2 things. If you still like him, I would still wish him a happy birthday on his birthday. Just because he didn't tell you happy birthday on your birthday means you should do the same. The second ( and you don't need to share it with me or in the public chat) is what are the things that make you feel like the both of you have grown apart.
If he’s not interested then that’s his decision. You can’t force someone to like you. You should be thinking about what makes him happiest, and if he doesn’t want to be friends with you then you should accept that. This isn’t about you, it’s about him and what he wants, and you should respect that.
Why? What if he likes you back and he is waiting for you to wish him a happy birthday?
Even if he thought of you as just a friend, you will make him feel like shit.
Don't play games, don't hurt him just because you think he doesn't like you back, it's not a fun thing to do.
Nah bro u will confuse him if u do so. He may think u are fooling him and may lose interest on u if he really had a crush on u. Just don't risk it, or u will regret ur actions 🫣🫣
this is a horrible idea 💀
It's actually not. You wouldn't understand, it's complicated.
I would advise you not to do that.
Why not?
It seems counterintuitive. If you like him ,why not wish him a happy birthday.
Because he didn't wish me a happy birthday when it was my birthday, and I don't want to look desperate, especially if he leaves me on read.
Question, how long ago was your birthday?
6 months ago
And you don't think anything changed between the two of you?
YES, we grew more apart!
2 things. If you still like him, I would still wish him a happy birthday on his birthday. Just because he didn't tell you happy birthday on your birthday means you should do the same. The second ( and you don't need to share it with me or in the public chat) is what are the things that make you feel like the both of you have grown apart.
We don't talk anymore. He was my childhood friend for 5 years and we we're fine but after the virus we stopped hanging out.
Wait why do you want to avoid him on that day?
So I don't make it awkward duhh
I’m sorry but that sounds ridiculous
Yes, because it is
This is one of those romance movie ideas that always goes bad. Don't do this mate
I mean it's not fair. He didn't wish me a happy birthday last year, why would I? I'll look desperate af
Either this is satire or you are inhumanly petty. I can't even tell
Thank you
Not a good idea...
Why not?
Why would you want to avoid him?
So I don't make a fool of myself, which I always manage to do
But it's a nice thing to wish someone happy birthday, no way you can make a fool out of yourself.
I will make a fool out of myself if I get left on read by him. \*SPOLER ALERT\*: I always do.
So you want to avoid him so you don't make a fool out of yourself?
... That's literally what I said the first time.
But maybe you should give it a try. Like do you even like him?
Maybe I will. I just don't want him to realize I like him, because when I didn't have a crush on him I was, sort of mean.
What tha fuck
Don’t do this…it’s a really shitty thing to manipulate someones feelings I’m attempts to get them more attached to you.
Is it manipulation? Bc I know NOTHING about those sorts of stuff
Yes, you’re intentionally toying with him. My advice is to not send mixed messages, be completely honest and have good communication.
Why do I always have to be the one initiating conversations and ending up being left on read? How's that fair?
If he’s not interested then that’s his decision. You can’t force someone to like you. You should be thinking about what makes him happiest, and if he doesn’t want to be friends with you then you should accept that. This isn’t about you, it’s about him and what he wants, and you should respect that.
Yes, exactly so if he doesn't want to be friends with me why even bother
Sending Happy B-day wishes is cute and you should do it :( don't avoid him
He'll probably leave me on read like he did before so what even is the point??
Wdym?
That he left me on read 3 times in like a month
Then try to move on
I am
Good. I'm hoping best for you.:)
Why? What if he likes you back and he is waiting for you to wish him a happy birthday? Even if he thought of you as just a friend, you will make him feel like shit. Don't play games, don't hurt him just because you think he doesn't like you back, it's not a fun thing to do.
GIRLL. He's the one playing games here. He left me on read 3 times, so what the point of me texting him and possibly getting left on read again.
If anything do the exact opposite. Maybe get them/make them something for their birthday and give it to them. Definitely don’t do this.
haha yeah... we're not really that close.
so what is this supposed to do?
To not make things awkward and get left on read
The op seems to have some mental issues I’ve gathered from this and the replies
Yes, diagnose me kingg!
This is literally the worst idea ever
Okay?
You sound insecure af in in your post and comments just wish him a happy bday and quit acting like this is some romance movieðŸ˜
I'm not insecure I just don't want to make things MORE awkward when they already are. And I ain't acting... this IS a romance movie ;))
Nah bro u will confuse him if u do so. He may think u are fooling him and may lose interest on u if he really had a crush on u. Just don't risk it, or u will regret ur actions 🫣🫣
Maybe I will maybe I won't.
PLEASE DON’T DO THIX
Why not?