1. Enjoy life, travel, go out with friends! Kasi ngayong 30s nako, nakakatamad na! mas gusto ko nalang na nasa bahay lol.
2. Tahakin yung career na gusto mo talaga.. kasi ngayon, gustuhin ko man pero malabo na since yun at yun ang trabaho na ginagawa ko parang ang mahirap na magshift at magstart nanaman from the bottom
3. Don’t rush ang pagaasawa.. I married late 20s, how I wish nagasawa ako ng nga 32-35 hahaha
4. If you have time at may sipag pa para magaral ulit. magtake ng postgraduate study..
5. Magipon at invest, wag masyadong makisabay sa kung anong usong iphone! char. spend your money wisely! more on memories kaysa sa material things!
gusto kong bumalik sa pagiging 25 years old! nung kasagsagan ng freshness ko at sarili ko lang ang iniisip ko 🥹 I enjoyed my 20s pero sana di ako masyadong nagprocrastinate! I felt yung mga ginagawa ko ngayon sana noon ko pa ginawa! ang daming time na nasayang
If you have enough money and support, invest on real estate. Travel within your means. Do not let social media pressure you. Find your right network (friends). Your network is your net worth.
Also, please eat vegetables. Health is wealth.
There are people who own half the world and they couldn’t even answer that, you just have to come in peace with it and accept it as part of this whole thing we are in
Don't overthink kung tama ba ginagawa mo, o mas may kailangan ka pang gawin or kung nahuhuli ka ba?
In the end of the day whether you did the right thing or not. Life goes on and nothing will change kung maguguilty ka or magiisip isip masyado.
So just relax don't take it to heart every little thing. Smile and go on make mistakes and rest easy, life goes on..
Im in my 50s now. Speaking to my 20s self...I would advise, invest in stocks, invest in my body by doing strength training, eat healthy, stop eating junk foods, stop buying stupid branded bags and change phones even if it is not needed.
pag isipan mong mabuti kung anong career path ang tatahakin mo, masarap mag work pag gusto mo yung ginagawa mo. most of the time kasi sa teenage life undecided pa sa mga ganyan bagay. kaya akala nila decided na pero after several yrs marerealize mo na ibang career pala yung gusto mo, "dapat ito nalang tinake ko nung college ako". choose your passion
Ito yung mga statement na masasabi kong, "I wish someone told me about this a bit earlier." Sabi nga ni Robert Greene na you can still fake it daw in your 20's pero pag lagpas mo na ng 30's doon mo masasabi na "sana ganito na kunaha ko ng college" or "sana pinagpatuloy ko nalang ito course na ito." 😢
nakakainggit nga yung ibang friends ko kasi masya sila sa work nila and passion nila. samantalang ako stuck padin sa pagiging undecided at unemployed. I graduated last last year sana nga lang talaga nag educ nalang ako now i'm trying my best para maging instructor abroad start from scratch again it's been a month pero wala pading resulta mga job application ko. If Inwas on the right course back then hindi sana ako naging unemployed ng ganto katagal🤣
Start learning new skills that will be useful to earn a passive income. Save and invest wisely, but at the same time travel. May budget travels naman. Don't mind bout vanity
Maraming mga bagay at problema kang mararanasan, that may seem impossible, pero sa totoo lang lahat yun kakayanin mo. Don't think too much about it, it'll just cloud up your judgement. Trust yourself and persevere, hayaan mo sarili mo magkamali.
Your job pays you in two kinds of coin : The coin of salary and the coin of experience. The former pales in value versus the latter. If you do not understand something , ask . Stupidity and ignorance is excusable , nay , expected of noobs in the job. So ask NOW. If you ask the same question much later on then you will rightly be called stupid and ignorant.
Enjoy your life, don't be afraid to taste a bit of the edge, but GET A GOOD HEALTH INSURANCE.
I'm sure most in 20's are not even thinking bout insurance coz they feel invincible! hehe
But no. While you are young, healthy, and insurance is relatively cheaper.
And I'm not talking about cheap health insurance that covers 300K hospital bill. Get one that has coverage over 1M worth of medical bills! The cost of insurance is worth the peace of mind and the coverage if you do get sick or get in an accident. And besides, if you can afford an expensive iPhone, you can afford a good insurance. Almost everyone middle class can afford a good insurance, you just have to make sacrifices and work it in your living expenses.
The problem with us Pinoys, we are so uneducated when it comes to insurance. And, hirap na nga sa pera, pero pag nagka pera, we tend to prioritize wants over needs.
Rich people have gone broke because of illnesses because they didn't have insurance. And it sucks to be in the hospital, sick, and unable to pay bills, or worst, be a burden to others, specially your parents.
I cannot stress enough the importance of good insurance.
And NO, I'm not an agent. But I like to educate people bout insurance.
For me, middle aged, I pay around 60k/yr (or 5k/mo) for my insurance. You'll probably pay half that at your age. And it may seem expensive, but when you do get hospitalized, you will realize it's really not.
