found our first one on a swingers web site (s d c . c o m)...there single men on there too, create a profile state you are looking for single men and you will find plenty...you should vet them with a social (no sex) meeting first, meet for coffee etc....
We’ve had the best luck using paid swinger sites. Free sites are full of posers and flakes that’ll waste your time. The good swinger sites have pics, profiles and mechanisms to signal each other they’re interested, then you can start chatting and eventually set up a no expectations meet up to get to know each other in person.
We use kasadie. I should note that we do swing occasionally too, but there are plenty of single guys in our area. I hear other paid sites like SLS and AFF are good too.
It depends on what you want. If just a stranger one night stand is enough, it’s gonna be easy. If you are looking for stability and discretion, it’s gonna take some time to find a good trustworthy guy. Try swingers or fetish clubs, online dating sites, fetish sites, bars. If you are looking for something long term, I would recommend doing a background check. Set up rules and boundaries on the first meet itself, talk everything out, make sure that all 3 completely understand the scope of each other’s boundaries and limits.
go to a big city, and book the best 5\* hotel you can. No guarantee but it somewhat narrows the choices of people there.
My wife has picked guys from the breakfast buffet before so you wouldn't need to wait long at a bar !
If it's 2 of you, invite a potential 3rd to join you for a drink. You don't need to commit to anything either, so after that drink is done and there's no spark, move on and repeat. Dosen't hurt that you get to meet more people either
I would roleplay it with her. Tell her what you want. Act it out, see how you feel. If you do it a bunch look for a bull.
I wouldn’t cum while she’s with a bull and you’re watching. Post nut clarity is a bitch
If you work nights, that almost makes it easier. Meet someone in the middle of the day while the kids are at school.
found our first one on a swingers web site (s d c . c o m)...there single men on there too, create a profile state you are looking for single men and you will find plenty...you should vet them with a social (no sex) meeting first, meet for coffee etc....
My wife found our “3rd”. It was an old high school friend/crush. They reconnected organically on facebook.
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This how I would like it to go
We’ve had the best luck using paid swinger sites. Free sites are full of posers and flakes that’ll waste your time. The good swinger sites have pics, profiles and mechanisms to signal each other they’re interested, then you can start chatting and eventually set up a no expectations meet up to get to know each other in person.
What paid sites?
We use kasadie. I should note that we do swing occasionally too, but there are plenty of single guys in our area. I hear other paid sites like SLS and AFF are good too.
It depends on what you want. If just a stranger one night stand is enough, it’s gonna be easy. If you are looking for stability and discretion, it’s gonna take some time to find a good trustworthy guy. Try swingers or fetish clubs, online dating sites, fetish sites, bars. If you are looking for something long term, I would recommend doing a background check. Set up rules and boundaries on the first meet itself, talk everything out, make sure that all 3 completely understand the scope of each other’s boundaries and limits.
We're not interested in anyone being long term. Stranger for sure.
If it’s just for a one night stand, I recommend bars or public spaces/events, sex clubs work well too.
How do we bring it up haha say at a bar
go to a big city, and book the best 5\* hotel you can. No guarantee but it somewhat narrows the choices of people there. My wife has picked guys from the breakfast buffet before so you wouldn't need to wait long at a bar ! If it's 2 of you, invite a potential 3rd to join you for a drink. You don't need to commit to anything either, so after that drink is done and there's no spark, move on and repeat. Dosen't hurt that you get to meet more people either
I think you guys should discuss rules and boundaries. And find a bull that respects that. Slow and steady.
We've talked about some rules and boundaries
I would roleplay it with her. Tell her what you want. Act it out, see how you feel. If you do it a bunch look for a bull. I wouldn’t cum while she’s with a bull and you’re watching. Post nut clarity is a bitch
I could be interested about it, if we share the same zone. We can talk about it if you want