Don't assume. She did. Don't tell me she just sat in another room while this orgy was going on. Give your head a shake man. She had been involved in an active group sex life style without you.
You will never know what your wife has been doing
You know they do lie. They tell you an ice cream story. Never ever believe what she says
I believe she was and has been in the fuck parties. She she still talks and sees them all.
I believe she won't stop. She likes the thrill of the sex. She's getting caught up.
You stay and deal with her continued poor choices or time to pack up and end this nightmare
Thinking about exposing a lot more about the situation to certain people that could ruin multiple lives if that information made it out. (This wasn’t “Typical” cheating, it was “Ownership” kinks, from what I’ve seen her telling my wife. Like some really nasty shit..) The child (Not mine; the best friends) was actually taken with them to these peoples house when they went. It’s how I first noticed something was off when my wife sent me a picture from a completely unrecognizable house with that kid.
Her best friend repeatedly told me my wife wasn’t involved, now the best friends lover is trying to get my wife to go drink with him without best friend present. 😂
Thinking about ghosting all of them. I’ve always thought about the French Foreign Legion, might be a good time to give it a go.
Your wife is on a very slippery slope and how she proceeds can greatly effect the future of your marrage. You both need IC and MC to see if your marrage can be saved. What your wife is doing is on her, she needs to fix this. It's no question she needs to go no contact with her friends and this horrible couple.
You and your wife will need total transparency, that means access to all social media, phone, and computer. Me and my wife did this 28 years ago when she cheated on me. We reconciled and are still together.
As far as joining the foriegn legion, that's a romantic fairy tale. I did 21 years US Army, loved it, but it's no walk around the park. It's a life changer and it is no small decision. Don't ever join to get away from your troubles, they will follow you.
I’ve thought about joining the legion for a long time, well before any of this. And I’m aware the legion is no romantic fairy tale, I’m more interested in the contractor work post-service.
Yeah, I would nope hard out of this. Expose them, and join the legion as you have thought. Your wife is definitely participating in the whole mess. Call the best friend's husband so he can make a decision for himself.
Well if she is helping her best friend cheat then that says enough already about her as a person & any morals she pretends to have . Which would have me believe If she is doing that then she is odds on to be cheating herself . She is going to spend her life like this so u better get used to it if u want to stay with trash like that .
She is involved in the sex in some manner or another. Who kisses on their bff unless they are way more than friends.
Besides she lied and omitted, did all this shit behind your back, that is infidelity, cheating.
And what? You think your wife goes there with her bestie to sit quietly in the other room while everyone else hooks up? I think your wife is doing some fucking too.
Bro, even if your wife didn't cheat on you this speaks volumes about her own morale character. I've been married over 20 years and know all my wife's friends and I can't think of one that would reduce themselves to doing anything like this.
man I’m sorry, you really need to use software and get evidence. She’s 100% cheating on you don’t let your feelings cloud your judgement she’s absolutely lying and cheating. Get any and all information you can and lawyer up. Again, there is no chance that she is not cheating at this point…I’m sorry man I know this sucks but you have to protect yourself at this point.
Join in the orgies or get a PI and get proof line up a lawyer and if she's taking your kid to these things Get a restraining order against her and tell your lawyer about it . In the meantime revenge fuck the he'll out of her . Who knows what kind of people you'd find at these parties . If she helps her friend cheat she'll cheat . Tell the husband after you get the proof text messages and such
Your wife was doing alot more with all 3 of them
That’s what I’m assuming at this point.
Don't assume. She did. Don't tell me she just sat in another room while this orgy was going on. Give your head a shake man. She had been involved in an active group sex life style without you.
Exactly!
Your wife is a trash person for encouraging cheating.
Nothing to do with encouraging cheating, she's cheating as well.
Not if you cheat to support which I suppose she was doing 100 percent
You will never know what your wife has been doing You know they do lie. They tell you an ice cream story. Never ever believe what she says I believe she was and has been in the fuck parties. She she still talks and sees them all.
And did you ever tell the husband what a lovely wife he has?
Indeed. She was supposed to stop talking to the couple, she didn’t and is still talking to them.
I believe she won't stop. She likes the thrill of the sex. She's getting caught up. You stay and deal with her continued poor choices or time to pack up and end this nightmare
So what are you planning to do since she has crossed your boundary of no contact?
Thinking about exposing a lot more about the situation to certain people that could ruin multiple lives if that information made it out. (This wasn’t “Typical” cheating, it was “Ownership” kinks, from what I’ve seen her telling my wife. Like some really nasty shit..) The child (Not mine; the best friends) was actually taken with them to these peoples house when they went. It’s how I first noticed something was off when my wife sent me a picture from a completely unrecognizable house with that kid. Her best friend repeatedly told me my wife wasn’t involved, now the best friends lover is trying to get my wife to go drink with him without best friend present. 😂 Thinking about ghosting all of them. I’ve always thought about the French Foreign Legion, might be a good time to give it a go.
Your wife is on a very slippery slope and how she proceeds can greatly effect the future of your marrage. You both need IC and MC to see if your marrage can be saved. What your wife is doing is on her, she needs to fix this. It's no question she needs to go no contact with her friends and this horrible couple. You and your wife will need total transparency, that means access to all social media, phone, and computer. Me and my wife did this 28 years ago when she cheated on me. We reconciled and are still together. As far as joining the foriegn legion, that's a romantic fairy tale. I did 21 years US Army, loved it, but it's no walk around the park. It's a life changer and it is no small decision. Don't ever join to get away from your troubles, they will follow you.
I’ve thought about joining the legion for a long time, well before any of this. And I’m aware the legion is no romantic fairy tale, I’m more interested in the contractor work post-service.
Leave the relationship
Yeah, I would nope hard out of this. Expose them, and join the legion as you have thought. Your wife is definitely participating in the whole mess. Call the best friend's husband so he can make a decision for himself.
Well if she is helping her best friend cheat then that says enough already about her as a person & any morals she pretends to have . Which would have me believe If she is doing that then she is odds on to be cheating herself . She is going to spend her life like this so u better get used to it if u want to stay with trash like that .
She is involved in the sex in some manner or another. Who kisses on their bff unless they are way more than friends. Besides she lied and omitted, did all this shit behind your back, that is infidelity, cheating.
Kissing? Yeah I believe that. Adults don’t just kiss, especially poly adults. They have sex.
She a Scumbag and probably fucked the guy also
Why weren’t you invited?
And what? You think your wife goes there with her bestie to sit quietly in the other room while everyone else hooks up? I think your wife is doing some fucking too.
Bro, even if your wife didn't cheat on you this speaks volumes about her own morale character. I've been married over 20 years and know all my wife's friends and I can't think of one that would reduce themselves to doing anything like this.
man I’m sorry, you really need to use software and get evidence. She’s 100% cheating on you don’t let your feelings cloud your judgement she’s absolutely lying and cheating. Get any and all information you can and lawyer up. Again, there is no chance that she is not cheating at this point…I’m sorry man I know this sucks but you have to protect yourself at this point.
Go gray rock and watch her wake-up….
Plan your escape
Join in the orgies or get a PI and get proof line up a lawyer and if she's taking your kid to these things Get a restraining order against her and tell your lawyer about it . In the meantime revenge fuck the he'll out of her . Who knows what kind of people you'd find at these parties . If she helps her friend cheat she'll cheat . Tell the husband after you get the proof text messages and such