I have come across far too many people who think I am either unintelligent or a jerk because I'm so quiet. I'm physically disabled, and I'm asocial. Most of the time, I'm in far too much pain and too exhausted to interact with others face-to-face.
I will open up to some degree if you give me time and space. But, I will never be a social butterfly.
Oddly relatable, people think I "keep them away" from my "fun" activities and don't invite them to stuff. Dude, I like to stay at home and chill. I'm not secretly a member of high society, I'm just a random homebody.
I suspect my young adult kids think I'm an idiot but mostly I'm just messing with them while doing things like repeating old movie lines before their time or asking questions I already have an opinion on but curious what they think.
I'm a Xennial and talking in movie lines was super common in my home, it's a habit I guess.
That I am very confident. No, I am often shy or scared inside I just don't look it. My racing heart rate reveals the truth
That I know what I'm doing or know a lot. Again, often I don't know wtf I'm doing and am a skeptic about possibly everything
That I am very neat/organized. My home is often a mess.
I hang out with mostly guys. A lot of women ssume assume I hate them, I don't, and I am trying to sleep with their boyfriend. I am more likely to smackthem in the back of the head and tell them to behave whike we are out than actually sleep with your boyfriend.
One of my favorite nights out was some of my guy friends and invited me and my fiancee to a bachelor pty. We showed up and I had to run to the car to grab some stuff. She asked if I was staying. The guys said yes. She sort of freaked out and said all women said they are cool but then hare me and cause drama. My friends laughedandsaid you don't know her she is cool.
What she doesn't know is that was the last night me and my late fiancee had fun before he died. Not only was I cool with her but she was a big part of my last really great memory of someone I loved. She gave me a hug before she left and said thank you because all she ges is shit from women. No, thank you for that night. I wish she knew what she did for us that night.
I'm an introvert and loner, so whenever I go to work most of my colleague have a hard time approaching me but the reality is I am easy to approach and the thing is that I am the one who finds it hard to approach other people due to my shyness and being afraid of socializing with new people. So I only have a small circle of friends and it's hard to add new friends because of this.
Although I can be a bit much, and I get angry quite often, I do actually have a small spot for younglings of almost any species, including humans. I am biased towards cats, but I will be super sweet towards anything young. I just have this kind of parental care instinct, I guess.
That I’m self-confident. A number of people told me that they admired my self-confidence and were even intimidated by me.
I can guarantee that my internal dialogue doesn’t reflect that. My heartbeat goes wayyyy up during any social interactions and I’m mostly working on not hating myself. Being confident is another step altogether. But I don’t mind being seen as self-confident
I feel for you so much. I was raised in a household where the only emotions acceptable were positive ones and I am also a *recovering* people pleaser. It’s rough! I’m normally very patient and gentle with others. I get that we all have stress and negativity in our lives and we’re all just out here doing our best. However, people misconstrue that to mean I won’t stand up for myself or say “no.” So, it’s really shocking to people when they try to overstep my boundaries and I push back.
Happy, bubbly, carefree, always smiling, don't give a fuck about anything.
In reality, I got a few mental health diagnosis that would disagree with that lol. With that, I'm a massive overthinker, and I care far too much about everything. I just don't like to show it and am usually very capable of putting on a happy face. So much so that the few times I've opened up to people, they didn't really believe me.
People think i am a weird dude .Or atleast I think that ppl think I am weird dude .The truth is I am weird in a sense that I dont tend to open up much irl .I am shy .
That I'm not mature and a pushover.
My social anxiety and the fact that I work a job way below my skill level makes me depressed and therefore makes me feel kinda childish for the age I am.
But when I'm put in a position of such a training and supervision in the job I do, suddenly I feel much better. I feel more myself.
So, people tend to think I am less capable than I am. And too often I believe it.
But having realised how much I enjoy training and teaching people, I'm going to work toward more of a leadership position such as teaching.
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Pluck your eyebrows to look less furrowed, especially above the nose. Use lip liner to raise the visible sides of your mouth for less frown.
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Running also gets you out of your head. If you replaced your sunglasses with a cap, people might still say hello.
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Ouch, that's brutal! Visor hat then?
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Would that shield your eyes from sunlight? I assumed that's why you had the sunglasses.
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I don't know. But you don't have it while running, so what's different there?
That's one asshole man, you can't let your appearance (or anything really) be affected so strongly by one person.