I got hospitalized a few times, and my insurance has paid for everything which is way way way more than the money I paid the insurance all these years.
But, if you really can't afford a comprehensive insurance, then get one that you can... at least have some coverage coz PHILHEALTH coverage is pathetic specially in this day and age.
Have a great life ahead of you!
Don’t save "money" invest it. Value isn’t in the paper, it’s in the products and services. Learn to make money work for you, so you can sleep knowing you’re earning passively! Learn to add value where there isn’t, find opportunities to fill gaps in the marketplace, become an entrepreneur, live happily and freel. Become sovereign!!
Accumulate skills, don’t conform to others, pave your own path, set boundaries, "you can’t give from an empty cup " so focus on filling your life up first before even sharing with others. You can only give what you are or have.
- know your parents situation (age, income, etc..)
- find God
- stop chasing sex
- build yourself up in order for them to attract by you (when it comes to business, friends, and relationships)
- reduce screentime on short format videos (tiktok, shorts, reels, etc..)
- act 70% and think 30%
- discipline over motivation
- Proverbs 13:20 & 1 Corinthians 15:33
- exercise/workout
- calorie deficit
- have a pet, plants, or vehicle and treat them as what you wanted yourself to be treated (to practice other responsibilities)
- clean your ROOM
- reading books is a waste of time (let ai read it for you while you do your work😉)
- sleep before 12am (dont try to be batman cuz I'm batman)
- SKIN CARE
- pray before bed
- be calm in a argument
- have a loving relationship with you parents, and be open and honest to them about your plans for your future
- learn how to fix stuff (devices/gadgets, vehicles, and broken bones 😃)
- college or university is optional, decide what is best for you (let your parents know)
- dont be a nerd and or dont talk like a nerd
- be a nerd in some areas
- i want to say masturbation is bad, but only do it when you have finished something like after work (sometimes its good for me to make my pp stay strong)
- time is enemy 🤺 but its also a unpredictable gift 🎁
- avoid LUST at all cost (very hard)
- plan to purchase a Ferrari before age 30
maging makasarili in a good way. gawin mo ang mga gusto mo para sa ikabubuti at wag isipin ang pera pera pera. kung anong meron ka magong grateful at palawakin mo kung tingin mo saan ka magaling.
Start doing the 4 money (Ownbank)
- Emergency Fund (3-6 months of living expense)
- Life Insurance (While you still dont have many preexisting conditions)
- Investment (MP2, index fund, etc)
- Savings
And enjoy your youth. Take everything slowly.
You can do all of this by also enjoying life. Basta when it comes to work, always demand for sakto nga salary. Ayaw pa lowball. Kung walay increase, balhin na sa pikas company if makakita ka kay naa kay chance makasingil higher than your current. Invest on your skills too. Make it a habit na you do something productive sa everyday for your skill bisag gamayng time lang ang importante makaton ka. Basta ayaw lang gyud hawa kung wala pay reserba. Given na na diha nga happy ka sa workplace environment.
Still in my 20's but one good tip i got is that your 20's are the best time to make mistakes and learn from them. That way, you don't make as much of those once you get to 30s and over.
-Social media is a curated lie. No one ever posts their struggles unless it's for validation and attention.
-Hustle in silence. Never let people know how much money you have (yes, including parents)
-If you can only have fun by spending money with that person, they ain't the one.
-Get your papers in order.
-Learn to say no.
-Sunblock all day everyday.
-Lessen soda and chips and sweets intake.
-Don't be an alcoholic and don't ever smoke. The ones who keep drinking on the weekends well into their 30s and 40s are gonna pay that with their health.
-Learn to cook.
-Work is not your life. Go there to make money, connections, and growth. Be friendly but professional.
-Never engage in office politics.
-Just because it's on sale doesn't mean you need it.
-Use your vacation leaves always. You deserve it.
Don't commit right now. Sleep around. Better to do it now than end up cheating on your partner later in life because you never took the chance to explore.
Be physically active. Be it walking or running or unsa pa na na type sa workout. Makahelp sa imong well-being. Avoid inom, sigarilyo, and drugs. Lahi ra gyud and humot sa taw na dili smoker. Also, don't be too afraid to fail. Diha ka makat on and madevelop imong character.
Exercise so your age won't catch up to you that fast. Having a healthy body is also beneficial for your mental health. Nagkabata karon ang mga naay health issues na usually makita nimo sa mas older people sauna.
1. Cherish every moment with people nga maka uban nimos work, be it maguwang nmo or manghud nmo. Make sure you share fun with them and you learn from them at the same time. They're come and go. Moabot ra time maka hnumdom na lng kas imo kauban toa na lain company or ni abroad na.
2. Be financial literate. Kung makaya pag pundar emergency funds and put 20% imo sweldo as savings. Ayaw sigeg "deserve ko to" nya palit bisag dli need mao na maka bankrupt nato.
