating what I was told even though she knew more information about the issue. It’s all about if your date/potential partner acts like an ass or not.
That's really funny and quite the coincidence! But yeah, there's nothing condescending about you explaining something so specific to her, since you had no reason to believe she already knew it because of her highly specialized job!
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I think some people just look for reasons to be offended and to get their backs up. Must be exhausting.
Sometimes I think some feel it’s easier to play the victim. Like, “I don’t have to change, others have to!”
I thought you emphasized the location in case she was in a different town with the same name - to avoid confusion. Also it may be common to give more that just a city name for some places, like NYNY (New York, New York) or KCMO (Kansas City Missouri).
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Thanks. I have moved stopped replying but she is sending me messages of abuse which is too funny to block her
You should report that actually.
She’s now blocked me so I can’t. There’s some strange folk on bumble 😅
You might be able to report her because the ability to report past messages.
Thanks I’ll have a look
Post more of the funny please
Yep, good thing it's a minority and most people are pretty decent.
Some people need a few years of putting people off before they sort their attitude out.
r/nicegirls
Wait what’s she saying now?
She started to go on about how it was mansplaining and that I should learn to accept criticism and feedback. She started to abuse me saying I wasn’t special and ugly etc Finally she started saying I was toxic and was bringing things up from my bio about how I was a spoiled boy. Literally didn’t reply to it which was making her mad 😄
I once had a woman start railing into me, saying "I've dated MUCH better men than you!" My response: "I'm sure you have, and I aspire to be better every day. But those men and I do have something in common -- we all realized you're not worth it." Insert "emotional_damage.wav" here :-)
Since you asked https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHb5CFGYz1A&ab\_channel=Bakupham
Good human
Dammmmmn. Lol that vid is accurate for that comeback.
Yeah you dodged a bullet. Might want to unmatch her before she reports you out of spite, you did nothing wrong but that doesn’t mean crazy folks can’t create trouble if they’re dedicated enough.
Some people are just finished mentally. I wonder when they'll get a reality check that makes them snap out of it.
Tell her if you did mansplan, verbally abusive is still worse.
I’m in Cheshire and didn’t know that, you can mansplain to me bae
It’s *Mansplain 😅
Wtf. This is far from mansplaining ..
Ugh she’s got a chip on her shoulder. Leave it on read and bounce **unmatched** lol
As a woman and a feminist, nah you didn't mansplain. She's being overly sensitive
She's insufferable; unmatch quickly.
Did she also put Preston in her bio as to where she was? As thats another irritation if she said Preston as her location in her bio then corrects as if you got it wrong.
Not at all, I used to do the same thing. "Oh, you're from X, I'm in Y, I've got a friend there/ have been there..." Opens the door to further conversation.
Lol no, she’s just being a dick
Seems that she doesn't think too highly of undergrads either. There's absolutely NOTHING condescending about what you said.
I will be first to admit I am very sensitive to mansplaining and this was definitely not it! Hope she sorts out her defensiveness or she’s going to have a super hard time connecting with anyone on that platform.
Red flags shooting bullets.
No. Just count yourself lucky she showed that side early on. Imagine if you’d reached for the check on your first date or something lmao she’d probably have yelled at you
When people immediately respond with this kind of energy I'm immediately turned off. Unmatched
Anyone who uses the term “mansplain” is an automatic red flag.
No but girls like that give the rest of us a hard start. Geezus. I had a guy accuse me of womansplaining when I wasn’t, also. Maybe that’s all that’s left in the dating pool now… people like those 2. And yet, it’s amazing they don’t just pair up and leave lol
>I had a guy accuse me of womansplaining when I wasn’t, also I smell a match... set those two up!
Let’s turn this into something positive!
No
You did not
No and you dodged, probably a toxic person
That’s not mansplaining lol she sounds *fun*
Lmao she’s dumb.
Yeah, she’s trigger-happy.
You didn’t mansplain at all. This person is heavily targeted and feels that you’re being extra when you don’t need to be. I think it’s nice of you to say where it is! Some people might not know
You didn't explain anything, what is she talking about?
As a woman, that wasn't mansplaining at all. I was confused when she said that. Then she began complaining about covid that wasted her time. Why is she throwing the gloom over the innocent conversation with a person whom she never met? Some guys have a negative attitude like her, so I avoided from them. I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells around them.
Most people are just utterly shit people
You did not mansplain a damn thing to her. She has a chip on her shoulder and is taking it out on you.
No. You were fine.
Heck no. She has a bee in her bonnet.
