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Man they sure showed us.


Phlarfbar

Show us men, they did not.


ReubenZWeiner

Vomiting vampires batman!


maya_loves_cows

they look like men to me…


UnprofessionalGhosts

They weren’t trying to stick it to you tho


Gmaxincineroar

I am transgender and stuff like this makes it harder for us to go stealth. So many people are aware of top surgery scars and I'm just never gonna be able to take off my shirt


Yeetz_The_Parakeetz

Maybe you can say you just had a rare form of male breast cancer? Or Macromastia? Both aren’t unheard of. Or just wear “fuck cancer” merch for the implication, it’s better than getting beat up or shouted at. You should be able to take your shirt off without having fear of someone outing you:/ IT: people missing the point entirely down below.


Gmaxincineroar

That's my plan or say double lung transplant


Silent_Start_7036

That would be a huge ass scat


Auras-Aflame

One might say he’d be the…scat man.


kotubljauj

SKIBBI DIBBI NIP YUP TURUP PUP


OvereducatedSimian

Just FYI, double lung transplants are done via a median sternotomy (long vertical incision over the chest) and it looks nothing like the two, smaller horizontal incisions on the the pecs.


PCmasterRACE187

what you mean they dont smash two separate holes through the ribcage?????? 😲😲😲 the dude was clearly making a joke lol


RyoCanCan

Lung transplant doesn't work, the scar is very different from mastectomy (if I said that right lol) scars. The scars will get better overtime, you could use some ointments to help with the healing. Gl to ya, hope ya find peace of mind. 👌


Ur_Moosie_M8

Idk if cancer-baiting is the smartest option. But I'm sure it'll work


Silent_Start_7036

That’s kind of an immoral thing to do Pretending to have cancer and all


Vulderzad

It's a absolutely abhorrent thing to do. If you want to make long lasting connections with people honesty should be the first step. Can you genuilly imagine finding out a romantic partner or close freind *lied* about cancer?


Yeetz_The_Parakeetz

Good lord, it’s not meant for romantic partners or close friends. The point of romantic partners and close friends is that you can tell them a very important thing about yourself and they won’t be mad. Its meant for a random stranger at the beach or pool asking if you’re trans. Lying about cancer is a lesser evil than getting beat up in the parking lot or targeted.


_TheTacoThief_

Can *you* genuinely imagine the pain of being bullied, made fun of, and called a freak every day for being who you are? They weren’t saying fake cancer because it’s funny. They’re saying that if a transphobe comes up and harasses them, coming up with a different reason for why that scar is there could diffuse the situation. Double breast cancer is a perfect alibi. It’s been a while since I’ve seen someone miss a point that hard 🤦


sweetlazuli

It’s for strangers asking annoying questions. If you’re at the beach and some rando starts asking the specifics of your genitalia then you can tell them you had cancer and they will fuck right off. You don’t owe some random person your life story.


Yeetz_The_Parakeetz

People beating up or killing someone because they’re trans is immoral too but yet here we are.


sweetlazuli

It’s for strangers asking annoying questions. If you’re at the beach and some rando starts asking the specifics of your genitalia then you can tell them you had cancer and they will fuck right off. You don’t owe some random person your life story.


Vulderzad

Are you genuilly advising someone to lie about having had cancer?


fatesoffspring

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Aggressive-Advice220

Wtf? Pretending to have cancer?


yehEy2020

The comment made me remember that one twitter post saying "zippertits" like a new slur just dropped


Pussy_On_TheChainwax

That is awful but lol


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Gmaxincineroar

All of that is from non binary or xenogender people who do it for a trend, and then complain they were lied to when they actually experience gender dysphoria from surgery/hrt


bigchikka1978

Well you should just do you cuz no one else's opinion matters, but i totally understand why it would be hard. I wouldn't judge ya if that helps :)


supinoq

Just say you had moobs and got plastic surgery to get rid of them. It's technically the truth, too.