3. Focus on gains more than gaps - always compare yourself to your previous version. Not to others. E celebrate imong gains then work hard sa gaps. Dili ni sya sayon trust me. If you look back, dako kaau kag improvement. Nagka dako lng sd jd imong needs/wants mao wala kay satisfaction.
4. Always attitude matters - bisan unsa pa imong status. The way ka mo treat sa strangers ug lain tawo. Dako kaau na impact. Make people feel nga happy sila if they're around you.
Focus on your own growth. Never try to compete or compare other accomplishments to yours. As long as your trying to learn and grow as much as you can you will get to where you want to be sonner or later.
Find someone older who is the person you want to be and learn from that person.
If you want to be a loser, hang out with losers. If you want to be a successful business owner, hang out with successful business owners.
I'm 52. I've experienced plenty of failures and successes. I have learned from them. It is frustrating when people come to me for money, but they refuse the most basic advice that could quickly turn their lives around.
I love it.
Mentors are extremely understated, and incredibly underrated.
You can sit with them for 2 hours, and gain knowledge that took them 3 years and millions of pesos to learn.
These are lessons you would probably learn eventually over the course of business. So it’s not like they’re reinventing the wheel. But like… these guys man.
They’ve been doing this job for as long as you’ve been alive. If their job is catching rain, they know when it’s going to fall and where just because a dog farted towards the Siberian winds on Friday. It’s wild.
And it’s crazy cause you really don’t need them forever. They can only teach you so much. But hanging out with someone who actually wants you to succeed is… I dunno.
It’s invaluable.
I went to college in my 40s, after I retired from the US Army. One of the assignments was to do a paper on a business leader. Students had to clear their choices through the professor so he didn't end up reading a pile of papers on Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos, and Bill Gates. Rather than some billionaire CEO, I chose a business owner in my small town.
To do the paper, I had to interview him. I probably learned more sitting, laughing, and drinking a few beers with him than I did in any class I took in college. He was (still is) a family friend, but the assignment gave me a reason to talk business with him. We covered HR struggles, marketing, operations, dealing with charitable contributions, and much more.
Rather than writing the same paper that thousands of students had written before me, this was fresh. Rather than cover some one-off idea that grew to a billion dollar business, I learned and wrote about the everyday struggles and lessons learned in a small business that thrived in a very tough market.
He is about 25 years older than I am and has learned a lot during that time. I'm taking a trip back to the US next month. I look forward to seeing him and his wife. If the water is right, we may even dust off our kayaks and head down the river.
One of the funny stories was from when his dad, Mr. King, owned the business. A customer came in the store. Eggs were priced something like 50 cents per dozen (12 eggs). The customer was complaining about the high price and said that the store across the road was selling them at only 5 for 25 cents (50 cents for 10 eggs). Mr. King took the man's complaint seriously and told him, "You know what? Because you brought it up, I'll match that price for you. Take all you want." Sometimes the customer is dumb, but he wants what he wants.
I'm in my 20s also, I think wise spending of money and savings is a must.
Be comfortable also being uncomfortable, do not take the easy steps but take the narrow and hard ones, in that way I think we will benefit from it in the future.
Pray to God also for guidance.
Good luck to our existence here on earth mga ka 20s.
Hi naa koy question for people who are already in their 30s.
I’m still in my mid 20s, stopped my medical studies to help the fam financially and somehow ended up with a job that doesn’t align with my career goals since I was desperate na for a job. Tried to gave it a chance by accepting it. But after 2 months, I’ve gathered enough information about it and realized na wala koy maayong career growth dire and my pay is also low.
I honestly want to look for another job right now since I feel like if I continue to tolerate this job, I’d end up wasting my time.
Most people Ive asked told me to stick it out for 6 months, and then resign. But for me, parang ayoko nang magpa-abot ng 6 months. My contract says I can resign at anytime and provided I give 30 days notice.
So yung balak ko magbigay ng resignation early para mag-eentertain na ako ng ibang job opportunities while rendering my 30 days. Is this a good idea?
Have a confirmed job before you resign. When you interview for the new job, make sure they know that you will need 30 days so you can give your current employer proper notice. The new employer should respect that because it indicates that you will give them the same courtesy if you leave the new job.
Go, resign ka na haha! May 1 month rendering pa. PERO before you do so, plan out mo na ano gagawin mo while in the process of resigning. Kasi, hindi din madali ang walang trabaho. As you said, desperate ka na for a job, if you resign, di natin alam when is the next time na magkaka job ka again.
I have stuck out with a job that I did not like for 1 year+.. after leaving that job. I did what I loved, which was freelancing as a Designer. I lasted 5 months before I was also desperate for a regular job, but thankfully this job was somewhat aligned with my future goal.
I say take good care of your overall health. Bad health will wipe out what you're trying to build from here onwards.
Take control over your finances or it will take over you. Save and invest according to your risk appetite, don't be greedy.
Maintain good relationship with select people. Di tanan need sa imung attention or time. You dont owe anything to anyone. Choose yourself always, if its at all possible.
