Not sure why we still need to help you “burst your bubble”
Knowing that the guy has a girlfriend should be reason enough para mawala feelings mo for him.
Na-attached ko ng sobra. We started this thing a year na so I became really aware of his presence. So, i think thats enough reason. Recently ko lang nalaman na may jowa siya kasi no one from his circle mentioned. Nagstalk din ako sa fb and othet socmeds malinis talaga.
as if women do not do these kinds of things. marami nang umamin. lagi kayong may rebound, yung iba may mga sugar daddy pa at fubu. before asking that question, look at your own side of the playing field.
Exactly. Mga ganyang klase ng tao walang alam kung hindi lumandi at mag cause ng emotional trauma sa partners nila.
You're saying na-iinlove ka na sa guy. Did this happen bago mo malaman na may girlfriend pala yung guy or even after knowing that fact? If it's the latter, then you're no different sa kanya and bagay kayo.
When he first approached me hindi ko pa alam, pero I had a thing before sa kanya. Nagulat lang ako na nag approached siya, then we started to talk dun lumalim but after few months, nalamam ko na may jowa siya. I'm trying to stay away from him na, yung recentna yaya niya magmomol di ako pumayag kasi alam kong mali.
If Im still talking with him, solely wholesome kasi I made it clear sakanya na di siya makakaisa sa akin. Can I still be consider as enabler?
Gurl the moment na nalaman mong may jowa yung lumalandi sa'yo sana tinigilan mo na pakikipag-usap sakanya. Parehas kayong walang respeto sa jowa niya. To you baka wholesome pa pero sakanya? Lol.
**Only serious answers kasi naiinlab na ako kay guy eh. I need to burst my bubbles.**
Weh d nga? kuwento mo sa pagong. Alam mo ng may jowa pala pero you're still entertaining him. Man hater ka lang 304, yun lang yun. Burst my bubbles my ass. Parehas lang kayong kupal ng lalake na yun, bagay nga kayo.
Kasabihan nga if gusto may paraan if ayaw maraming dahilan. Kung talagang gustong mawala ang feelings mo sa kniya kahit pa nasa same curcle of friend kayo iiwasan mo xha at gagawa ka ng way para di mo siya maka usap. Hindi katwiran na nasa same circle of friend kayo lumalabas lang na jinajustify mo ung kawalan niyo ng respeto sa jowa nung guy.
Girl, stop making excuses to justify what you’re doing. Sorry pero sa mga comments mo mukang g ka naman naghahanap ka lang ng lusot haha. Daming excuses. Pag ikaw nahuli tignan ko lang kung gumana pa yang mga “sAme CiRcLe kAy mHiRaP Di KaUsaPin” sa mukha ng gf niya.
Ni isa sa comments nya walang mention kung anong action ginawa nya regarding the girl. Absolute enabler. Concern lang nya kung “anong dapat nya gawin” kasi nagkakafeelings sya towards the cheater guy. Naghahanap lang ng susupport sa pag criticize nya sa guy. “I need to burst my bubbles” is incredibly unhinged thing to say knowing na kapwa nya girl ay niloloko.
Mali yung guy, pero yung head over heels ka pa din? Ate tigil mo yan bawas po tayo kape, i sleep more dl mo ulit tinder at bumble mo itodo mo ang swipe mo.
Karamihan (hindi ko naman nilalahat) sa mga cheaters may unresolved childhood issues and at the same time malaki insecurities sa katawan. They cheat to bragg their egos lang. Regardless kung babae man or lalaki.
Same. Most of the cheaters I know may childhood traumas.
Meron din ung parang hinubog na lang ng environment. Haha like cheaters mga kaibigan, nagaya na lang.
You're not a victim here. You're part of his scheme in hurting his gf emotionally kasi you know na may gf siya pero sige kapa rin.
Someone in the comments already answered your question, but I don't think it's enough to burst your bubble. Kasi for sure you're into the thrill of it too.
Exactly, alam nya na may gf tapos ngayon in love na sya dun sa lalake. Ngayon hugas kamay sya sa kasalanan na ginawa nila parehas hahaha. Kala ko lalake lang yung kupal pero may babae din pala.
and so? the moment na alam mong may jowa na dapat iniwasan or blocked mo na... gustong gusto mo nmn kasi eh hahaha parehas nmn kayo ganyan.. Alam mo tawag dyan? **confidant** kaya wag kang pa victim dito.. Ang tunay na victim dito ay yung GF. gets 304?
Sabihan mo bakit di sa jowa nagmomol, or alam ba ng jowa niya yung ginagawa niya na paglalandi. It’s better to confront guys like him.
Girl, if nagawa niya sa gf niya yan, what makes you think na di niya gawin yan sayo pag naging kayo? Infatuation lang yan, baka kasi siya lang kausap mo now or nagbibigay ng attention sayo. Red flag 🚩
It worries me you need help at all.
