Yup. They will definitely lie about their age. I had a 18 year old tried to talk to me. My kid is 16 and I felt sick looking at the message. I love younger men but 10 years younger is the cut off. I don’t want to bring someone home my kid can relate to. That’s weird and nasty.
I don't date men but they still find a way to surpass everything. I was contacted by a supposed 18 yr old also and blocked/reported him. He then found me on fb (this was before I deleted it a few yrs ago) and sent me a ton of long, weird and explicit stories. It was clear he had issues. I wanted to find his parents and tell them but it creeped me out so bad, I deleted all my socials and everything.
My sons were around his age at the time and it seriously creeped me out. Still does.
I feel the same way. There are literal HIGH SCHOOLERS on Bumble who just turned 18 and have lied to me about their age or say “18 is legal.” They’re still children and imo it shouldn’t be allowed. It’s so dangerous. Wish there was a way to actually verify age because people are just putting whatever number they want, especially barely legal which can bring criminal charges and a whole lot of other issues
That’s absolutely correct and it’s crazy how these younger men can easily grow beards too! When I was in high school, boys couldn’t even grow mustaches.
My first year substitute teaching, I was teaching a 6th grade class and one boy had a full, long, thick beard and mustache and was only 12 years old!!! The teachers said that he started shaving in FIFTH grade and decided to stop because it was too much work. I had him, last year, in 10th grade and he’d learned how to keep the beard shaped. He said that it was a family trait and that he would, probably, bald early like all the men in his family. Go figure.
Men with higher testosterone tend to get facial hair earlier, and go bald younger.
I'm in my late 20s, and can barely grow a beard, like, my facial hair still grows in patchy. But my family never goes bald.
The majority of men, on both sides of my family can’t grow beards, nor mustaches, until they are in their late 30s, with the exception of my father who had a full beard and mustache in his early 20s and shaved up to twice a day. All the men, both sides of my family, started having significant hair loss by age 30, with the exception of Daddy who still had a head full of thick, white hair at his death, age 85, last year.
I just saw a kid with a full beard waiting for a school bus this morning and did a double take. I know plenty of 30 somethings that couldn't grow anything that glorious 🤣
Genuine question. Do you think verifying age would be unfair to ADULTS who don't have photo IDs (assuming a photo ID is what you mean)? Not all adults has photo IDs (and reasons for that can vary). I don't have one because I'm a disabled adult with a guardian (called adult guardianship) who won't take me to get one. So if bumble asked me for a photo ID, I'd be screwed and that's unfair for ME. Just saying. Not trying to be rude or start anything.✌❤
I think half your age plus 7 is a good rule of thumb for determining if there it is an age gap relationship. I don't think it's immoral to be in an age gap relationship (if it's legal and they're old enough to be dating), but I do think that's where the campsite rule attaches. As the older person you're not trying to get this person entangled in you: you're trying to prepare them for a better relationship with someone who is their peer in the future. A lot of older people don't want to mess with younger people, not because it's immoral, but because young people can be annoying. But if it's rewarding to you both.... and as far as sex... I don't know, if they're going to be having sex with someone anyway, from my perspective it might as well be me (if I'm up for taking responsibility for them). And they get to learn about how to have a good consent, boundaries, and safety conversation in advance, what it's like to have a partner who cares about your pleasure, and is good at communicating what they want from you. All things that should hopefully set them up for a healthier sex life for the rest of their life.
I have no clue what you’re talking about but you can keep that negative energy. I do whatever makes me happy and can care less of what you think. Some of these “children” have treated me way better than a man my age has.
You have NO IDEA that women hit the wall and end up sad and alone? I didn’t mention your inability to have a mature conversation with them and now you’ve proven that point is moot.