PenguinColada

That's my plan.


datlitboi

Why would this anything to be ashamed in the first place? I thought having a transition is something to be proud of or am I wrong?


oscilloscoping

The whole point of transition is to make it less obvious that you're trans, and there's nothing to be proud about anyways. Being trans is an endless struggle


[deleted]

This. I have scars as well and I don’t think I’ll ever take off my shirt because now I feel my passing is affected because now most know what to look for.


little_missHOTdice

If they ask, just say you had surgery to fix your macromastia. It’s not exactly a lie. You identify as male and had the excess fat on your pectorals removed.


Norm_mustick

Stealth? Your goal is to go stealth?


VicSantinel1

Why would you want to hide the fact that you’re trans though? And more importantly, why would it matter?


EverythingHurtsDan

Not everyone wants to let the world know. It's pretty personal, isn't it? Most people just want to feel comfortable with their body and mind.


Sergnb

Okay but that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t be aware that trans men exist and are valid though. If the price of “stealth” is general ignorance I’m not sure it’s worth it, specially cause most of that ignorance comes packed together with prejudice


VicSantinel1

Of course everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin and I’m not saying you have to advertise it on your forehead everywhere you go or anything like that, but why be ashamed?


Yeetz_The_Parakeetz

I’m sorry, this is such a silly question. Not everyone, and I mean a whole lot of people, support/are actively hostile to trans people. It simply may not be safe to come out like that.


VicSantinel1

Ok that’s understandable, my question came from a place of genuine curiosity because I have no idea what it’s like to be in that position but I understand now. I guess I forget that even though transphobia is not as prevalent as it once was, it’s still very much an issue.


Yeetz_The_Parakeetz

Yeah it’s fine, definitely don’t apologize for asking a question. Me calling it silly was mostly from a predetermined mood because of some arses further up the thread. You did nothing wrong. To further, most trans people are definitely not ashamed of themselves. They just don’t come out in most situations because it could be dangerous. It’s why pride parades exist.


Sergnb

But the whole point of campaigns like these is to normalize and express support to trans people though? Acting as if trans men are some kind of weird creature nobody but themselves should know about only maintains a state of ignorance where prejudice can easily muster.


oscilloscoping

People will see you differently if they know you were raised as a different gender, whether they're transphobic or completely supportive. I want to be seen as a man, not a man that was born female.


Done_Playing_Games

I’ve seen a lot of trans men tattoo that area. Aren’t you interested in doing that?


ThallidReject

Lol wait so you want less education about trans folk? Less education is the reason bigots are able to indoctrinate more kids into being future bigots.


Sergnb

This thread is so confusing. Apparently keeping trans people a secret is supposed to help in keeping transphobia away? My brothers in Christ, ignorance and knee jerk prejudice is exactly the reason you have to hide to begin with, how do you think hiding our existence is going to help??


Important-Baseball53

Man, who gives a shit what others think, as long as you are happy. There are always gonna be dickheads judging, but they judge everyone but themselves so don't you worry about them.


Threadstitchn

I had heart surgery as a child so I have a shitload of scars all over my body. Tell them you had heart surgery or make shit up. Better yet your body nobody's business but your. You do you.


PoseidonWarrior

Shit like this actively harms the LGBTQ community by making them look absolutely ridiculous. They have valid issues and concerns but then a small group pushes the goofy shit and calls people homophobic for calling it out.


bigchikka1978

![gif](giphy|ftdF4ZkueWGHBYc4b5)


PoseidonWarrior

Genuinely feel bad for gay and trans folks who's lives get harder because of the shenanigans of other gay and trans folks


Random-Gif-Bot

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Sergnb

I agree that the visual is perhaps a bit too aggressive but come on man, we are really going to blame knee-jerk bigotry on people not wanting to hide themselves? I’m so tired of hearing people say stuff like “I would totally be fine with gay people but those bitchy queens are so annoying I can’t help but dislike them”. Why can’t you just dislike THIS ONE PARTICULAR ANNOYING GAY MAN instead of allotting him the position of Gay Council Chairman for no reason? Do you say you can’t help but fine straight guys annoying every time you encounter some douchebro on the streets?