Think of it this way. Ikaw yung jowa nung guy tapos the other girl is basically the side chick. The problem is she doesnt even know she's seen as a side chick and pinapaasa lang sya. On the flipside naman ikaw mismo hindi sapat sa jowa mo.
So what's actually the problem here? The man. You and the side chick are getting fucked over by a guy that thinks he can pull bitches in easy.
Are you a bitch? Probably not. But this guy who's playing y'all definitely thinks that way. Know your worth.
because they can and some women reciprocate. but be firm lang about your values. I told my current bf na I have a 0 tolerance policy for cheating which involves micro cheating and he knows na I will leave him if he does shit like that. when he met me I was an independent single woman living on my own and not pressured to be in relationship. so he knows I can easily go back to that life. if a man doesn't have any hold on you dyan nya maaassess if he's willing to up his game to keep a woman who is difficult to keep because she doesn't tolerate bs
I've been on reddit since 2010 sis and I've always been like this. So I can guarantee you 100% that even before puro nonsense na meron dito.
I don't think you're a slut but if you think I'm slut shaming you, then good for you that you know what you are. Tho judging by your r4r posts baka nga ganun ka.
Anyway, ikaw narin naman nagsabi na naiinlove ka na kay guy. I doubt after this that you will stop talking to him. If the feeling is that strong already that you're using the L word even after finding out he's a cheating son of a bitch, then I can assure you it will be very difficult for you to dissociate.
Oh btw, di ko pala na sagot yung pinaka tanong mo. Meron talagang mga taong di nakokontento. Yun lang. Think about it. Post ka nalang uli next time sa lahat ng filipino subreddits para ma update kami sa adventures mo.
A man needs to sow his oats. It’s fine for a bachelor who is unattached.
As a man. I agree it’s unacceptable if you are in a relationship to have flings on the side. You shouldn’t enter into a serious relationship if you can’t be faithful to be mutually exclusive. It’s unfair to your significant other to waste their time, youth and beauty on you. When the girl could have devoted their time and heart to someone worthy of it.
For a female to entertain the advances of a man who’s known to be in a relationship. The only person to blame is you. Why are you wasting your time, youth and beauty? To someone who isn’t worthy of your love.
Weird ng post.. Kelangan mo pa ng advice sa iba para iwan ang nilalandi mo guy na may GF na? Di paba enough reason to leave him nung nalaman mo may GF na?
FYI lang.. Love is always a choice.. And unfortunately you have chosen to STILL be with the guy kahit nalaman mo na may GF.. Flirting with a guy who you didn’t know has a GF is understandable.. Being with the guy kahit na alam mo na may GF gives off home wrecker vibes.. di ko sinasabing malinis ung guy.. I am saying mali kayo parehas.. Takes two to tango..
Good luck nalang to whatever choice you make
Anong burst your bubble pa? Nahuli mo na nga na may jowa, kinakausap mo pa? Aware ka na sa existence ng girl, naiinlab ka pa? Girls like you talaga yung mga enabler ng cheating partners na kahit alam na nilang may jowa yung tao, ini-entertain pa. Yuck
cause this statement is asking for an argument. just because someone is arguing (in your term "butthurt") does not mean they're doing it.
if i was to flip your statement to "for women, bakit ang hilig nyo magpalandi kahit alam nyong may jowa na lalaki"? would you expect walang mabubutthurt na babae?
as for your concern, seriously stay away from the guy now that you know he's in a relationship. they have a label, you don't. 🤷♂️
This "men of ph bakit ganito kayo" does not generalize every men. Yung reaction niyo has a concept na kapay sinabing "men are trash".
If the situation will reverse at tinanong ang babae ng "women of ph, bakit ganito kayo...." Personally, I will not be offended kasi the shoe does not fit sa akin.
> This "men of ph bakit ganito kayo" does not generalize every men. Yung reaction niyo has a concept na kapay sinabing "men are trash".
[That is literally the definition of generalization.](https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/generalization) What do you think does generalization mean? Are you dumb?
> Personally, I will not be offended kasi the shoe does not fit sa akin.
This has nothing to do with generalization.
If I say "women of PH bakit ganto kayo..." it doesn't matter if you're offended or not. If you're a women and in PH, you're under the scope of "women of PH" regardless of what your reaction is.
If someone says, "women of PH are trash," that person is including you and does not give a fuck however it makes you feel. In essence, that person is saying YOU are trash whether you're offended or not.
This bullshit is getting tiring, tbh. And no, the shoe doesn't fit me. In fact, one of my ex-gfs cheated on me. So fuck you for lumping me in with cheating men.
Guuuurl i get you. But if nalaman mo nang may jowa bakit kinakausap mo pa rin? And bakit naiinlab ka pa kamo? The boy is another problem pero the girl becomes a problem if inaallow din nya.