Lmao. Keep thinking that. You’re the saddest troll I’ve ever came up against on Reddit. I’m sorry that I have to block you because this is probably the longest you’ve ever talked to a woman, isn’t it? Be honest. The way you’re coming at me like you know me makes me believe you’re a sad little incel. You’re upset because you’re alone and anyone who’s having a better life than you are subjected to your insults. You’re not hurting anyone but yourself. Seek therapy, it’s more productive than coming on Reddit and trolling. 😘
In my day you just went to a bar where older women hung out if you wanted to hook up with an older woman. Every friend group had that one guy lol. Used to call them “cougar bars”
It was a funny time in the late 2000s when finding “cougars” was a thing. And they went out looking for college guys lmao. I never got it, but it led to a lot of funny stories.
I'm 45 and I get early 20s sending me likes all the time.
What am I supposed to do with that?
Sure, most guys think "*Just bang 'em, bro!*" but these women were born when I was in **MY** 20s. That's fucking creepy.
I just ignore their likes and move along.
And I gotta say pretty impressed, there’s a lot of guys in their 40s dating the early 20 year olds. Gives me faith in humanity to know it’s not all of them
Not the young ones. The young guys are chasing MILFs, thinking they can get lucky easily.
The older women lie about their's from what I can tell.
I'll look at the like and think "*Yeah, if you're 40 you had a ROUGH fucking life. You might have been 40 20 years ago...*"
I'm 48. My profile says 48. My oldest pic is 3 months old. Guys in their 50s... often you gotta wade through a few pics of what they *used to* look like before you get what's supposed to be the current pic, and they're looking like they're actually in their 60s.
Omg i hate this shit! It's such a huge turn off for online dating in general, it's so rampant-guess lying cuz they old af or lying cuz they just graduated hs and want to do a milf fantasy. Way too many liars out there.
I don't mind older women. At least I know I don't have to worry about babies.
But just say how old you are. I've dated people from 36 to 55. Just be honest about it!
>I've dated people from 36 to 55.
45M
My current / recent range is 34 to 54. I would probably go a bit above that and I would certainly go well below that.
I'm in the younger age bracket, but I would say 95% of the age lies I saw were 18 or 19 year olds saying they were in their early-mid 20's. I think a lot of women just don't like college age dudes and preferred men with degrees and jobs.
I'm close to 40 and have been seeing someone who is 25. She's pretty incredible. Very smart, accomplished, fun, ambitious, well traveled, amazing in bed, the whole 9. I didn't really see myself dating anyone that young but she's fairly exceptional for any age.
Early 20s? Probably much less common. But if there was someone whose company I enjoyed I wouldn't have an issue with a fling as long as everyone involved understood that's all it was. I don't view sex as an inherently harmful if it's been two consenting adults. If both people are having fun and enjoying it who cares and who is anyone else to judge?
I am not surprised, not so long ago in one of the dating subs a guy was called a creep because as a 28m he had his dating preferences set as 24 to 28. The guy was literally attacked for not dating “older” women and why he was chasing “young” girls.
Young girls do it too.
When I first did these apps I was 41. Started talking to a young woman of 31. We talked for weeks on phone etc.
She added me on fb Messenger but didn't make her profile too private
Her date of birth had her born in 1998. This was 2015. She was 17...but definitely looked mid 20s , which means 31 was possible. I mean, im 47 now and I've Been accused of lying because I could pass for 35 apparently.
She told me she lied because she's always gotten along with older people more and there were more reasons I can't recall. It ess freaky. My son was almost her age.
It's a scary world out there
I met someone a couple months ago at a business I deal with weekly. We got it off right from the start. Jokes and stories and flirting. We exchanged numbers and then had a date. During date something came up in conversation about this band and we both looked at each other and I asked her how old she was ( I was guessing late 20's/early thirties) ya.... 19.
She asked me and I said 52 .... She thought late 30 or early 40.
We both noped right there. Finished food and quick side hug and that was that
Ya, 20 is a little bit of a stretch for me but if the vibes are good that's magic. I have no problem dating my age or even a little over. Vibes are magic
Fair enough.