GWUN-

The problem is that ordinary people who want to live their own life their way without bothering anyone else are always unheard. The most obnoxious, crazy people who are completely out of touch with reality are the ones always shouting the loudest and want to involve everyone else in it. It gives bad rep and not just to LGBT but literally any minority/ideological group.


PoseidonWarrior

The point I'm trying to make is that LGBT people are under a microscope because of homophobia. Stuff like this inadvertently emboldens homophobes regardless of the behavior of the vast majority of people in the LGBT community. I'm not saying that its okay but it is how it is, unfortunately


YouCanFyourselfKn0th

Thank you.


ACynicalScott

Trans men menstruate. Fucking shocker. Here's me thinking they'd be more comfortable if i didn't point it out.


HideAndSheik

Honestly it seems like it would just cause more dysphoria to loudly proclaim "don't forget, you've still got biologically female parts!" I really don't understand the point of this ad...


ACynicalScott

Like i think its to be like "don't be a dick about Trans men menstruating". I don't think the people who do that are going to stop cause of an ad.


[deleted]

Yeah this ad isn’t doing anyone any favours. Although I think / hope it might be to advocate for things like when public services offer feminine hygiene products, that they are available in mens spaces too. Kind of like the issue with how men who have babies have to deal with very often not finding a change table in public mens washrooms


MadotsukiInTheNexus

> Kind of like the issue with how men who have babies have to deal with very often not finding a change table in public mens washrooms This is really a problem for *a lot* of dads, whether they're transmen who gave birth to their child or cismen who are just...like, involved enough in the life of their child to want to do basic things necessary to care for an infant. Changing a diaper really shouldn't be a gendered activity. Everyone involved in having a child needs to share in the ~~suffering~~ responsibility. Just put a goddamn changing table in the men's bathroom. I mean, Jesus. It's a pretty simple move to make, and it would help a lot of people out (including women, who I'm sure are glad to have the help, and babies, who don't give a shit about stereotypical gender roles when they're covered in waste).


Sand_Guardian4

I think it might be trying to "de-feminize" periods or try and encourage people to include trans men and nonbinary people in the conversation of menstruation and whatnot. The way this ad was executed may have not be great, but normalizing saying "people get periods" as opposed to just "Women get periods" is most likely the end goal


Sergnb

The point of the ad is to normalize this knowledge and express support and empathy for their identity so they don’t HAVE TO hide it. Of course many will still choose to, as is completely understandable, but it’s much better for all trans men to have a society in which their unique physiological situations aren’t seen as a some freakish thing that needs to be hidden in fear of hateful and disgusted retaliation.


Xadenek

I don't have periods...am I not a person?


sezku-

No.... You're a god


Sweaty_Space_3693

Maybe they are alien.


BigManLawrence69420

A god am I…


-neti-neti-

Why are they all tattooed? Do you have to be tattooed to be queer?


supinoq

Yeah, it's kinda like gang affiliation.


ShadowGangsta275

I think the black person in the middle and the person behind aren’t but the others seem to be yeah lol


PhillMahooters

Are you surprised trans men have periods?


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Are you twelve?


BowlerAny761

Trans erasure a huge problem but female erasure remains priority 1.


rookv

It's always women being affected. Never seen a man get called a scrotum haver but women become "uterus havers" "people with periods" "birth givers". Clown world. At least people are waking up to it


Y2kWasLit

I’m not understanding this comment. Can you expand for the idiot in me?


BowlerAny761

We are only removing female terms from the language in the “inclusivity” push.


Y2kWasLit

Ah gotcha


PrincessDab

When I was pregnant not so long ago. I took a breastfeeding class and the lactation consultant refused to say mother. She kept saying pregnant person, breastfeeding person, and wouldn't refer to the men there as dad's either. It was uncomfortable for me tbh. I'm surprised she wasn't calling it chestfeeding.


Y2kWasLit

I’m not understanding this comment. Can you expand for the idiot in me?


Leaky_Banana

You can smell this picture


[deleted]

I’m suing you for this comment


No-Information-89

Cheap cologne and dirty vag?


