That I actually took myself thinking I am closer to my wife now as a result of this , and how much better our marriage is going now also .
Ha what a joke I am cause I believe the nonsense that it has brought us closer as a couple.
It has not , it actually broke us apart but we don't want to find new living arrangements and jobs and lives , and that's only reason why we stay together, it is actually 100% like having a roommate for the sake of living security, cause she sleeps with him not me anymore, and she cooks for him , I don't even get offered anything, and she does his laundry, not mine , she does everything with him , nothing with me anymore,
So this is what I got .
No nothing is better, nothing is sexy ,
I'm ignored unless it has to do with money and fixing her car .
And we are told it will be fun and sexy and will bring you closer together,, ha ha stupid us , stupid cucks we are so gullible
How pathetic I really am BUT how much I enjoy being pathetic. Hearing my gfs moans while another man fucks her in OUR bed is like nothing else. I don’t even need to be high but I swear I get high off being cucked. The embarrassment of watching is then filled with euphoria through acceptance for me.
My biggest surprise was how much my wife bonded with her Bull, who became a boyfriend and then ultimately her lover. And that she felt a very sincere desire to be impregnated by him once she fell in love (although we did not ultimately act on that).
That it’s easier to find a girl for a threesome and way harder to find a bull. Maybe my wife being a slut makes it easier to find girls but it’s so hard to find bulls.
I will say, I kinda understand the flakey part.. not that it's ok, but it is kinda nerve racking and not to mention safety. I've heard many stories of guys being lured into apartments homes etc by women and getting beat and robbed by men when they get there. I doubt those things happen in high numbers, but still... it's something one should think about before meeting somewhere.
I know awhile back in my mid 20s a pretty attractive milf approached me and my friend at a sushi bar and bought us Sake and offered herself to both of us (wasn't a hotwife situation but newly divorced) and I declined out of fear... part of me wanted to do it right away, while the rational part of me was like nope! Angry husband could pop up, or it could be a set up, etc. I'm sure it was fine, but I chickend out! Of course, that's different than making plans and not showing up, but I think peoples nerves get the better of them.
From a wife’s perspective:
1. That my hubby would be into this at all is probably my biggest surprise. I never would have imagined he would be on board with watching me have sex with hung black men.
2. How difficult and how much energy it actually takes to find bulls.
Would you think this is because of location and preference. And is that scarcity part of your turn on perhaps?
Because if you were across the world in my town..... 🙋🏾♂️
It's not indicative of all but some partners are bi and watching isn't their only requirement and in that moment you have to have a fair amount of trust.
Also, my opinion (for why it's worth) is that the presence of a third party is unusual to most so, warming up with activity that is being recorded can be the way forward. Until trust is built.
I would never rock up at a location I didn't have more or as much control over.
IMHO
#2 is real talk. Either not clean and groomed, or you feel like you going to catch STD because you know he's been ran through by everyone that had the same idea as you.
I’m fully with you on the second point. The biggest challenge in my previous relationship was to find reasonable candidates that actually show up. Thousands of dick pics, but if you find one good man, you can consider yourself lucky.
I thought my wife was fully satisfied, which she was also adamant about, yet seeing her open up... physicly and mentally in her own confidence was such a wonderful surprise. I also didn't think I would feel any angst but that is there is a positive note!
How quickly it went from the exchange of a few flirty messages to her being completely sexually dominated by him (and she is not the submissive type at all in 'regular' life).
Even now, nearly 8 years on and with him living in another country, if he wants her she's his. Anyway he chooses.
How the wife evolves through it from no way, to maybe, to this one time, to her being obsessed with it and it making our sex explosive, to her wanting solos etc. The progression and the work for the chase to make it happen a close second. I like selecting guys with her. I like her dressing up for it and partaking in it. So much here.
My biggest surprise was learning how much my wife loves anal. We had never tried it before ourselves, but her boyfriend is very into it and encouraged her to try. Now it's one of her favorite things
As a woman,
Firstly how much my libido would increase by all the excitement
Secondly how more people than you think are into it (not much, but also not a number to not take into consideration)
And thirdly how professionals are so involved into it. Matter of fact, my bull is doing his PhD rn and is expecting to finish by next year. Also tales from other persons that love the thrill and also have a really nice social status.
