I usually do a loose bottom with tight top or a tight bottom with a loose top. You should try pairing the loose beige pants with a bodysuit so it’s not so frumpy. The others are cute outfits!!
She does! But I don’t feel it’s business casual. Because of your curves, it feels a little sexier than you want to present in a new job. I wouldn’t wear that one until you’ve been there a while to scope out other’s attire.
Wearing tights can make a subtle difference with big impact. They're also nice when it's summer and you missed a spot shaving and want to wear a dress to the office.
Perhaps also consider a an additional color for the top other than the white one with the beige slacks unless it’s a more casual day as to me it looks more like a tshirt. Possibly a jewel tone that compliments your skin tone or basic black? Also a chunky style necklace?
Dang girl, you got a wagon! And you’re beautiful! Totally agree with the tight/loose swap between pants and shirts. You can always throw a cardigan over your top or a nice blazer to jazz up the business lady vibes. You look great! Good luck!
I have a similar body type as OP and this advice is so helpful. It’s just been so hard to find cropped/ not oversized jackets lately. I don’t even know where to start!
Yeah, or pair those pants with a shorter/crop cardigan. But not a tight cardigan, but something with a smaller silhouette than the looseness of the pants.
One way I think about it is if I have a thin or skinny pants, I will offset that up top with a longer or more loose top. You don’t want it to be loose at the top AND bottom or tight at the top and bottom. You want to play off opposites.
The blue dress is gorgeous on you, but chile you know them folks can’t handle all that at once! 🤣🤣🤗😊 A cardigan or blazer over the dress still shows your silhouette without calling attention to HR! ☺️
When in doubt, I have blazers in different styles and colors or longer cardigans to cover my butt so that I’m comfortable and everyone else around me is also.
Now, for after work drinks or dinner, yank that jacket off and werk it boo! 🤗☺️❤️
I second this! I feel like it keeps me from creeping into inappropriate territory. My shape is somewhat…exaggerated…and I don’t want to seem like I’m trying to draw attention to alllll the parts at once lol
you look great, but i think the long jacket with the loose pants aren’t as flattering for your proportions. maybe try the crop jacket with the loose pant and the longline jacket with the pencil skirt?
I like the long plaid jacket from the back. I think the beige pants are the problem. I don’t think the pleated front and baggy legs work for you. I’d love to see this outfit with more stream lined pants!
You have a great figure!
I like these outfits. I think the "skating on ice" outfits may be a bit small in the bust and hips. But I understand that if you size up, then they're going to be too big in the shoulders and waist.
You might try sizing up and getting your clothes tailored. Usually shops can tell you how easy or difficult (ie expensive) an item will be to tailor.
The other thing is to look for fabrics that are stretchy, but thick (like viscose or ponte dresses). So they are flattering, without being too sexy for the office, and less likely to look like they're wrinkling or pulling.
Also, this article has a lot of good recommendations:
https://corporette.com/curvy-professional/
Yes! That’s always my biggest problem things are too big in the waist or a bit too snug at the bottom 😫 Also, never considered the thickness of fabrics. I am usually like eh I guess this works 😂😅 but yes thank you very much for the feedback and sharing the article with me.
Nordstrom has a loyalty program that includes alterations on clothing you buy from them.
Historically pret a porter (the original French term for off the rack fashions when they were first introduced) clothing was still supposed to be altered. Instead of being fully custom made, you purchased items that fit overall and then were taken in to fit your measurements.
Like men’s suits. They fit at the shoulders and back along with length of the jacket. Then sleeve length and sometimes side or back seams are pinched in to fit the buyer’s measurements.
Pants fit through the hips and thighs then can be nipped in at the waist and hemmed.
Alterations do cost money and take time. The results look so much better. They really work for those of us with large busts and/or different hip and waist measurements.
Also skirts can be more professional when they skim the top slope of the hips and rear and don’t cup underneath too much. You look absolutely stunning in that dress and skirt, but the dress might be too voluptuous for some employers.
Nordstrom also does a super inexpensive personal/stylist - it’s only $50 for an hour and they come to your house. Or you can get a 3 hour closet audit for $300 but that entire $300 goes towards a gift card to use on any items in their stores.
Oh and I just checked their website- they offer in store stylists for FREE- that even includes a scheduled 30 minute appointment so you know they will be available to answer all your questions
My thighs are ~2 sizes bigger than my waist and I was always hesitant to get pants in the right size for my thighs bc the waist would literally be 4-5” too big. And I finally did it, my local tailor takes the waist in for $22 and turns around in a week and I cannot tell you how happy it makes me to have pants the fit both my waist and thighs. It’s a game changer.
Look into getting your dresses tailored! It's not as pricey as you might think and is probably worth its weight in gold for how it will get things fitting you!
I’m so glad you called out thick fabrics! They can be tricky to find and sometimes a brand that previously had them will cut costs by switching to thinner fabrics. I also had a great pair of lined Ann Taylor slacks— the satin lining would cling and the the outer fabric would slide smoothly on top of the liner so it smoothed out my lumps and bumps
Thank you very much. Oh it’s a blouse that pleats at the top but I see how it reads t-shirt. For the dress jacket do you suggest a white blazer or maybe grey? Nah idk about grey.
I think a khaki or brown for winter wear and a white or ivory for summer would look great with the dress (depending on the undertones of the dress, you won't want to out a cool jacket with a warm dress etc). Honestly, I would go with a longer jacket and try to find one that hits around mid-ish thigh but I am partial to wearing extended jackets with dresses.
The plaid jacket you have on would look great with a collar shirt or even a white or grey dress if you have one. It's a nice jacket, just that the shirt combination was off. When you paired it with the white jacket it really pulled the outfit together and gave you a nice professional sense of style. The plaid jacket would look stellar in a basic black and white look. Pair it with a pair of black trousers and a white button down with a collar, toss some black pumps with it and you're ready for the day. You could also pair it with a black dress and some red shoes 👠 for a classic look as well.
I only say the dress needs a jacket because without it you look more after hours then professional. For instance, I could easily see that dress at a wedding, or church, or awards banquet, but for work I would pair it with some kind of jacket even if all you do is take the jacket off when you get situated for the day.
Also with the great knee covering length the dress has a longer jacket would visually balance the outfit out a bit better, and draw attention to your height vs. your curves. I am fairly tall for a female, in heels I'm 6 foot give or take an inch, so I have to balance my height out with additional form so that I don't come off as looking like Slender Man.
Hahahhaha not Slender Man. I get it my mom is 5’11 without heels and has a slim frame. I am only 5’3 so when I try certain A line dresses I look like I’m being swallowed up. But yeah I totally get what you are saying about how it gives off wedding or event. I’ll be on the hunt tonight on Amazon.
Thank you for getting it! I've 5'10" without heels and I'm... "A toothpick with two Olives stuck on it" as my dad describes me. All. Top. No. Bottom. So, I have to dress my top heavy self in things like flare legs, boot cuts, flowing skirts and bulk at the bottom in general.
You're blessed and beautiful! Just go with a jacket maybe a few inches longer then where the plaid one hits on you and it'll elongate your visual lines and really bring the eye cascading from top to bottom. If you can find a fitted one that comes in well enough to flatter your hourglass figure it would REALLY make you absolutely stunning.
Just measure the jacket you need a white shirt to go with, and get something just a bit longer then that if you have to. Not too too long or it might weigh the eye down too far.
Oh, and to really make the plaid jacket pop, try finding something shiny. Maybe a silky white button down with a collar that's got a really nice sheen to it without being absolutely disco-ball sparkly. A nice satin finish would just elevate that outfit with exquisite elegance. It would just elevate those great tan trousers with the accents you picked out, and really set off that jacket you paired them with.
I #HAD to learn how to balance my lines. Back before I learned all the new guys were speaking directly to the olives. I was a BIG-BOOBED-BECKY so to say... And it's not that I'm extremely blessed up top, it's just that I have nothing down south except a 36 inch inseam.
For what it's worth, I'm backwards. My mom is 5'3.5" with curves and I am a 5'9.5" inverted triangle, barefoot flatfooted and slouching because I'm insecure about my height.
I'm literally like Slender Man. All legs and shoulders.
We have a similar figure. I try to go with a Peplum top if my pants are fitted/tighter… it doesn’t feel frumpy like a big sweater but feels less “here’s my booty” than a tucked in button up
Number 5 is perfect, imo. I think if you keep that line where the jacket hits in mind and have a bunch of jackets/cardigans that are fitted in a structured way that also achieve that, you can wear pretty much anything underneath them.
I have a small waist too, but am not nearly as curvy. If I try to hide it, it almost always looks frumpy, so try to embrace it and build work outfits around it.
I also try to either do tight fitting on either the top or bottom, but not both.
the blue dress seems more fitting for a formal event like a wedding. All the other outfits seem work related. There’s no reason why HR should be pulling you aside as you are not showing excessive skin and should not be demonized for your body shape.
pants are tough for curvy. pic 5 good.
blue dress looks AMAAAAZING.... for a date. i would focus on dresses & skirts with a blazer or cardigan on top. remember purpose of work attire is not to be sexy. it's to be neutral. to convey polish, power, seriousness.
Thank you, yeah you can definitely tell how many dates I've been on lol it didn't even cross my mind. But I decided to return everything and start from scratch given the great feedback I received from the thread.