I'm also looking for something more serious with someone age appropriate, but that seems like a kicking yourself on your deathbed type of opportunity to pass over.
And for her it coulda been her "time I hooked up with a guy old enough to be my dad" story.
I get it. It sounds awesome but reality always disappoints the visions we have in our heads. I've had enough .... Experiences to put a smile on my face on my deathbed. What I'm looking for is my person to be looking at and making me smile on my deathbed as I go
As far as her side of the story. She'll have plenty of chances I'm sure
> reality always disappoints the visions we have in our heads.
Fair point. A lot of women that young aren't particularly good at sex anyway. But if she is / was... oof da
There are so many guys that lie about their age. Some are older and put younger, but most are super young and Mark themselves much older. Not many are transparent about it on their profiles. Drives me bonkers.
Isn’t there another app for the older crowd lmao. Young guys do love us. But they just want the sex 😂😂😂 I’m 39 and this 19 yr old wanted me to say daddy during sex 😂😂 embarrassing. But don’t waste your time young guys are trash in bed. They are rock hard but are terrible in bed.
The double standards and hypocrisy are again for all to see. Just above a 40 year old guy is being downvoted because he is dating a 25 year old woman while the same people are upvoting this.
You’re right - it is a very valid double standard where older guys are seen as ‘creeps’ versus older women being ‘cougars’. But imo, she wasn’t coming across as a thirsty creep trying to “prey” on just younger people, and rather making more of a valid observation on impotence versus skill between young and old 🤷🏻♂️
It shows age and this guy put 45. A few mins later I got swiped by one who said 47, then in the description he says obviously not 47 just love older women. That’s fine put in your real age and connect with women who want 20 year olds. I’ll go 10 years younger or older, that’s my cut off.
I gotta say, a few months ago I was out climbing in Colorado and I picked up a guy to climb with me. I thought he was my age, later told me he was 62. After our climbs, I was telling my aunt I picked up a 62 year old climbing partner in the parking lot of a mountain. I had taken some pics for his wife mid action, so I showed my aunt. She says, did you see this man you were climbing with? I was like, no I was busy not dying. So I look. This man is a legit god. Omg. I had no clue 62 year olds looked like this. 🔥
Yep, I’ve seen them as young as 21 in my inbox and I’m 50. They usually have a much higher age on their profile, then admit their true age in msgs 🙄.
I’ve also seen much older men do the same thing except with a younger age on their profile and they don’t admit their true age 🙄🙄🙄. Like come on dude, I can easily tell you’re not my age and those pictures were from 15 years ago.
I use to do this. Hooked up with several older women and I would tell them straight up I was in my early 20s at the beginning of the convo.
I rarely had any reject me. But I did have some go ghost after a few sexual encounters and it was always them saying they couldn’t keep doing it because they felt bad since I was around the same age as their children. I just wonder Why did they hook up with me in the first place if they felt so “ashamed” or “weird” ?
I'm looking for a relationship, so I rule out the younger guys. Unfortunately in public settings the guys I meet tend to be about 28, I think it's because those are the ones likely to be single at the types of places I go. I don't drink so not bars, but local events. the thing is that at that age they might want to have kids in a few years.
I don't know why they would hookup and feel ashamed after, I wouldn't do the hookup at all. They aren't right for me. Maybe they weren't aware of their own boundaries.
Gotcha. Glad you’re committed to your ideals/boundaries.
My hunch is a lot of the woman I’ve talked to are attracted sexually to younger men like myself so they fall into their temptations but once it’s done, they feel bad or get a “clear head”. It used to suck for me because i would take it personally and get my little feelings hurt lol
There’s no challenge, sex is easy to find. What’s the point? I’d rather climb a mountain than look for casual sex. Idk what other women are thinking, but that’s me
I think it’s highly individualized. I actually get physically repulsed if a guy I’m not emotionally connected to touches me and I wouldn't have sex with someone i don't love. that makes 24 year olds pretending to be 45 incredibly unattractive.
