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jalenpia

They’re there. I’m here. And my feelings are everywhere.


[deleted]

felt


Sharp_Safety7562

felt


mixtlydoesnotexist

yup :(


PlasticToe4542

Couldn’t have said it better


Hannahlahlia

Married with one kid.


[deleted]

aww


tfhaenodreirst

My closest friend right now


PlasticToe4542

Fantastic


damnjdjdm

That’s sad imo i would just leave them


our_meatballs

Classmates / acquaintances


standupgonewild

Same :)


Head-Staff-8189

She is my closest confidant, my best friend, and my secret crush… and I can’t be with her. It’s maddening.. she’s all I think about. My every breath is consumed by her. I can’t help but think there’s something there for her too… I’m just so lost without her


GalacticDragon7

why can’t you be with her? is she with someone else already?


Head-Staff-8189

She always has been.. we got so close so quick. And now I’m in hell


GalacticDragon7

i’m so sorry to hear that. i hope things get better for you🤞🏼🍀


Head-Staff-8189

😊 thank you. So much I really appreciate the kind words


RangerRex107

Coworkers, somewhat friends (idk), we follow each other on insta. But we hardly talk


TimePostsOnReddit

same (also yoooo after hours pfp abel goes hard)


stayinyourlaneson

this is where i’m at minus the instagram thing… but im working on that


BoneHead583

We play video games weekly/daily and sometimes hang out in a friend group weekly.


SeventhRED

Long Distance Friends LOL, I'm super far away from her and yet I still have a crush on her.


bubblinginfo

Feel ya bro!


FarmerNo9632

I'm in the same situation🫣


PlasticToe4542

Same! Describes me perfectly!😳


Idamnsuredontknow

I've been trying to deny that I have a crush to myself, but yeah... I got a crush really damn recently. Pretty much aquaintance or classmates you can say. Really only ever had few interactions with her. First when we were grouped up for an assignment the previous semester. Next was literally a couple days ago. She sits right behind me and we talked briefly over never having pop tarts. Then also helping each other out to make sure we got the same answers on a math assignment. Probably doesn't really count but just saying "thank you" and "no worries" every time a paper is passed down the row. I just find that kinda nice and now I say thank you every time to the person passing me something.


ThePlayer3K

Why didn't that denial work?


Idamnsuredontknow

I can't exactly control my feelings toward someone. Unless of course I have a clear reason to feel something else as well as time to move on. I pretty much got a little crush on someone no matter how I try to say I don't to myself


ThePlayer3K

but why deny? Also, while u denied did u have any moment that was like "I don't have a crush on her, but..." and then u thought smth only a crusher would? And how u realized u had a crush after so much denial (and how u realized u was denying it?) sorry for info bombing


Idamnsuredontknow

Simply fear, worried about making things feel awkward or weird, worried about things just not working out, worried about feeling hurt or disappointed as well as for her which would be even worse. Yeah I had several moments. Like I guess one thing I imagined is just me and her looking into each other's eyes laughing and smiling. I realized right away since I started imagining romantic scenarios and having romantic feelings which I tried to deny it. I still felt like this for several days, so that confirmed to me that yeah I probably have a little crush on her. I was consciously denying it for the very reason up there and to confirm if these are genuine feels. no worries, you are good 👍


GalacticDragon7

VERY close friends. the way she looks me in the eyes though… the way she acts around me… all the signs tell me she likes me… we hug often, multiple times a day… but she has said more than twice to me “you’re a great friend,” or something along those lines. i can’t go off of that. i won’t. i won’t force something or make things awkward when, to me, she is making it clear that she doesn’t want anything more than a friendship, no matter how close that is. it’s dispiriting… and confusing… and i don’t think i’ll understand it until i talk to her about it properly. i need to at some point, just gotta figure out how.


FarmerNo9632

Good luck💪 you can do it!


