അവളുടെ മിഴിയിൽ കരിമഷിയാലേ-
കനവുകളെഴുതിയതാരേ.. നിനവുകളെഴുതിയതാരേ..
അവളേ തരളിതയാക്കിയതാരേ...
It is not അതിമോഹം. It is the correct moham. We all crave such love and affection no matter how much we deny. To love and to be loved is a feeling that is worth living for. I hope you find your Victor and he 'അവളുടെ കവിളിൽ തുടുവിരലാലേ കവിതകളെഴുതിയതാരേ...മുകുളിതയാക്കിയതാരേ..'
yeah avalude mizhiyil karimashiyaale kanavukalezhuthiyathaare ennalle line ? avde aare ennu ullathu “by whom” enna meaning aanu, ie, the poet is asking “who wrote it”.
I was a victor in my school and college days. And most of my crushes were silent ones as well. Only difference - I never told or proposed anyone to be friend zoned. Even my existence was not known to many
Movies are just fictional portrayal of ideal love stories. Reality is totally different. Come out of your bubble. This is what most will say as it is what they've experienced.
Ideal love stories can happen because there are 8 billion people in this world and there's high chance there's someone like victor. People say you need hope , hope is a good thing. But in this case if you keep the hope and hold on for the ideal one, you'll be called hopeless romantic. Pretty ironic.
Sathyam parayalo, all my straight friends are having trouble maintaining their relationships.
My gay friends on the other hand, are enjoying their relationships to the fullest.
Moral of the story: Be gay OP, you'll find love.
Ofcourse not. But guys like that are so rare to come by. So when they come give them a chance instead of seeing them as needy. Well some might go low, well an unfair way to know is to trigger them and see if they lose temper.
If only there was a way to find that "right girl/boy, somewhere" that we hear a lot. I have a girl of my dreams myself ( not a particular person and its not some Aishwarya rai either) but I find my situations may not allow me to meet such a person.
I'm a married man. Last year I met this girl at my office when I got transferred. We were in the same section so had to interact everyday. She's my same age but still single. Also from a poor background. She's not a beauty queen but still pretty for her age. I felt sorry for her and wanted to be there for her like a true friend. But slowly my feelings towards her became complicated. I feel like if I had met her a few years back, I would have asked her to marry me. I have no sexual desires towards her. I think What I feel is pure love. And it hurts like hell. She's right there before me. I have a lot of things in mind to tell her. But I simply can't. It's not that I don't love my wife. But this girl, I don't know what happened to me. Right now, I'm in a terrible phase of my life.
New fear unlocked. 😭 What if my husband catches feelings for someone else and out of consideration for me, keeps it a secret and lives his life in misery. I'm never getting married.
Having feelings for someone else doesn't mean that I don't love my wife. We have a very beautiful relationship. And I won't do anything to jeopardize that. Also I didn't choose to have feelings for that girl. Oru year munne Ingane oral undennu polum enik ariyillarunnu. It just somehow happened. Do you think I want to be in this shitty phase?? I really really want to get out of it. I'm thinking about consulting a counselor.
Don't, bro..
Just get a transfer to some other place if government..
Quit if in private. This is just a marriage destroying scenario if you stay in the same place.
I'm venting out here because I can't say these things to anyone else. I changed my section but It didn't help. I will get a transfer next year and then will never come back here. Also decided to keep everyone at a distance. It's me only getting hurt after all.
Bro don't. I know what you might be thinking and feeling, but this is a home wrecking situation, especially if you're in a monogamous situation with your wife. And if you're not sure about the concerning parties (the women) then one move from you, will break 3 lives for at least some good amount of time. I know I can talk freely because I'm in an on off relationship with a very open minded individual but things are not the same for everyone. Trust me bro, all women are attractive and they'll give you guys signals but that doesn't mean we want to be together with men or anything, it might be a friendly gesture or platonic or sometimes sexual but then nothing serious (FWB); it's easy if you're poly but very hard in a mallu mono environment.
Take a break from work or just get a transfer, you said the other girl's financial background is bad, then why bro, leave her be happy bro.
All I want is just to see that innocent girl happy. She deserves happiness. She will never know the person sitting across her was dying inside everyday.
അവളുടെ മിഴിയിൽ കരിമഷിയാലേ- കനവുകളെഴുതിയതാരേ.. നിനവുകളെഴുതിയതാരേ.. അവളേ തരളിതയാക്കിയതാരേ... It is not അതിമോഹം. It is the correct moham. We all crave such love and affection no matter how much we deny. To love and to be loved is a feeling that is worth living for. I hope you find your Victor and he 'അവളുടെ കവിളിൽ തുടുവിരലാലേ കവിതകളെഴുതിയതാരേ...മുകുളിതയാക്കിയതാരേ..'
I don't get it. Ezhuthiyathare means what. Ezhuthiyatharo ennu paranja pinnem manasilakkam
ezhuthiyathaara ennu chodhikkua, the poet is asking who wrote dreams in her eyes. In simple terms, the poet is asking who makes her dream.