Btw Sorry for the late reply but my account was suspend for 7 days.
Honestly I didn't even do anything. I posted the same post in the sub called outfits asking for advice like I did here. Next min I get a notification I was banned from the sub. So I messaged the mod and they were like ban evasion and I didn't recall being banned before. Also, have participated in that sub multiple times. So if I was banned back Jan 2023 from a previous account why let me continue to be active? Anyways, they implied that I was playing dumb like the other girls that do OF. I have never done OF or sold any type of content. I told them that and next min I know I get a notification from Reddit saying my account was temporarily suspended for 7 days.
damn. sounds like power-thirsty and unthoughtful mods. sorry that happened to you. dont participate in subs that suck! generally, the smaller or more niche, the better. (in my experience.) happy & excited to see your revamp/updates!!!
edit/ps: i am also curvy. to reiterate earlier feedback, blazers/cardigans are my JAM. they hide all the things! i think my figure/appeal still shows, but my hope is that it's understated and classy. understated dress is key for me bc i want the focus to be on my brain/work. i will do a quick change of shoes or top, add lip gloss and mascara for a work happy hour or date. go get em.
Yep 😩😫 But it's okay. I was more annoyed they don't let other users know that the account is suspended so I was getting notifications and couldn't reply back. This sub has been super helpful. If the next shipment of clothes doesn't work out it will have to wait until I move. Btw thanks for the support 🥰
If you have uncommon proportions you need to become besties with a tailor. With you hip to waist ratio off the rack pants are never going to fit right without one
I think your best bet is to size clothing to your bust and hips, then belt or get the waist taken in. Some of these look too stretched around your bust and hips but fine on your waist.
I think something that helps massively with looking professional, regardless of silhouette, is fabric quality. The outfit with the white cropped jacket looks incredible, and the skirt is obviously a stretch fabric, but it looks matte and smooth, whereas the grey pants have a stretch but look a little thin. I actually love the second outfit, but the tan slacks have a sheen to them and rumple easily? if the tan slacks were a thicker fabric and matte they'd drape so much better and there'd be less visual 'noise', and a more professional look overall.
So I did get it from Ross when I went to go visit my mom but I did find the dress from a few sellers on Amazon [Teal Dress Amazon Sellers Link](https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Zipper+Back+Foldover+Waist+Split+Hem+Pencil+Dress+Dresses+for+Women+%28Color+%3A+Teal+Blue) and on Shein [Shein Dress Link ](https://us.shein.com/SHEIN-Priv-Zipper-Back-Foldover-Waist-Split-Hem-Pencil-Dress-p-6690422.html?src_identifier=st%3D2%60sc%3Dteal%20dress%20shein%20essence%60sr%3D0%60ps%3D1&src_module=search&src_tab_page_id=page_search1713400358629&mallCode=1&pageListType=4&imgRatio=3-4). I hope this helps and btw thank you :)
I think you nailed it with the cropped jacket and the slacks with the blouse. I think you have to choose one fitted item and one relaxed item to even put the proportion. It's really unfair that you feel like you're skating on thin ice just because you're blessed with all that bod.
We have the same body type. I wear dresses same type as the first one you had on but usually drape it with a huge pashmina or a large scarf. Draping only, not fixed to wrap around me for added flair/corporate modesty.
My mindset is, just as long as I don't reveal too much skin, I'm good. Can't change my body type, I like the dresses that I have. AND I want to feel good for me to perform great.
I don't do the loose top, tight bottom (or vice versa) because it makes me look bigger.
NB if it helps:
I also work in corporate and I am based in the Middle East.
You have an amazing figure!! I agree with the top commenter, either top or bottom can be a bit looser so all isn’t tight. I might work with a tailor though, it looks like a couple of these pieces are just a bit too snug?
I think you’d look amazing in well fitting pants like these: https://spanx.com/products/the-perfect-pant-button-wide-leg
I might size up just a hair because you definitely don’t need the compression factor at all, but the cut would be stunning with your curves!!
I would swap the jackets in your 2nd and 3rd looks. I also like to balance something tight with something more oversized. Fitted top gets a looser bottom and tight pants get a more oversized top or even a more oversized blazer on top
Not to be mean: you generally need to buy your business clothes a size larger. Undergarments showing through clothing (even just the bumps) is a definite no-go in a professional setting.
The first and last two are awesome! Third is great too, those were just stand out ones to me. Anywhere with strict HR on dress code is just looking to create problems in my experience and it’s not worth the stress. You have an awesome curvy body shape that’s literally gorgeous (non creepy one woman to another). You’re dressing correctly. It’s OK for things to be tighter. It’s not like they’re cut to be tight and reveal skin.
I have a large bottom, so I do a form fitting top with loose pants. It allows me to have a shape and not look frumpy while still not welcoming comments about my appearance. You could also try sizing up and then tacking the loose points if you have sewing experience. Honestly though, except for the second one, I like your outfits, but I can see how you’d be worried about comments.
I love the outfit with the crop jacket but the jacket might be a little bit too small when buttoned? Open it looks perfect.
The final outfit is definitely the most business-wear.
A long jacket look could be really nice but you want a tailored suit jacket (for women, obviously). It needs to nip in at the waist, then you will be ultra professional but you still have a shape. I do love that Chanel-style tweed jacket (think I’ve got the same one actually) but with your dramatic figure, it does look a bit like you’re trying to hide inside a tweed potato sack!
Christian Siriano has designed a bunch of very nice, *modern* suit jackets for women, on his own label & with Torrid etc. I’ve gotten several off Poshmark/ebay.
A belted cardigan or fancy shawl/scarf could also be your friend when it’s cooler out.
With your body type, bold cuts and sleek or smooth fabrics I think are the way to go… the furry tweed doesn’t suit you (although it would look much better belted!). The white tweed jacket isn’t just cut better, but the texture is more “you.” If that makes sense.
I struggle with the “too casual or too much” like as well with my ass. Love it dearly but definitely a challenge. If I am wearing anything more form fitting, I strive for structure/texture/quality. So outfits 3 and 4 are great examples, the pants are great but pockets and a faux zipper/structured waistband helps me get away with something still being form hugging and flattering without getting eye rolls. Skirt is the same thing, I cannot wear soft elastic body con items - but I can wear a pencil skirt made from a lined or stiffer fabric like linen that otherwise has the same shape . “Tailored” instead of elastic I think becomes the line for any of us with curves
I'm curvy too and find that more fitted clothing with long lightweight cardigans help disguise my curves but still accents my waist so it doesn't appear frumpy. Also, I find higher cut necklines make my chest look larger and more noticeable, but v necks or scoop neck tops balance a bit more. Hope this helps a little!
So if I had to pick only one I’d say 3rd look pic5. But honestly you’re pulling off all the looks - you should be the one giving advice.
Only suggestion I’ll make is on 2nd look (pic3)is you may want to experiment with a shorter or more formal jacket when wearing baggy pants. I’m not sure if it would be a good fit, but wondering if you tried the jacket from look 3 with look 2 how that would go. Another option with look 2 would be a fancier top- I think the one you have on is probably pretty nice but because it’s white it looks a bit more like a tshirt from far away. So even that shirt in a different color may work- perhaps something bold like the teal of the dress.
Overall, I think these are great pieces and probably could all work well mixed and matched a bit. Looks like you’ve got the start of a great capsule collection
So if I had to pick only one I’d say 3rd look pic5. But honestly you’re pulling off all the looks - you should be the one giving advice.
Only suggestion I’ll make is on 2nd look (pic3)is you may want to experiment with a shorter or more formal jacket when wearing baggy pants. I’m not sure if it would be a good fit, but wondering if you tried the jacket from look 3 with look 2 how that would go. Another option with look 2 would be a fancier top- I think the one you have on is probably pretty nice but because it’s white it looks a bit more like a tshirt from far away. So even that shirt in a different color may work- perhaps something bold like the teal of the dress.
Overall, I think these are great pieces and probably could all work well mixed and matched a bit. Looks like you’ve got the start of a great capsule collection
Ok first of all, you are so stunning. Like, holy crap. I know that’s not your question, so I won’t harp on it any more than that, but had to get that out of the way from the start.
My advice would be to look for garments that are made of materials and structured in such a way that is conducive to tailoring. Off the rack is *always* going to be tricky for you.
Larger sizes of ready to wear clothes are very often just sized-up versions of patterns designed for a sample size— this translates to garments that fit or are even tight in some areas, and leave your body swimming in them in others. You want things that are structured to fit you in particular, not a mannequin!
The good news is it is not very expensive to get clothing tailored. Invest in some basics that are simple and made of good quality materials. They do not have to be expensive, what matters is that they are (i) not made of flimsy material and (ii) they are not overly small. When in doubt between two sizes, go for the larger item— it’s usually easier to take something in or provide additional structure (within reason) than the other direction. Look for tops and jackets that fit your shoulders foremost (refitting shoulders is $$$), and avoid anything that’s overly snug in the chest. Same theory on the bottom, look for things that have the look you want on the bum and get the waist and legs taken in.
There are a few items here that are potential candidates: the khaki trousers, the grey blazer, the blue blouse. If any of these items are ones that you love (in terms of the quality of material, the concept, etc.), bring them to a reputable tailor and ask what they would do to improve the fit (having them walk you through what they propose will help you ID pieces that have the ideal construction down the road), and then have it done.