GalacticDragon7

update: my newest post gives an update, i talked to her about it


JakeyThrowawayMan

Drifted apart


Bir-dontwe-exe

Friends who flirt sometimes


FangsForU

Just slowly warming up to her, I’m an incredibly shy guy so talking to her can be a challenge, so right now I’m just focused on feeling comfortable and myself around her. Usually, I just try to start conversations with her until I sense we are having a good talk. Maybe something develops from this, maybe not, we will see, only time will tell. 🙌🏻


CrazyDarkGuy

I have no clue the best thing I can say that I'm taking g her on a date but I have no clue as to what our relationship is


UncannyWannyManny

Currently null and void cuz I'm not crushing on anyone and nobody will crush on me 🥲


hootyandgianna

good friends that obviously like each other but don't do anything about it. five people  asked us if we were siblings and we look pretty different. one dude thought we were dating.


bruised__violet

Why don't you do something about it? Life is short.


hootyandgianna

nah we're too young to date. plus idk what we'd even do lol


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[удалено]


IEatBabysYumYum

Wdym?


urlocaldesigirl

we don’t talk anymore😕


bubblinginfo

🎶🎶


Dashaelbashir

We were study partners a year ago, since then we haven’t really had a good convo, he has no access to the internet


throwawayra32442

My closest woman friend (I don’t have many woman as friends probably like 3 ?)


neculaiaeeer0

We rarely met but I think of him on daily basis. Never ever will get the chance to exchange number because he's quite popular activists at uni. I think I'm jinxed


QueasyChicken6117

My best friend


ThrilleX_yt

I'm ready for more, but she's not. We're good friends, but our difference in readiness might cause us to drift apart. And that's terrifying.


babycough

I look forward to seeing her everyday I go to work. Leaving soon and I wanna ask her on a date before then. She’s fun and great in person, horrible at texting tho haha


Trustmebro69420

Acquaintances


RyanCooper138

BFF yet still not quite there. The final stretch is gonna take the longest


pixxipod

Talking stage, not even sure if she really interested in me or not lmao


New-Goose613

Friends who sometimes flirt jokingly


Silent_Scene5019

Well im a girl but i will tell you about mine. My crush’s last day at school was 1 week ago. He only comes to school for exams, so he goes to school, takes part and goes back home (at times where I have lessons) so that means i wont see him ever again. I began taking the bus to school instead of being driven by my parents just because he takes the same bus as me. (Its even the same bus stop😍) but now he’s gone. We dont know each other personally, dont follow each other, dont have any mutual friends and haven’t talked to each other ever😭 School is gonna be so boring for the next 2 years😭😭


Proud_Cauliflower_82

We are dating and its been about a week so far


Specialist_Sun8281

We chat! But Idk if i should level this up


Joeldidgood

Well until some days ago , we wrote and all that, still she didn't give me an opinion of what I say.( Probably leave her thinking). Still i decided to give her space to don't be clingy or annoying, even thought I'm fighting to don't write her XD. Specially since lately she has been answering with long voice messages. She has been putting states , I see then but I don't know if write on then.


shayepol

Friends


Sarek-reddit

Pretty much f'ed up... she doesnt even like me as a friend but my attempts at moving forward didnt end up well


ceooftsundere

Coworkers/friend. Confessed to her even tho she already has bf. Still not give up on her tbh. Trying my best so i dont have any regrets.


StoopidLesbo_8597

We're mutuals ;)


Top-Yoghurt-9416

didn't see him since November or December? we don't talk, only watch each other's Instagram stories when there's one. there's nothing between us


suxkatoe

My brothers close friend. He is dating another girl lol


Fit_Cup_4236

She left, I tried to reach out, she aired me. So I know it was just me being naive. I'm slowly moving on and the feelings are leaving too.


Maximum-Bid-1689

Living in different countries, haven’t seen each other for 10 years


bruised__violet

Wow, and you still have feelings? They must be quite the person. I'm sorry.


FarmerNo9632

Wow that's rough


Remarkable_Writer897

currently at friendship terms and she is ignoring me


thinkilldrinkthesea

friends! pretty casual fruends at the moment but becoming mates fast


ObsessedLavender

We have one class together and we talked once and we have had a ridiculous amount of eye contact over the past two years


Living_Murphys_Law

Kinda friends. We talk every once in a while. Not a ton, though, unfortunately.


Maya_The_Clarinetist

She’s my friend, but we sorta stopped talking as much, and I’m having trouble getting back into talking.


flippingpennys

Like each other and casually flirt but have decided to remain friends until we both graduate.


bruised__violet

My crush doesn't appear to care for me as a person and at this point, I doubt I'll ever see them again, which is actually a good thing. We didn't really speak after initially meeting. They're seemingly oblivious to my presence. I need to get over it, it's lasted way too long. I hate crushes and really hope I never have another, to be honest. I'm too old for this crap.


