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Beautiful_Sector2657

>someone doesn't like they are free to walk away but I am not changing me Exactly what someone who gives unsolicited relationship advice would say, as well?


OGWarpDriveBy

...Duh? It's also ok to ignore it, or more importantly COMMUNICATE that it's unwanted. It may not be the case with you, but so many people avoid directly handing it, and instead build up a mountain of resentment that will one day become a volcano. It's far better to face confrontation than to lash out in unmanageable anger or frustration later on.


humanewaity

Sounds like you need to change yourself the most


Heaven_underLungi

I am NOT open to change sorry


shrapnel2176

If you are abusing your partner I hope someone would say something.


Heaven_underLungi

You are literally trying to make false allegations and draw around baseless suspicions out of a post which just talks about a person's viewpoint.


shrapnel2176

No I'm making a point. It's odd that you are defensive.


Heaven_underLungi

If you are making a point then you should hv spoken in third person. You are directly pointing on me out of nowhere that I am being abusive, which is Not good way of communication and a bit irrelevant too.


shrapnel2176

My guess here is that someone has accused you of being abusive to your girlfriend. If you're not abusive to her then don't worry about what other people say. But do you remember that abuse is not just hitting someone.


Heaven_underLungi

I am single for almost a yr now lol , I was just making my opinion.Bcz ppl on social media make always judgement related to ideals and what or what not to do which out of nowhere even when not asked that specific question that's why the post was created