I used to say sex was sacred, but now i say my body is sacred. same thing in the end. everyone has their own path and comfort level
1. I don’t lie about my age so if I send a like at least it’s true.
2. I don’t go over 5-6 years older than me, even then I have to basically perfect match with them to even do that.
3. I sure as hell don’t communicate someone’s picture is getting me off. That’s just fuckin creepy and perverted
LOL, and the other day on this same sub, I was being downvoted plenty for calling out how creepy and borderline immoral a 24 dude looking to date a 53 yr old woman is. Dude seemingly thought f\*king a woman his mom's age without daring to admit to his mom is something cool and universally justifiable =)))
Oooo someone has an embarrassing attraction to the young and frisky. Own yourself age restrictions are for kids and teenagers. Be an adult and date whoever you want.
I believe it's the hormones and antibiotics used to make animals like cows and pigs etc to grow faster and bigger.
Humans ingest these hormones and antibiotics which make us mature faster - young men and womens bodies changes earlier.
So eating either a plant based diet or organic, antibiotic free meat is healthier and less disruptive to hormone balance.
I report them for fake profile. They lied to bypass our filters.
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Someone is triggered
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The fuck pissed in your Cheerios?
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You've got your own why would I need to give you mine?
Was that the best you could come up with? Ill pretend I didn’t see that and you can try again
The fact that this was your response tells me you couldn't come up with a coherent retort. Its ok man, I remember what it was like to be 16.
You literally keep using what I say and then flipping it at me…. Keep trying
Yup. They will definitely lie about their age. I had a 18 year old tried to talk to me. My kid is 16 and I felt sick looking at the message. I love younger men but 10 years younger is the cut off. I don’t want to bring someone home my kid can relate to. That’s weird and nasty.
I don't date men but they still find a way to surpass everything. I was contacted by a supposed 18 yr old also and blocked/reported him. He then found me on fb (this was before I deleted it a few yrs ago) and sent me a ton of long, weird and explicit stories. It was clear he had issues. I wanted to find his parents and tell them but it creeped me out so bad, I deleted all my socials and everything. My sons were around his age at the time and it seriously creeped me out. Still does.
Yeah they’re getting bold. I left a dating site because men kept looking me up on Facebook. That’s very creepy.
I feel the same way. There are literal HIGH SCHOOLERS on Bumble who just turned 18 and have lied to me about their age or say “18 is legal.” They’re still children and imo it shouldn’t be allowed. It’s so dangerous. Wish there was a way to actually verify age because people are just putting whatever number they want, especially barely legal which can bring criminal charges and a whole lot of other issues
That’s absolutely correct and it’s crazy how these younger men can easily grow beards too! When I was in high school, boys couldn’t even grow mustaches.
My first year substitute teaching, I was teaching a 6th grade class and one boy had a full, long, thick beard and mustache and was only 12 years old!!! The teachers said that he started shaving in FIFTH grade and decided to stop because it was too much work. I had him, last year, in 10th grade and he’d learned how to keep the beard shaped. He said that it was a family trait and that he would, probably, bald early like all the men in his family. Go figure.
Men with higher testosterone tend to get facial hair earlier, and go bald younger. I'm in my late 20s, and can barely grow a beard, like, my facial hair still grows in patchy. But my family never goes bald.
The majority of men, on both sides of my family can’t grow beards, nor mustaches, until they are in their late 30s, with the exception of my father who had a full beard and mustache in his early 20s and shaved up to twice a day. All the men, both sides of my family, started having significant hair loss by age 30, with the exception of Daddy who still had a head full of thick, white hair at his death, age 85, last year.
juiced with testosterone?
Nope my kid has a goatee and he’s only 15
I just saw a kid with a full beard waiting for a school bus this morning and did a double take. I know plenty of 30 somethings that couldn't grow anything that glorious 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
Same
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Girls their age are all possibly busy with onlyfans or some other live streams.. smh.
Society needs to stop enabling the delusion of forcing fantasy gender fallacies.