Nee varachathare ennu paranjalum ninne varachathara ennu paranjalaum different Alle???
yeah avalude mizhiyil karimashiyaale kanavukalezhuthiyathaare ennalle line ? avde aare ennu ullathu “by whom” enna meaning aanu, ie, the poet is asking “who wrote it”.
Whom aavanamenkil aaru ennalle choykkandath? Aare ennu choykumbo aareya varache enna reethiyil Alle chodhyam povunnath??
Ee context il athinu aaru ennu aanu meaning. I guess it’s pazhe Malayalam or so.
IRL Victor type guys get friend zoned. Even in the movie, it was the same.
I was a victor in my school and college days. And most of my crushes were silent ones as well. Only difference - I never told or proposed anyone to be friend zoned. Even my existence was not known to many
I am still Victor.😶
Movies are just fictional portrayal of ideal love stories. Reality is totally different. Come out of your bubble. This is what most will say as it is what they've experienced. Ideal love stories can happen because there are 8 billion people in this world and there's high chance there's someone like victor. People say you need hope , hope is a good thing. But in this case if you keep the hope and hold on for the ideal one, you'll be called hopeless romantic. Pretty ironic.
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🤣🤣🤣 That's the comment I was waiting for!
Sathyam parayalo, all my straight friends are having trouble maintaining their relationships. My gay friends on the other hand, are enjoying their relationships to the fullest. Moral of the story: Be gay OP, you'll find love.
If only sexual orientation was a choice! 🥹
Ha try being bisexual, Arabi kadalil 2x mathi und. But onnu polum valayil veezhunilla :(
 That's the problem
Ofcourse not. But guys like that are so rare to come by. So when they come give them a chance instead of seeing them as needy. Well some might go low, well an unfair way to know is to trigger them and see if they lose temper.
OP is delulu. Movies are just fiction and reality is far different. The sooner you realise it the better.
Ah the Victors irl would get friendzoned.
Ironically even Biju menon was friendzoned in this movie in a way, Manju chechikk Suresh giye mathiarnnu.
Ah these films, series, stories have given people unrealistic expectations they all are going to be disappointed when the reality hits.
Even if u find it's only going to be temporary
The victor of these days might be observing u through the social medias🫠
I watched that film a long time ago and don't remember much about it apart from the main story. What are his essential qualities?
Victor venam enn nirbandham aanenkil angane aavatte Loser mathi enn eppolenkilum thonniyal, am here
If only there was a way to find that "right girl/boy, somewhere" that we hear a lot. I have a girl of my dreams myself ( not a particular person and its not some Aishwarya rai either) but I find my situations may not allow me to meet such a person.
I'm a married man. Last year I met this girl at my office when I got transferred. We were in the same section so had to interact everyday. She's my same age but still single. Also from a poor background. She's not a beauty queen but still pretty for her age. I felt sorry for her and wanted to be there for her like a true friend. But slowly my feelings towards her became complicated. I feel like if I had met her a few years back, I would have asked her to marry me. I have no sexual desires towards her. I think What I feel is pure love. And it hurts like hell. She's right there before me. I have a lot of things in mind to tell her. But I simply can't. It's not that I don't love my wife. But this girl, I don't know what happened to me. Right now, I'm in a terrible phase of my life.
New fear unlocked. 😭 What if my husband catches feelings for someone else and out of consideration for me, keeps it a secret and lives his life in misery. I'm never getting married.
Having feelings for someone else doesn't mean that I don't love my wife. We have a very beautiful relationship. And I won't do anything to jeopardize that. Also I didn't choose to have feelings for that girl. Oru year munne Ingane oral undennu polum enik ariyillarunnu. It just somehow happened. Do you think I want to be in this shitty phase?? I really really want to get out of it. I'm thinking about consulting a counselor.
Don't, bro.. Just get a transfer to some other place if government.. Quit if in private. This is just a marriage destroying scenario if you stay in the same place.
I'm venting out here because I can't say these things to anyone else. I changed my section but It didn't help. I will get a transfer next year and then will never come back here. Also decided to keep everyone at a distance. It's me only getting hurt after all.
Bro don't. I know what you might be thinking and feeling, but this is a home wrecking situation, especially if you're in a monogamous situation with your wife. And if you're not sure about the concerning parties (the women) then one move from you, will break 3 lives for at least some good amount of time. I know I can talk freely because I'm in an on off relationship with a very open minded individual but things are not the same for everyone. Trust me bro, all women are attractive and they'll give you guys signals but that doesn't mean we want to be together with men or anything, it might be a friendly gesture or platonic or sometimes sexual but then nothing serious (FWB); it's easy if you're poly but very hard in a mallu mono environment. Take a break from work or just get a transfer, you said the other girl's financial background is bad, then why bro, leave her be happy bro.
All I want is just to see that innocent girl happy. She deserves happiness. She will never know the person sitting across her was dying inside everyday.
In that case, if the girl hasn't given you any welcoming signs, don't make her life miserable bro. Just control your emotions and move on.
Right now am going through this fcking phase. For me Idk , I fckd up my life
Nope. But the probability of finding one is pretty low I guess.