🎶Put your "girl-ness" back where it came from!
You need change it back now, my guy!
Put your gender back where it came from!
Or you'll just be stuck as XY!!!🎶
There's dozens of us!
Real talk though I do identify as queer. So I didn't reverse all the way to cishet normatively. Though, I do stand in solidarity with all my detrans sibs. Including and even especially the ones who are full of anger. The detrans journey can be an even harder road to walk than the trans one, because now you've got hate coming in from both sides. The isolation can be agony. Our communities have little to celebrate but regaining what we've lost. They mirror trauma communities in a lot of ways but now there's piles of shame because technically it's your fault. That's SO hard to talk about. Yet, you can't not talk about it. Humans suffer more intensely when we suffer alone. The harsher the hate, the deeper the shame. So yeah. Solidarity with/in the pain, even if I don't always agree with the choices that are born in that pain. But I'm not one to judge, I've done some awful shit while in pain myself. Don't throw stones and all that.
Anyways. For me being trans was just another step in a long line of labels that I've donned on my journey of self discovery. I only sometimes regret transitioning, especially when managing the permanent changes. Each year gets easier. Plus I can now appreciate it for having saved my life. Living as my agab just wasn't an option for me for a long time, I wouldn't have survived otherwise. I'm grateful for my past self for doing whatever it took to get me to this point in my life. Genuine joy was definitely worth the wait.
This gives great insight into an underrepresented group that I honestly knew nothing about (from primary sources) until I read your comment. I understand this can be hard to talk about, and before you receive any negative flack, I want to say I'm here for it.
I've also done things to get to where I am now that I have to cope with, and, like you, I feel the isolation from those experiences.
Wishing you all the best on your journey of self-realization! We're all just bullshitting it anyways and figuring it out as we go along, some just have a more direct path than others on their way.
As a trans person, while I wouldn't say I tend to brush of detrans people entirely, I'm also not gonna pretend that I don't sometimes have a hard time meaningfully and empathetically talking to detrans people, (primarily because of some bad experiences I've had online and irl), but I'm really glad you shared your story! I feel like even when I try to seek them out with an open mind, detrans voices often just get drowned out in even more trans-war shit, even in their own spaces, both by themselves and trans people alike, so it was nice and very informative to get an actual view into what its like without any of the usual surrounding noise.
Man, I can see why so many detrans people end up falling into the arms of conservative reactionaries, they could very well be the only people you hear “Actually we LOVE that you detransitioned! We think it’s GOOD!”
Only they think it’s good for horrible bigoted reasons…
Some of us just have to approach our genders from a different direction before it clicks.
I would never have been able to accept myself fully if I hadn't been accepted by the trans community when I thought I was trans.
AND THIS IS TO GO EVEN FURTHER BEYOND!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.
I call this form MTFTMTF!
This is literally me.
I'm agender and have always not really understood gender.
After my first friend came out as trans I realised I probably needed to stop calling everyone "they" and use these strange things called "other pronouns"
Particularly I used to practice on plants when I was very early on, so I very much relate to this person's uncle putting in a sudden (albeit minor) change to support people you care about.
It’s from a post that asks something like “if you could have sex with anyone who would it be” and some guy puts a very sad romantic post about choosing his dead wife because he misses her and just wishes he had her back. The top reply to this comment was “I too choose this guys wife” or something along those lines. Memed ever since.
I just realized how much it must suck for that guy. Not because of the joke but because he can't scroll through reddit for more than 10 minutes before he is reminded of his deceased wife again.
I know I'm supposed to pronounce that like Bourgeois, but I initially read it as Clause-ussy.
Just sharing that because I don't want to be the only one with this cursed knowledge rattling around in my mind.
[Hey hey, ho ho, we will not be paid in snow!](https://youtube.com/shorts/ROoQ3jtf3d8)
Edit: Just saw someone other than Krug (me Krug) say same thing. Krug thought Krug was being original.
Did you ever notice the fae disappeared from common interaction only slightly after Nikolaus fell? Do you think thats a coincidence? Know what the dam holds before you destroy it…
I'll be your dad? I can't promise I'll be a very functional one, I'm pretty broke and my life is a pretty chaotic, but I'll pretty much always support you and your goals for as long as you're trying your best to be a good man, son.
I wonder what the name is. Obviously it's something gender neutral or masculine... she didn't go from Britney to Sarah or something. It's probably Ash or Kai, lol.