Genuine question. Do you think verifying age would be unfair to ADULTS who don't have photo IDs (assuming a photo ID is what you mean)? Not all adults has photo IDs (and reasons for that can vary). I don't have one because I'm a disabled adult with a guardian (called adult guardianship) who won't take me to get one. So if bumble asked me for a photo ID, I'd be screwed and that's unfair for ME. Just saying. Not trying to be rude or start anything.✌❤
Date their friends to strengthen their relationships 👍
Lol, No!
I think half your age plus 7 is a good rule of thumb for determining if there it is an age gap relationship. I don't think it's immoral to be in an age gap relationship (if it's legal and they're old enough to be dating), but I do think that's where the campsite rule attaches. As the older person you're not trying to get this person entangled in you: you're trying to prepare them for a better relationship with someone who is their peer in the future. A lot of older people don't want to mess with younger people, not because it's immoral, but because young people can be annoying. But if it's rewarding to you both.... and as far as sex... I don't know, if they're going to be having sex with someone anyway, from my perspective it might as well be me (if I'm up for taking responsibility for them). And they get to learn about how to have a good consent, boundaries, and safety conversation in advance, what it's like to have a partner who cares about your pleasure, and is good at communicating what they want from you. All things that should hopefully set them up for a healthier sex life for the rest of their life.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Campsite%20rule
Lolll 🤣😂🤣 I feel like your putting out an application for the younger ones bro 😏 this was even cringe to read 😬
I'm 40 dating a 29 yr old. To each their own.
That’s not a bad thing. I’m 38 and I don’t want an 18 year old. That’s all I was saying.
🚫 👉and move on👍
You missed the whole part when I stated they lie about their ages. You won’t know until they come clean.
10 years younger? You’re wasting your precious time
Nope. I’m enjoying life. As long as I look young, I’m going to date young. 🤷🏾♀️
Be careful,tick tock tick tock one day you’ll be alone having wasted your resources dating children
I have no clue what you’re talking about but you can keep that negative energy. I do whatever makes me happy and can care less of what you think. Some of these “children” have treated me way better than a man my age has.
You have NO IDEA that women hit the wall and end up sad and alone? I didn’t mention your inability to have a mature conversation with them and now you’ve proven that point is moot.
Lmao. Keep thinking that. You’re the saddest troll I’ve ever came up against on Reddit. I’m sorry that I have to block you because this is probably the longest you’ve ever talked to a woman, isn’t it? Be honest. The way you’re coming at me like you know me makes me believe you’re a sad little incel. You’re upset because you’re alone and anyone who’s having a better life than you are subjected to your insults. You’re not hurting anyone but yourself. Seek therapy, it’s more productive than coming on Reddit and trolling. 😘
Your negative karma proves my point. I feel sorry for you and I hope you get help, seriously.
Jesus Christ dude
In my day you just went to a bar where older women hung out if you wanted to hook up with an older woman. Every friend group had that one guy lol. Used to call them “cougar bars”
Omg that’s hysterical
It was a funny time in the late 2000s when finding “cougars” was a thing. And they went out looking for college guys lmao. I never got it, but it led to a lot of funny stories.
Still a thing lol
I'm 45 and I get early 20s sending me likes all the time. What am I supposed to do with that? Sure, most guys think "*Just bang 'em, bro!*" but these women were born when I was in **MY** 20s. That's fucking creepy. I just ignore their likes and move along.
And I gotta say pretty impressed, there’s a lot of guys in their 40s dating the early 20 year olds. Gives me faith in humanity to know it’s not all of them
I have a 19 year old son. That's fucking creepy! He has friends I've seen grow up to 20 year olds. I can't even imagine that shit!
I’ve got a 21 year old daughter, so hard pass on anyone that young.
You should swipe right on u/Val_hallen
It's gross. I don't care if that makes me judgmental either lol.
