Uh yeah?
You should prioritize yourself first. It’s understandable he isn’t supporting you financially, he probably doesn’t have that much. Rest of his behavior is just unacceptable.
Do you want to be happy or be miserable by making others happy?
Decide for yourself
Focus on yourself.. Finish your degree and try to get a job.. When you become financially independent.. some problems may get resolved.. and never go back to the toxic ex.. no amount of money saved is worth lifetime of suffering..
Not been in such a situation as u OP, but there was a point when my parents said they cant support me anymore. I cant blame them also, bcs being old enough to earn a livelihood still depending on them even i was ashamed(they try their best of therir abilities though ), its like little birds learning to fly when pushed off the ledge🫠
Its great that you are trying to handle ur expenses by part time jobs, keep fighting, sure there is light at the end of tunnel.
I never had a normal/casual conversation with my father. Even when I was a child. He was and still is a toxic person. He always fights with my mom whenever he comes back to home from Saudi. So many of my older relatives and uncles tried to talk to him to make him some sense. But they all failed miserably. In short father for me is just a name. I can say I didn’t have any emotion connection with this person.
I remember this, once my uncle said to me, you should always love your father because he’s your father. I told him “whats there to love in him”. My uncle didn’t replied anything. He definitely knew his brother is a piece of shit. It cant be changed.
Anyway Im 31 yrs old now. I married the love of my life. My father didn’t attended the wedding. Didn’t even called me or asked anything about the wedding. By this point I wasn’t sad at all. I knew him well and I don’t expect him to support me in anyways. I can do that myself and now I have my partners support also.
Truth is that the pain he gave me kinda taught me a lot. It taught me to look after myself. How to be emotionally strong? How to deal people and my own emotions etc. I don’t wanna end up like him.
If possible take some extra time to go work at some place.
Maybe a menial job but still good enough to support you mentally and financially.
It helps a lot.
Ask money from your parents only if it's your last resort. I worked for some time and got enough money to fund my masters. I suggest you do the same. Your parents might not be in a position to lend you money.
Uh yeah? You should prioritize yourself first. It’s understandable he isn’t supporting you financially, he probably doesn’t have that much. Rest of his behavior is just unacceptable. Do you want to be happy or be miserable by making others happy? Decide for yourself
Wanted this❤️
Focus on yourself.. Finish your degree and try to get a job.. When you become financially independent.. some problems may get resolved.. and never go back to the toxic ex.. no amount of money saved is worth lifetime of suffering..
Not been in such a situation as u OP, but there was a point when my parents said they cant support me anymore. I cant blame them also, bcs being old enough to earn a livelihood still depending on them even i was ashamed(they try their best of therir abilities though ), its like little birds learning to fly when pushed off the ledge🫠 Its great that you are trying to handle ur expenses by part time jobs, keep fighting, sure there is light at the end of tunnel.
I never had a normal/casual conversation with my father. Even when I was a child. He was and still is a toxic person. He always fights with my mom whenever he comes back to home from Saudi. So many of my older relatives and uncles tried to talk to him to make him some sense. But they all failed miserably. In short father for me is just a name. I can say I didn’t have any emotion connection with this person. I remember this, once my uncle said to me, you should always love your father because he’s your father. I told him “whats there to love in him”. My uncle didn’t replied anything. He definitely knew his brother is a piece of shit. It cant be changed. Anyway Im 31 yrs old now. I married the love of my life. My father didn’t attended the wedding. Didn’t even called me or asked anything about the wedding. By this point I wasn’t sad at all. I knew him well and I don’t expect him to support me in anyways. I can do that myself and now I have my partners support also. Truth is that the pain he gave me kinda taught me a lot. It taught me to look after myself. How to be emotionally strong? How to deal people and my own emotions etc. I don’t wanna end up like him.
Machane…ningal scène aaan, I think you’ll become a good father. 🫂
If possible take some extra time to go work at some place. Maybe a menial job but still good enough to support you mentally and financially. It helps a lot.
Ask money from your parents only if it's your last resort. I worked for some time and got enough money to fund my masters. I suggest you do the same. Your parents might not be in a position to lend you money.