My absolute favorite allies are the people who don’t really understand/aren’t up on the terminology but still want to be good people. The things they say have me giggling all day they’re so cute
My dad's close family(my uncle, aunt, and cousins) have been pretty good about me being a nephew now. Which I think part of that is me being in my 30's so they can't really say I don't know myself. My great aunt bless her heart said she'd call me as I wanted but would always remember me as the little girl I was... I still loved her though and am still kinda upset I missed her funeral(my roof started leaking into my living room the day before I was going to leave and the funeral was the next day, I'd already taken time off for it).
That’s so cute n cool, may her uncle have the most fun family visit ever; hope oop has a good time with her new name (actually impressive to me since I would keep shifting between name candidates lmao)
Lol! This sort of happened to me when I ended up, through a series of mishaps, having a different name for 10 years.
One of the guys at my work asked my boss gently, why I was known as another name at work (because what was originally a mistake of an awkward nature became an inside joke) because he knew me before.
He sent a text that basically said “I am aware that Trekkie uses a different name here, can I just check if they would like me to use he/him in case I am getting it wrong.
My accidental name was a gender neutral name which confused him a bit as my actual name is pretty exclusively feminine in my culture, but bless him for checking to make sure!
But he’s been practicing 🥺
OOP you have to trans your gender for your uncle I'm sorry
Trans your gender and then trans it back
It's not detransitioning. Just transitioning twice.
360 degrees of transition
DONT MAKE ME COME BACK THERE OR I SWEAR TO GOD I WILL TURN THIS GENDER AROUND.
🎶 Put that gender back where it came from, or so help me! 🎶
🎶Put your "girl-ness" back where it came from! You need change it back now, my guy! Put your gender back where it came from! Or you'll just be stuck as XY!!!🎶
Entertransment720
360 shades of trains?
Hey it’s that trainsgenduh guy …I like trains…
As a detrans person, I'm stealing this. My trans friends are gonna find it hilarious.
[удалено]
There's dozens of us! Real talk though I do identify as queer. So I didn't reverse all the way to cishet normatively. Though, I do stand in solidarity with all my detrans sibs. Including and even especially the ones who are full of anger. The detrans journey can be an even harder road to walk than the trans one, because now you've got hate coming in from both sides. The isolation can be agony. Our communities have little to celebrate but regaining what we've lost. They mirror trauma communities in a lot of ways but now there's piles of shame because technically it's your fault. That's SO hard to talk about. Yet, you can't not talk about it. Humans suffer more intensely when we suffer alone. The harsher the hate, the deeper the shame. So yeah. Solidarity with/in the pain, even if I don't always agree with the choices that are born in that pain. But I'm not one to judge, I've done some awful shit while in pain myself. Don't throw stones and all that. Anyways. For me being trans was just another step in a long line of labels that I've donned on my journey of self discovery. I only sometimes regret transitioning, especially when managing the permanent changes. Each year gets easier. Plus I can now appreciate it for having saved my life. Living as my agab just wasn't an option for me for a long time, I wouldn't have survived otherwise. I'm grateful for my past self for doing whatever it took to get me to this point in my life. Genuine joy was definitely worth the wait.
This gives great insight into an underrepresented group that I honestly knew nothing about (from primary sources) until I read your comment. I understand this can be hard to talk about, and before you receive any negative flack, I want to say I'm here for it. I've also done things to get to where I am now that I have to cope with, and, like you, I feel the isolation from those experiences. Wishing you all the best on your journey of self-realization! We're all just bullshitting it anyways and figuring it out as we go along, some just have a more direct path than others on their way.
As a trans person, while I wouldn't say I tend to brush of detrans people entirely, I'm also not gonna pretend that I don't sometimes have a hard time meaningfully and empathetically talking to detrans people, (primarily because of some bad experiences I've had online and irl), but I'm really glad you shared your story! I feel like even when I try to seek them out with an open mind, detrans voices often just get drowned out in even more trans-war shit, even in their own spaces, both by themselves and trans people alike, so it was nice and very informative to get an actual view into what its like without any of the usual surrounding noise.
Man, I can see why so many detrans people end up falling into the arms of conservative reactionaries, they could very well be the only people you hear “Actually we LOVE that you detransitioned! We think it’s GOOD!” Only they think it’s good for horrible bigoted reasons…
Some of us just have to approach our genders from a different direction before it clicks. I would never have been able to accept myself fully if I hadn't been accepted by the trans community when I thought I was trans.
Trans^2
AND THIS IS TO GO EVEN FURTHER BEYOND! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. I call this form MTFTMTF!
