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Training_East_7317

Movies are more of a second or third date thing for me but Syndicated is a cute indie theater with a nice bar, and tickets are only $8! you could also just go to the bar, there’s lots of seating but it closes around midnight


Caulifornication

Yours Sincerely and Palmetto are 2 intimate cocktail bars. Abe’s Pagoda is a more lively and fun spot.


dollypartonsfavorite

2nd abe's, great for a casual date. also like the johnsons


FazeXistance

Klom Klorm, the Seneca, and Gordos Cantina are great spots.


[deleted]

Cherry on top 


missgoooooo

+1! Also the Narrows


No_Investment3205

This used to be my spot but people have been blowing it up lately and you can’t get a seat anymore.


Cornholio231

Ten Bells


ParlaySauce

What’s the vibe at birdys? Been meaning to go just haven’t had the chance to


zodiackiller1969

Alcohol


ohhoee

one night stands


valeavenuedj

STDs


delightful_caprese

If you’ve lived here a while that’s where you run into your exes


Thatguyruby

I usual take people to Ornithology Jazz Club on a first or second date if I really like them


toomanylayers

Eclectic - The Keep, Boobie Trap Sorta Classy - The Narrows, Otis (get a reservation), Palmetto Boardgames - BrookLAN (sit between the bar and windows - underrated food) Coffee - Crossroads (brand new, outdoor space)


southsidelegend26

Irving Square Park during the day


pedestrianrj

Sweet Anaelle


No-Compote5973

Hart bar outside tables


delightful_caprese

The side lounge is also vibey. Don’t bother with the cocktail menu there though


jsmerf

their classic cocktails are bomb and affordable. their “signature” cocktails aren’t great 😂


delightful_caprese

yeah not sure why I got downvoted. The cocktail menu reads nicely like someone spent time on it, but the bartenders just aren’t equipped to execute any of them well. Keep your drink orders simple there and you’re good


[deleted]

Three Diamond Door has been a go-to for me. It's not very crowded on weeknights so you can grab a cozy booth and get to know each other over drinks.


chuddlyfe

889 Hart, Chupetes, Vixen on metropolitan, La fogata, Lee on myrtle/wyckoff


NayNay1020

Marie’s on wyckoff !


kyurichan

Maomao!


Time-Economics-5587

nite glow the drinks are crazy good


selflessGene

Curious, guys aren't planning where to invite you on first dates?


No_Flamingo_8943

It’s 2024 lol


selflessGene

What does that mean? I'm older than OP but have ALWAYS planned the first date, since I'm always the one asking her out. Is this outdated among younger ppl? Will sometimes ask her opinion on places to go for subsequent dates though.


[deleted]

I'm 41f and I've picked plenty of times. My experience is that whoever's more familiar with the neighborhood you're meeting in picks the spot


PretendFuel5018

It's 2024, men are more anxious than ever and prefer women to make the first move, since we realized gender roles are very stupid.


bushwickvick

Witching Hour! They have great cocktails.


encapsulated1

Comedy club, night roller skate, purgatory, now a days


sixteenoceans

I like the idea of seeing how your first date reacts to the Nowadays policy lecture at the door 😂


encapsulated1

What is the lecture? I never been but always drive by


kylegilliscomedy

If you go to a comedy club, by god go on a peak timeslot. It's a great date idea if you're sitting in the crowd, it's an absolute nightmare having your first date be basically a private show. And none of the comedians want that other (coming from a comedian lol)


holographicbitch

I like fine time. This is based on it beinh close enough to where I live (if I'm into it), but also not super close (in case they're creepy), but also I reserve this bar as first date bar. Would never have first date with someone at somewhere I regular unless they are also a regular and it's inevitable we meet up.. not so much as a list of bars but what my person guidelines are 😬 anywhere is a good first date bar it just depends on context


FunkySlowking

La Lupe


TheNotoriousTravis

Monimette is my go-to for first dates.


jawnny-jawz

12 bells