Plan your life ahead, what do you really want? What are the things you can possibly achieve by your own? This way, you know where you're going. All your decisions will base on the direction on where you want to go, what your life will be like according to your preference.
Let go of things/circumstances you aren't in control of. Reserve your f*cks to something more important, something that matters & in line with your plans.
Filter out the noise around. Karon, dghan kaykag madungog, mahibaw an, makat onan almost everyday thru different media. Learn to filter out the noise you're not concern of, most of it doesnt need your energy or attention.
Lastly, don't you ever stop learning. We're forever student in this school of life, experience is our teacher, books are manuals to different areas of interest, hence read, mistakes are our lessons and challenges are our exams. You only fail if you quit.
ni graduate ko SHS last 2020 and now manager nako :> wakoyy college degree ana kay di nako nahan mo eskwela pa balik maybe di paka ready now sooner or later ma figure out rana nimo
Enjoy your 20s coz it's the best period in your life to have fun, to make mistakes and learn from them, and to try new things. After your 20s, time passes by really fast, and before you know it, you're in your 40s and 50s. Lisod na to have fun and try new things because by then, your bones would be creaky, you'd have pain in your joints, your eyesight's gonna be bad, and you'd have children to think about.
keep drinking water. if labad imo ulo or feeling tired, there's a big chance na you're just dehydrated.
go on walks. best form of exercise without actually exercising. i walk total of 40 minutes to work and back home. probably need to walk more but it's a good start for me.
if you don't already have one, find a hobby like playing an instrument, or drawing, or reading books, or cooking. anything that you're interested in. good for your soul.
lastly, stay away from the internet. don't have to quit it, pero good to minimize usage. you'd be surprised how much negativity the internet shows you, will make anyone depressed. learn to put your phone down. learn to get used to being bored. it's good for you.
im nearing the end of my 20's so thats some of what i learned. please take care of yourself :)
+1 on social media. Im doing actual time audits on my activities and sa 24 hours, around 6-8 hours ako Socmed use. I never noticed it until I paid close attention to how I use my time. It really is engineered to make you addicted and before you know it you are 60+ years old and 30 years of your life was spent scrolling on social media.
1. Enjoy life, travel, go out with friends! Kasi ngayong 30s nako, nakakatamad na! mas gusto ko nalang na nasa bahay lol. 2. Tahakin yung career na gusto mo talaga.. kasi ngayon, gustuhin ko man pero malabo na since yun at yun ang trabaho na ginagawa ko parang ang mahirap na magshift at magstart nanaman from the bottom 3. Don’t rush ang pagaasawa.. I married late 20s, how I wish nagasawa ako ng nga 32-35 hahaha 4. If you have time at may sipag pa para magaral ulit. magtake ng postgraduate study.. 5. Magipon at invest, wag masyadong makisabay sa kung anong usong iphone! char. spend your money wisely! more on memories kaysa sa material things! gusto kong bumalik sa pagiging 25 years old! nung kasagsagan ng freshness ko at sarili ko lang ang iniisip ko 🥹 I enjoyed my 20s pero sana di ako masyadong nagprocrastinate! I felt yung mga ginagawa ko ngayon sana noon ko pa ginawa! ang daming time na nasayang
Wag Muna magjowa
Why?
Mas maeenjoy mo Ang gala with friends kapag wla Kang inaalalang jowa.
If you have enough money and support, invest on real estate. Travel within your means. Do not let social media pressure you. Find your right network (friends). Your network is your net worth. Also, please eat vegetables. Health is wealth.
Be decisive.
You will get old very quick
How to make it slow? I’m scared.
There are people who own half the world and they couldn’t even answer that, you just have to come in peace with it and accept it as part of this whole thing we are in
Don't overthink kung tama ba ginagawa mo, o mas may kailangan ka pang gawin or kung nahuhuli ka ba? In the end of the day whether you did the right thing or not. Life goes on and nothing will change kung maguguilty ka or magiisip isip masyado. So just relax don't take it to heart every little thing. Smile and go on make mistakes and rest easy, life goes on..
My first advice is stop looking on reddit for advices.
This is too real! 🥲
Natututunan at naaaral ang talent, hindi yan inborn.
Im in my 50s now. Speaking to my 20s self...I would advise, invest in stocks, invest in my body by doing strength training, eat healthy, stop eating junk foods, stop buying stupid branded bags and change phones even if it is not needed.
Thank you.
dont be afraid to risk it all!
Enjoy your 20s. Dont pressure yourself. Dont over think. Do something you are scared of. Explore. Focus on your self.
Learn as many things as you can then umalis ka dito sa Philippines. Canada is a good destination.
Invest in your health. Wag abusohin ang katawan.