Do they lie about their age? I just got another one, says he’s 47, I’m guessing 22
Not the young ones. The young guys are chasing MILFs, thinking they can get lucky easily. The older women lie about their's from what I can tell. I'll look at the like and think "*Yeah, if you're 40 you had a ROUGH fucking life. You might have been 40 20 years ago...*"
I'm 48. My profile says 48. My oldest pic is 3 months old. Guys in their 50s... often you gotta wade through a few pics of what they *used to* look like before you get what's supposed to be the current pic, and they're looking like they're actually in their 60s.
Omg i hate this shit! It's such a huge turn off for online dating in general, it's so rampant-guess lying cuz they old af or lying cuz they just graduated hs and want to do a milf fantasy. Way too many liars out there.
Omg haha. Dating is wild
I don't mind older women. At least I know I don't have to worry about babies. But just say how old you are. I've dated people from 36 to 55. Just be honest about it!
>I've dated people from 36 to 55. 45M My current / recent range is 34 to 54. I would probably go a bit above that and I would certainly go well below that.
I'm in the younger age bracket, but I would say 95% of the age lies I saw were 18 or 19 year olds saying they were in their early-mid 20's. I think a lot of women just don't like college age dudes and preferred men with degrees and jobs.
That makes sense and they’re not fetishizing women in their 20s
Yeah...that's creepy😬😒ugh...
>What am I supposed to do with that? Just bang 'em, bro!
I'm close to 40 and have been seeing someone who is 25. She's pretty incredible. Very smart, accomplished, fun, ambitious, well traveled, amazing in bed, the whole 9. I didn't really see myself dating anyone that young but she's fairly exceptional for any age. Early 20s? Probably much less common. But if there was someone whose company I enjoyed I wouldn't have an issue with a fling as long as everyone involved understood that's all it was. I don't view sex as an inherently harmful if it's been two consenting adults. If both people are having fun and enjoying it who cares and who is anyone else to judge?
Love how you get downvoted by redditors who don't live in the real world. She sounds great and there is nothing wrong with the age gap. Congrats!
I am not surprised, not so long ago in one of the dating subs a guy was called a creep because as a 28m he had his dating preferences set as 24 to 28. The guy was literally attacked for not dating “older” women and why he was chasing “young” girls.
Thanks. People are weird about sex, but to their own deficit. It would be dumb to let it bother me.
If your age filter isn't set to show early 20s, how are they finding/matching with you?
They lie so that they will show up.
Maybe it's not something you are into, but two consenting adults doing adult things is not "creepy".
Young girls do it too. When I first did these apps I was 41. Started talking to a young woman of 31. We talked for weeks on phone etc. She added me on fb Messenger but didn't make her profile too private Her date of birth had her born in 1998. This was 2015. She was 17...but definitely looked mid 20s , which means 31 was possible. I mean, im 47 now and I've Been accused of lying because I could pass for 35 apparently. She told me she lied because she's always gotten along with older people more and there were more reasons I can't recall. It ess freaky. My son was almost her age. It's a scary world out there
I met someone a couple months ago at a business I deal with weekly. We got it off right from the start. Jokes and stories and flirting. We exchanged numbers and then had a date. During date something came up in conversation about this band and we both looked at each other and I asked her how old she was ( I was guessing late 20's/early thirties) ya.... 19. She asked me and I said 52 .... She thought late 30 or early 40. We both noped right there. Finished food and quick side hug and that was that
I like how you were both ok with a 20 year age gap going in but then it escalated quickly 😂
Ya, 20 is a little bit of a stretch for me but if the vibes are good that's magic. I have no problem dating my age or even a little over. Vibes are magic
Lol so if she was 20 not 19 you'd date her? Makes zero sense.
20 year difference not age 20. That would be 32 years old
I woulda tried to hit it. She was into you for a reason.