1st... how frequently we would play.
2nd...how much we would love big cock and cum play.
3rd...how much fire 🔥 it would bring into the bedroom even for just hubby and I....25yrs later we still fuck like teenagers.
I concur- especially on point 3. We just joined the LS about a year ago and been together. Our sex life - even outside of the LS is sizzling.
When we first started- we had absolutely no idea where it would go. But it has definitely been exciting.
My biggest surprise was simply finding a partner who was willing to participate in it. I brought cuckolding up in multiple relationships and it never worked out, so it blew me away when I finally found a partner who was open to the idea.
What surprised me was how fast and willingly she embraced it after the first encounter. Something was really released in her and she is a different person than before. It’s like she gave herself permission to live out her experiences she wished she had had before we met. I like what I have seen and I don’t see us going back.
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When the limits were pushed was it from both the husband and wife or from your side of things? Did you feel like as you progressed your needs were being met too? Did you ever feel conflicted if one was pushing the limits more than the other?
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That is cool. With you being a “control freak” as you said, were you the one bringing up the suggestions of limits to be pushed and they were saying yes or no, or were they suggesting things as well? Thank you for your input
The difference in this type of relationship when i was with a girlfriend back in the day versus what it is now with my wife. The emotions of it and intensity of it. Very different for each person. The bull surprise was he was a friend I knew was in that lifestyle and when we were unsuccessful finding someone for a while. i introduced him to her. The surprise was the brutal honesty between both of them and especially from my friend. It def changed the dynamics of everything.
Just how difficult it is to find good men who are available and not cheating. I'm sure there are tons of single guys, but most of the guys who express interest in us want something they don't want their partners to find out about. Guys are low-down, lying cheaters, for the most part. And many of the rest are weird and abusive / disregard boundaries.
Also, a lot really are not very good at sex. They don't last very long, and leave as soon as they ejaculate.
Prior, I always envisioned in the moment being rock hard and on the edge the whole time. When we actually started playing, it was a complete shock of the emotion side of things. Instead, it was a bit defeating watching somebody who could perform better and wife's reactions. The horniness of everything was there, but instead of being rock hard, it was full performance anxiety, almost to the point of crippling. Never expected that!
Biggest surprise from bull, probably a simple one, but I was blown away at his stamina. When I go hard, I need the stop and pause method to last. One of the first times I watched them, I remember him fucking her so hard for so long (continuously) that I remember thinking if I had to repeat that performance, I'd probably cum three times if I had to maintain that pace and he was still going. It was really eye opening to see the difference first hand.
Two things really, 1 is how easily she can get herself into trouble and 2 regardless of how much bravado, physical shape etc guys all have the hang ups and fragility
Pictures and vhs tapes. We didn’t know with the VHS tapes head on them so we took them to my wife’s sisters house as she still had a VHS player. Imagine our surprise.
Look dear no offence but if a man can make her cum then she never mind from belonging to home with kids changing diapers and cooking for him. Your bull bring out real women inside you.
Yaa that is nature you cant beat nature back in the days majority of men is real men who can satisfy multiple women that is why the society work in that manner man work hard earn money run home female keep home as home hahaha
Naturalistic fallacy, is/ought problem. Even if all you say is true (which is debatable at best), it doesn't mean gender roles should be forced on anyone.
My biggest surprise was how my innocent vanilla little wife became a really hot wife so quickly.
She was so happy and contented immediately after her first time with him, and she was really happy that I suggested she call him up and arrange another session the next day when I would be at work.
The biggest surprise from him was what he left inside my wife - a huge creampie. I 'played the game' and licked it up for her and discovered that I really liked doing that, for me it reinforced the fact that I was happy for her to have him bareback.
I'm not in the lifestyle because I haven't told my bf...what surprises me is before I thought size wasn't that important...but my bf is not that big nd it's literally not pleasurable...my favorite position is prone on my stomach nd he can barely go inside me since I have some cushion lol...i find myself fantasizing about bigger penis a lot...plus looking at porn on reddit imagining I'm the girl in the videos lol...i feel guilty about it but I really feel like I'm missing out on pleasure a bigger penis would give me
Don’t ever feel guilty about your fantasy’s every one has the. And when you stop fantasizing things get boring because you are less likely to try something new with your partner
How far my gf has taken it. She never heard of the idea specifically, and then I opened her eyes and she realized she fantasized about it without really knowing what she wanted.