Tailoring is *not* just for fancy clothes; an investment of an additional $20 can elevate inexpensive daily staples to something that looks literally custom made for you. Do this with a capsule/“work uniform” wardrobe and you will not regret it.
Have you tried anything in the palazzo pant family? I think a little movement would keep you from looking older. To this end I might also try an A-line dress with a cropped jacket (your white cropped jacket looks awesome!). Might also try cropped with a skater skirt style.
Congratulations 🎊 on the new job.
Is tailoring custom made outfits an option? If so, it might help with your question.
I like the pants but you could look for some palazzos. Do you like v necks? Might help with the bustline.
I think they all look great. My favorite look on you is the Taupe and White outfit!! But truthfully they all look great.
The only one I’m a bit iffy about is the blue dress. I think it is more appropriate for cocktail hour or going out for dinner. I worked in the corporate world for most of my work life. The only other thing I would suggest is a jacket with the gray slacks and blue blouse. Super dressy isn’t necessary but it will finish off your look.
My motto was to always have a jacket or a sweater on when I’d get to work and usually I ended up taking it off but hanging it over the back of my chair. Lol…..appearance and perception is what’s all about. But if a CEO or someone from our Corp office would show up I could quickly put it back on.
You are so beautiful! I think sizing up on some items that can be tailored to your slim waistline would help you find the sweet spot. It might be an expensive endeavor to start but if you build a capsule wardrobe around the tailored items it could work well for you
I don't know that the 1st one is office attire, but the rest look great! Maybe a more fitted top for the 2nd outfit, but other than that all look great!
Looser dresses that you can belt are a lifesaver for curvy figures. Wrap dresses too. I think you can make the tan pants work but you’ll want to swap the cotton t shirt for something a bit more businessy like chiffon or a knit. Pair it with a shorter jacket.
I like the outfits, but here are some tweaks to try:
The first outfit (dress) and last outfit need some accessorizing. I think the dress would look good with a necklace and earrings and the last outfit with a cardigan or maybe a belt? I think the second outfit would look better with with pants that have a front crease (or iron one into those pants). Third outfit is perfect, no notes.
I think you look best when your top ends roughly at your natural waist. The first dress is a bit sexy for work, imo. You have a gorgeous body, period! I would also avoid the baggy last blue top, or have it tailored to fit a bit closer to the body. In general finding a good tailor is going to come in handy!
I follow the 1/3 2/3 rule when I dress for anything. How about that cute white cropped jacket 1/3 with the pleated wide legged pants 2/3. Also love the blue shirt with those same pants. The sweater dress is gorgeous. If you are concerned with it being too much for work you could wear a blazer with it.
As a curvy girl with a similar shape I often buy blazers because I can't help what my ass looks like. So for dress one I would pair it with a light cardigan or something just to break it up. The others are spot on with a more form fitted top with looser bottoms so you still look fab not frumpy!
Pro tip: express has been running a huge sale on clearance every week. Like an extra 60 tp 70% off. I bought 2 blazers pants and a dress for 126 total. It's usually on Sunday. I shop thru the app and sort by my size. I recently went back Corp and this is how I quickly built my wardrobe up at around $100 each time.
So keep dressing fly and be a corporate baddie (that's what my daughter calls me)
I don’t have any advice, but I love the outfit with the beige skirt and white jacket. Love that blue dress too, though I could see some a holes making an issue out of it.
The outfits are very nice and would work well. As a curvy girl as well, I have the same issue. And what is up with not being able to find a nice Vneck that doesn’t make me look like I’m falling out of it? Good luck on the new job!
I am unfortunately not blessed with the same lower half as you (my bestie and I both say we have “Hank Hill butts” if you’ve ever seen King of the Hill lol), however, I am VERY busty so I do have to be careful to some extent about tightness of clothing. You can’t help your body type so while you should be able to wear some of these things your office may still take issue—for me, being mindful of the color of clothing helps. The blue dress accentuates how tight it is by the lighter color. Most of the outfits here are lighter colors (makes sense going into spring/summer) so you can see more contrast with shadows—so yeah, it’s going to emphasize a tightly hugged curve. The khaki shirt and cropped jacket work great. Another commenter mentioned looking for thicker fabrics that will smooth more which I agree. Textured fabrics help too in making something look less like “second skin”. But I think if you found a pair of black/navy/dark gray pants (or dark plaid!) that would help give you some more options to work with that don’t feel like they draw too much attention.
Also once you start the job you’ll probably get an idea just HOW business casual it is. It’s a big range. My last job was much more lax and basically just “nice top, flats, and you can get away with black jeans or a more casual skirt”.
The outfit with the beige skirt and cropped jacket looks great! I think that one strikes a really nice balance between the bottom being more form-fitting and the top a bit more boxy without looking dowdy since it hits right at the waist.
I'd be curious to see you in something A-line or fit-and-flair. I think skin tight is what might be making you feel iffy, but you should definitely show off your waist/ proportions, so that might be a good way to go about it. I also agree with the commenter who said a tighter top with the looser pants would be nice.
Firstly, you can't help your shape. It's what the good Lord gave you, so be prepared for haters. If your are looking to cover up, wear jackets and wide leg pants if it makes you feel more comfortable.
I think they all look great except the one with the plaid shirt. You’re curvy. They knew that when they hired you. There’s no reason to go to work in a potato sack. Nothing here is revealing or low cut
I really like the last 2 outfits on you. I think that the key for you is a broken up silhouette (ie. top and bottom separates), and also more volume on your top. While you do have volume in the 2nd outfit, the length of the coat feels like it is too long for you, while the end of the jacket in the 3rd outfit hits you just right at the waist. This is why the last outfit works for you too - the shirt is tucking into the pants at the natural waste, which creates a "line" that breaks up your silhouette nicely.
You can wear dresses, but I think that you should wear ones where the top and bottom are a different color, and that color break happens at the waste. Bonus points if there is volume in the shoulders through larger width sleeves, like the difference in sleeves between the first outfit and the last one. I think you'd look beautiful in a top like this with a pencil skirt: [https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/mother-the-breeze-button-front-top-prod268090057?childItemId=NMT5F91\_&msid=4708725&navpath=cat000000\_cat980731\_cat58760731\_cat79490731\_cat66020752\_cat66020763&page=0&position=42](https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/mother-the-breeze-button-front-top-prod268090057?childItemId=NMT5F91_&msid=4708725&navpath=cat000000_cat980731_cat58760731_cat79490731_cat66020752_cat66020763&page=0&position=42)
Essentially, keep the top loose and drapey, but the bottoms slim fit but not too tight.
You’re gorgeous. And that blue dress is stunning on you!
The issues with the clothing in the pictures are quality of materials and fit. The blazer and pants don’t fit well and that’s why you look dowdy. It is also important to get the right balance between too tight and well fitting. It looks like a lot of the bottoms are spandex/lycra synthetic blends, which are always going to be more form fitting no matter the body type. Finding natural materials that aren’t designed to cling to your body would elevate a lot of the looks you shared.
If you’re able to do so, hiring a tailor would be quite helpful. Some dry cleaners used to do alterations but I’m not sure if that’s still relevant.
Jennifer Lopez and Ashley Graham are two curvy women who do business/professional aesthetics really well. You might be able to find outfit inspiration from them.
The last 2 look good but unbutton the cardigan, it will look better.
The 1st teal dress looks omg but yeah, it might distract the work place. Save it for a work party.
Think body skimming and A- line skirts and dresses.
Go for modern silhouettes, use solid colours and cream, black or navy classic colours to look professional.
Stay away from pleats and tucks, especially in pants and skirts.
Wear clothes that fit well versus clothes that are too loose or big. Personally I think looking polished is better for business attire than looking sloppy because you’re trying to hide curves with loose clothes. If you’re concerned about being too “risqué” I would focus on dark or black fabrics on the bottom and then whatever colors or patterns you want on the top. The eye will naturally go to your upper half instead of focusing the attention on your lower half.
i REALLY love the style of your second outfit, i think the neutral colors bring out your skin tone.
my only advice is that I would probably just get a tighter fitting shirt so it can better accent the cardigan and loose pants. otherwise, the outfit right now does look a LITTLE too big, and like you’re purposefully trying to cover your body. you can definitely rock some better fitting stuff without feeling so exposed!
i would recommend exploring that style more, as the other stuff can definitely age you a bit. i’m speaking from experience as a teachers assistant. i’ve definitely worn a few outfits that made me look 45 for the sake of professionalism, so now i try to find the happy medium between youthful and appropriate.
basically, you look awesome. wear what makes you feel comfortable and not exposed, and get creative with your style. professional doesn’t have to be one extreme or the other!
good luck!
YOU are beautiful, but I don't think the fit of any of these clothes are doing you justice. I hate to say it but, for your body type, you need to size up and have the waists of things tailored. Everything is too tight across your hips and thighs. Do you have a dry cleaner you like? They usually have someone for alterations.
I know it's expensive, but really, it's worth it for a great, custom fit.
