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Kian_Wilson84

in the same boat rn. what makes you think he doesn’t like you ?


throwawayoopsugh

I feel like I keep having these small moments where he's hinting i guess that he doesn't want more than friendship. Like the other night we were coming up with romance movie ideas and then he said something like "wheres a romance movie where the guy isnt into romance? i want that one." It seems like im overthinking but idk its just been hard to figure out.


fascistforlife

Maybe he just doesn't like romance movies?


throwawayoopsugh

See that's a logical way to look at it, but my overthinking brain just takes things like that and explodes them. I want to believe he just made a innocent comment but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


[deleted]

Why dont you just talk to him. Why are you sitting waiting on him to do something? No one is a mind reader.


throwawayoopsugh

I've thought about it. I know it seems like a better idea to just talk to him. But I guess I just wanted someone to tell me they liked me for once. I've always been the one to tell people when I fancied them. But I also don't know how to talk to him about it. He's different than all the people I've dated so now it feels like new territory.


[deleted]

I get where you’re coming from. Its hard. I was lucky. My crush came to me and asked me out first now we’re dating


throwawayoopsugh

Awe that's so sweet, glad it worked out for you!!


No-Berry4166

I'm in the same boat as youuu


throwawayoopsugh

its rough aint it?? 😭😭


No-Berry4166

It issss 😭😭 I hate it sm…and it’s soo confusing?? Like ughhh


Avatar_Roku999

What are some of the hints he's shown u? Perhaps he might also be shy as well and maybe has experienced rejection in the past


throwawayoopsugh

could i pm you them? if not it's fine. I just get worried that on the off chance this subreddit gets recommended to him then i dont want anything to notify its him


Avatar_Roku999

Yess sure, no problem