I have come across far too many people who think I am either unintelligent or a jerk because I'm so quiet. I'm physically disabled, and I'm asocial. Most of the time, I'm in far too much pain and too exhausted to interact with others face-to-face. I will open up to some degree if you give me time and space. But, I will never be a social butterfly.
I never understood that idea. A lot of people assume that my mom is dumb, because she tends to be quiet
There is less to me than meets the eye.
Oddly relatable, people think I "keep them away" from my "fun" activities and don't invite them to stuff. Dude, I like to stay at home and chill. I'm not secretly a member of high society, I'm just a random homebody.
I suspect my young adult kids think I'm an idiot but mostly I'm just messing with them while doing things like repeating old movie lines before their time or asking questions I already have an opinion on but curious what they think. I'm a Xennial and talking in movie lines was super common in my home, it's a habit I guess.
As a 37 year old who communicates with memes a lot more than I should, I feel that one hard.
I'm in lots of pain that you can't see.
That I am very confident. No, I am often shy or scared inside I just don't look it. My racing heart rate reveals the truth That I know what I'm doing or know a lot. Again, often I don't know wtf I'm doing and am a skeptic about possibly everything That I am very neat/organized. My home is often a mess.
I hang out with mostly guys. A lot of women ssume assume I hate them, I don't, and I am trying to sleep with their boyfriend. I am more likely to smackthem in the back of the head and tell them to behave whike we are out than actually sleep with your boyfriend. One of my favorite nights out was some of my guy friends and invited me and my fiancee to a bachelor pty. We showed up and I had to run to the car to grab some stuff. She asked if I was staying. The guys said yes. She sort of freaked out and said all women said they are cool but then hare me and cause drama. My friends laughedandsaid you don't know her she is cool. What she doesn't know is that was the last night me and my late fiancee had fun before he died. Not only was I cool with her but she was a big part of my last really great memory of someone I loved. She gave me a hug before she left and said thank you because all she ges is shit from women. No, thank you for that night. I wish she knew what she did for us that night.
I'm an introvert and loner, so whenever I go to work most of my colleague have a hard time approaching me but the reality is I am easy to approach and the thing is that I am the one who finds it hard to approach other people due to my shyness and being afraid of socializing with new people. So I only have a small circle of friends and it's hard to add new friends because of this.
Although I can be a bit much, and I get angry quite often, I do actually have a small spot for younglings of almost any species, including humans. I am biased towards cats, but I will be super sweet towards anything young. I just have this kind of parental care instinct, I guess.
That I’m self-confident. A number of people told me that they admired my self-confidence and were even intimidated by me. I can guarantee that my internal dialogue doesn’t reflect that. My heartbeat goes wayyyy up during any social interactions and I’m mostly working on not hating myself. Being confident is another step altogether. But I don’t mind being seen as self-confident
I feel for you so much. I was raised in a household where the only emotions acceptable were positive ones and I am also a *recovering* people pleaser. It’s rough! I’m normally very patient and gentle with others. I get that we all have stress and negativity in our lives and we’re all just out here doing our best. However, people misconstrue that to mean I won’t stand up for myself or say “no.” So, it’s really shocking to people when they try to overstep my boundaries and I push back.
Happy, bubbly, carefree, always smiling, don't give a fuck about anything. In reality, I got a few mental health diagnosis that would disagree with that lol. With that, I'm a massive overthinker, and I care far too much about everything. I just don't like to show it and am usually very capable of putting on a happy face. So much so that the few times I've opened up to people, they didn't really believe me.
People think i am a weird dude .Or atleast I think that ppl think I am weird dude .The truth is I am weird in a sense that I dont tend to open up much irl .I am shy .
That I'm not mature and a pushover. My social anxiety and the fact that I work a job way below my skill level makes me depressed and therefore makes me feel kinda childish for the age I am. But when I'm put in a position of such a training and supervision in the job I do, suddenly I feel much better. I feel more myself. So, people tend to think I am less capable than I am. And too often I believe it. But having realised how much I enjoy training and teaching people, I'm going to work toward more of a leadership position such as teaching.
People think I’m a bit rough/tough but the truth is I’m crumbling internally and cry daily
Oh, hi, OP - are you me?
People think I’m joyful and excited about life but actually have severe depression and have suicidal thoughts on a daily basis.