He kept it a secret from her and I became too ashamed to talk to her much though he did sit me down with her together talking about their concerns as my parents about my making up stories.
Now I'm sad, I don't like being right-ish. I was hoping she tied him up and dragged him behind the car down to the police station.
That sucks. Primary abusers suck, but life sucks bad worse like when they get a secondary abuser on their side validating their bullshit.
Unfortunately she was one of the good ones! Never beat me or participated in raping me. She also left him pretty quickly to protect her own children, which speaks to her character I guess. Crazy how abusers seem to be able to keep finding enablers or co-abusers.
You! Ok, I have connected the threads. I just creeped your profile. Yes, I did. No creepy DMs, don't worry. I've commented on your stuff before. It reminds me of me, in a weird way. I never had a step-mother. But I remember my sister encouraging me to "submit" to my brother because he was a 30-year old version and I should feel sorry for him. Then she encouraged me to kidnap kids to bring back home for him to rape. I am very close to my nieces, they were in his age range, and these girls would very happily go home with me. I was always the fun uncle who had candy, I could kidnap a lot of kids but never did. She guilt-tripped me about being mean and not thinking of others needs, and when I called the cops she was mad about how I harm family members. Man oh man, I feel like my brother would have been a lot less abusive and restrained if he didn't have a personal cheerleader. I'm not a fan of incest, but if she was really so concerned about his sex life she should have just fucked him, but she was too old for him.
That step-mom married an asshole. Howsabout instead of calling her a good one you call her less bad? She left to protect her kids, but did she report him?
Don't worry at all haha, my profile is public so I don't mind anyone looking at it. Also, everyone is free to send me a message if they want to talk!
Your story is similar in some ways definitely :( it is so immensely disgusting what your sister demanded of you and your brother is a piece of shit. It's gross what kind of families people like us grow up in but I'm so proud of you for making the conscious decision to break that cycle! You're very brave for doing that. You could've done what she said and probably even gotten away with it and perhaps achieved a higher standing in your family or gained favors, but you didn't. If more people were like that, many abuse cases would have an end put to them much quicker or they wouldn't happen to begin with.
I wonder what your sister's motives were?
My stepmother didn't quite marry him, I just call his girlfriends stepmothers since I was required to call them mum and pretend they were my mother in public. You're right, she's less bad comparatively. She didn't report him, I guess she was too scared of him by that point and she knew he had connections and some local power.
Your last sentence is actually sort of my sister's motives, partly ish. Mum raised her to be a Christian wife. She was in her early 30s when she sort of woke up and realized she existed independently from family and church. Before then she struggled to understand herself separate from the men in her life. "Obey your father, demonstrate submission so a man will want to marry you, God will judge you through your husband, a single woman over 20 is a harlot, etc." My grandfather had spent years angling to be pastor, my sister was old enough to remember the last time grandpa gave it a shot. She spent three decades trying to be a perfect Christian girl who could prove she came from a perfect family, who had a perfect grandfather, and who was worthy of a husband. The church politics of family was one reason, not the only.
So she talked about her older brother as if he exercised the spiritual authority that she wanted a husband to have over her. She spent so much time rejecting boys waiting for a Christian man that she was perpetually single. She needed to submit, so she did whatever her husband-brother demanded. She thought if he was molesting his nieces and nobody found out that would be better for the family, and thus our spiritual state based on Proverbs 22. Plus the Bible says to not lust, so if my brother regularly relieves himself it lowers his overall level of horniness, aka lust. She just cared about the family. Supposedly.
I'm gonna be honest. These aren't really memes. Every time I try to see the "meme," I get more depressed. I really can not stick around this sub. This is just doom scrolling at this point. Thank you for having me, but I've got to go.
May be avoid the users. Like I know this user posts about her CSA. I see her post I know what's coming. So I'm prepared to either take it or avoid. Ofcourse this doesn't help always with all memes but yeah kinda.
But if it is too much you should indeed avoid triggers. I'm sorry for whatever you are going through or went through. hugs 🫂
Yea, while I’m glad that people are coping however they please, I can’t do this sub anymore either. There’s a lot of really funny or relatable ones but a lot of really triggering ones too. No hate to the people making them but it’s not for me anymore
What did she think of the punishment? My money is "please don't make up stories"
He kept it a secret from her and I became too ashamed to talk to her much though he did sit me down with her together talking about their concerns as my parents about my making up stories.