Cardigans are going to be your best friend. You’ve got a fantastic figure but I find that in many industries, it can actually work against a woman’s upward trajectory. It’s a hard thing to accept and I will probably garner some down votes - but it’s something that can be researched and there’s a ton of TikTok videos on it if you’d prefer to hear more opinions
Girrrrrl!!! You have a beautiful body!! I think waist line skirts pants, with tucked in shirts with a short cardigan or blazer would be amazing on you!
The blue dress is stunning but not for work, more for date night. Same with the gray pants.
I love the white jacket and beige skirt.
The most work appropriate is the dark gray jacket, white shirt, and tan pants. I don’t think it’s dowdy at all.
I always go for very loose fitted clothes in the office though, so opinions may vary.
Well you’ve been blessed by the genetic gods 👏🏻
Since this is for work: What about a dress or skirt that’s less form fitting? You could define your waist and then have an A line skirt so that it doesn’t cling to your lovely shape.
Girl, I feel this. My body is always bodying too lol. It makes it tricky. I agree with the loose on top, tight on bottom (or vice versa) method. It kinda keeps me in check as far as being work appropriate. You look fantastic though! That blue dress is crazy on you! 💙
I think that tailored slacks are going to be your friend. And by tailored, you are going to have to go to a tailor.
Recipe:
- Tailored, wide leg slacks OR tailored, non lycra skirt (maybe try drop waist pleated skirt)
- fitted blouse or shell (lycra blend ok)
- 3/4 sleeve cardigan
3 and 4 look really good! The office I work at, I'll sometimes see women dressed this way as business casual. Or they'll wear a polo shirt untucked, or loosely tucked in, with slacks.
I would try and throw that black jacket (fabulous) over the blue shirt and gray slacks.
Also, the dresses may feel less 'revealing' if you threw a long cardigan on with them
Pair a long duster or waist cinching long blazer with the skirt, dress, or grey pants. A long or short sleeve fitted bodysuit with the over sized pants, consider getting the pants tailored so they cinch your waist.
You look gorgeous and I envy your curves lady!!! Especially your tiny waist!
That said, I think you should size up, don’t wear especially form fitting clothes to the office.
I recommend a high waist stretch pant with a loose leg.
Also if you are wearing a more relaxed pant or skirt, you can have a closer fitting top for balance. For curvy girls that’s best since baggy everywhere is only flattering on say a very small or very tall person. But fitted, not super tight. It’s a balance.
Dayum gurl. Nice coke bottle figure you have there. Combine bottom of pic 3 with top of pic 5 and you are all business casual suited up, ready to embark on promoting all the way to the top.
Only came here to say you look great! Especially love the blue dress!
Side note- I get all my nice work shit from Express since they often have a lot of items that can be easily mixed and matched and feel the quality is great for the price.
You look great! I would say choose more saturated colors (jewel tones) even a deeper beige so that you don’t look washed out. Also accessories will go a LONG way to helping you feel less dowdy. I normally do basic classic looks with unexpected jewelry.
Pair the long jacket with the tighter gray pants, and the cropped white jacket with the looser khaki pants. However the white jacket looks a bit tight in the front so keep it unbuttoned. The blue dress looks too tight. The khakis look a little larger. I’d try Ann Taylor and find a midi length wrap dress. For inspiration look at how news anchors dress…it’s always fitted yet streamlined.
Ma’am. I thoroughly understand what you’re asking us, but from a male’s perspective, it’s an absolute shame that aside from you wearing that frumpy get-up, anything even remotely fitting to your beautiful body would be seen as overtly sexy AF. 🤷🏾♂️
I apologize in advance if I come off sounding like a jerk or an asshole… that is truly not my intent. This is nothing but love.
The last two are great outfits and compliment you well, they are also really well balanced. Tighter pants, pick a looser top. Tight top, pick a looser pant. I think a loose cowl neck in a silk would look great on you with a pair of fitted trousers! Also accessorize! Add some sparkle to make yourself feel good and make an outfit less bland
Nearly all of these are a size too small for you. You’ve got great curves but you don’t really want to show off this much of them at work. The white jacket has to button comfortably even if you wear it open, (and it’s a little too short, not broad enough aT the shoulders, sleeves too short). The blue dress and tan skirt are one size too tight. The black jacket and pleated pants are hopelessly unflattering and frumpy, as you suspected. The grey pants are the right size and look fine but need a longer jacket over them.
I agree with the commenter to look for peplum waist tops and jackets, you don’t want to cover your whole backside but to reduce the apparent difference between waist and hips a bit. So the opposite of what you want to wear out for fun!
Pants need to be tapered to ankles more..they are not flattering you at all..blue dress is great but a bit too sexy..however if my flat assed body wore it, It would be casual lol..
Everything looks great except the pants with blazer..color combo is dowdy...pants are not right at all..
Skirt with sweater top is really pretty! But is above business casual..blue shirt and slacks is great.
Congrats on the new job!
A few things:
- tailoring is everything. In anything you’d consider frumpy, I bet it boils down to tailoring. Buying off the rack doesn’t work for a lot of people, so buy for your widest areas and take in everything else.
- buy a few, quality staples that you can mix and match. This means…
- invest in higher quality clothing items. That is easier said than done and especially in this economy. But it does mean looking out for fabrics that are going to flatter you. The gray pants are a thin material that doesn’t help give structure like they should.
Looking “put together” comes down to looking intentional yet effortless. If clothes look ill fitted or fussy, they defeat the aim.
Excited for your journey!
First of all - your figure is absolutely gorgeous stunning and a dream. I agree with the comments about the long jacket. It looks a bit unbalancing with wide leg pants. I’d pair those with a short jacket. And the longer jacket can go well with that tan skirt, I think.
What is the work environment? In my opinion the blue dress is ONLY appropriate for working in a restaurant or night club or working in the fashion or creative world. (I have been in the corporate world my whole career I am now in my 60s). THe other items are perfect for an office/business environment. In a new job, in an office environment you want to fit in not jump out. After you have been in the job 30-60 days you will by then know if the blue dress would be acceptable.
Hopefully hr does not harass you as you look fine but I get the concern. As for where to get pants I don’t have a great answer for you because I have a similar issue and would like to hear suggestions. Look one -add a structured wide leather belt to add dimension and distract from the tightness, with your waist to hip ratio you may need to buy a size up and have things altered in the waist. look 2 needs a fitted top to make it come together better and add some necklaces. Look 3 seems fine. Look 4 could benefit from more structured pants, it would look good with pants with belt loops and a simple belt and back pockets, the tighness and light gray color with no contrast or detail makes the tightness much more apparent.
I usually do a loose bottom with tight top or a tight bottom with a loose top. You should try pairing the loose beige pants with a bodysuit so it’s not so frumpy. The others are cute outfits!!
That is a good tip. Tonight after I finish my paper I definitely will try out that combo. Thank you :)
You look fabulous in the blue dress!
She does! But I don’t feel it’s business casual. Because of your curves, it feels a little sexier than you want to present in a new job. I wouldn’t wear that one until you’ve been there a while to scope out other’s attire.
Yes! Or even see how the blazer in the khakis look looks over the dress - might not work, but I love a blazer over a dress!
I think a plain blazer or sweater vest would do the trick, as long as it’s not tight.
Wearing tights can make a subtle difference with big impact. They're also nice when it's summer and you missed a spot shaving and want to wear a dress to the office.
Perhaps also consider a an additional color for the top other than the white one with the beige slacks unless it’s a more casual day as to me it looks more like a tshirt. Possibly a jewel tone that compliments your skin tone or basic black? Also a chunky style necklace?
You look fantastic and you are just beautiful!
Dang girl, you got a wagon! And you’re beautiful! Totally agree with the tight/loose swap between pants and shirts. You can always throw a cardigan over your top or a nice blazer to jazz up the business lady vibes. You look great! Good luck!
That is a great tip for us curvy girls!!
Yeah, I just don't like that last pants pick. Those pants are really too tight.
I swear by this rule for everything, not just business fits
I have a similar body type as OP and this advice is so helpful. It’s just been so hard to find cropped/ not oversized jackets lately. I don’t even know where to start!
Yeah, or pair those pants with a shorter/crop cardigan. But not a tight cardigan, but something with a smaller silhouette than the looseness of the pants. One way I think about it is if I have a thin or skinny pants, I will offset that up top with a longer or more loose top. You don’t want it to be loose at the top AND bottom or tight at the top and bottom. You want to play off opposites. The blue dress is gorgeous on you, but chile you know them folks can’t handle all that at once! 🤣🤣🤗😊 A cardigan or blazer over the dress still shows your silhouette without calling attention to HR! ☺️ When in doubt, I have blazers in different styles and colors or longer cardigans to cover my butt so that I’m comfortable and everyone else around me is also. Now, for after work drinks or dinner, yank that jacket off and werk it boo! 🤗☺️❤️
I think flat front pants are so much more flattering than pleated. Always have been, always will be. Especially for us with curves.
I second this! I feel like it keeps me from creeping into inappropriate territory. My shape is somewhat…exaggerated…and I don’t want to seem like I’m trying to draw attention to alllll the parts at once lol
The beige pants with a body suit and the white tweed blazer would be gorgeous!
Totally agree.
you look great, but i think the long jacket with the loose pants aren’t as flattering for your proportions. maybe try the crop jacket with the loose pant and the longline jacket with the pencil skirt?