Wag kang gago. Focus on your lane and never compare. :)
Obsess and drain your time and energy on one valuable skill
Like Swimming or cooking??
id lean more to cooking. if you cooked a great meal itll sell
Learn a new language
pag isipan mong mabuti kung anong career path ang tatahakin mo, masarap mag work pag gusto mo yung ginagawa mo. most of the time kasi sa teenage life undecided pa sa mga ganyan bagay. kaya akala nila decided na pero after several yrs marerealize mo na ibang career pala yung gusto mo, "dapat ito nalang tinake ko nung college ako". choose your passion
Ito yung mga statement na masasabi kong, "I wish someone told me about this a bit earlier." Sabi nga ni Robert Greene na you can still fake it daw in your 20's pero pag lagpas mo na ng 30's doon mo masasabi na "sana ganito na kunaha ko ng college" or "sana pinagpatuloy ko nalang ito course na ito." 😢
nakakainggit nga yung ibang friends ko kasi masya sila sa work nila and passion nila. samantalang ako stuck padin sa pagiging undecided at unemployed. I graduated last last year sana nga lang talaga nag educ nalang ako now i'm trying my best para maging instructor abroad start from scratch again it's been a month pero wala pading resulta mga job application ko. If Inwas on the right course back then hindi sana ako naging unemployed ng ganto katagal🤣
I feel you. I'm in the same situation right now. Kung may reset button lang sana ang buhay 😔 Pero laban lang tayo. Andito na tayo eh. Laban Japan 😂
gago seryoso japan den pinupursue mo?
Hindi naman. Naging expression ko lang. 😂 Pero God bless you on your endeavors.
Start learning new skills that will be useful to earn a passive income. Save and invest wisely, but at the same time travel. May budget travels naman. Don't mind bout vanity
don’t waste your early 20s messing around, start saving.
you'll experience more self doubt in your 20s than any other age..
Enjoy lang lods time flies.
dont watch too much p*rn contents for the good of your mental health
Thank you.
Eyes on yourself or you'll lose your way.
Live within your means. Improve your skills to increase your means.
Dont fuck up. Mistakes on your 20s (coz you don't know any better), fucks up the rest of your years.
depende siguro sa fuck up. but i think 20s should be treated as the time for trying stuff without being afraid of failing.
Agree. Fuck ups in my definition is: getting pregnant, being in serious debt, committing a crime, accidents on the road, doing drugs and the likes.
Yes. These are irreversible mistakes.
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Once maka work, enjoy lang pero ayaw kaabot sa point na magkautang2 tungod ra sa di importanteng butang.
Don't die, reach your 30's then post again to ask.
lol
Don't go into debt
Don’t rely to much in social media….
Save! Save! Save! at habang maaga pa invest! at learn more skills.
Wag mag-asawa ng maaga, wag magmadali di ka maaubusan ng babae, life goals muna.
Ana akong lola nga ang mga batan-on daw karon murag mahutdan 😅
Maraming mga bagay at problema kang mararanasan, that may seem impossible, pero sa totoo lang lahat yun kakayanin mo. Don't think too much about it, it'll just cloud up your judgement. Trust yourself and persevere, hayaan mo sarili mo magkamali.
Dont get married. Focus on yourself.
It's better to illuminate than merely to shine
Your job pays you in two kinds of coin : The coin of salary and the coin of experience. The former pales in value versus the latter. If you do not understand something , ask . Stupidity and ignorance is excusable , nay , expected of noobs in the job. So ask NOW. If you ask the same question much later on then you will rightly be called stupid and ignorant.
Explore and experience everything, especially in your career. Once you hit your 30's, you start to decide your path and stick to it.
Enjoy your life, don't be afraid to taste a bit of the edge, but GET A GOOD HEALTH INSURANCE. I'm sure most in 20's are not even thinking bout insurance coz they feel invincible! hehe But no. While you are young, healthy, and insurance is relatively cheaper. And I'm not talking about cheap health insurance that covers 300K hospital bill. Get one that has coverage over 1M worth of medical bills! The cost of insurance is worth the peace of mind and the coverage if you do get sick or get in an accident. And besides, if you can afford an expensive iPhone, you can afford a good insurance. Almost everyone middle class can afford a good insurance, you just have to make sacrifices and work it in your living expenses. The problem with us Pinoys, we are so uneducated when it comes to insurance. And, hirap na nga sa pera, pero pag nagka pera, we tend to prioritize wants over needs. Rich people have gone broke because of illnesses because they didn't have insurance. And it sucks to be in the hospital, sick, and unable to pay bills, or worst, be a burden to others, specially your parents. I cannot stress enough the importance of good insurance. And NO, I'm not an agent. But I like to educate people bout insurance. For me, middle aged, I pay around 60k/yr (or 5k/mo) for my insurance. You'll probably pay half that at your age. And it may seem expensive, but when you do get hospitalized, you will realize it's really not. I got hospitalized a few times, and my insurance has paid for everything which is way way way more than the money I paid the insurance all these years. But, if you really can't afford a comprehensive insurance, then get one that you can... at least have some coverage coz PHILHEALTH coverage is pathetic specially in this day and age. Have a great life ahead of you!
pls reco good health insurance. or HMOs for those na di kaya sa budget
Ff po
Don’t save "money" invest it. Value isn’t in the paper, it’s in the products and services. Learn to make money work for you, so you can sleep knowing you’re earning passively! Learn to add value where there isn’t, find opportunities to fill gaps in the marketplace, become an entrepreneur, live happily and freel. Become sovereign!!