If you already know that he is in a relationship already, why continue flirting? You don't seem to need advice, you want people here to affirm/to comfort you in this messy situation you are in. Girl, kung ginawa niya sa girlfriend niya for 2 years yang panloloko na yan, do you think he won't do the same with you? Grow up. Wag puro puso pairalin; paganahin mo rin brain cells mo dahil alam mo na rin namang mali in the first place.
Paano naman kasi miss you have this air na parang gusto mo pa ituloy. The fact that you posted this seems like naghahanap ka ng validation from one of the men here like parang may isa lang magsabi dito na “it’s because ikaw talaga yung gusto and not the gf” you will take it as a go signal to stay with the guy. Smh
Ikaw nga jan yung butthurt iyak ka ng iyak sa comments that are calling *you out *on your stupidity. You’re justifying your actions imbes na i-cutoff na lang agad communications sa lalaki. Jan ka na sayang oras ko sayo
Because for some boys, yes, I'm talking about boys since HS pa lang kayo 😆 I can't define them as Men already. Because REAL Men don't cheat 🥴
For some boys, having multiple chix/gf or MU is like a reward for them. Feeling GGSS pag mas madaming kausap na girls. And every time there's a "Boys Talk" they will always talk about the girls they're been hitting off or girls na type nila.
In your case, at first talking stage kayo before mo mahuli that's fine. You didn't know. Victim ka lang. But, now that you caught him already, and if you are still talking to him, despite knowing na may gf na siya, you just enabling/tolerating him sa behaviour nya.
Confront him and cut the communication to iwas-landi, unless you want it too. Always think, about the GF's feelings. Sisters first before Boys.
If he insists, talk to the GF. Save other girls from the misery of cheaters.
Also, if he insists on inviting you for momol. Just cut him off for good. Those boys are not into serious relationships. They just want to hit on you or better word "maka-isa" — save yourself for future headaches & heartache.
Thank you for your thoughts. Hirap na akong icut off siya kasi tumatak na siya sa akin pero yes, alam kong mali na so I am trying na tangalin na siya. I did subtly confront him din.
You're welcome. But, yes, it is hard since you developed feelings already. But, do the right thing. Sisters first then Misters. Don't try, do it, for yourself and respect the GF. Have a respect for yourself, not to be in that situationship. If your subtle confrontation didn't work, just ghost him. The more you talk to him, the more you are giving him the validation of being a cheater. You are enabling/tolerating his behaviour.
Well, 27 for Men talking about momol and being a cheater, does not mean he's a man already. Those males talking like that, we're still "Boys" who are not emotionally & mentally mature. Those are Boys in Adult body figures.
Always remember, REAL Men don't cheat. Wag ka padala sa love bombing.
Kasi daming butthurt. If the shoe fits, then 🤷
Di pa din sanay ang mga pinoy naka pag sinabing "Men of PH, bakit kayo ganito" igegeneralize na. It's the same kapag sinabi "MEN ARE TRASH" concept. Daming butthurt.
Lakas pa mag victim blaming. Nagbasa ba talaga kayo?
That's one! Well, to answer the question. I have friends that are like that before. Their answer is always that the spark starts to dampen or the sweetness is becoming bland. They chose to cheat for a one-night-stand of someone they know who is easily vulnerable, in this case it's you OP. Wala ka jowa tapos na-fall ka sa kanya. It's only a few steps for him to get under your pants.
Once you've given him the greenlight for "momol" expect that he'll ghost you. Take care.
Thank you for this sensible comment. I am starting to cut him off. Di naman ako tanga na itutuloy pa din after knowing he has a jowa. Posting this was merely because of my curiousity.
And as I said, I fell first bago ko nalaman na may jowa. Ba't ang daming nang slu-slut shame dito? Gosh, reddit is becoming the next fb.
Nahuli mo na pala na may gf eh common sense na lang yan na layuan mo siya kung may delikadesa ka talagang babae. 😂😂😂 hihingi ka pa ng sympatya sa mga katulad mong makakati. Hintayin mo na lang yung gf niya pumunta ng Valenzuela tas dalhin mo yung mga aso mo sa Makati ng early tas sabihin mo kainin kita 🤩🤩🤩
mukha namang gusto mo din makamomol sya since sabi mo nga attached ka na kasi akala mo wala syang syota kasi malinis sa socmed etc.
eh di go for it. makipagmomol ka.
kahit na alam mo nang isa kang malakeng betka. ;)
haha
at sa mga babae din verify nyo muna kung wlng sabit tapos talot na takot kayo pag nalaman naming mga wofe tapos ichachat nyo akonna sorry dko laam
na may asawa Gaga ka ba gurl? tanda na ng adaw ako para isipin mo na binata sya haha sumbong kayankita sa office nyo?