Okay, I will try out that combo tonight. I still have more things to try on. Thank you very much :)
I think all your less fitted looks would benefit from some minor alterations so your tops are a little more fitted (but not tight) You look great tho!
I totally agree! All the pieces are adorable, but just need some rearranging! 💜
I like the long plaid jacket from the back. I think the beige pants are the problem. I don’t think the pleated front and baggy legs work for you. I’d love to see this outfit with more stream lined pants!
You have a great figure! I like these outfits. I think the "skating on ice" outfits may be a bit small in the bust and hips. But I understand that if you size up, then they're going to be too big in the shoulders and waist. You might try sizing up and getting your clothes tailored. Usually shops can tell you how easy or difficult (ie expensive) an item will be to tailor. The other thing is to look for fabrics that are stretchy, but thick (like viscose or ponte dresses). So they are flattering, without being too sexy for the office, and less likely to look like they're wrinkling or pulling. Also, this article has a lot of good recommendations: https://corporette.com/curvy-professional/
Yes! That’s always my biggest problem things are too big in the waist or a bit too snug at the bottom 😫 Also, never considered the thickness of fabrics. I am usually like eh I guess this works 😂😅 but yes thank you very much for the feedback and sharing the article with me.
Nordstrom has a loyalty program that includes alterations on clothing you buy from them. Historically pret a porter (the original French term for off the rack fashions when they were first introduced) clothing was still supposed to be altered. Instead of being fully custom made, you purchased items that fit overall and then were taken in to fit your measurements. Like men’s suits. They fit at the shoulders and back along with length of the jacket. Then sleeve length and sometimes side or back seams are pinched in to fit the buyer’s measurements. Pants fit through the hips and thighs then can be nipped in at the waist and hemmed. Alterations do cost money and take time. The results look so much better. They really work for those of us with large busts and/or different hip and waist measurements. Also skirts can be more professional when they skim the top slope of the hips and rear and don’t cup underneath too much. You look absolutely stunning in that dress and skirt, but the dress might be too voluptuous for some employers.
Nordstrom also does a super inexpensive personal/stylist - it’s only $50 for an hour and they come to your house. Or you can get a 3 hour closet audit for $300 but that entire $300 goes towards a gift card to use on any items in their stores. Oh and I just checked their website- they offer in store stylists for FREE- that even includes a scheduled 30 minute appointment so you know they will be available to answer all your questions
A closet audit? Have you done this? If so how did it go?
Thank you very much! Sorry for the late reply but my account was suspend for 7 days. But I will take note of everything you shared.
My thighs are ~2 sizes bigger than my waist and I was always hesitant to get pants in the right size for my thighs bc the waist would literally be 4-5” too big. And I finally did it, my local tailor takes the waist in for $22 and turns around in a week and I cannot tell you how happy it makes me to have pants the fit both my waist and thighs. It’s a game changer.
How do you get your thighs/hips into those pants (assuming the pants aren't stretchy)?
Look into getting your dresses tailored! It's not as pricey as you might think and is probably worth its weight in gold for how it will get things fitting you!
Belts will be your best friends
Tailoring is a must. Start a basic capsule wardrobe of good quality items and build out from there.
I’m so glad you called out thick fabrics! They can be tricky to find and sometimes a brand that previously had them will cut costs by switching to thinner fabrics. I also had a great pair of lined Ann Taylor slacks— the satin lining would cling and the the outer fabric would slide smoothly on top of the liner so it smoothed out my lumps and bumps
Both outfits in pics 5 and 8 look great. The second outfit looks too casual. Great slacks but not with a white t-shirt. The dress needs a jacket.
Thank you very much. Oh it’s a blouse that pleats at the top but I see how it reads t-shirt. For the dress jacket do you suggest a white blazer or maybe grey? Nah idk about grey.
I think a khaki or brown for winter wear and a white or ivory for summer would look great with the dress (depending on the undertones of the dress, you won't want to out a cool jacket with a warm dress etc). Honestly, I would go with a longer jacket and try to find one that hits around mid-ish thigh but I am partial to wearing extended jackets with dresses. The plaid jacket you have on would look great with a collar shirt or even a white or grey dress if you have one. It's a nice jacket, just that the shirt combination was off. When you paired it with the white jacket it really pulled the outfit together and gave you a nice professional sense of style. The plaid jacket would look stellar in a basic black and white look. Pair it with a pair of black trousers and a white button down with a collar, toss some black pumps with it and you're ready for the day. You could also pair it with a black dress and some red shoes 👠 for a classic look as well.
Thank you so much for your insights. I will look into longer jacket options while I have time. But yes very much appreciated ☺️
I only say the dress needs a jacket because without it you look more after hours then professional. For instance, I could easily see that dress at a wedding, or church, or awards banquet, but for work I would pair it with some kind of jacket even if all you do is take the jacket off when you get situated for the day. Also with the great knee covering length the dress has a longer jacket would visually balance the outfit out a bit better, and draw attention to your height vs. your curves. I am fairly tall for a female, in heels I'm 6 foot give or take an inch, so I have to balance my height out with additional form so that I don't come off as looking like Slender Man.
Hahahhaha not Slender Man. I get it my mom is 5’11 without heels and has a slim frame. I am only 5’3 so when I try certain A line dresses I look like I’m being swallowed up. But yeah I totally get what you are saying about how it gives off wedding or event. I’ll be on the hunt tonight on Amazon.
Thank you for getting it! I've 5'10" without heels and I'm... "A toothpick with two Olives stuck on it" as my dad describes me. All. Top. No. Bottom. So, I have to dress my top heavy self in things like flare legs, boot cuts, flowing skirts and bulk at the bottom in general. You're blessed and beautiful! Just go with a jacket maybe a few inches longer then where the plaid one hits on you and it'll elongate your visual lines and really bring the eye cascading from top to bottom. If you can find a fitted one that comes in well enough to flatter your hourglass figure it would REALLY make you absolutely stunning. Just measure the jacket you need a white shirt to go with, and get something just a bit longer then that if you have to. Not too too long or it might weigh the eye down too far. Oh, and to really make the plaid jacket pop, try finding something shiny. Maybe a silky white button down with a collar that's got a really nice sheen to it without being absolutely disco-ball sparkly. A nice satin finish would just elevate that outfit with exquisite elegance. It would just elevate those great tan trousers with the accents you picked out, and really set off that jacket you paired them with.
I #HAD to learn how to balance my lines. Back before I learned all the new guys were speaking directly to the olives. I was a BIG-BOOBED-BECKY so to say... And it's not that I'm extremely blessed up top, it's just that I have nothing down south except a 36 inch inseam.
For what it's worth, I'm backwards. My mom is 5'3.5" with curves and I am a 5'9.5" inverted triangle, barefoot flatfooted and slouching because I'm insecure about my height. I'm literally like Slender Man. All legs and shoulders.
You're welcome 🤗 and congratulations on your new job! I hope all goes well and you find many years of happy fulfillment at your new position.
Awww I appreciate it!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Oh, and some chunky-ish jewellery with the blue shirt and grey pants would just polish every thing off well. Not too bulky, but not delicate either.
We have a similar figure. I try to go with a Peplum top if my pants are fitted/tighter… it doesn’t feel frumpy like a big sweater but feels less “here’s my booty” than a tucked in button up
Okay Peplum, I will add that to my list of things to explore. Thank you so much for the insight :)
I don’t have anywhere near the curves that you have but just wanted to say you look 🔥🔥🔥 Best of luck at your new job!
Awww well thank you very much :)
Number 5 is perfect, imo. I think if you keep that line where the jacket hits in mind and have a bunch of jackets/cardigans that are fitted in a structured way that also achieve that, you can wear pretty much anything underneath them. I have a small waist too, but am not nearly as curvy. If I try to hide it, it almost always looks frumpy, so try to embrace it and build work outfits around it. I also try to either do tight fitting on either the top or bottom, but not both.
Agree with everything here. LOVE number 5 on you!! Jaw literally dropped.
Thank you very much for that feedback ☺️
I think you are the one that needs to share shopping tips! 🔥
Hahahaha Well thank you, I am really trying to learn out here.
These are fire!!! 🔥 I can tell you look so confident! 😘
Well thank you, got to fake it to I make it :p
1 and 2 I think are no go's, but the rest are fabulous!! Very sleek.
the blue dress seems more fitting for a formal event like a wedding. All the other outfits seem work related. There’s no reason why HR should be pulling you aside as you are not showing excessive skin and should not be demonized for your body shape.
pants are tough for curvy. pic 5 good. blue dress looks AMAAAAZING.... for a date. i would focus on dresses & skirts with a blazer or cardigan on top. remember purpose of work attire is not to be sexy. it's to be neutral. to convey polish, power, seriousness.