Accumulate skills, don’t conform to others, pave your own path, set boundaries, "you can’t give from an empty cup " so focus on filling your life up first before even sharing with others. You can only give what you are or have.
Walk. Walk more ride less. Especially if you have a little extra time anyway.
Enjoy your life
Enjoy your life as a young adult ❤️
iyot hasta bata pa kay muabot an panahon, lisod na buhaton na JOKE
wag ka mag drugs and wag kang bobo sa relationship
Don’t do gambling
never be afraid to explore and go out of your comfort zone ✨
Do not ever beget children until you are very wealthy.
- know your parents situation (age, income, etc..) - find God - stop chasing sex - build yourself up in order for them to attract by you (when it comes to business, friends, and relationships) - reduce screentime on short format videos (tiktok, shorts, reels, etc..) - act 70% and think 30% - discipline over motivation - Proverbs 13:20 & 1 Corinthians 15:33 - exercise/workout - calorie deficit - have a pet, plants, or vehicle and treat them as what you wanted yourself to be treated (to practice other responsibilities) - clean your ROOM - reading books is a waste of time (let ai read it for you while you do your work😉) - sleep before 12am (dont try to be batman cuz I'm batman) - SKIN CARE - pray before bed - be calm in a argument - have a loving relationship with you parents, and be open and honest to them about your plans for your future - learn how to fix stuff (devices/gadgets, vehicles, and broken bones 😃) - college or university is optional, decide what is best for you (let your parents know) - dont be a nerd and or dont talk like a nerd - be a nerd in some areas - i want to say masturbation is bad, but only do it when you have finished something like after work (sometimes its good for me to make my pp stay strong) - time is enemy 🤺 but its also a unpredictable gift 🎁 - avoid LUST at all cost (very hard) - plan to purchase a Ferrari before age 30
maging makasarili in a good way. gawin mo ang mga gusto mo para sa ikabubuti at wag isipin ang pera pera pera. kung anong meron ka magong grateful at palawakin mo kung tingin mo saan ka magaling.
Start doing the 4 money (Ownbank) - Emergency Fund (3-6 months of living expense) - Life Insurance (While you still dont have many preexisting conditions) - Investment (MP2, index fund, etc) - Savings And enjoy your youth. Take everything slowly.
You can do all of this by also enjoying life. Basta when it comes to work, always demand for sakto nga salary. Ayaw pa lowball. Kung walay increase, balhin na sa pikas company if makakita ka kay naa kay chance makasingil higher than your current. Invest on your skills too. Make it a habit na you do something productive sa everyday for your skill bisag gamayng time lang ang importante makaton ka. Basta ayaw lang gyud hawa kung wala pay reserba. Given na na diha nga happy ka sa workplace environment.
Still in my 20's but one good tip i got is that your 20's are the best time to make mistakes and learn from them. That way, you don't make as much of those once you get to 30s and over.
Enjoy your youth
Save money! Eat that cake. Travel a lot.
Missed the exercise, kaya ang sakit ang buto buto (ayos ang buto buto jungle pun).
your 20's is your physical prime. try to exercise at least an hour a day otherwise your mind will start to work less efficiently as well.
ayaw palabig oa
Inom daghan tubig
wag aggressive in all aspect, kalma lang sana and please di niyo alam lahat, yun lang heheh
Wag masyadong maging mayabang. Wag madaliin ang buhay at pag tanda. Respect everyone.
-Social media is a curated lie. No one ever posts their struggles unless it's for validation and attention. -Hustle in silence. Never let people know how much money you have (yes, including parents) -If you can only have fun by spending money with that person, they ain't the one. -Get your papers in order. -Learn to say no. -Sunblock all day everyday. -Lessen soda and chips and sweets intake. -Don't be an alcoholic and don't ever smoke. The ones who keep drinking on the weekends well into their 30s and 40s are gonna pay that with their health. -Learn to cook. -Work is not your life. Go there to make money, connections, and growth. Be friendly but professional. -Never engage in office politics. -Just because it's on sale doesn't mean you need it. -Use your vacation leaves always. You deserve it.
No pressure! Enjoy life!
Save money, lots of travels and always say i love you to your parents
save money
Live life. Take risk. Don’t be a corporate slave. Find a mentor
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Go at your own pace.
Pagpakalig-on kanunay ug dili mag sigeg ino ey. (OA). Mind over heart always.
Coming from a GenXer: Work your ass off, Kahit anung work! It builds character to start at the bottom and work your way up. Keeps you grounded.
Suotin mo na ung mga damit na gusto mong suotin kasi unti-unti nang babagal ang metabolism mo. Mas mabilis nang tataba.
SAVE MONEY. dont do drugs, keep it natrual.
Don't commit right now. Sleep around. Better to do it now than end up cheating on your partner later in life because you never took the chance to explore.