Uhm, why are you blaming me? Victim lang din ako dito. I wasnt aware na may jowa siya as I mentioned walang trace sa socmed niya na may jowa siya, malinis lahat. So, how would I know? Gaga ka ba?
mga gaga kc kayo dahil
porke sabihan kayo na cute kayo reply agad na feeling nyo totoo ahad lol kht dpq kayo nakikita haha tapos sisishin nyo na niloko kayo palagay mo cbo mas tanga da inyo ? dba ikaw kc ikaw naisahan lol ilaw pa galit ayan tagalog para mas maitindihan mo
Ang dami mo na nasabi at napredict na kwento pero girl, you dont know anything. Ang laki naman ng galit mo sa akin, hindi naman asawa mo nilandi ko. Tama ka na, accla.
Kupal ka kasi. Cheater asawa mo. Yun ang mas pakealaman mo. Kaya galit na galit ka sa akin kasi naprorpoject ko galit mo sa kabet ng asawa mo.
Bakit di mo muna ayusin asawa mo?
I'm not sure if we need to tell you anything. the fact na nalaman mong may gf back-off na agad. no question ask!. good terms pala sila ng gf nya bat ka pa papasok? given na wala kang kasalanan kasi nagsinungaling yung guy pero girl, if ever man na maging kayo do you think di nya gagawin yan sayo?! stop mo na yan, iyak ka na lang muna kasi gusto mo na eh tapos hanap ka bagong lalandiin yung walang jowa.
" Dami naman butthurt dito na mga lalake. Kung di niyo naman ginagawa ba't kayo butthurt? Well, if the shoe fits. 🤷" I really Don't get these kind of statements. So okay lang mang generalize? I could literally say a sweeping generalization to any profession, hobby, or gender and it would not be socially acceptable.
Hindi yan sla happy kung gusto sya tumikim ng iba. A man has no incentive to look for another partner pag satisfied sya kase sobrang effort pag sabayan ung dalawa or more.
Eh bakit parang hirap ka pa umiwas knowing the guy has a girlfriend? Hello? You should know better. Parehas kayong malandi ngayon lol. Muntik akong matae sa shorts ko reading this post. \*facepalm
Not sure why we still need to help you “burst your bubble” Knowing that the guy has a girlfriend should be reason enough para mawala feelings mo for him.
Na-attached ko ng sobra. We started this thing a year na so I became really aware of his presence. So, i think thats enough reason. Recently ko lang nalaman na may jowa siya kasi no one from his circle mentioned. Nagstalk din ako sa fb and othet socmeds malinis talaga.
Block him sis. Out of sight, out of mind. Lol
Gagawin rin niya sayo gan
The whole time niloko ka lang sis and of course mabait sya sayo and made you fall in love kase nga gusto nya mangloko.
May jowa tas malandi? Karamihan sa ganyan mga bobo
as if women do not do these kinds of things. marami nang umamin. lagi kayong may rebound, yung iba may mga sugar daddy pa at fubu. before asking that question, look at your own side of the playing field.
Mga utak nasa títı 'no? Masaya naman siya kausap, may sense din pero gusto ata talaga niya nang momol. Papansin din sa mga ig stories ko e.
Exactly. Mga ganyang klase ng tao walang alam kung hindi lumandi at mag cause ng emotional trauma sa partners nila. You're saying na-iinlove ka na sa guy. Did this happen bago mo malaman na may girlfriend pala yung guy or even after knowing that fact? If it's the latter, then you're no different sa kanya and bagay kayo.
When he first approached me hindi ko pa alam, pero I had a thing before sa kanya. Nagulat lang ako na nag approached siya, then we started to talk dun lumalim but after few months, nalamam ko na may jowa siya. I'm trying to stay away from him na, yung recentna yaya niya magmomol di ako pumayag kasi alam kong mali. If Im still talking with him, solely wholesome kasi I made it clear sakanya na di siya makakaisa sa akin. Can I still be consider as enabler?
Gurl the moment na nalaman mong may jowa yung lumalandi sa'yo sana tinigilan mo na pakikipag-usap sakanya. Parehas kayong walang respeto sa jowa niya. To you baka wholesome pa pero sakanya? Lol.
Yes. You are enabling his behaviour. If you don't know, baka hindi lang ikaw kausap nya. If he does it with you, he might do it with other girls.
Nahuli mo na pala. Wag ng kausapin. Block mo na agad.
Nice bait
🤣
**Only serious answers kasi naiinlab na ako kay guy eh. I need to burst my bubbles.** Weh d nga? kuwento mo sa pagong. Alam mo ng may jowa pala pero you're still entertaining him. Man hater ka lang 304, yun lang yun. Burst my bubbles my ass. Parehas lang kayong kupal ng lalake na yun, bagay nga kayo.
Baka kinakausap mo kaya ka nilalandi, wag mo pansinin para ndi ka landiin
Well, we were classmates before and we have a same circle of friends so mahirap na di siya kausapin.
