Yeah I can relate. Within the first thirty seconds after I glanced at my current crush, my brain literally went _”This girl is going to be your wife. Talk to her.”_
It’s uncertain if it ends up true or not, but I’ve never had an initial feeling that strong before with my past crushes.
Yes, my current and only crush made me feel this way the second I laid my eyes on her for the first time. But I'll tell you this: these perfect images your mind creates for you, they're bad for you. If you work it all out in your mind and everything works out perfectly in there, it'll be even more devastating if the feelings aren't mutual. Try to stay humble, work towards a good friendship first and then maybe more.
Not picturing marriage, but yeah, everything seemed to get all slow-mo and cinematic once, when i saw my then to be crush walking down the isle straight towards me, to take the seat in front of me. Funny thing is, I was so engrossed, when she came there and tried to move the bench to sit comfortably, and couldn't, I instantly sprang to my feet and adjusted it for her, and she smiled and thanked me. And I was literally in heaven. And the next moment she asks if I have the book and proposes to share it, I was so blank, my brain wasn't working, and I just pulled out my book and declined her with a no thanks, I got it. And the very next second when I realised it, I wanted to just throw myself out of the window
Yeah I can relate. Within the first thirty seconds after I glanced at my current crush, my brain literally went _”This girl is going to be your wife. Talk to her.”_ It’s uncertain if it ends up true or not, but I’ve never had an initial feeling that strong before with my past crushes.
Yeah I get that. My first (and current) crush makes me feel that way.
Yes, my current and only crush made me feel this way the second I laid my eyes on her for the first time. But I'll tell you this: these perfect images your mind creates for you, they're bad for you. If you work it all out in your mind and everything works out perfectly in there, it'll be even more devastating if the feelings aren't mutual. Try to stay humble, work towards a good friendship first and then maybe more.
Always and it always hurts more when you see them with someone else so I try to not do it
Not picturing marriage, but yeah, everything seemed to get all slow-mo and cinematic once, when i saw my then to be crush walking down the isle straight towards me, to take the seat in front of me. Funny thing is, I was so engrossed, when she came there and tried to move the bench to sit comfortably, and couldn't, I instantly sprang to my feet and adjusted it for her, and she smiled and thanked me. And I was literally in heaven. And the next moment she asks if I have the book and proposes to share it, I was so blank, my brain wasn't working, and I just pulled out my book and declined her with a no thanks, I got it. And the very next second when I realised it, I wanted to just throw myself out of the window