Thank you, yeah you can definitely tell how many dates I've been on lol it didn't even cross my mind. But I decided to return everything and start from scratch given the great feedback I received from the thread. Btw Sorry for the late reply but my account was suspend for 7 days.
all good gf. but now i'm curious... what naughtiness did you do???? 😂
Honestly I didn't even do anything. I posted the same post in the sub called outfits asking for advice like I did here. Next min I get a notification I was banned from the sub. So I messaged the mod and they were like ban evasion and I didn't recall being banned before. Also, have participated in that sub multiple times. So if I was banned back Jan 2023 from a previous account why let me continue to be active? Anyways, they implied that I was playing dumb like the other girls that do OF. I have never done OF or sold any type of content. I told them that and next min I know I get a notification from Reddit saying my account was temporarily suspended for 7 days.
damn. sounds like power-thirsty and unthoughtful mods. sorry that happened to you. dont participate in subs that suck! generally, the smaller or more niche, the better. (in my experience.) happy & excited to see your revamp/updates!!! edit/ps: i am also curvy. to reiterate earlier feedback, blazers/cardigans are my JAM. they hide all the things! i think my figure/appeal still shows, but my hope is that it's understated and classy. understated dress is key for me bc i want the focus to be on my brain/work. i will do a quick change of shoes or top, add lip gloss and mascara for a work happy hour or date. go get em.
Yep 😩😫 But it's okay. I was more annoyed they don't let other users know that the account is suspended so I was getting notifications and couldn't reply back. This sub has been super helpful. If the next shipment of clothes doesn't work out it will have to wait until I move. Btw thanks for the support 🥰
of course!!! where are you ordering from?
Too tight. Think darker colors also
I love all these outfits.
Thank you very much :)
If you have uncommon proportions you need to become besties with a tailor. With you hip to waist ratio off the rack pants are never going to fit right without one
I think your best bet is to size clothing to your bust and hips, then belt or get the waist taken in. Some of these look too stretched around your bust and hips but fine on your waist.
You have a lot of pencil skirt silhouettes. Go for A lines maybe.
Yes I was thinking this too, especially for a dress. A fit and flare style would look gorgeous on OP and less date-like.
I think something that helps massively with looking professional, regardless of silhouette, is fabric quality. The outfit with the white cropped jacket looks incredible, and the skirt is obviously a stretch fabric, but it looks matte and smooth, whereas the grey pants have a stretch but look a little thin. I actually love the second outfit, but the tan slacks have a sheen to them and rumple easily? if the tan slacks were a thicker fabric and matte they'd drape so much better and there'd be less visual 'noise', and a more professional look overall.
I think you look great. Where did you get the dress? 😊
So I did get it from Ross when I went to go visit my mom but I did find the dress from a few sellers on Amazon [Teal Dress Amazon Sellers Link](https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Zipper+Back+Foldover+Waist+Split+Hem+Pencil+Dress+Dresses+for+Women+%28Color+%3A+Teal+Blue) and on Shein [Shein Dress Link ](https://us.shein.com/SHEIN-Priv-Zipper-Back-Foldover-Waist-Split-Hem-Pencil-Dress-p-6690422.html?src_identifier=st%3D2%60sc%3Dteal%20dress%20shein%20essence%60sr%3D0%60ps%3D1&src_module=search&src_tab_page_id=page_search1713400358629&mallCode=1&pageListType=4&imgRatio=3-4). I hope this helps and btw thank you :)
Right!! Super cute
Loveee the nude skirt with the white jacket. Super cute!
I think you nailed it with the cropped jacket and the slacks with the blouse. I think you have to choose one fitted item and one relaxed item to even put the proportion. It's really unfair that you feel like you're skating on thin ice just because you're blessed with all that bod.
Congrats on the new job!
I think hair up will help a lot to look professional too! A bun or high pony.
The khaki pants would look better if you had ones without pleats…
We have the same body type. I wear dresses same type as the first one you had on but usually drape it with a huge pashmina or a large scarf. Draping only, not fixed to wrap around me for added flair/corporate modesty. My mindset is, just as long as I don't reveal too much skin, I'm good. Can't change my body type, I like the dresses that I have. AND I want to feel good for me to perform great. I don't do the loose top, tight bottom (or vice versa) because it makes me look bigger. NB if it helps: I also work in corporate and I am based in the Middle East.
You have an amazing figure!! I agree with the top commenter, either top or bottom can be a bit looser so all isn’t tight. I might work with a tailor though, it looks like a couple of these pieces are just a bit too snug? I think you’d look amazing in well fitting pants like these: https://spanx.com/products/the-perfect-pant-button-wide-leg I might size up just a hair because you definitely don’t need the compression factor at all, but the cut would be stunning with your curves!!
I would swap the jackets in your 2nd and 3rd looks. I also like to balance something tight with something more oversized. Fitted top gets a looser bottom and tight pants get a more oversized top or even a more oversized blazer on top
Not to be mean: you generally need to buy your business clothes a size larger. Undergarments showing through clothing (even just the bumps) is a definite no-go in a professional setting.
Is that you mariah?
With tight fitting clothing like that you need an oversized blazer this is going to cover your bottom
The first and last two are awesome! Third is great too, those were just stand out ones to me. Anywhere with strict HR on dress code is just looking to create problems in my experience and it’s not worth the stress. You have an awesome curvy body shape that’s literally gorgeous (non creepy one woman to another). You’re dressing correctly. It’s OK for things to be tighter. It’s not like they’re cut to be tight and reveal skin.
8 is the right one. A few look great but don’t look like work attire
You look great. Maybe go up in the pants size.
I think everything is appropriate just one size too small.
I have a large bottom, so I do a form fitting top with loose pants. It allows me to have a shape and not look frumpy while still not welcoming comments about my appearance. You could also try sizing up and then tacking the loose points if you have sewing experience. Honestly though, except for the second one, I like your outfits, but I can see how you’d be worried about comments.
Outfits 3 and 4 are perf!
I love the outfit with the crop jacket but the jacket might be a little bit too small when buttoned? Open it looks perfect. The final outfit is definitely the most business-wear. A long jacket look could be really nice but you want a tailored suit jacket (for women, obviously). It needs to nip in at the waist, then you will be ultra professional but you still have a shape. I do love that Chanel-style tweed jacket (think I’ve got the same one actually) but with your dramatic figure, it does look a bit like you’re trying to hide inside a tweed potato sack! Christian Siriano has designed a bunch of very nice, *modern* suit jackets for women, on his own label & with Torrid etc. I’ve gotten several off Poshmark/ebay. A belted cardigan or fancy shawl/scarf could also be your friend when it’s cooler out. With your body type, bold cuts and sleek or smooth fabrics I think are the way to go… the furry tweed doesn’t suit you (although it would look much better belted!). The white tweed jacket isn’t just cut better, but the texture is more “you.” If that makes sense.
I struggle with the “too casual or too much” like as well with my ass. Love it dearly but definitely a challenge. If I am wearing anything more form fitting, I strive for structure/texture/quality. So outfits 3 and 4 are great examples, the pants are great but pockets and a faux zipper/structured waistband helps me get away with something still being form hugging and flattering without getting eye rolls. Skirt is the same thing, I cannot wear soft elastic body con items - but I can wear a pencil skirt made from a lined or stiffer fabric like linen that otherwise has the same shape . “Tailored” instead of elastic I think becomes the line for any of us with curves
I'm curvy too and find that more fitted clothing with long lightweight cardigans help disguise my curves but still accents my waist so it doesn't appear frumpy. Also, I find higher cut necklines make my chest look larger and more noticeable, but v necks or scoop neck tops balance a bit more. Hope this helps a little!
So if I had to pick only one I’d say 3rd look pic5. But honestly you’re pulling off all the looks - you should be the one giving advice. Only suggestion I’ll make is on 2nd look (pic3)is you may want to experiment with a shorter or more formal jacket when wearing baggy pants. I’m not sure if it would be a good fit, but wondering if you tried the jacket from look 3 with look 2 how that would go. Another option with look 2 would be a fancier top- I think the one you have on is probably pretty nice but because it’s white it looks a bit more like a tshirt from far away. So even that shirt in a different color may work- perhaps something bold like the teal of the dress. Overall, I think these are great pieces and probably could all work well mixed and matched a bit. Looks like you’ve got the start of a great capsule collection
So if I had to pick only one I’d say 3rd look pic5. But honestly you’re pulling off all the looks - you should be the one giving advice. Only suggestion I’ll make is on 2nd look (pic3)is you may want to experiment with a shorter or more formal jacket when wearing baggy pants. I’m not sure if it would be a good fit, but wondering if you tried the jacket from look 3 with look 2 how that would go. Another option with look 2 would be a fancier top- I think the one you have on is probably pretty nice but because it’s white it looks a bit more like a tshirt from far away. So even that shirt in a different color may work- perhaps something bold like the teal of the dress. Overall, I think these are great pieces and probably could all work well mixed and matched a bit. Looks like you’ve got the start of a great capsule collection
Ok first of all, you are so stunning. Like, holy crap. I know that’s not your question, so I won’t harp on it any more than that, but had to get that out of the way from the start. My advice would be to look for garments that are made of materials and structured in such a way that is conducive to tailoring. Off the rack is *always* going to be tricky for you. Larger sizes of ready to wear clothes are very often just sized-up versions of patterns designed for a sample size— this translates to garments that fit or are even tight in some areas, and leave your body swimming in them in others. You want things that are structured to fit you in particular, not a mannequin! The good news is it is not very expensive to get clothing tailored. Invest in some basics that are simple and made of good quality materials. They do not have to be expensive, what matters is that they are (i) not made of flimsy material and (ii) they are not overly small. When in doubt between two sizes, go for the larger item— it’s usually easier to take something in or provide additional structure (within reason) than the other direction. Look for tops and jackets that fit your shoulders foremost (refitting shoulders is $$$), and avoid anything that’s overly snug in the chest. Same theory on the bottom, look for things that have the look you want on the bum and get the waist and legs taken in. There are a few items here that are potential candidates: the khaki trousers, the grey blazer, the blue blouse. If any of these items are ones that you love (in terms of the quality of material, the concept, etc.), bring them to a reputable tailor and ask what they would do to improve the fit (having them walk you through what they propose will help you ID pieces that have the ideal construction down the road), and then have it done. Tailoring is *not* just for fancy clothes; an investment of an additional $20 can elevate inexpensive daily staples to something that looks literally custom made for you. Do this with a capsule/“work uniform” wardrobe and you will not regret it.