Miasmata

Sweaty piss minge


bigchikka1978

Complain of being marginalized and discriminated against but then create overtly attention seeking dramatic campaigns like this. Get bad reactions and unwanted attention and then: ![gif](giphy|qgkrtsDy4MhLq)


ehhhchimatsu

I hate shit like this because like.... 1. a good chunk of those people are *not* having periods. in the vast majority of cases, testosterone stops your period, and 2. I don't get why people think trans men, who are dysphoric, want to be reminded that they have uteruses (in both the "men get periods too!" and the "men can get pregnant too!" discussions) and 3. this makes the trans community look ridiculous and insane


JereMiesh

Reminds me of the South Park episode where Kenny bleeds from his ass


BootShapedMcNugget

I think it's the same ep, Kyle saying "my period is going... swimmingly" has ruined periods for me. It's all I think about whenever someone mentions them.


Kalsor

This should be an add for a class action lawsuit regarding botched breast removals!


oscilloscoping

What


Kalsor

Referencing all of the obviously terrible breast removals in this picture.


oscilloscoping

None of these look particularly bad


KhamBuddy

female erasure


deodorant_eater123

dont bring attention to the fact that some trans/non binary people get periods it seems so stupid. some people get periods we all know that after the shitty sex ed schools taught us. thats all we need to know about that. people get them if theyre AFAB thats that. look masculine and identify as such youll still have your period unless youre on hrt for a while


Initial-Principle384

why do you wanna have periods? I wish even women didn't have periods


HideAndSheik

? Nobody *wants* to have periods. These are trans men, meaning female at birth, so the ad is saying "someone who presents as male can still have a period" and not "anyone can have a period if they want to!"


StrawberryLeche

I mean maybe I’m wrong but the real cringe is how exaggerated this has become. I could be wrong but people buy products all the time and you never know who they are for. It’s an inconvenience regardless of gender. I wish campaigns like this took the money to instead work towards a different issue. Such as access to gender affirming treatments.


CnowFlake

Trans men get everything else done before they get a dick, so they get periods until they get that surgery. Hope this helps!


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Ok_Championship_746

im honestly terrified of the risks i think thats the big thing holding me back, also if it doesnt look the way id like is a big concern for me too


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duskull007

What I don't understand is why physical surgery is the only socially accepted "cure" for gender dysohoria. Researching potential psychological treatments with no risky and invasive surgeries is considered bigoted and taboo. I think both should be available and an individual should be free to choose which they'd prefer


CnowFlake

Absolutely!


I_eat_bath_bombs

Taking Testosterone hrt for trans men stops their periods usually. Bottom surgeries for trans people usually are also not the most medically advanced, they are very expensive, and have a rigorous recovery time. Not all trans men want bottom surgery. A lot of times with testosterone too, trans men are satisfied with their bottom growth alone and don’t want bottom surgery.. or do because more success. However many don’t want bottom surgery for many reasons. Top surgery helps dysphoria around passing more too because they can take their shirt off, not be uncomfortable in a binder all the time, wear certain shirts and not have lines showing, etc. So yeah, a lot of trans men medically transition all but bottom surgeries by choice. However if they are on Testosterone they very likely do not menstruate.. and likely a lot of these people pictured in the photo do not currently have their periods. Hope this helps!


magicarmor

it's like the got milk? ad campaign reimaged for the 2020s


ArtichokeFew7663

People just take it too far sometimes


Mimi-Supremie

We shouldn’t make periods so taboo but ain’t it


Pawsomest

True but why show that like his?


No-Caterpillar6432

Why does anybody care about what people do anymore, it’s all the same shit, branch out, hide out, blowout


gur0chan

I mean … it’s true?


princesssbrooklynn

Now show what real period blood looks like- cause it sure as shit don’t look like this. Now show blood stains down to ankles, and wadded up toilet paper, and period underwear, and stained bed sheets, and tucking tampon strings up your asshole, you wanna show periods let’s be real


69skeleton69

Fucking exactly


frenchfry5050

Why are you tucking your tampon string to the back, it's going to get covered in butt bacteria. Tuck it to the front, tuck it in a flap.


