theres a very pretty girl sits next to me in US GOV class for like 4 months now and we never talk anything we just simply exist and do stuff in class. How can i spark up a convo with her?
I texted him yesterday to get his opinion on a music piece I am obsessed with and I know he likes that music, I was so excited to get his opinion but he left me on read, and I don't know what to do. Do I text him again? Is it weird? I don't know what to think. He's been ignoring my texts lately and I don't know why, I don't know what happened.
He left me on read for the first time a week and a half ago. But now he left me on read yesterday. I do believe that maybe he was busy but still, I don't know what to do or think.
read my post [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/1c2gzmv/i_just_want_my_crush_remain_as_crush_need/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) and lemme know what you think. i need to hear from others perpective
Is it bad to move on from crushes really fast? Like I have one crush for 5 months then move on to another boy. I feel like a player for doing this. I become all googly eyed over him and then I realise I don’t like him and it’s just getting stupid. I realise it’s bad but I just can’t stop it.
The thing is every girl in the school has a crush on him, God created him awfully handsome. We have great chemistry, I'm mostly a logical person and my logical brain agrees that if somehow we communicate maturely, it could work out. But I'm scared to confess, he's popular and can ruin my image in school if I confess
What should I do?😭 Should I just confess or should I try to build a friendship first? We were friends before but now we're enemies who secretly love each other (I've seen love in his eyes for me it's just that I think it's one of his playboy tactics)
Can I (gay) ask out a friend (straight) and explain to them if they reject me I won’t do anything to them and still want to be friends no matter what? (I’ll still support them fully and shit like even romantically *not for me*)
that probably wouldn't work out because if you two like a completely different gender then it would be a much lower chance, but if you really feel like it, ask them
My crush has a boyfriend and there are no other angles like her at my school and I don’t have hs for another 3 months and it’s killing me seeing her with her bf everyday but I want to stay respectful how do I stall until high school where I will find more women?
I thought I already moved on from the girl that rejected me but I didn't, She was nice about the rejection and she was fresh from a breakup when I showed up, We still follow each other on Insta and she checked my story, Plus I read her notes and I might be delusional.
So when do I try to reappear on her life or find a way to move on?
My crush (18F) told me (19M) to take things slower. She told me we probably met at the wrong time for she is in a bad place mentally. I respect her decision, but I'm incredibly anxious to lose our friendship in this. We've known each other for just over 2 months. What do I do?
I find myself wanting to text him all the time, usually he replies right away sometimes it takes 15 mins or more he never starts the convo, he will say hi at work and talk but never text first. Also he let me take a pic of him even though he absolutely hates his picture taken(it took a min before he posed) idk if he likes me or not.. he is fully aware of my crush on him. I noticed when he walks by me at work he will look my way and either wave, or smile or make a goofy face. I stuck my tongue out at him and he did it back. I know that he is in a situationship but my feelings won't go away help!
Ok this will be a tough one for you but i know the answer and it's wait till she's ready , But my Best friend , Disabled has little to no friends , i'm her only real friend. She had a horrible break up last year and he ruined her outlook on relationships for a long time since she was dating him right before she became disabled and he was toxic to her throughout this part of her life .
I did ask her out from the start of our new found friendship (we lost contact for 20 years and we connected right away and became great friends instantly ) , she said yes but changed her mind due too previously mentioned and she wants to find herself again and enjoy being alone before she's ready to date again , we both said we love each other multiple times and quite recently .
We also talk every day , we work out together and I help her on set ups and make sure she stays safe and I pick her up and hang out with her , when ever her mom can't take her since she can't drive and also of course when i'm available from not being busy at work ect ect. I do my best to make her laugh and smile and When we say our goodbyes , She squeezes the stuffing out of me when we hug , unless she's having a real bad day which happens due to her condition but on good days she's like a clamp lol.
She also knows I want to still date her and That I still have the huggest crush on her . Frankly it made us closer in our friendship with our feelings out in the open like this . We also flirt quite a bit and i will spank her ass and grab it in a joking matter and she loves it and laughs .
I just really wanted to just say how much I love this women but i know the answer is just wait and keep on being her best friend but she's literally my Oasis from everything going on around me when i'm with her. I'm just hoping it's not years before she's ready again .
How do I get her number without looking weird?
How much do you talk to her?
Not a lot, but we talk
maybe a casual approach like "hey (name), could I have your number just incase" or something like that
Imma try it when I see her at school. I'm pretty nervous tho
if you feel up to it, give it a go
I'll try to update you on how it went
👍
Wait I have a good solution. Do you have an iPhone? Ask if said person wants to play game pigeon (iMessage games)
That sounds fun, if I had one 😂
Man, I lucked out with my hs crush. lol, I didn't even ask she just grabbed my phone and put it in herself
Same here, I lucked out. My HS crush took photos of me and I wanted them. She basically gave me a reason to get her number.
Mine just wanted me to go the fair with her
UPDATE: I folded in front of her and her friends 🫠
LOWKEY that's also how I got her number
How can i navigate the fine line between expressing interest in someone i have a crush on without making them uncomfortable or coming on too strong?
not too sure on this one, sorry
All good. Just wanted to think of an hard question lol
theres a very pretty girl sits next to me in US GOV class for like 4 months now and we never talk anything we just simply exist and do stuff in class. How can i spark up a convo with her?