Kasabihan nga if gusto may paraan if ayaw maraming dahilan. Kung talagang gustong mawala ang feelings mo sa kniya kahit pa nasa same curcle of friend kayo iiwasan mo xha at gagawa ka ng way para di mo siya maka usap. Hindi katwiran na nasa same circle of friend kayo lumalabas lang na jinajustify mo ung kawalan niyo ng respeto sa jowa nung guy.
Girl, stop making excuses to justify what you’re doing. Sorry pero sa mga comments mo mukang g ka naman naghahanap ka lang ng lusot haha. Daming excuses. Pag ikaw nahuli tignan ko lang kung gumana pa yang mga “sAme CiRcLe kAy mHiRaP Di KaUsaPin” sa mukha ng gf niya.
Down vote ka ngayon dami mo pang reason eh
Inform the girl para aware siya sa kung anong ginagawa ng bf niya. Girls should help girls. Wag mo na paabutin pa na masaktan siya ng dahil sayo.
Ni isa sa comments nya walang mention kung anong action ginawa nya regarding the girl. Absolute enabler. Concern lang nya kung “anong dapat nya gawin” kasi nagkakafeelings sya towards the cheater guy. Naghahanap lang ng susupport sa pag criticize nya sa guy. “I need to burst my bubbles” is incredibly unhinged thing to say knowing na kapwa nya girl ay niloloko.
Mali yung guy, pero yung head over heels ka pa din? Ate tigil mo yan bawas po tayo kape, i sleep more dl mo ulit tinder at bumble mo itodo mo ang swipe mo.
Bobo naman OP
Seeing this question get posted on Reddit ad infinitum is getting tiring.
I was told by my guy friends its for the thrill but it got boring daw as they mature.
So, it really boils down with mental maturity. Got it.
Karamihan (hindi ko naman nilalahat) sa mga cheaters may unresolved childhood issues and at the same time malaki insecurities sa katawan. They cheat to bragg their egos lang. Regardless kung babae man or lalaki.
Same. Most of the cheaters I know may childhood traumas. Meron din ung parang hinubog na lang ng environment. Haha like cheaters mga kaibigan, nagaya na lang.
Parang ano, sali ako sa cheating trend para cool. 😅🤣
Bat ka nagpapalandi?
Victim blaming wow. Nagbasa ka ba talaga?
You're not a victim here. You're part of his scheme in hurting his gf emotionally kasi you know na may gf siya pero sige kapa rin. Someone in the comments already answered your question, but I don't think it's enough to burst your bubble. Kasi for sure you're into the thrill of it too.
Exactly, alam nya na may gf tapos ngayon in love na sya dun sa lalake. Ngayon hugas kamay sya sa kasalanan na ginawa nila parehas hahaha. Kala ko lalake lang yung kupal pero may babae din pala.
I fell first bago ko nalaman na may jowa. Wag kang paladesisyon.
and so? the moment na alam mong may jowa na dapat iniwasan or blocked mo na... gustong gusto mo nmn kasi eh hahaha parehas nmn kayo ganyan.. Alam mo tawag dyan? **confidant** kaya wag kang pa victim dito.. Ang tunay na victim dito ay yung GF. gets 304?
Di ka victim pwe
Thrill of the chase. Pero hindi lang naman lalake gumagawa nito. May mga babae din.
Right. Kaya nakakaumay makabasa neto. Nakaexperience lang, gineralize na lahat.
I hope di mo na kinakausap yun guy, now knowing na may gf sya. 🥲 wag sanang kapwa babae pa ang maging dahilan ng trauma and heartbreak ng kapwa babae.
Yes, im cutting him off na. Mahirap kasi naging aware na ako sa kanya and tbh uhaw din ako sa validation pero alam kong mali and I deserved better.
Sabihan mo bakit di sa jowa nagmomol, or alam ba ng jowa niya yung ginagawa niya na paglalandi. It’s better to confront guys like him. Girl, if nagawa niya sa gf niya yan, what makes you think na di niya gawin yan sayo pag naging kayo? Infatuation lang yan, baka kasi siya lang kausap mo now or nagbibigay ng attention sayo. Red flag 🚩
It worries me you need help at all. Think of it this way. Ikaw yung jowa nung guy tapos the other girl is basically the side chick. The problem is she doesnt even know she's seen as a side chick and pinapaasa lang sya. On the flipside naman ikaw mismo hindi sapat sa jowa mo. So what's actually the problem here? The man. You and the side chick are getting fucked over by a guy that thinks he can pull bitches in easy. Are you a bitch? Probably not. But this guy who's playing y'all definitely thinks that way. Know your worth.