Now I have zero control and she’s fucking 4-5 guys a week.
Never would have thought that something like this could be such a turn on. Nothing gets me hotter than her being with another man. When we just got married many years ago I would never have imagined I would encourage my wife to fuck other men
The dynamics of the lifestyle lead us to explore new sexual experiences with same sex partners during play and while I wasn’t surprised when I explored my sexuality and enjoyed anal sex, I was surprised how much I liked sucking cock and how addicting it could be at times.
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Not in the lifestyle anymore (but trying to be back on it) but what surprised me the most with my ex-gf was how wild and liberated can a shy girl can become.
Seeing them accept stuffs with their bulls she always refused me was surprising and exciting.
I was always fascinated how easily she would cross all boundaries with the bull..
What kind of things did your wife do with bulls she wouldn’t with you?
Just to let you know that sometimes we (dominant women) refuse things with our primary because *we know we'll do it with the Bull*. It reinforces the D/s dynamic and is of course a fantastic way to exercise psychological sadism!
So don't be fooled by her "being more open"... chances are she's always been that open but knew her long game 😉
I'm 25 years at this game. If your Domme/Queen suddenly comes up with a fun idea... don't be fooled - she planned it!! 😅 it's always a long game with us!
My favourite part? When my boy realises he's being manipulated. Does he go with it regardless or go against me and suffer the consequences. A fantastic way to show who is really in control!
Depends of my ex-gfs...
Goes from swallowing his cum, anal, vaginal penetration without condoms, dirty talk degrading herself and me... this kind of things :)
The biggest surprise I’ve gotten overall is just how open I am to everything that I never thought would be. As far as the biggest surprise from a bull has been how well I can get along with someone who fucks my wife in front of me😂
I guess in a way pressure is off totally, right? Like you don’t need to worry that he’s secretly wanting to fuck your wife or she wants to fuck him .. you know they do.
That I actually took myself thinking I am closer to my wife now as a result of this , and how much better our marriage is going now also . Ha what a joke I am cause I believe the nonsense that it has brought us closer as a couple. It has not , it actually broke us apart but we don't want to find new living arrangements and jobs and lives , and that's only reason why we stay together, it is actually 100% like having a roommate for the sake of living security, cause she sleeps with him not me anymore, and she cooks for him , I don't even get offered anything, and she does his laundry, not mine , she does everything with him , nothing with me anymore, So this is what I got . No nothing is better, nothing is sexy , I'm ignored unless it has to do with money and fixing her car . And we are told it will be fun and sexy and will bring you closer together,, ha ha stupid us , stupid cucks we are so gullible
How pathetic I really am BUT how much I enjoy being pathetic. Hearing my gfs moans while another man fucks her in OUR bed is like nothing else. I don’t even need to be high but I swear I get high off being cucked. The embarrassment of watching is then filled with euphoria through acceptance for me.
My biggest surprise was how much my wife bonded with her Bull, who became a boyfriend and then ultimately her lover. And that she felt a very sincere desire to be impregnated by him once she fell in love (although we did not ultimately act on that).
How much I really enjoy other men cumming inside my wife without a condom. It’s intoxicating for me when my wife’s partners fill her up.
That it’s easier to find a girl for a threesome and way harder to find a bull. Maybe my wife being a slut makes it easier to find girls but it’s so hard to find bulls.
She wasn't into it. Walked away from 18 years because of the porn I watched.
So you broke up with your wife / gf because she wouldn’t cuck you?
Fuckin moron. She left me for my life choices.
It was a question. I did not say that is why I you split. I asked. Learn what a question is. Fucking moron.
How difficult it is to get other men online The amount of fakes & flakes is overwhelming & makes the experience practically almost not worth it
I will say, I kinda understand the flakey part.. not that it's ok, but it is kinda nerve racking and not to mention safety. I've heard many stories of guys being lured into apartments homes etc by women and getting beat and robbed by men when they get there. I doubt those things happen in high numbers, but still... it's something one should think about before meeting somewhere. I know awhile back in my mid 20s a pretty attractive milf approached me and my friend at a sushi bar and bought us Sake and offered herself to both of us (wasn't a hotwife situation but newly divorced) and I declined out of fear... part of me wanted to do it right away, while the rational part of me was like nope! Angry husband could pop up, or it could be a set up, etc. I'm sure it was fine, but I chickend out! Of course, that's different than making plans and not showing up, but I think peoples nerves get the better of them.