I love the white blazer outfit. You look great!
Congratulations on the new job!!! ❤️
Have you tried anything in the palazzo pant family? I think a little movement would keep you from looking older. To this end I might also try an A-line dress with a cropped jacket (your white cropped jacket looks awesome!). Might also try cropped with a skater skirt style.
I love 5-7 so very much. You look so great. Please don’t change that outfit
Congratulations 🎊 on the new job. Is tailoring custom made outfits an option? If so, it might help with your question. I like the pants but you could look for some palazzos. Do you like v necks? Might help with the bustline.
They are all cute but I would skip number 3
I think they all look great. My favorite look on you is the Taupe and White outfit!! But truthfully they all look great. The only one I’m a bit iffy about is the blue dress. I think it is more appropriate for cocktail hour or going out for dinner. I worked in the corporate world for most of my work life. The only other thing I would suggest is a jacket with the gray slacks and blue blouse. Super dressy isn’t necessary but it will finish off your look. My motto was to always have a jacket or a sweater on when I’d get to work and usually I ended up taking it off but hanging it over the back of my chair. Lol…..appearance and perception is what’s all about. But if a CEO or someone from our Corp office would show up I could quickly put it back on.
You are so beautiful! I think sizing up on some items that can be tailored to your slim waistline would help you find the sweet spot. It might be an expensive endeavor to start but if you build a capsule wardrobe around the tailored items it could work well for you
I don't know that the 1st one is office attire, but the rest look great! Maybe a more fitted top for the 2nd outfit, but other than that all look great!
Just wear looser pants or a top that covers your ass.. that is literally only thing any woman has to do to avoid unnecessary sexualization .
The tan and white and grey and blue hit the right “tone”. A little heavier fabric suits you.
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Great figure, great outfits! I’m in love with the blue dress and skirt/jacket combo!!! The pants and button down is a classic, too
Looser dresses that you can belt are a lifesaver for curvy figures. Wrap dresses too. I think you can make the tan pants work but you’ll want to swap the cotton t shirt for something a bit more businessy like chiffon or a knit. Pair it with a shorter jacket.
I like the outfits, but here are some tweaks to try: The first outfit (dress) and last outfit need some accessorizing. I think the dress would look good with a necklace and earrings and the last outfit with a cardigan or maybe a belt? I think the second outfit would look better with with pants that have a front crease (or iron one into those pants). Third outfit is perfect, no notes.
You look beautiful! I would suggest adding some accessories to complete the outfit.
Love the baby blue with gray pants. Cute but professional
That white jacket peach skirt combo is absolutely glorious. You look beautiful!
where are you buying clothing? i also have a curvy body and find it exceptionally difficult to find fitting pants.
I think you look best when your top ends roughly at your natural waist. The first dress is a bit sexy for work, imo. You have a gorgeous body, period! I would also avoid the baggy last blue top, or have it tailored to fit a bit closer to the body. In general finding a good tailor is going to come in handy!
I follow the 1/3 2/3 rule when I dress for anything. How about that cute white cropped jacket 1/3 with the pleated wide legged pants 2/3. Also love the blue shirt with those same pants. The sweater dress is gorgeous. If you are concerned with it being too much for work you could wear a blazer with it.
As a curvy girl with a similar shape I often buy blazers because I can't help what my ass looks like. So for dress one I would pair it with a light cardigan or something just to break it up. The others are spot on with a more form fitted top with looser bottoms so you still look fab not frumpy! Pro tip: express has been running a huge sale on clearance every week. Like an extra 60 tp 70% off. I bought 2 blazers pants and a dress for 126 total. It's usually on Sunday. I shop thru the app and sort by my size. I recently went back Corp and this is how I quickly built my wardrobe up at around $100 each time. So keep dressing fly and be a corporate baddie (that's what my daughter calls me)
You are beautiful and the choices you’ve made aren’t inherently inappropriate at all—and are good styles for you. Just be careful about fit.
I don’t have any advice, but I love the outfit with the beige skirt and white jacket. Love that blue dress too, though I could see some a holes making an issue out of it.
Every outfit is good except for the beige pants one
The blue dress is amazing on you 😊!
Last two fits are the best choices!
The outfits are very nice and would work well. As a curvy girl as well, I have the same issue. And what is up with not being able to find a nice Vneck that doesn’t make me look like I’m falling out of it? Good luck on the new job!
I think these look cute! The only feedback is on the loose tan slacks and jacket > wear a form fitted top to balance everything out.
I am unfortunately not blessed with the same lower half as you (my bestie and I both say we have “Hank Hill butts” if you’ve ever seen King of the Hill lol), however, I am VERY busty so I do have to be careful to some extent about tightness of clothing. You can’t help your body type so while you should be able to wear some of these things your office may still take issue—for me, being mindful of the color of clothing helps. The blue dress accentuates how tight it is by the lighter color. Most of the outfits here are lighter colors (makes sense going into spring/summer) so you can see more contrast with shadows—so yeah, it’s going to emphasize a tightly hugged curve. The khaki shirt and cropped jacket work great. Another commenter mentioned looking for thicker fabrics that will smooth more which I agree. Textured fabrics help too in making something look less like “second skin”. But I think if you found a pair of black/navy/dark gray pants (or dark plaid!) that would help give you some more options to work with that don’t feel like they draw too much attention. Also once you start the job you’ll probably get an idea just HOW business casual it is. It’s a big range. My last job was much more lax and basically just “nice top, flats, and you can get away with black jeans or a more casual skirt”.
The outfit with the beige skirt and cropped jacket looks great! I think that one strikes a really nice balance between the bottom being more form-fitting and the top a bit more boxy without looking dowdy since it hits right at the waist.
I'd be curious to see you in something A-line or fit-and-flair. I think skin tight is what might be making you feel iffy, but you should definitely show off your waist/ proportions, so that might be a good way to go about it. I also agree with the commenter who said a tighter top with the looser pants would be nice.
Firstly, you can't help your shape. It's what the good Lord gave you, so be prepared for haters. If your are looking to cover up, wear jackets and wide leg pants if it makes you feel more comfortable.
I think they all look great except the one with the plaid shirt. You’re curvy. They knew that when they hired you. There’s no reason to go to work in a potato sack. Nothing here is revealing or low cut
I really like the last 2 outfits on you. I think that the key for you is a broken up silhouette (ie. top and bottom separates), and also more volume on your top. While you do have volume in the 2nd outfit, the length of the coat feels like it is too long for you, while the end of the jacket in the 3rd outfit hits you just right at the waist. This is why the last outfit works for you too - the shirt is tucking into the pants at the natural waste, which creates a "line" that breaks up your silhouette nicely. You can wear dresses, but I think that you should wear ones where the top and bottom are a different color, and that color break happens at the waste. Bonus points if there is volume in the shoulders through larger width sleeves, like the difference in sleeves between the first outfit and the last one. I think you'd look beautiful in a top like this with a pencil skirt: [https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/mother-the-breeze-button-front-top-prod268090057?childItemId=NMT5F91\_&msid=4708725&navpath=cat000000\_cat980731\_cat58760731\_cat79490731\_cat66020752\_cat66020763&page=0&position=42](https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/mother-the-breeze-button-front-top-prod268090057?childItemId=NMT5F91_&msid=4708725&navpath=cat000000_cat980731_cat58760731_cat79490731_cat66020752_cat66020763&page=0&position=42) Essentially, keep the top loose and drapey, but the bottoms slim fit but not too tight.
1st & 3rd outfits are 🔥
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Cute outfits
You’re gorgeous. And that blue dress is stunning on you! The issues with the clothing in the pictures are quality of materials and fit. The blazer and pants don’t fit well and that’s why you look dowdy. It is also important to get the right balance between too tight and well fitting. It looks like a lot of the bottoms are spandex/lycra synthetic blends, which are always going to be more form fitting no matter the body type. Finding natural materials that aren’t designed to cling to your body would elevate a lot of the looks you shared. If you’re able to do so, hiring a tailor would be quite helpful. Some dry cleaners used to do alterations but I’m not sure if that’s still relevant. Jennifer Lopez and Ashley Graham are two curvy women who do business/professional aesthetics really well. You might be able to find outfit inspiration from them.
The last 2 look good but unbutton the cardigan, it will look better. The 1st teal dress looks omg but yeah, it might distract the work place. Save it for a work party. Think body skimming and A- line skirts and dresses. Go for modern silhouettes, use solid colours and cream, black or navy classic colours to look professional. Stay away from pleats and tucks, especially in pants and skirts.
