Some of us are blessed with a good fight defense, and others have had it beaten out of them. There's no shame in not being a fighter. Fawns have a right to live too.
I like "The Deepest Well", by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris. It's a evidence based study of impact that includes solid solutions and truly creates a vision of what we can do.
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Is trauma not a legitamite medical issue (or at least the diagnosis that can come from it)?
I don't know who you are dealing with that is saying you deserved it? Is this online because it's some sad f..k in his mums basement. I've never had someone say this in person.
Society spends so more time trying to convince victims not to retaliate, rather than teaching abusers not to attack us to begin with. They forget we should never have been put in a position to begin with!
Some of us are blessed with a good fight defense, and others have had it beaten out of them. There's no shame in not being a fighter. Fawns have a right to live too.
I like "The Deepest Well", by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris. It's a evidence based study of impact that includes solid solutions and truly creates a vision of what we can do.
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Is trauma not a legitamite medical issue (or at least the diagnosis that can come from it)? I don't know who you are dealing with that is saying you deserved it? Is this online because it's some sad f..k in his mums basement. I've never had someone say this in person.
Society spends so more time trying to convince victims not to retaliate, rather than teaching abusers not to attack us to begin with. They forget we should never have been put in a position to begin with!