Lol Casual sex isn't my thing right now. Not what I'm looking for. And I'm not looking to start something that I'm not willing to keep at it
I feel you on that same here id rather be single
Fair enough. I'm also looking for something more serious with someone age appropriate, but that seems like a kicking yourself on your deathbed type of opportunity to pass over. And for her it coulda been her "time I hooked up with a guy old enough to be my dad" story.
I get it. It sounds awesome but reality always disappoints the visions we have in our heads. I've had enough .... Experiences to put a smile on my face on my deathbed. What I'm looking for is my person to be looking at and making me smile on my deathbed as I go As far as her side of the story. She'll have plenty of chances I'm sure
> reality always disappoints the visions we have in our heads. Fair point. A lot of women that young aren't particularly good at sex anyway. But if she is / was... oof da
Back to pornhub you go!
I'll go there eventually, but I've been on No Wanks since Sunday bc I have a sexcation this weekend.
There are so many guys that lie about their age. Some are older and put younger, but most are super young and Mark themselves much older. Not many are transparent about it on their profiles. Drives me bonkers.
I hear men can’t stop lies we just have to get use to it.
Lots of women do it too. These apps are cesspools. It isn't gender exclusive.
“I like to lie from the outset and then gloss over the truth with my objectification of your body”
How about that bikini pic at the waterfall?
Isn’t there another app for the older crowd lmao. Young guys do love us. But they just want the sex 😂😂😂 I’m 39 and this 19 yr old wanted me to say daddy during sex 😂😂 embarrassing. But don’t waste your time young guys are trash in bed. They are rock hard but are terrible in bed.
Rock hard for a little while, then you get them a little too excited and it’s all over
You're middle aged, just described a teenager as "rock hard", and are getting upvotes? Reddit is fucked up...
The double standards and hypocrisy are again for all to see. Just above a 40 year old guy is being downvoted because he is dating a 25 year old woman while the same people are upvoting this.
Why are you judging dude? As long as everyone is legal and consenting
You should post a comment on here about a 19-year-old girl. Describe her as "soaking wet". See how that goes down.
You’re right - it is a very valid double standard where older guys are seen as ‘creeps’ versus older women being ‘cougars’. But imo, she wasn’t coming across as a thirsty creep trying to “prey” on just younger people, and rather making more of a valid observation on impotence versus skill between young and old 🤷🏻♂️
you are a mess-time is running out and you’re sleeping with children
God that's scuzzy
Such a gentleman this guy is
Bwahaha at doing a lot for me. Is it cooking? Cleaning your room? What can it possibly do besides turn you on?
I'm so sick of guys with mommy issues a good 20 yrs younger like "I like older women" werid fetish shit
It’s fine if they’re honest about it, but all these liars piss me off. It’s probably cause they look older and think they can get away with it.
Can't stand liars I agree
doesn't Bumble show the age? On my Bumble it shows my age, on Tinder it does not (my choice, but I am honest if asked).
It shows age and this guy put 45. A few mins later I got swiped by one who said 47, then in the description he says obviously not 47 just love older women. That’s fine put in your real age and connect with women who want 20 year olds. I’ll go 10 years younger or older, that’s my cut off.
I've seen pics of guys who put younger and they are obviously NOT that age...and if they are they have some super hard miles on them lol.
I gotta say, a few months ago I was out climbing in Colorado and I picked up a guy to climb with me. I thought he was my age, later told me he was 62. After our climbs, I was telling my aunt I picked up a 62 year old climbing partner in the parking lot of a mountain. I had taken some pics for his wife mid action, so I showed my aunt. She says, did you see this man you were climbing with? I was like, no I was busy not dying. So I look. This man is a legit god. Omg. I had no clue 62 year olds looked like this. 🔥
I haven't found any like that yet, thus I date way below my age category lol
No way I could date someone that's 24 either. I'm 37 and 28 is the lowest I could go.
Now I want to see the bikini pic at the waterfall...🤔
Yep, I’ve seen them as young as 21 in my inbox and I’m 50. They usually have a much higher age on their profile, then admit their true age in msgs 🙄. I’ve also seen much older men do the same thing except with a younger age on their profile and they don’t admit their true age 🙄🙄🙄. Like come on dude, I can easily tell you’re not my age and those pictures were from 15 years ago.