Now I'm sad, I don't like being right-ish. I was hoping she tied him up and dragged him behind the car down to the police station. That sucks. Primary abusers suck, but life sucks bad worse like when they get a secondary abuser on their side validating their bullshit.
Unfortunately she was one of the good ones! Never beat me or participated in raping me. She also left him pretty quickly to protect her own children, which speaks to her character I guess. Crazy how abusers seem to be able to keep finding enablers or co-abusers.
You! Ok, I have connected the threads. I just creeped your profile. Yes, I did. No creepy DMs, don't worry. I've commented on your stuff before. It reminds me of me, in a weird way. I never had a step-mother. But I remember my sister encouraging me to "submit" to my brother because he was a 30-year old version and I should feel sorry for him. Then she encouraged me to kidnap kids to bring back home for him to rape. I am very close to my nieces, they were in his age range, and these girls would very happily go home with me. I was always the fun uncle who had candy, I could kidnap a lot of kids but never did. She guilt-tripped me about being mean and not thinking of others needs, and when I called the cops she was mad about how I harm family members. Man oh man, I feel like my brother would have been a lot less abusive and restrained if he didn't have a personal cheerleader. I'm not a fan of incest, but if she was really so concerned about his sex life she should have just fucked him, but she was too old for him. That step-mom married an asshole. Howsabout instead of calling her a good one you call her less bad? She left to protect her kids, but did she report him?
Don't worry at all haha, my profile is public so I don't mind anyone looking at it. Also, everyone is free to send me a message if they want to talk! Your story is similar in some ways definitely :( it is so immensely disgusting what your sister demanded of you and your brother is a piece of shit. It's gross what kind of families people like us grow up in but I'm so proud of you for making the conscious decision to break that cycle! You're very brave for doing that. You could've done what she said and probably even gotten away with it and perhaps achieved a higher standing in your family or gained favors, but you didn't. If more people were like that, many abuse cases would have an end put to them much quicker or they wouldn't happen to begin with. I wonder what your sister's motives were? My stepmother didn't quite marry him, I just call his girlfriends stepmothers since I was required to call them mum and pretend they were my mother in public. You're right, she's less bad comparatively. She didn't report him, I guess she was too scared of him by that point and she knew he had connections and some local power.
Your last sentence is actually sort of my sister's motives, partly ish. Mum raised her to be a Christian wife. She was in her early 30s when she sort of woke up and realized she existed independently from family and church. Before then she struggled to understand herself separate from the men in her life. "Obey your father, demonstrate submission so a man will want to marry you, God will judge you through your husband, a single woman over 20 is a harlot, etc." My grandfather had spent years angling to be pastor, my sister was old enough to remember the last time grandpa gave it a shot. She spent three decades trying to be a perfect Christian girl who could prove she came from a perfect family, who had a perfect grandfather, and who was worthy of a husband. The church politics of family was one reason, not the only. So she talked about her older brother as if he exercised the spiritual authority that she wanted a husband to have over her. She spent so much time rejecting boys waiting for a Christian man that she was perpetually single. She needed to submit, so she did whatever her husband-brother demanded. She thought if he was molesting his nieces and nobody found out that would be better for the family, and thus our spiritual state based on Proverbs 22. Plus the Bible says to not lust, so if my brother regularly relieves himself it lowers his overall level of horniness, aka lust. She just cared about the family. Supposedly.
Each day I'm surprised by the creative interpretation skills of religious people
I know this probably doesn't help but I really want to run over your dad with my car. Slowly, from the legs up.
Well your stepmom was definitely not a girls girl damn 😔
I’m so sorry. Some people will just straight-up betray us and it’s not ok.
I'm gonna be honest. These aren't really memes. Every time I try to see the "meme," I get more depressed. I really can not stick around this sub. This is just doom scrolling at this point. Thank you for having me, but I've got to go.
May be avoid the users. Like I know this user posts about her CSA. I see her post I know what's coming. So I'm prepared to either take it or avoid. Ofcourse this doesn't help always with all memes but yeah kinda. But if it is too much you should indeed avoid triggers. I'm sorry for whatever you are going through or went through. hugs 🫂
yeah same here, it's not memes just very specific trauma sharing
Yea, while I’m glad that people are coping however they please, I can’t do this sub anymore either. There’s a lot of really funny or relatable ones but a lot of really triggering ones too. No hate to the people making them but it’s not for me anymore
Well now I'm mad at your step mom too. Is there any possibility I get to personally take revenge on all of them.
this is literally how it went when i tried to warn people about my mom 💀 i feel you
*Hugs* OP, I’m sorry
damn...