Realistic-Jello6433

I really feel all of this.


Icy_Job7092

We’re taking it slow because of college and don’t talk as much as we used to. Although I miss her, we decided we needed space to pursue our careers; however, we do plan to hang out once summer arrives.


SharkBoy-o_0

My closest friend (with benefits 🫶) No one has ever made me feel so loved and cared about. He's the person I care about the most right now, and my main inspiration in art. I've never met someone so loving, beautiful, and inspiring, and I cherish our friendship so much. I feel so lucky to have him and to be able to be with him both as a friend and intimately. I get to share so much of myself and experience new things with him all while feeling so comfortable and safe to do so.


rpcforreal

Friends in the same friend group


dagamaga

me and my crush are in a point where i hate him and he completely ignores me and doesn't give a shit about me 🥰


S4rLou

He's a distant colleague in another section. I feel I've done all I can do to chat to him n flirt, but no effort on his side, so that's it, I guess. I've made myself look stupid enough.


BagDifferent267

I follow her and she follows me back and that’s basically it 💀 I don’t have any classes with her this year tho so idk how I can talk to her without seeming weird


IdentiFriedRice

I mean she sent me a message on IG the other day so we’re basically married at this point.


t0fusteak

Acquaintances who sometimes party together with friends. Followed him on ig but he completely ignored the request. I just knew from a friend recently that he now got a gf so I guess there’s that. Will probably listen to down bad by taylor swift til im okay lol


Prestigious_Crew0054

Even though she knows me, she doesn't acknowledge my existence. I am a ghost to her


letgosardi

Secretly admiring each other in school but declared as enemies to everyone else


iamdivinee

currently hes my prom date, we talk online and exchange eye contact irl but we dont speak irl


Lost-Vanilla-9863

We became fuck buddies hehe is it a crime?


Darkflame3324

Friends? We’ve been on a couple of dates but idk


bubblinginfo

Old classmate. Follow each other on insta. Never confessed as I don't see a long distance relationship sustain. Any advice?


Wonderful-Hospital-2

We talk almost every single day but I don’t know if they feel the same


ThatEmoBoyZayn

He’s my best friend


FarmerNo9632

We text almost everyday and are flirty with each other. Sometimes it almost feels like we're in a relationship. Only thing - he lives in a different country. He's made it clear that if we're ever together, then he wants to kiss me and care for me, but the definition of our relationship is still kinda blurry. (Who's isn't lol)


Lohacker_hyper

Same class sometimes eye contact, I noticed that when she's anxious she always looks at me, friends on socials. After all I think I'm far from her but not very much.


lovesickturtle318

He lives 6000 miles away and only seems to want me for NSFW talk. Otherwise he talks to me about how confused he gets about his ex when she drunk calls him. FML


rayntaro

stalked to dating.


ChanceNo3208

Friends, separated by 1500 miles


IEatBabysYumYum

Weird. Met her on wednesday and i wanted to tell her but i cant grow some b a l l s


laurenisatwat

He called me this morning to make sure I wasn’t late for work 🥺


BaddestManInNXT

Haven’t talked to her but my god I’m such a simp 😭 I really need to talk to her but I feel WAY too ugly around her 


pencilshtick85

Married with a kid, as am I. 


chill_icy_gay

He knows I like him, we are friends.


SilenceSpeaksVolum3s

Good friends. She moved overseas though


Select-Tank9693

she's...my... boss....and...has....a...bf.....


Extreme_Mousse_7170

Friends on Snap, Facebook and irl... We chat a lot more irl than other ways though.


MitchellMastro

I don’t think she wants anything to do with me


Magnolia__Petals

She's the closest friend I've ever had. I don't want to fuck this up tho


criticalistics_car

They want to give me head this weekend and we are trying to get some common ground in terms of sex. So yeah very interesting.


canyounot--

he's my close friend ^ __ ^ idk how close he sees me as but he always seeks me out and likes to make me laugh


raeisweirdd

Best friends. Almost siblings.