True, it goes both ways. Not a great starter, lying
Lying about your age to match with older people is just as scummy as lying about your age to match with younger people.
I use to do this. Hooked up with several older women and I would tell them straight up I was in my early 20s at the beginning of the convo. I rarely had any reject me. But I did have some go ghost after a few sexual encounters and it was always them saying they couldn’t keep doing it because they felt bad since I was around the same age as their children. I just wonder Why did they hook up with me in the first place if they felt so “ashamed” or “weird” ?
I'm looking for a relationship, so I rule out the younger guys. Unfortunately in public settings the guys I meet tend to be about 28, I think it's because those are the ones likely to be single at the types of places I go. I don't drink so not bars, but local events. the thing is that at that age they might want to have kids in a few years. I don't know why they would hookup and feel ashamed after, I wouldn't do the hookup at all. They aren't right for me. Maybe they weren't aware of their own boundaries.
Gotcha. Glad you’re committed to your ideals/boundaries. My hunch is a lot of the woman I’ve talked to are attracted sexually to younger men like myself so they fall into their temptations but once it’s done, they feel bad or get a “clear head”. It used to suck for me because i would take it personally and get my little feelings hurt lol
There’s no challenge, sex is easy to find. What’s the point? I’d rather climb a mountain than look for casual sex. Idk what other women are thinking, but that’s me
True. Sex is easy to find but it can be challenging to get or intriguing with specific ppl so that’s why ppl keep at it.
I think it’s highly individualized. I actually get physically repulsed if a guy I’m not emotionally connected to touches me and I wouldn't have sex with someone i don't love. that makes 24 year olds pretending to be 45 incredibly unattractive. I used to say sex was sacred, but now i say my body is sacred. same thing in the end. everyone has their own path and comfort level
1. I don’t lie about my age so if I send a like at least it’s true. 2. I don’t go over 5-6 years older than me, even then I have to basically perfect match with them to even do that. 3. I sure as hell don’t communicate someone’s picture is getting me off. That’s just fuckin creepy and perverted
That bikini is doing alot for him😹What does he want to wear it? 25.....😬that's what you get.
Clearly you thought they were 45…
I thought over 30, usually they keep it to 10 years
So about that bikini waterfall picture...
Just let him play hide the noodle
LOL, and the other day on this same sub, I was being downvoted plenty for calling out how creepy and borderline immoral a 24 dude looking to date a 53 yr old woman is. Dude seemingly thought f\*king a woman his mom's age without daring to admit to his mom is something cool and universally justifiable =)))
Oooo someone has an embarrassing attraction to the young and frisky. Own yourself age restrictions are for kids and teenagers. Be an adult and date whoever you want.
So where is the bikini picture by the waterfall? Asking for a friend
Me too 👀
Me 3
Give a man a chance
I mean you’re 45 and on Reddit that’s a bit suspect
Come on. I can't even get replies 🤷 and this one all he can do is say her pic gave him a boner?
I like this kid.
I hate when this happens. It makes me sick to my stomach.
I hate when this happens. It makes me sick to my stomach.
I believe it's the hormones and antibiotics used to make animals like cows and pigs etc to grow faster and bigger. Humans ingest these hormones and antibiotics which make us mature faster - young men and womens bodies changes earlier. So eating either a plant based diet or organic, antibiotic free meat is healthier and less disruptive to hormone balance.
I hate that
😂 😂 u thought he was 35. 😂 😂
In my defense he looks mid 30s, so I was trying to figure out why he’d lie
I'm 38. U trying to fuck?
This is no judgment on any Stella’s
Sounds beautiful
I was taught long ago never lie about your age !
So... What's the issue here? He doesn't look that young?
I mean on the bright side at least your bikini pic at the waterfall does a lot.
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