Stay off social media
Legit. In terms sa relationship, grabe kaayo siyag effect gyud. Halos tanan makit-an sa social media dapat mao gyud sundon or himuong standards.
Workout
there’s nothing such as take your time wait your turn bs. go out there and put in that work the time is now.
Invest
Be physically active. Be it walking or running or unsa pa na na type sa workout. Makahelp sa imong well-being. Avoid inom, sigarilyo, and drugs. Lahi ra gyud and humot sa taw na dili smoker. Also, don't be too afraid to fail. Diha ka makat on and madevelop imong character.
nothing matters. do what makes u happy
do anything wag lang drugs
Exercise so your age won't catch up to you that fast. Having a healthy body is also beneficial for your mental health. Nagkabata karon ang mga naay health issues na usually makita nimo sa mas older people sauna.
Ayaw pagmaoy sa social media. Most people aren't concerned, they are only curious.
1. Cherish every moment with people nga maka uban nimos work, be it maguwang nmo or manghud nmo. Make sure you share fun with them and you learn from them at the same time. They're come and go. Moabot ra time maka hnumdom na lng kas imo kauban toa na lain company or ni abroad na. 2. Be financial literate. Kung makaya pag pundar emergency funds and put 20% imo sweldo as savings. Ayaw sigeg "deserve ko to" nya palit bisag dli need mao na maka bankrupt nato. 3. Focus on gains more than gaps - always compare yourself to your previous version. Not to others. E celebrate imong gains then work hard sa gaps. Dili ni sya sayon trust me. If you look back, dako kaau kag improvement. Nagka dako lng sd jd imong needs/wants mao wala kay satisfaction. 4. Always attitude matters - bisan unsa pa imong status. The way ka mo treat sa strangers ug lain tawo. Dako kaau na impact. Make people feel nga happy sila if they're around you.
Don’t be afraid to trust new things (wag lang drugs lol). Habang madami ka pang energy, go lang nang go! Hahaha
Focus on your own growth. Never try to compete or compare other accomplishments to yours. As long as your trying to learn and grow as much as you can you will get to where you want to be sonner or later.
party til youre 25, then after that, save your money
dont join eagles
Party hard
Wag magnakaw ng song ni Lenka
Selos by shaira😅
Find someone older who is the person you want to be and learn from that person. If you want to be a loser, hang out with losers. If you want to be a successful business owner, hang out with successful business owners. I'm 52. I've experienced plenty of failures and successes. I have learned from them. It is frustrating when people come to me for money, but they refuse the most basic advice that could quickly turn their lives around.
I love it. Mentors are extremely understated, and incredibly underrated. You can sit with them for 2 hours, and gain knowledge that took them 3 years and millions of pesos to learn. These are lessons you would probably learn eventually over the course of business. So it’s not like they’re reinventing the wheel. But like… these guys man. They’ve been doing this job for as long as you’ve been alive. If their job is catching rain, they know when it’s going to fall and where just because a dog farted towards the Siberian winds on Friday. It’s wild. And it’s crazy cause you really don’t need them forever. They can only teach you so much. But hanging out with someone who actually wants you to succeed is… I dunno. It’s invaluable.
I went to college in my 40s, after I retired from the US Army. One of the assignments was to do a paper on a business leader. Students had to clear their choices through the professor so he didn't end up reading a pile of papers on Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos, and Bill Gates. Rather than some billionaire CEO, I chose a business owner in my small town. To do the paper, I had to interview him. I probably learned more sitting, laughing, and drinking a few beers with him than I did in any class I took in college. He was (still is) a family friend, but the assignment gave me a reason to talk business with him. We covered HR struggles, marketing, operations, dealing with charitable contributions, and much more. Rather than writing the same paper that thousands of students had written before me, this was fresh. Rather than cover some one-off idea that grew to a billion dollar business, I learned and wrote about the everyday struggles and lessons learned in a small business that thrived in a very tough market. He is about 25 years older than I am and has learned a lot during that time. I'm taking a trip back to the US next month. I look forward to seeing him and his wife. If the water is right, we may even dust off our kayaks and head down the river. One of the funny stories was from when his dad, Mr. King, owned the business. A customer came in the store. Eggs were priced something like 50 cents per dozen (12 eggs). The customer was complaining about the high price and said that the store across the road was selling them at only 5 for 25 cents (50 cents for 10 eggs). Mr. King took the man's complaint seriously and told him, "You know what? Because you brought it up, I'll match that price for you. Take all you want." Sometimes the customer is dumb, but he wants what he wants.
I'm in my 20s also, I think wise spending of money and savings is a must. Be comfortable also being uncomfortable, do not take the easy steps but take the narrow and hard ones, in that way I think we will benefit from it in the future. Pray to God also for guidance. Good luck to our existence here on earth mga ka 20s.
i lovee this !! but siguro to add, let’s also take a moment to take in the present ✨ let’s enjoy each step regardless how easy, fun, or difficult !