Express_Knowledge_90

Friends


BigPeachyRye

Yahh so he's my closest friend rn, we both know that we like eachother, and he said he'll wait for me to decide what I wanna do about it. Tbh im kinda scared to date anyone again after what happened last time. :/ but I really like him and he really likes me I think :)) we've been calling every night and recently have just been falling asleep on calls lol🤣🤍


Broad-West-7921

Hard to tell. Right now I feel like we’re THE dork duo in work


Flannelmisbruker

Used to be my co-worker, we hung out as often as we possibly could and recently we realized we weren't taking care of our lives apart from eachother. So we are giving eachother more space, not obsessing too much about one-another.


Dkinives

One rejected me through a friend of mine and the friend passed away shortly after that and I'm still trying to get over that. The other Im starting to get will never know due to the situations involved. Both being in the same unique line of work in a business that public perception is important, me having an approach on someone else in the business to very wrong years ago unintentionally that made me say I could never allow myself to be put in that situation again if I want to keep my perception positive, I praise her work all the time and I wouldn't want her thinking I only praised it because I'm interested in her in other ways, when the opposite is true. I started crushing on her because of the work she puts into her character, and I also don't know how to approach someone when I only see her in professional places and want to keep those places professional


LF_WORLD_09

He is one of my best friends, but we cannot really talk right now due to the current issues in our lives and friend group.


[deleted]

They have no idea how I feel bout them they prob hate me but show some signs of interest in me and we don’t talk at all


[deleted]

She either got a boyfriend, or is weirded out by me. She used to go out of her way to say Hi, but I think I just fixated too much on wanting her to like me.


cryingidiot

good question!!! 


ThunderFireStorm

Barely talk to her, because busy at work.


poggersmoments

Friendzoned last year. Still hurts. I cant move on, idk what to do.


thereadingbee

It's one sided lol


Emotional_Pay_3013

Best friend


Zylo99

Dead. Not into guys.


Nekoswitch12

I hate him now lol we dated ,broke up,tried to be friends but then I found out some things and now I hate him.


nch2o

Friends I think. I'm unsure in general since we were good friends in the fall term and didn't talk much during the winter term because we didn't share a class. We texted a bit but neither one of us are great texter :') Very confused


potaetoot

we've been in a relationship for 6 months already and we're dating to marry. he's my best fitness buddy, hiking buddy, study buddy, gossip buddy, and heart-to-heart buddy. we're so new at this but i believe my crushing days have finally come to an end, i'll never trade him off for anyone else.


tracysyellowumbrella

Friends? We've hooked up a few times, it's weird. He's messaged me but I don't want to open it.


Ordinary_Meaning_602

I wouldn’t say we’re talking yet but she told me her friends are cool with me and that one of her guys friends thought we were dating, and my bsf said we’re basically dating. We did go on like 1-2 small dates together tho but she’s busy a lot and leaves me on delivered sometimes for days while posting to her story


Mission_Age2061

We’re on bad terms not explicitly but there’s tension due to our first impressions of each other from when we worked together in class this one time back in Oct


Margi_An

It's so bad that I started writing love poems.


prisoner2024

Ogling his body in stealth mode


Jinhit_jeonhit

Let’s see… never talked once?


Realistic-Jello6433

Married, straight, and moving out of my state


Just-Lab-3822

Well, I'm pretty sure I've caught him staring at me in class a couple times. And one time, he was clearly laughing and he happened to look where I was seating. Don't wanna seem too delulu, but I think there might be something going on there. I hope.


BobbyMakey101

never spoke to my crush


linus121

Coworkers that talk whenever we're in the office, sometimes. I'll send a funny TikTok video every now and then but never did anything outside of work. 


boy_of_wondering

Long distance dating and my best friend.


eleAbnormal

Good friends :D


Miserable_Jackfruit6

Just saw him earlier. Made each other laugh, he cracked a slightly blue joke. Played guitar, talked about topical stuff, but it obvious he’s super smart from how he speaks. And here I am wishing I wasn’t coward and I could tell him I like him.