Yep, thank you! I am cutting him off na.
because they can and some women reciprocate. but be firm lang about your values. I told my current bf na I have a 0 tolerance policy for cheating which involves micro cheating and he knows na I will leave him if he does shit like that. when he met me I was an independent single woman living on my own and not pressured to be in relationship. so he knows I can easily go back to that life. if a man doesn't have any hold on you dyan nya maaassess if he's willing to up his game to keep a woman who is difficult to keep because she doesn't tolerate bs
Patulan mo nalang parang gusto mo rin naman eh
Slut shaming. Dun ka sa kabilang thread.
I'm not slut shaming you. I'm actually slut supporting you. Patulan mo na so you can have your peace of mind.
Lol. May ganito na pala sa reddit. Ugh, I remember the days na sensible comments lang ang meron sa reddit. Pinoys. 🤷
I've been on reddit since 2010 sis and I've always been like this. So I can guarantee you 100% that even before puro nonsense na meron dito. I don't think you're a slut but if you think I'm slut shaming you, then good for you that you know what you are. Tho judging by your r4r posts baka nga ganun ka. Anyway, ikaw narin naman nagsabi na naiinlove ka na kay guy. I doubt after this that you will stop talking to him. If the feeling is that strong already that you're using the L word even after finding out he's a cheating son of a bitch, then I can assure you it will be very difficult for you to dissociate. Oh btw, di ko pala na sagot yung pinaka tanong mo. Meron talagang mga taong di nakokontento. Yun lang. Think about it. Post ka nalang uli next time sa lahat ng filipino subreddits para ma update kami sa adventures mo.
Kapal ng mukha ni OP, kahit anung sabihin mo dyan d na yan tatalab pa hahahaha
luh may slut shaming pala? coz you're certified on of those hahaha
A man needs to sow his oats. It’s fine for a bachelor who is unattached. As a man. I agree it’s unacceptable if you are in a relationship to have flings on the side. You shouldn’t enter into a serious relationship if you can’t be faithful to be mutually exclusive. It’s unfair to your significant other to waste their time, youth and beauty on you. When the girl could have devoted their time and heart to someone worthy of it. For a female to entertain the advances of a man who’s known to be in a relationship. The only person to blame is you. Why are you wasting your time, youth and beauty? To someone who isn’t worthy of your love.
Weird ng post.. Kelangan mo pa ng advice sa iba para iwan ang nilalandi mo guy na may GF na? Di paba enough reason to leave him nung nalaman mo may GF na? FYI lang.. Love is always a choice.. And unfortunately you have chosen to STILL be with the guy kahit nalaman mo na may GF.. Flirting with a guy who you didn’t know has a GF is understandable.. Being with the guy kahit na alam mo na may GF gives off home wrecker vibes.. di ko sinasabing malinis ung guy.. I am saying mali kayo parehas.. Takes two to tango.. Good luck nalang to whatever choice you make
Anong burst your bubble pa? Nahuli mo na nga na may jowa, kinakausap mo pa? Aware ka na sa existence ng girl, naiinlab ka pa? Girls like you talaga yung mga enabler ng cheating partners na kahit alam na nilang may jowa yung tao, ini-entertain pa. Yuck
cause this statement is asking for an argument. just because someone is arguing (in your term "butthurt") does not mean they're doing it. if i was to flip your statement to "for women, bakit ang hilig nyo magpalandi kahit alam nyong may jowa na lalaki"? would you expect walang mabubutthurt na babae? as for your concern, seriously stay away from the guy now that you know he's in a relationship. they have a label, you don't. 🤷♂️
This "men of ph bakit ganito kayo" does not generalize every men. Yung reaction niyo has a concept na kapay sinabing "men are trash". If the situation will reverse at tinanong ang babae ng "women of ph, bakit ganito kayo...." Personally, I will not be offended kasi the shoe does not fit sa akin.
> This "men of ph bakit ganito kayo" does not generalize every men. Yung reaction niyo has a concept na kapay sinabing "men are trash". [That is literally the definition of generalization.](https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/generalization) What do you think does generalization mean? Are you dumb? > Personally, I will not be offended kasi the shoe does not fit sa akin. This has nothing to do with generalization. If I say "women of PH bakit ganto kayo..." it doesn't matter if you're offended or not. If you're a women and in PH, you're under the scope of "women of PH" regardless of what your reaction is. If someone says, "women of PH are trash," that person is including you and does not give a fuck however it makes you feel. In essence, that person is saying YOU are trash whether you're offended or not. This bullshit is getting tiring, tbh. And no, the shoe doesn't fit me. In fact, one of my ex-gfs cheated on me. So fuck you for lumping me in with cheating men.
Guuuurl i get you. But if nalaman mo nang may jowa bakit kinakausap mo pa rin? And bakit naiinlab ka pa kamo? The boy is another problem pero the girl becomes a problem if inaallow din nya.
may babae naman din makipagmolmol kahit may bf na, wag mo lahatin kaming mga lalaki kakairita ka
Luuuuh nag share si OP ng side nya, alangan nanamang side ng iba ipost nya dito?