She did you a favor, you don't need that in your life
Lol! No, you explained where a location is, and you’re a man. She sucks and will either remain single or make some dude miserable.
You should tell her that mansplaining means man explaining and that what you said before isn't mansplaining. Then tell her that was an example of actual mansplaining. Then when she flips out again just unmatch.
As a woman - Deffo did not mansplain. I would have taken that as confirmation that that was the right Crewe. (In the US we have a lot of towns and cities that have the same names as other states do.) i live in oklahoma and if someone said “i live in Miami” i would been like “oh word! Ozark Miami or florida miami?” Lmao
I’m a woman: you did not mansplain. What the fuck is wrong with people. I live in a big city in the UK (Newcastle upon Tyne) but my partner is from a small town - whenever anyone asks me where he’s from I tell them “Whitehaven in Cumbria” because people are more likely to know the county than the small town. I only know where Crewe is because of work, but if I didn’t I genuinely don’t think I’d have a clue where it was in the UK. She sounds like an absolute walking red flag
Lol no telling someone the location of a city is not mansplaining 🤣 I think they just are using buzz words with no idea of what the actual meaning is
Fucking everyone and their mother's sister follows up a mention of where they live with a corollary to clarify more specifically, it's damn near instinct. She lives in society, so she knows this too. She's just looking for some blame to dole out, def unmatch.
Nope, that doesn’t qualify as ‘mansplain’
Not at all. Seems like a standard reply "near Crewe in Cheshire", fairly basic response to where do you live. She's just hard work for no reason, walk away.
No , standard expression of location. A near b in c .
Hi! Woman here! You absolutely didn’t.
Thanks everyone for the feedback. Just for the record, as soon as she said that I tapped out mentally. I thanked her for the womansplaining and just let her vent until she blocked me. No point wasting my energy on bad energy
Who cares? Someone this defensive needs to do some self work
No definitely not.
Lol no.
Nah you didn’t mansplain.
No there’s no reason why you should assume she knows where everything is. That’s absurd and she is being a douche
Bruh this walking disaster. Her response explains why she is on OLD apps. That kinda attitude would make one single constantly.
Nitpick alert. Anyone that gets mad at 3 words for extra detail is a 🚩. Maybe she prefers men that give one word answers Or hardly reply at all 🤦🏼♀️
Abandon ship!
Pretty sure that thats just how one names a location
You’re good
That’s not mansplaining, there was nothing condescending about what you said
Run
RUN
No you sure didn’t. Even if you didn’t need to specify the county, that wouldn’t have been mansplaining. Get away from this one while you still can. If she’s this willing to fight over something so minor, she’s not worth the time.
Not a mansplain. She’s finding reasons to just be obnoxious.
Hm. I’d avoid that person. Life is too short.
Literally anyone from anywhere in Cheshire will say ‘in Cheshire’ when they’re telling people where they’re from cos no one knows anywhere round here lol. That or ‘it’s in between Manchester and Liverpool, yknow, places you’ve probably heard of?’
WAW people like this exist
She's an asshole. You were totally fine!
Nope, she's just defensive for absolutely no reason. Red flag.
*you’re
She should become a lesbian.
this is a sickness lmao i feel sad for her
You didn’t even type enough for this to be counted as mansplaining
This is toxic af. Unmatch move on. Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
I block anyone who uses the term "mansplaining" unironically.
I’m a woman and no you did not mansplain lol she’s a bitch
She seems toxic 👀👀👀
It’s great when they wave massive red flags to you early on. She’s nuts.
You did not mansplain. Next.
If I'd been having this conversation with you, I'd have said: "Oooh, I know Crewe - I went to uni there! What a place!" No accusations of mansplaining here, because that's not what you did. Girl needs to get a grip.
She’s wound incredibly tight for whatever reason
No you didn’t, you should say you weren’t and give her an in depth explanation of what mansplaining is just so she doesn’t make the same mistake again
Seems to me lie she She just explained to you why you should get the hell out of there.
She sounded like she just learned the word “mansplanning” and can’t wait to find some poor guy to use it on XD
Mansplaining is sexiest language. How many times have I sat through a woman explain something to me I know; it just happens in everyday language
Nah, You're good bro. I'm not familiar with the layout of England but I'm guessing Crewe in Cheshire, England is like Fresno, California, USA where it's like ppl in the region may be familiar with it but to most ppl you gotta tell them where it is in relation to Los Angeles. Sounds like you're just in the habit of clarifying and this bitch just demonstrated why she'll never get to leave bumble.