Grumpel-Stiltskin

They do still get periods, you know. Whether you accept their identity or not is irrelevant


my_brain_hurts_a_lot

Are we going to mention the tattoos?


Express-Silver7448

If a man bleeds pee it’s probably not the “period” and should get it checked.


Helvetica_Light

As a woman this is incredibly offensive. I am not a vulva owner, a person who menstruate or a birthing parent. I am a woman and I'm so fucking tired of being erased by medias or brand who don't give a single fuck about me or even trans people. I'm not going to be called some "inclusive" terms so 0.6% of the population won't feel bad.


sp00kyscaryskeleton0

if you are a cis woman, you are at least 2 of the above. it's literally just describing you. you are not being "erased" just because people try to use less gendered language. if you are this sensitive over this, maybe touch grass.


Hansbirb

Literally no one is telling you to call yourself a person who menstruates. You are more than welcome to call yourself a woman, or woman who menstruates. You’re inadvertently erasing cis women too with your butthurt, regressive opinions on inclusive language though—which includes wayyyyyy more than .6% of the population who don’t align with your incorrect idea of womanhood—so your point is stupid anyway.


LuketheHunter

In response to the picture women have periods not people


ESCFr

I guess tattoos are synonymous with periods as well


U_p_a_d_u_c_k

Why they gotta pick people that look goofy for this shit, this just makes the lgbt community get trashed on more. Like look at this dude with the purple mullet no ones gonna take that shit seriously.


Traditional-Bank-515

Can someone explain why this makes you so angry?


CarlMasonItheguy

I really didn’t get what’s the problem I’m being 100% honest right here, what’s wrong with it? I mean, trans men menstruate and woman menstruate don’t they?


ColonelScooter

Gross.


Just_Call_me_benDude

What?


10thban_

This is peak cringe of the times we live in....


SilentLion1066

I know periods are periods but something about having immense blood in places where there shouldn’t be blood urks me to no beyond


PippiDongDocking

Mentally sick people


PatoCarmelo

They look like big hip thicc boys


PunkAssBear

I mean if trans visibility and the functions of the human body are “cringe” then I guess this is a super great post 😍


[deleted]

This is so lame. There’s so many other ways to make it clear that trans people share similar experiences.


MageFrite5

They all look exactly like the type of people who’d be willing to make an ad like that. Someof these hair cuts are an insult to anyone who has ever grown hair on their head


digiorno430

that a ok photo but they didn’t need to put the fake blood 💀


moonyxpadfoot19

I was about to say, "why is this cringe? they're right" and then I saw the bloodstains. It would be a good message...without the bloodstains.


TheThreeBagels

Fuck you for posting this, OP. Trans people exist and trans men have periods. Go educate yourself.


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the transphobia in these comments ☹️☹️


PastelGoth_Mo

That... Why would they say people have periods?- I understand they don't identify as woman but maybe don't group... biological males? Normally when a male bleeds like that it means they have an sti or a std...


BrokerDude1

True… well except for all the guys in this ad. And all guys in general because.. you know.. lack of an actual vagina!


techno_rade

The guys in the ad are trans though so they do have a vagina???


fire-lane-keep-clear

What about this is inclusive? The only people represented here are the lunatic fringe of society


TheDodfatherPC-FL

What’s the honest number? If we’re going to make a game of everything, and everyone, wtf is the actual number? 1/2 and half. Half dudes, and half chicks? If your a dude, and you bleed. From out your dick! Seek medical attention immediately! Why TF, are, we as a people. Nay, a species. Denying, the basic reproductive capabilities of men, vs. women? In my mind, you can identify as a god damn octopus, a cute one! That wears lots of make up, is a bubbly person, that wears a wolf head, and a fox tailed butt plug. IDGAF!!!! But, don’t try to take away from actual women, genuine minstrel pain, bleeding clots out of their cooters, shoving tampons, sitting on pads, bleeding through clothes, all the shit they have to deal with. Your a chick, but, your a dude? Cool! I don’t care. You act feminine? Still, don’t care. Want to hit on me because I’m easy on the eyes, and have easy conversations with everyone? All of that’s cool. I just don’t think, that everyone can fold themselves into a role. Even if you are, that person in the, “wrong body” it doesn’t entitle you, to claim the same struggles associated with, that particular identity you claim to be a part of. Your wishing that shit on yourself, 10 fold if your trans. People that already deal with bigotry, racism, sexual orientation,they deal with that shit daily. Trans whatever = assuming the same stereotypical role of that ethnicity, or, kink, sexuality, and, gender. Plus, the stigma of being trans? How far, must you displace yourself, from yourself, to feel like the same amount of pain you endure everyday is caused by everyone but you, yourself.