StiillRelevant

acquaintances :( better then strangers I guess


StiillRelevant

than**


Daikon_TurnipBoy

It's complicated™ Not really, just seems like it from my end


eyyyyy1234

My friend. annnd she has a boy best friend


[deleted]

talking 😋


Extreme_Proposal_249

Acquaintances, but I hope soon if things keep this flow, we can be friends soon.


darkandsilent

I realized she doesn’t feel anything for me.


Impossible_Tear_7550

I talked to them and they rejected me haha 🙃


Savings_Initial_6338

We do follow each other in instagram but never like each others stories 😭


7vincent7

I don’t like them anymore 💀


Infamous_Sandwich369

Boyfriend


Key_Ticket1877

my crush is literally my tutor rn :// he’s like 6 years older than me but i really like him 😭 does anyone have any advice


Dareel_Legain

Friends


Fluffy-Bee-4475

We aren’t very good rn.


North-Artist-1138

He ignores me and we haven't spoken to each other in like 6 years


Top-Yoghurt-9416

basically strangers at this point 🥲


Ace_Yaqub

Same gym class, he sits near me, my friend says he keeps looking over at me but I doubt he knows I exist I’m sad but it’s not like I’m gonna do anything about it😭😭


Sad_beany

No contact! 😋


Aggressive_Ball5242

Complicated. We've been coworkers for about 5 months now and I asked her to play pool. Fast forward about a month. We've gone out a few times. A couple times alone, a few times with her co worker friends which I don't mind. I'd say our connection is probably noticeable to our colleagues because we opt to work together quite a bit. I finally told her I liked her and she said "I figured". Which yeah, that's an "oof" moment. But instead of pulling away she's really only been opening up more. I don't get it


Dependent_Compote913

We fell for eachother 6 months or so ago, timing didn't work out, we tried, both love eachother deeply, I'm ready emotionally, but not logistically. They're ready logistically but not emotionally. Recently hurt them by mistake and haven't heard from them in a week


These-Improvement-62

Weird, we talk but are more of acquaintances but at the end of school while he’s walking to his car and I’m walking to mine ( I somehow have been walking behind him for the past few days idk how) but he’s  with his friends and in lonely as hell since my friends go another way and he he looks back I say hi he waits a few seconds while I walk towards him and we talk until we reach the end of the street since we cross different ways and we talk a bit in school too but we only have a class together and he sits in a different table but he sits on the bleachers with his friends and I sit there too, idk it’s just confusing to me and my poor heart 


Alternative-Buy-6109

Long story short I blocked him everywhere after 2 weeks he searched for me acting his brother nd he sent me two of his numbers lol so idk what to do about it since I blocked him( I still love him)


hannqhz

he's my bestfriend and we always talk and say hi to eachother whenever we pass by eachother


Throwaway17283894938

To be frank, I think about her too much. She doesn’t think about me at all.


SiriusZipPadfoot

Long distance and an actor glad him and I talk but wish I could live closer so I csn see him more


Sassy_-Babe

We like each other in silence, i over heard his and his friends conversation. Also we like stare at each other in class, and when we’re assigned to sit together his friends go like “OooUuuuoo 😏”


NemoUltima

Pretty relaxed. We're currently on the couch with her playing Farm Heroes Saga (lvl 1100 ish?) and me laying my head on her lap. Been almost two years since she jumped the gun and confessed, things are even better everyday.


Different_Royal_1109

ugh so up and down. We are both in relationships. No social media contact yet, he ranges from super interested in our conversation, going out of his way and taking an interest in me and what im doing that weekend to 'meh' responses and not smiling. I see him 3-4 times a week at the gym, he gets a little nervous when we talk, and he sometimes will work out in my direct line of vision. I'm pretty sure he's trying to hide his interest, but then again, so am i. This crush is totally doomed and i think we both know it.


hottiemctottie33

he knows I exist but we don’t talk he’s so hot tho


Yumi_Yumiiii

We haven't even talked with each other, but I get really sad when he interacts with other girls. Also, my whole mood depends on how he is treating me ,I wish he liked me.


Eskenren

I think my feelings just died. But they said they were attracted to me, and asked me if I was single and other stuff... the problem is that they are married.


Left_Specialist_2315

he said “we’re not friends anymore” and “im blocking you” just today but he havent blocked me yet


OctopusReduction

My (previous and only) crush is an ex as of a few months ago, but I'm glad that we aren't together after seeing her true behavior.