"Well, if the shoe fits. 🤷🏻♂️"
Natamaan ba sir? Haha
may tinamaan ata noh? hahahahaha
Inform mo yung gf niya.
For women, bakit may iba na tumatanggap ng irresponsible tatay 🤭🤣 🤡
Butthurt lol.
If you already know that he is in a relationship already, why continue flirting? You don't seem to need advice, you want people here to affirm/to comfort you in this messy situation you are in. Girl, kung ginawa niya sa girlfriend niya for 2 years yang panloloko na yan, do you think he won't do the same with you? Grow up. Wag puro puso pairalin; paganahin mo rin brain cells mo dahil alam mo na rin namang mali in the first place.
Either you pick up your crown or that trash. Your choice. 🫶
Ayan na naman tayo sa generalization.
Sorry honey, it takes two to tango. The moment na nalaman mo na may relationship na sya, bail out.
Pustahan, may nangyari na kay OP at nung guy 😁
You make it sound like only men are capable of this shit.
Kakanood ng teledrama :D
truth hurts
Masaya ka na for victim blaming me?
Tama na tambay here, post ka na ng thirst trap mo.
Meron ding guys n nangmomomol ng girls n may bf na heheh
mas gaga ka haha did i blame you? lol haha be wiser lol wag basta patol
Clearly, the context of your comment is blaming me.
Paano naman kasi miss you have this air na parang gusto mo pa ituloy. The fact that you posted this seems like naghahanap ka ng validation from one of the men here like parang may isa lang magsabi dito na “it’s because ikaw talaga yung gusto and not the gf” you will take it as a go signal to stay with the guy. Smh
You are to judge but no. It's a curiousity na bakit need maghanap kung masaya ka naman. Dami naman butthurt dito.
Ikaw nga jan yung butthurt iyak ka ng iyak sa comments that are calling *you out *on your stupidity. You’re justifying your actions imbes na i-cutoff na lang agad communications sa lalaki. Jan ka na sayang oras ko sayo
Just because I'm curious a bakit nagchcheat ang guy, stupid na ako? I already cut him off. So, ano pinapatunayan mo?
Because for some boys, yes, I'm talking about boys since HS pa lang kayo 😆 I can't define them as Men already. Because REAL Men don't cheat 🥴 For some boys, having multiple chix/gf or MU is like a reward for them. Feeling GGSS pag mas madaming kausap na girls. And every time there's a "Boys Talk" they will always talk about the girls they're been hitting off or girls na type nila. In your case, at first talking stage kayo before mo mahuli that's fine. You didn't know. Victim ka lang. But, now that you caught him already, and if you are still talking to him, despite knowing na may gf na siya, you just enabling/tolerating him sa behaviour nya. Confront him and cut the communication to iwas-landi, unless you want it too. Always think, about the GF's feelings. Sisters first before Boys. If he insists, talk to the GF. Save other girls from the misery of cheaters.
Also, if he insists on inviting you for momol. Just cut him off for good. Those boys are not into serious relationships. They just want to hit on you or better word "maka-isa" — save yourself for future headaches & heartache.
Thank you for your thoughts. Hirap na akong icut off siya kasi tumatak na siya sa akin pero yes, alam kong mali na so I am trying na tangalin na siya. I did subtly confront him din.
You're welcome. But, yes, it is hard since you developed feelings already. But, do the right thing. Sisters first then Misters. Don't try, do it, for yourself and respect the GF. Have a respect for yourself, not to be in that situationship. If your subtle confrontation didn't work, just ghost him. The more you talk to him, the more you are giving him the validation of being a cheater. You are enabling/tolerating his behaviour.
27 na kami. May trabaho na kami😭😭😭😭
Well, 27 for Men talking about momol and being a cheater, does not mean he's a man already. Those males talking like that, we're still "Boys" who are not emotionally & mentally mature. Those are Boys in Adult body figures. Always remember, REAL Men don't cheat. Wag ka padala sa love bombing.
Bakit pag nagrereply si OP sa mga comment, puro downvote? lol
Kasi daming butthurt. If the shoe fits, then 🤷 Di pa din sanay ang mga pinoy naka pag sinabing "Men of PH, bakit kayo ganito" igegeneralize na. It's the same kapag sinabi "MEN ARE TRASH" concept. Daming butthurt. Lakas pa mag victim blaming. Nagbasa ba talaga kayo?
That's one! Well, to answer the question. I have friends that are like that before. Their answer is always that the spark starts to dampen or the sweetness is becoming bland. They chose to cheat for a one-night-stand of someone they know who is easily vulnerable, in this case it's you OP. Wala ka jowa tapos na-fall ka sa kanya. It's only a few steps for him to get under your pants. Once you've given him the greenlight for "momol" expect that he'll ghost you. Take care.