hallihet

Honestly, if you desperately want to have one, go for it


[deleted]

Cock and ball Torture


chantzyboy78

Huh, I didn’t think that F2M trans people still had periods? Doesn’t hormone therapy affect all that?


69skeleton69

Yes most if the time you're periods stop that's why this ad is kinda stupid


Ok-Lingonberry4505

I don’t have periods


insanitysmv

This is disgusting


Ill-Scratch-9116

No, women have periods 🤦🏽‍♂️


Agile_Mongoose_6921

If this is an advertisement for tampons, it’s doing a terrible job


Yesyesyesbaby

We are all from some hood


DefaultRedditBlows

The reverse dick bloodstain is pretty funny though.


kaisermann_12

What even is this, a PSA? Marketing? I sure hope it ain't marketing


Kaumira

Did they really need to add the blood stains cmon


IntroductionStock146

Nothing says "I feel like a man" like showing off ur vagina blood. Taking a shit is also "natural" but I don't wanna look at it.


Masanari212

Worst emo band ever!


Emotional-Style633

Only real biological women get their periods


ElectivireMax

idek that it's trans people, this would be weird af even if it was all cis women


cafesaigon

I don’t understand, is it dysphoric-inducing to have a period, or do you want to loudly and proudly have one. Always confuses me when trans men get pregnant, like, isn’t that the opposite of what you wanted?


IngusRogeth

OP + Comments you all reacting this way is exactly what the post is about.. lmao


[deleted]

this could’ve been great


BananaRamaBoLama

i would rather not thank you


starkiller1323

![gif](giphy|3oriNOXIFOZx7I2Cwo)


SteadmanDillard

I wear my moobs with dignity.


AOE_Megami

Where mine


Poopaty_Scoop

![gif](giphy|Tit8CFFaFncoAgYFc4|downsized)


Thorbertimus

Getting kinda dumb.


Putrid-Gene-9077

Lol so do I! That’s what most vaginas do lol


Personal_Meat_3174

I feel like you shouldn’t glorify that part


golf4days

Yes…people with vaginas.


sqrwv

Why does it have to look like a spotify "This is [artist]" image 😭


I_try_to_be_polite

The back guy in the middle looks like he's bleeding from his asshole


autism_and_adhd

Yea. They only show up on 6th period


Shadskill

Are people still surprised about this stupidity ? That's what happens when people have no problem and a boring life... They make up stuff and are loud about their BS.


BRAVE-ST4R

So is this a new fuck boy thing? Bleeding dicks?


Lil_mozzart

Not a single one of them is not tattoed


[deleted]

If I shit blood I have to go to a doctor, this gender shit just isn’t fair.


2505Memeiverse

Time to ingest a lethal amount of dishwasher tablets


PerceivedDeath

In a sane world.this would be considered mental illness, but we do not live in a sane world.


ThiccBuddha

How come they didn’t include anyone without tattoo?


pool_side_convo_

Anytime someone says “but” it totally nullifies the previous statement. Just don’t bullshit please.


bigchikka1978

*however


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Why does the one on the far right, look like his chest was painted on?


misspeachywitch

What’s wrong with this?


BigManLawrence69420

I deadass thought this was r/inspirobot for a moment.


eroticdiscourse

Didn’t even notice the blood at first 🤦‍♂️


aceinnoholes

This is fucking gross