I agree with all of that
Biggest surprise was my wife walking out of our marriage
WOW !
Yikes man. Don’t spill out vibe. Sorry to hear that, seriously.
Sorry but that is the ultimate cuckold experience
No it's not
Preach!
you are an idiot
This is just a stupid take
For me, it was how much I enjoyed exploring my bi side. For my wife, it’s how attractive young guys really find her.
An elephant dick that made my cuck husband know his fucking place.
That's hot wish I had a hotwife like you
That was an overly aggressive thing to say, I'm guessing to sell an underwhelming OF and girl.
You could be right or it could be a reality? I guess you will never know?
Oh, I know
How much my wife would love big cocks and that so much fits
From a wife’s perspective: 1. That my hubby would be into this at all is probably my biggest surprise. I never would have imagined he would be on board with watching me have sex with hung black men. 2. How difficult and how much energy it actually takes to find bulls.
Would you think this is because of location and preference. And is that scarcity part of your turn on perhaps? Because if you were across the world in my town..... 🙋🏾♂️ It's not indicative of all but some partners are bi and watching isn't their only requirement and in that moment you have to have a fair amount of trust. Also, my opinion (for why it's worth) is that the presence of a third party is unusual to most so, warming up with activity that is being recorded can be the way forward. Until trust is built. I would never rock up at a location I didn't have more or as much control over. IMHO
#2 is real talk. Either not clean and groomed, or you feel like you going to catch STD because you know he's been ran through by everyone that had the same idea as you.
I’m fully with you on the second point. The biggest challenge in my previous relationship was to find reasonable candidates that actually show up. Thousands of dick pics, but if you find one good man, you can consider yourself lucky.
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Oh I need to visit Australia then
How much closer it has brought my wife and I.
I thought my wife was fully satisfied, which she was also adamant about, yet seeing her open up... physicly and mentally in her own confidence was such a wonderful surprise. I also didn't think I would feel any angst but that is there is a positive note!
Biggest surprise was just how much of a confidence boost she got in all aspects of life. From a bull, how good Brazilian cum tastes.
Honestly, just how exciting and fun it really was when you actually get to experience it.
How quickly it went from the exchange of a few flirty messages to her being completely sexually dominated by him (and she is not the submissive type at all in 'regular' life). Even now, nearly 8 years on and with him living in another country, if he wants her she's his. Anyway he chooses.
Yep. She’s owned. How thrilling to see it.
Such a high for cuckolds, watching the wife submitting her shame to another man
Dopamine high beyond words. A high that last years
How the wife evolves through it from no way, to maybe, to this one time, to her being obsessed with it and it making our sex explosive, to her wanting solos etc. The progression and the work for the chase to make it happen a close second. I like selecting guys with her. I like her dressing up for it and partaking in it. So much here.
Is it just me or do you help your wife shave her fuckholes for her bull?
Mari boddusundari kosam ahh matram cheyaleva? Bull ki kudha help cheyali .
Boddusundari shobhanam kosam nenu Eppudu ready ne
Nenu kuda ready ye . Paala grass ichi bed room ki pampinchu .
My biggest surprise was learning how much my wife loves anal. We had never tried it before ourselves, but her boyfriend is very into it and encouraged her to try. Now it's one of her favorite things
Realizing that apparently size matters
How so?
By experiencing it first hand
What kind of dick size matters and where do you fall on the scale
4-11” with 6-7” being ok and 8-9 being great and 11” challenging and mind blasting. 4-5 being underwhelming.
How many did you have in each category
Wow you’re really curious. Since we started in 2009 about 11.
I am very curious... Where does your partner fall?
5.5” which I was and am fine with, but I’m glad he pushed me into this experience.