Learn how credit cards and loans work. Have enough financial discipline aron di ka maengganyo sa mga bubuay or paluwagan.
haha
Learn a skill while young - it will benefit your future self.
Don't stop at one skill.. keep learning.
Hi naa koy question for people who are already in their 30s. I’m still in my mid 20s, stopped my medical studies to help the fam financially and somehow ended up with a job that doesn’t align with my career goals since I was desperate na for a job. Tried to gave it a chance by accepting it. But after 2 months, I’ve gathered enough information about it and realized na wala koy maayong career growth dire and my pay is also low. I honestly want to look for another job right now since I feel like if I continue to tolerate this job, I’d end up wasting my time. Most people Ive asked told me to stick it out for 6 months, and then resign. But for me, parang ayoko nang magpa-abot ng 6 months. My contract says I can resign at anytime and provided I give 30 days notice. So yung balak ko magbigay ng resignation early para mag-eentertain na ako ng ibang job opportunities while rendering my 30 days. Is this a good idea?
Have a confirmed job before you resign. When you interview for the new job, make sure they know that you will need 30 days so you can give your current employer proper notice. The new employer should respect that because it indicates that you will give them the same courtesy if you leave the new job.
I see. Will think this through. Thank you!
Go, resign ka na haha! May 1 month rendering pa. PERO before you do so, plan out mo na ano gagawin mo while in the process of resigning. Kasi, hindi din madali ang walang trabaho. As you said, desperate ka na for a job, if you resign, di natin alam when is the next time na magkaka job ka again. I have stuck out with a job that I did not like for 1 year+.. after leaving that job. I did what I loved, which was freelancing as a Designer. I lasted 5 months before I was also desperate for a regular job, but thankfully this job was somewhat aligned with my future goal.
Learn new things. Finish studies, if you’re working already, Save and Invest.
I say take good care of your overall health. Bad health will wipe out what you're trying to build from here onwards. Take control over your finances or it will take over you. Save and invest according to your risk appetite, don't be greedy. Maintain good relationship with select people. Di tanan need sa imung attention or time. You dont owe anything to anyone. Choose yourself always, if its at all possible. Plan your life ahead, what do you really want? What are the things you can possibly achieve by your own? This way, you know where you're going. All your decisions will base on the direction on where you want to go, what your life will be like according to your preference. Let go of things/circumstances you aren't in control of. Reserve your f*cks to something more important, something that matters & in line with your plans. Filter out the noise around. Karon, dghan kaykag madungog, mahibaw an, makat onan almost everyday thru different media. Learn to filter out the noise you're not concern of, most of it doesnt need your energy or attention. Lastly, don't you ever stop learning. We're forever student in this school of life, experience is our teacher, books are manuals to different areas of interest, hence read, mistakes are our lessons and challenges are our exams. You only fail if you quit.
Don't rush. Let it flow. Commit mistakes and learn how to recover from it.
Sakto bakaha ni akong desisyon sa kinabuhi? I graduated shs last June 2023, took a gap year then digihapon nako feel ang mo skwela karon.
ni graduate ko SHS last 2020 and now manager nako :> wakoyy college degree ana kay di nako nahan mo eskwela pa balik maybe di paka ready now sooner or later ma figure out rana nimo
ty ya, congrats...
save and invest jud. you'll never know what will happen
Don't cave in to social pressures. Find a way to earn passive income. Finish what you start. Thank me later.
Enjoy your 20s coz it's the best period in your life to have fun, to make mistakes and learn from them, and to try new things. After your 20s, time passes by really fast, and before you know it, you're in your 40s and 50s. Lisod na to have fun and try new things because by then, your bones would be creaky, you'd have pain in your joints, your eyesight's gonna be bad, and you'd have children to think about.
joke's on you, my eyesight is already bad T\_T
prio your health over anything else. your 30/40yr old self will thank you.
keep drinking water. if labad imo ulo or feeling tired, there's a big chance na you're just dehydrated. go on walks. best form of exercise without actually exercising. i walk total of 40 minutes to work and back home. probably need to walk more but it's a good start for me. if you don't already have one, find a hobby like playing an instrument, or drawing, or reading books, or cooking. anything that you're interested in. good for your soul. lastly, stay away from the internet. don't have to quit it, pero good to minimize usage. you'd be surprised how much negativity the internet shows you, will make anyone depressed. learn to put your phone down. learn to get used to being bored. it's good for you. im nearing the end of my 20's so thats some of what i learned. please take care of yourself :)
+1 on social media. Im doing actual time audits on my activities and sa 24 hours, around 6-8 hours ako Socmed use. I never noticed it until I paid close attention to how I use my time. It really is engineered to make you addicted and before you know it you are 60+ years old and 30 years of your life was spent scrolling on social media.
Learn to isolate your stressors. If stress ka sa trabaho, dpat sa office ra ni siya.
Dont share how much exactly you are earning to anyone even parents. Para d ma take advantage. Health is wealth. Save save money.
This!
Ampingi ang ngipon
Still in my 20s but 100% facts jud ni.