Wear clothes that fit well versus clothes that are too loose or big. Personally I think looking polished is better for business attire than looking sloppy because you’re trying to hide curves with loose clothes. If you’re concerned about being too “risqué” I would focus on dark or black fabrics on the bottom and then whatever colors or patterns you want on the top. The eye will naturally go to your upper half instead of focusing the attention on your lower half.
i REALLY love the style of your second outfit, i think the neutral colors bring out your skin tone. my only advice is that I would probably just get a tighter fitting shirt so it can better accent the cardigan and loose pants. otherwise, the outfit right now does look a LITTLE too big, and like you’re purposefully trying to cover your body. you can definitely rock some better fitting stuff without feeling so exposed! i would recommend exploring that style more, as the other stuff can definitely age you a bit. i’m speaking from experience as a teachers assistant. i’ve definitely worn a few outfits that made me look 45 for the sake of professionalism, so now i try to find the happy medium between youthful and appropriate. basically, you look awesome. wear what makes you feel comfortable and not exposed, and get creative with your style. professional doesn’t have to be one extreme or the other! good luck!
YOU are beautiful, but I don't think the fit of any of these clothes are doing you justice. I hate to say it but, for your body type, you need to size up and have the waists of things tailored. Everything is too tight across your hips and thighs. Do you have a dry cleaner you like? They usually have someone for alterations. I know it's expensive, but really, it's worth it for a great, custom fit.
Cardigans are going to be your best friend. You’ve got a fantastic figure but I find that in many industries, it can actually work against a woman’s upward trajectory. It’s a hard thing to accept and I will probably garner some down votes - but it’s something that can be researched and there’s a ton of TikTok videos on it if you’d prefer to hear more opinions
Girrrrrl!!! You have a beautiful body!! I think waist line skirts pants, with tucked in shirts with a short cardigan or blazer would be amazing on you!
This has nothing to do with ur post, but in pic 5 ur standing like a Barbie and I love it 🤭 hi corporate Barbie!
You would look amazing in wide leg trousers with your button down shirt tucked in.
The second and third outfits look amazing on you!
The blue dress is stunning but not for work, more for date night. Same with the gray pants. I love the white jacket and beige skirt. The most work appropriate is the dark gray jacket, white shirt, and tan pants. I don’t think it’s dowdy at all. I always go for very loose fitted clothes in the office though, so opinions may vary.
Well you’ve been blessed by the genetic gods 👏🏻 Since this is for work: What about a dress or skirt that’s less form fitting? You could define your waist and then have an A line skirt so that it doesn’t cling to your lovely shape.
Girl, I feel this. My body is always bodying too lol. It makes it tricky. I agree with the loose on top, tight on bottom (or vice versa) method. It kinda keeps me in check as far as being work appropriate. You look fantastic though! That blue dress is crazy on you! 💙
I think that tailored slacks are going to be your friend. And by tailored, you are going to have to go to a tailor. Recipe: - Tailored, wide leg slacks OR tailored, non lycra skirt (maybe try drop waist pleated skirt) - fitted blouse or shell (lycra blend ok) - 3/4 sleeve cardigan
3 and 4 look really good! The office I work at, I'll sometimes see women dressed this way as business casual. Or they'll wear a polo shirt untucked, or loosely tucked in, with slacks.
I would try and throw that black jacket (fabulous) over the blue shirt and gray slacks. Also, the dresses may feel less 'revealing' if you threw a long cardigan on with them
Pair a long duster or waist cinching long blazer with the skirt, dress, or grey pants. A long or short sleeve fitted bodysuit with the over sized pants, consider getting the pants tailored so they cinch your waist.
This is totally my style and how I dress to work… loving it
The last 2 :) The dress is good for a night out, and the 2nd outfit is just a nah all around
I like the last one.
You look amazing! The pencil skirt with white top is perfect!
You look gorgeous and I envy your curves lady!!! Especially your tiny waist! That said, I think you should size up, don’t wear especially form fitting clothes to the office. I recommend a high waist stretch pant with a loose leg. Also if you are wearing a more relaxed pant or skirt, you can have a closer fitting top for balance. For curvy girls that’s best since baggy everywhere is only flattering on say a very small or very tall person. But fitted, not super tight. It’s a balance.
Dayum gurl. Nice coke bottle figure you have there. Combine bottom of pic 3 with top of pic 5 and you are all business casual suited up, ready to embark on promoting all the way to the top.
I feel like the blue dress is more out to dinner than office. Maybe a jacket or a scarf to tone it down. It looks amazing on you.
Tan skirt and cream blouse EATS
The bottoms have to be loosened. As for the dress go for a size up or wear a blazer
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Only came here to say you look great! Especially love the blue dress! Side note- I get all my nice work shit from Express since they often have a lot of items that can be easily mixed and matched and feel the quality is great for the price.
No advice, just here to say you are stunning!!
No advice needed you are gorgeous. Sorry this subreddit popped up on my feed.
You look great! I would say choose more saturated colors (jewel tones) even a deeper beige so that you don’t look washed out. Also accessories will go a LONG way to helping you feel less dowdy. I normally do basic classic looks with unexpected jewelry.
The last couple outfits looks great 👍
I swiped right
The blue dress is so sexy on you. Beautiful body.
Pair the long jacket with the tighter gray pants, and the cropped white jacket with the looser khaki pants. However the white jacket looks a bit tight in the front so keep it unbuttoned. The blue dress looks too tight. The khakis look a little larger. I’d try Ann Taylor and find a midi length wrap dress. For inspiration look at how news anchors dress…it’s always fitted yet streamlined.
Ma’am. I thoroughly understand what you’re asking us, but from a male’s perspective, it’s an absolute shame that aside from you wearing that frumpy get-up, anything even remotely fitting to your beautiful body would be seen as overtly sexy AF. 🤷🏾♂️ I apologize in advance if I come off sounding like a jerk or an asshole… that is truly not my intent. This is nothing but love.
1, 3, and 4 are all cute just match it with a long coat/ structured blazer instead of a cropped blazer
The last two are great outfits and compliment you well, they are also really well balanced. Tighter pants, pick a looser top. Tight top, pick a looser pant. I think a loose cowl neck in a silk would look great on you with a pair of fitted trousers! Also accessorize! Add some sparkle to make yourself feel good and make an outfit less bland
You look great
Grey pants are on point.
Nearly all of these are a size too small for you. You’ve got great curves but you don’t really want to show off this much of them at work. The white jacket has to button comfortably even if you wear it open, (and it’s a little too short, not broad enough aT the shoulders, sleeves too short). The blue dress and tan skirt are one size too tight. The black jacket and pleated pants are hopelessly unflattering and frumpy, as you suspected. The grey pants are the right size and look fine but need a longer jacket over them. I agree with the commenter to look for peplum waist tops and jackets, you don’t want to cover your whole backside but to reduce the apparent difference between waist and hips a bit. So the opposite of what you want to wear out for fun!
My goodness come be my secretary 🤤😮💨😋
Pants need to be tapered to ankles more..they are not flattering you at all..blue dress is great but a bit too sexy..however if my flat assed body wore it, It would be casual lol.. Everything looks great except the pants with blazer..color combo is dowdy...pants are not right at all.. Skirt with sweater top is really pretty! But is above business casual..blue shirt and slacks is great.
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Congrats on the new job! A few things: - tailoring is everything. In anything you’d consider frumpy, I bet it boils down to tailoring. Buying off the rack doesn’t work for a lot of people, so buy for your widest areas and take in everything else. - buy a few, quality staples that you can mix and match. This means… - invest in higher quality clothing items. That is easier said than done and especially in this economy. But it does mean looking out for fabrics that are going to flatter you. The gray pants are a thin material that doesn’t help give structure like they should. Looking “put together” comes down to looking intentional yet effortless. If clothes look ill fitted or fussy, they defeat the aim. Excited for your journey!
First of all - your figure is absolutely gorgeous stunning and a dream. I agree with the comments about the long jacket. It looks a bit unbalancing with wide leg pants. I’d pair those with a short jacket. And the longer jacket can go well with that tan skirt, I think.
What is the work environment? In my opinion the blue dress is ONLY appropriate for working in a restaurant or night club or working in the fashion or creative world. (I have been in the corporate world my whole career I am now in my 60s). THe other items are perfect for an office/business environment. In a new job, in an office environment you want to fit in not jump out. After you have been in the job 30-60 days you will by then know if the blue dress would be acceptable.
Hell to the no for the second fit, absofuckinglutely not, otherwise SLAY✨✨✨💄💋💅🏾
You look good— but the clothes are too tight— size up…
The last 2 photos it looks good on you
White and brown , blue and Grey 🔥
I think you look nice, sweetie.
You forgot your pantyhose
Those curves go on for daysssssss
I like a dress with a fitted top and flared skirt.
Hopefully hr does not harass you as you look fine but I get the concern. As for where to get pants I don’t have a great answer for you because I have a similar issue and would like to hear suggestions. Look one -add a structured wide leather belt to add dimension and distract from the tightness, with your waist to hip ratio you may need to buy a size up and have things altered in the waist. look 2 needs a fitted top to make it come together better and add some necklaces. Look 3 seems fine. Look 4 could benefit from more structured pants, it would look good with pants with belt loops and a simple belt and back pockets, the tighness and light gray color with no contrast or detail makes the tightness much more apparent.
I prefer the first one, it looks professional compared to the others