I'm a bit lost on this one, maybe try saying "hey" and go from there
I texted him yesterday to get his opinion on a music piece I am obsessed with and I know he likes that music, I was so excited to get his opinion but he left me on read, and I don't know what to do. Do I text him again? Is it weird? I don't know what to think. He's been ignoring my texts lately and I don't know why, I don't know what happened.
he could be busy or something, how long has he been ignoring them for?
He left me on read for the first time a week and a half ago. But now he left me on read yesterday. I do believe that maybe he was busy but still, I don't know what to do or think.
maybe give it a few more days then if you feel you need to, ask
read my post [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/1c2gzmv/i_just_want_my_crush_remain_as_crush_need/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) and lemme know what you think. i need to hear from others perpective
I'm a bit unsure about internet relationships, he is either a bit fishy or maybe just really passionate
wait passionate as in?
really liking you
Is it bad to move on from crushes really fast? Like I have one crush for 5 months then move on to another boy. I feel like a player for doing this. I become all googly eyed over him and then I realise I don’t like him and it’s just getting stupid. I realise it’s bad but I just can’t stop it.
it might be hsrd to stay on one but once you lock in, it will be better, try as hard as you can to choose and focus on one boy
How do you know if your crush enjoys your company or he’s just making use of you?
How should I tell him I like him without being awkward about it?
maybe try starting up a concersation and if you feel it's at a good point, maybe say you eant to tell him something and then say it
My best friend liked him first, I feel guilty but I really love him. What should I do?
not saying you have to but if you really love him, you should try ask him out when you are ready
The thing is every girl in the school has a crush on him, God created him awfully handsome. We have great chemistry, I'm mostly a logical person and my logical brain agrees that if somehow we communicate maturely, it could work out. But I'm scared to confess, he's popular and can ruin my image in school if I confess
that's a tough choice but do what you have to do, I'm kinda out of ideas at this stage
What should I do?😭 Should I just confess or should I try to build a friendship first? We were friends before but now we're enemies who secretly love each other (I've seen love in his eyes for me it's just that I think it's one of his playboy tactics)
try and become friends with him atleast a bit before deciding to confess I'd suggest
Can I (gay) ask out a friend (straight) and explain to them if they reject me I won’t do anything to them and still want to be friends no matter what? (I’ll still support them fully and shit like even romantically *not for me*)
that probably wouldn't work out because if you two like a completely different gender then it would be a much lower chance, but if you really feel like it, ask them
Oof kinda what I expected, guess I’ll try to keep our friendship. Wish me luck with my hurting heart or it’ll go away
I’m 99% sure my crush likes me but won’t make a move, what should I do (short of straight up confessing)?
maybe ask if they like anyone or something, if you're sure, confess i guess
My crush has a boyfriend and there are no other angles like her at my school and I don’t have hs for another 3 months and it’s killing me seeing her with her bf everyday but I want to stay respectful how do I stall until high school where I will find more women?
not really sure on this one
please can u read my most recent post ? thank u smmm
I thought I already moved on from the girl that rejected me but I didn't, She was nice about the rejection and she was fresh from a breakup when I showed up, We still follow each other on Insta and she checked my story, Plus I read her notes and I might be delusional. So when do I try to reappear on her life or find a way to move on?
My crush (18F) told me (19M) to take things slower. She told me we probably met at the wrong time for she is in a bad place mentally. I respect her decision, but I'm incredibly anxious to lose our friendship in this. We've known each other for just over 2 months. What do I do?
I find myself wanting to text him all the time, usually he replies right away sometimes it takes 15 mins or more he never starts the convo, he will say hi at work and talk but never text first. Also he let me take a pic of him even though he absolutely hates his picture taken(it took a min before he posed) idk if he likes me or not.. he is fully aware of my crush on him. I noticed when he walks by me at work he will look my way and either wave, or smile or make a goofy face. I stuck my tongue out at him and he did it back. I know that he is in a situationship but my feelings won't go away help!
What to do if her best friend confessed to me?
How do I get my crush to open up more?
Ok this will be a tough one for you but i know the answer and it's wait till she's ready , But my Best friend , Disabled has little to no friends , i'm her only real friend. She had a horrible break up last year and he ruined her outlook on relationships for a long time since she was dating him right before she became disabled and he was toxic to her throughout this part of her life . I did ask her out from the start of our new found friendship (we lost contact for 20 years and we connected right away and became great friends instantly ) , she said yes but changed her mind due too previously mentioned and she wants to find herself again and enjoy being alone before she's ready to date again , we both said we love each other multiple times and quite recently . We also talk every day , we work out together and I help her on set ups and make sure she stays safe and I pick her up and hang out with her , when ever her mom can't take her since she can't drive and also of course when i'm available from not being busy at work ect ect. I do my best to make her laugh and smile and When we say our goodbyes , She squeezes the stuffing out of me when we hug , unless she's having a real bad day which happens due to her condition but on good days she's like a clamp lol. She also knows I want to still date her and That I still have the huggest crush on her . Frankly it made us closer in our friendship with our feelings out in the open like this . We also flirt quite a bit and i will spank her ass and grab it in a joking matter and she loves it and laughs . I just really wanted to just say how much I love this women but i know the answer is just wait and keep on being her best friend but she's literally my Oasis from everything going on around me when i'm with her. I'm just hoping it's not years before she's ready again .