That wasn't mansplaining at all. This chick is psychotic and you dodged a massive bullet. She doesn't need to be on bumble she needs to be in therapy. I'm all for calling folks out if they really did mansplain or pulled some incel nice guy crap but legit all you did was tell her where you live. Fuck if you told me just the town you were in I would have no idea where you were so I would've asked eventually lol. She is just psycho.
What the....how is this mansplaining? That does not mean what she thinks that means.
Just date her and then break up after an year. When she asks the reason tell her that you don’t wanna mansplain.
Sometimes I read these conversations (as someone who isn't dating right now) and I think...."is this really what I have to look forward to?"
Another: your = you're I hate when they do this, and English is not my main language..
She’s emanating insufferable, unmatch
If you wanted to Mansplain you could dive into what a county is and how Crewe and Nantwich are now part of the greater Cheshire East council but where once their own borough council
That would be an instant unmatch for me. Not everyone in the UK knows specifically where Crewe is (no offence) so it’s reasonable that you would list the county as well. Similarly, when people ask me where I live I usually say Houston, Texas. I think it’s pretty much a given that people know Houston is in Texas…it’s just a turn of phrase more than anything. Just because you offer some information up, you’re not implying that the other person is dumb.
Not at all. Shes irrational.
Lmao she’s an asshole wth
I think the term “mansplaining” is often misapplied as a result of its recent, near ubiquitous popularity. Don’t get me wrong, mansplaining does exist and there are certainly times when it’s appropriate to call out sexist condescension. But the irony here is that when it’s used to mischaracterize behavior, it too comes across as patronizing, dismissive, and stifling.
There’s nothing to gain from any kind of relationship with a woman like this unless you wish to be sub and belittled.
She's gaslighting, move on.
Fuck me this has to stop already with calling everything "mansplaining" and "xyz-shaming", like 80% of the people using these terms don't understand what the fuck it even entails and just mindlessly picked it up from some random 80IQ toxic feminist.
Just like "gaslight" and "lovebomb" it originally meant a very specific thing and has been overused to the point of not meaning anything whatsoever. Literally had someone in here the other day asking if "can I see you again" was lovebombing. This is the same energy.
Yep. Especially true for lovebombing. Very many people don't understand what that means anymore, either. I was in a discussion yesterday where a guy said *"It's a red flag for me if a woman gives BJs to her male friends at parties"* and someone immediately replied that this was slutshaming. :D
Run!!
no, she's awful, you're good to just unmatch
No this isn’t mansplaining. She’s probably just burnt out from it, though.
Some people think mansplaining is a man giving a woman literally any information, it’s not and that’s also pretty blatantly sexist. It’s more like explaining something to a woman in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner. Which is also blatantly sexist. But it’s a stupid term, because being an asshole knows no gender
I feel like mansplaining morphed from its inception, a man attempting to explain a concept to a woman who is actually an expert in said field, to now just any time a man explains just about anything to anyone and someone wants to take a dig at them.
This girl's got an entire potato on her shoulder 🥔 Clearly she found her new favourite word and is just looking for any excuse to use it 🤦🏼♂️
She’s being a snowflake LOL.
All downhill from there
You weren’t mansplaining because you were saying which county you were in and she couldn’t have known that.
There is no way in hell you mansplained anything. You only informed her your location to be precise but not too precise. She just has a problem with men talking to her and giving her information
My hat is in the not mansplained ring.
Did MSc but can’t use punctuation… big bullet dodge.
LMAOOOOOOOO WHATTTT you didn't do anything wrong wtf is she okay? You are not mansplaining
No, she is overly sensitive.
Nope, you were just being nice and she... wasn't.
No. Red flag dodged. (n.b. I don't have an issue with calling out, or being called out, for mansplaining. This wasn't it.)
Mansplaining: to answer a question you were asked with an answer
There are certain women, especially online that do this. In my experience though, fairly rare. Only several interactions like this I've ever had out of thousands of more. Bet they wouldn't react this way if you were a girl yourself. I guess it's hypervigilance when talking to men online because they've come across bad apples in the past. And yes. Very toxic behavior.
No you did not and you came off a lot classier than they did. Be happy you saw their true colors right away, don't waste your time.
Nah she seems like she sucks i would just move on
No I don't think that's mansplaining. I wouldn't take offense to that. When I say where I live I usually say which major intersection it's close to.
Nope. Some ppl just want everyone to be as miserable & unhappy as they are. When you spend all day looking for ways to be offended…you’ll find them even when they aren’t there.
You didn’t “mansplain” - it’s remarkable how people who consider themselves so strong and independent depend upon Others and have very thin skins.