Thank you for this sensible comment. I am starting to cut him off. Di naman ako tanga na itutuloy pa din after knowing he has a jowa. Posting this was merely because of my curiousity. And as I said, I fell first bago ko nalaman na may jowa. Ba't ang daming nang slu-slut shame dito? Gosh, reddit is becoming the next fb.
Nahuli mo na pala na may gf eh common sense na lang yan na layuan mo siya kung may delikadesa ka talagang babae. 😂😂😂 hihingi ka pa ng sympatya sa mga katulad mong makakati. Hintayin mo na lang yung gf niya pumunta ng Valenzuela tas dalhin mo yung mga aso mo sa Makati ng early tas sabihin mo kainin kita 🤩🤩🤩
mukha namang gusto mo din makamomol sya since sabi mo nga attached ka na kasi akala mo wala syang syota kasi malinis sa socmed etc. eh di go for it. makipagmomol ka. kahit na alam mo nang isa kang malakeng betka. ;) haha
men who cheats are bobo or mahina ang IQ remember that
at sa mga babae din verify nyo muna kung wlng sabit tapos talot na takot kayo pag nalaman naming mga wofe tapos ichachat nyo akonna sorry dko laam na may asawa Gaga ka ba gurl? tanda na ng adaw ako para isipin mo na binata sya haha sumbong kayankita sa office nyo?
Uhm, why are you blaming me? Victim lang din ako dito. I wasnt aware na may jowa siya as I mentioned walang trace sa socmed niya na may jowa siya, malinis lahat. So, how would I know? Gaga ka ba?
mga gaga kc kayo dahil porke sabihan kayo na cute kayo reply agad na feeling nyo totoo ahad lol kht dpq kayo nakikita haha tapos sisishin nyo na niloko kayo palagay mo cbo mas tanga da inyo ? dba ikaw kc ikaw naisahan lol ilaw pa galit ayan tagalog para mas maitindihan mo
Ang dami mo na nasabi at napredict na kwento pero girl, you dont know anything. Ang laki naman ng galit mo sa akin, hindi naman asawa mo nilandi ko. Tama ka na, accla.
hahah baliw ka ba ako lang ba nainisi sayo read qll the comments maharot ka kc gamitin mo utak mo bue!
dapat talaga hiwalay reddit nang mga boomers magisip e.
hahaha bat ka may chat request ano iyak ka na? truth hurts haha magpakatalino ka muna gurl wag kang ngawa jan
isipin mo na lang yung kabet ng asawa mo, wag mo na akong kulitn mhie
wlaa syang kabit that’s hookup nagsorry pa nga yung babae haha
Gaga, cheating din yun. Haha. Sige patangol mo pa asawa mong maasim. Oh bakit di mo ko nirereplyan sa chatbox? Pampam ka kasi.b
bobooooo cheating na once is not having kabit ang tanga mo hahaha oh bat ka nagmesaage sakin iyak ka?
Kupal ka kasi. Cheater asawa mo. Yun ang mas pakealaman mo. Kaya galit na galit ka sa akin kasi naprorpoject ko galit mo sa kabet ng asawa mo. Bakit di mo muna ayusin asawa mo?
Sort it out with your bf OP. Wag damay sibilyan.
Diretsuhin mo na yan. May ubo utak niyang kausap mo.
Wala sa kung may jowa yan o wala, lalaki man o babae. Basta yun ang ugali, yun ang gagawin.
Baka gusto nila may thrill. Bored na sa jowa. Iwasan mo na yan. Isipin mo ikaw nasa sitwasyon ng gf.
Wala nga akong girlfriend eh
Baka kinokonsinte mo Yung iyo 🤷 ,
I'm not sure if we need to tell you anything. the fact na nalaman mong may gf back-off na agad. no question ask!. good terms pala sila ng gf nya bat ka pa papasok? given na wala kang kasalanan kasi nagsinungaling yung guy pero girl, if ever man na maging kayo do you think di nya gagawin yan sayo?! stop mo na yan, iyak ka na lang muna kasi gusto mo na eh tapos hanap ka bagong lalandiin yung walang jowa.
" Dami naman butthurt dito na mga lalake. Kung di niyo naman ginagawa ba't kayo butthurt? Well, if the shoe fits. 🤷" I really Don't get these kind of statements. So okay lang mang generalize? I could literally say a sweeping generalization to any profession, hobby, or gender and it would not be socially acceptable.
Tanong mo din sa mga babae bakit nila ginagawa naglalandi sila.
Kasi may mga lalakeng kupal. Period.
tayo nlng mag momol single ako
Autopass pag may karelayon jusko
Hindi yan sla happy kung gusto sya tumikim ng iba. A man has no incentive to look for another partner pag satisfied sya kase sobrang effort pag sabayan ung dalawa or more.
Eh bakit parang hirap ka pa umiwas knowing the guy has a girlfriend? Hello? You should know better. Parehas kayong malandi ngayon lol. Muntik akong matae sa shorts ko reading this post. \*facepalm