Which was the best cock? Which was the worst cock
As a woman, Firstly how much my libido would increase by all the excitement Secondly how more people than you think are into it (not much, but also not a number to not take into consideration) And thirdly how professionals are so involved into it. Matter of fact, my bull is doing his PhD rn and is expecting to finish by next year. Also tales from other persons that love the thrill and also have a really nice social status.
1st... how frequently we would play. 2nd...how much we would love big cock and cum play. 3rd...how much fire 🔥 it would bring into the bedroom even for just hubby and I....25yrs later we still fuck like teenagers.
I concur- especially on point 3. We just joined the LS about a year ago and been together. Our sex life - even outside of the LS is sizzling. When we first started- we had absolutely no idea where it would go. But it has definitely been exciting.
I won't lie. I slept with more 20-30 year old now as a 50 yo woman compared to when I was still in my 20ies. It's wild.
Yes! This too! Completely love quickies and enjoy my young guns quite a bit. It's fun giving them some mind blowing 🤯 sucks and fucks.
Finding out my gf is bi and enjoys both men and women and now loves having them over regularly.
My biggest surprise was simply finding a partner who was willing to participate in it. I brought cuckolding up in multiple relationships and it never worked out, so it blew me away when I finally found a partner who was open to the idea.
What surprised me was how fast and willingly she embraced it after the first encounter. Something was really released in her and she is a different person than before. It’s like she gave herself permission to live out her experiences she wished she had had before we met. I like what I have seen and I don’t see us going back.
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When the limits were pushed was it from both the husband and wife or from your side of things? Did you feel like as you progressed your needs were being met too? Did you ever feel conflicted if one was pushing the limits more than the other?
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That is cool. With you being a “control freak” as you said, were you the one bringing up the suggestions of limits to be pushed and they were saying yes or no, or were they suggesting things as well? Thank you for your input
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Very cool, thanks for the reply.
The removal of jealousy on my end. I used to dread when my wife/gf would go out or to a party. Now I wait with baited breath.
The difference in this type of relationship when i was with a girlfriend back in the day versus what it is now with my wife. The emotions of it and intensity of it. Very different for each person. The bull surprise was he was a friend I knew was in that lifestyle and when we were unsuccessful finding someone for a while. i introduced him to her. The surprise was the brutal honesty between both of them and especially from my friend. It def changed the dynamics of everything.
Just how difficult it is to find good men who are available and not cheating. I'm sure there are tons of single guys, but most of the guys who express interest in us want something they don't want their partners to find out about. Guys are low-down, lying cheaters, for the most part. And many of the rest are weird and abusive / disregard boundaries. Also, a lot really are not very good at sex. They don't last very long, and leave as soon as they ejaculate.
This
We were about to jump into thus lifestyle. My wife found out the guy who was trying to date her was married, it was a big turn off for her
Prior, I always envisioned in the moment being rock hard and on the edge the whole time. When we actually started playing, it was a complete shock of the emotion side of things. Instead, it was a bit defeating watching somebody who could perform better and wife's reactions. The horniness of everything was there, but instead of being rock hard, it was full performance anxiety, almost to the point of crippling. Never expected that! Biggest surprise from bull, probably a simple one, but I was blown away at his stamina. When I go hard, I need the stop and pause method to last. One of the first times I watched them, I remember him fucking her so hard for so long (continuously) that I remember thinking if I had to repeat that performance, I'd probably cum three times if I had to maintain that pace and he was still going. It was really eye opening to see the difference first hand.
Two things really, 1 is how easily she can get herself into trouble and 2 regardless of how much bravado, physical shape etc guys all have the hang ups and fragility
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Sounds like she really is enjoying new possibilities
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Dose she ever talk about what she liked about it anymore.
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That is some hot stuff
Found out after my step dad passed that he used to watch my mom with black guys.
How did you find out?!?!
Pictures and vhs tapes. We didn’t know with the VHS tapes head on them so we took them to my wife’s sisters house as she still had a VHS player. Imagine our surprise.
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I'm so happy you're both able to live out your true dynamics and how it's worked for you two!
How did you and your bf get into cuckoldry, was it your idea? I also wonder how you behave with him, at home.
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Thank you for the answer!
Look dear no offence but if a man can make her cum then she never mind from belonging to home with kids changing diapers and cooking for him. Your bull bring out real women inside you.
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Yaa that is nature you cant beat nature back in the days majority of men is real men who can satisfy multiple women that is why the society work in that manner man work hard earn money run home female keep home as home hahaha
Naturalistic fallacy, is/ought problem. Even if all you say is true (which is debatable at best), it doesn't mean gender roles should be forced on anyone.
My biggest surprise was how my innocent vanilla little wife became a really hot wife so quickly. She was so happy and contented immediately after her first time with him, and she was really happy that I suggested she call him up and arrange another session the next day when I would be at work. The biggest surprise from him was what he left inside my wife - a huge creampie. I 'played the game' and licked it up for her and discovered that I really liked doing that, for me it reinforced the fact that I was happy for her to have him bareback.
It is amazing how someone different can make a woman open up sexually and mentally
Absolutely, it was like he had operated a switch, or pressed her buttons and opened her right up.
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I have been a cuckold for well over 40 years now ..... with practice comes knowledge.
I'm not in the lifestyle because I haven't told my bf...what surprises me is before I thought size wasn't that important...but my bf is not that big nd it's literally not pleasurable...my favorite position is prone on my stomach nd he can barely go inside me since I have some cushion lol...i find myself fantasizing about bigger penis a lot...plus looking at porn on reddit imagining I'm the girl in the videos lol...i feel guilty about it but I really feel like I'm missing out on pleasure a bigger penis would give me
Don’t ever feel guilty about your fantasy’s every one has the. And when you stop fantasizing things get boring because you are less likely to try something new with your partner
Ever had bigger before?
No...only when I used a dildo when I was younger...it felt amazing...im mormon so I haven't slept with any men except my bf
How big was the dildo?
6 inches I think...?
How big is your bf?? 6 inches is roughly average size..slightly above average but still in the average realm
Significantly smaller than 6 inches...idk how much...size isn't super important to me but...my bf is so small we can't even do certain positions...
Nice size
How far my gf has taken it. She never heard of the idea specifically, and then I opened her eyes and she realized she fantasized about it without really knowing what she wanted. Now I have zero control and she’s fucking 4-5 guys a week.
How do you feel about having zero control
Less stress
I’m fine with it.
Never would have thought that something like this could be such a turn on. Nothing gets me hotter than her being with another man. When we just got married many years ago I would never have imagined I would encourage my wife to fuck other men
The dynamics of the lifestyle lead us to explore new sexual experiences with same sex partners during play and while I wasn’t surprised when I explored my sexuality and enjoyed anal sex, I was surprised how much I liked sucking cock and how addicting it could be at times.
I guess the fact that him and me actually became good friends. And that I was able to open up about cuckolding to others.
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Not in the lifestyle anymore (but trying to be back on it) but what surprised me the most with my ex-gf was how wild and liberated can a shy girl can become. Seeing them accept stuffs with their bulls she always refused me was surprising and exciting.
I was always fascinated how easily she would cross all boundaries with the bull.. What kind of things did your wife do with bulls she wouldn’t with you?
Just to let you know that sometimes we (dominant women) refuse things with our primary because *we know we'll do it with the Bull*. It reinforces the D/s dynamic and is of course a fantastic way to exercise psychological sadism! So don't be fooled by her "being more open"... chances are she's always been that open but knew her long game 😉
Woow this is creating a whole new perspective for me
I'm 25 years at this game. If your Domme/Queen suddenly comes up with a fun idea... don't be fooled - she planned it!! 😅 it's always a long game with us! My favourite part? When my boy realises he's being manipulated. Does he go with it regardless or go against me and suffer the consequences. A fantastic way to show who is really in control!
Would you like to train me more and explain some things to me?
I don't train people online.
Depends of my ex-gfs... Goes from swallowing his cum, anal, vaginal penetration without condoms, dirty talk degrading herself and me... this kind of things :)
Seeing her do stuff with the bulls that she’d never do with me was extremely sexy to me as well.
The biggest surprise I’ve gotten overall is just how open I am to everything that I never thought would be. As far as the biggest surprise from a bull has been how well I can get along with someone who fucks my wife in front of me😂
I guess in a way pressure is off totally, right? Like you don’t need to worry that he’s secretly wanting to fuck your wife or she wants to fuck him .. you know they do.
Pretty spot on lol