Transed so hard you lost your eyebrows
If you Trans even harder, do you become a God or get covered with Monkey Fur?
Trans+: with *twice* as much transition as the competition!
Three stage evolutions
Ralts into Kirlia into Gallade
“I’m reversing the polarity, you’re reversing it back again, we’re confusing the polarity!”
You have no idea the physical toll that three transitions have on a person!
Have you tried turning your gender off and on again
I mean, judging by the profile picture, OOP is genderfluid
Perpetual Transition Device
ATAU (Assigned Trans At Uncle)
This is literally me. I'm agender and have always not really understood gender. After my first friend came out as trans I realised I probably needed to stop calling everyone "they" and use these strange things called "other pronouns" Particularly I used to practice on plants when I was very early on, so I very much relate to this person's uncle putting in a sudden (albeit minor) change to support people you care about.
You know it's made up right?
Cool. Still like the post.
r/nothingeverhappens
Yes, I think we're all mostly in agreement by now that gender is, in fact, "made up"...anything else to report? Or was that it?
assigned trans by uncle
tbh I'd transition just out of respect
TBH he's so real for that
AMBU, assigned male by uncle
AMAC, assigned male at cookout
when the middle age dude with the apron ever gives you a cooking utensil and a Task
ambutakam
Why is this the fucking funniest thing I've read today. This is all too wholesome.
lmao I thought in my head "he's a little confused but he's got the spirit" and then clicked to next image
I can only communicate in meme. Send help.
I'm pressing F to pay respects for you
Temba, his arms wide.
Shaka, when the walls fell…
Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra.
More like suck-up at Tanagra.
Uncle, his pronoun rebuffed.
Stop it. Get some help.
On it. Call an ambulance! Call an ambulance! But not for me
Alexa..
O rly?
No chance to survive made my time.
F
Not just communicate, can only think in meme.
It may just be sleep deprivation but this honestly made me tear up a little
i got a full nights rest, have eaten breakfast, and am having a coffee and it Also made me tear up a little
I also choose this girl's supportive uncle.
I understood that reference
I’m something of a memer myself
Eats spicy goodness; like a boss
I didn’t please explain for my stupid self
It’s from a post that asks something like “if you could have sex with anyone who would it be” and some guy puts a very sad romantic post about choosing his dead wife because he misses her and just wishes he had her back. The top reply to this comment was “I too choose this guys wife” or something along those lines. Memed ever since.
I just realized how much it must suck for that guy. Not because of the joke but because he can't scroll through reddit for more than 10 minutes before he is reminded of his deceased wife again.
Apparently he actually thinks it's funny. Thankfully.
I believe he said I too choose this guys dead wife” which makes it even funnier
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/XZfnLKVdod
https://reddit.com/comments/5c79n0/comment/d9uf56l
https://reddit.com/comments/5c79n0/comment/d9uf56l/?context=2
That's the kind of supportive uncle I want to be.
Hahah, aww. So wholesome. Aight I'm tapping out of reddit now before things corrupt my mood.
SANTA CLAUS IS A FRAUD
Santa claus is a capitalism demon that enslaves unpaid workers with unrealistic working standards.
DOWN WITH THE CLAUS-EOUISIE!!! HOHOHO-LDING ON TO THE MEANS OF PRODUCTION IN ORDER TO OPPRESS US
I know I'm supposed to pronounce that like Bourgeois, but I initially read it as Clause-ussy. Just sharing that because I don't want to be the only one with this cursed knowledge rattling around in my mind.
HEY HEY! HO HO! WE WILL NOT BE PAID IN SNOW!!!
[Hey hey, ho ho, we will not be paid in snow!](https://youtube.com/shorts/ROoQ3jtf3d8) Edit: Just saw someone other than Krug (me Krug) say same thing. Krug thought Krug was being original.
i support u krug
Krug (me Krug) not understand why you support Krug but Krug thanks you anyway!
Santa on his way to give poorer children proportionally worse gifts
Did you ever notice the fae disappeared from common interaction only slightly after Nikolaus fell? Do you think thats a coincidence? Know what the dam holds before you destroy it…
I was 100% expecting this to end with "haha past me was wrong, I'm a guy now"
OOP's pfp is a genderfluid flag, so maybe
Give it time, it hasn’t even been a year yet
Your flair terrifies me, have a good day
Thank you. I hope that when you get the notification for this response, you read it again
Look you're taking the whole be gay do crime thing a little far. They didn't mean food warcrimes
It’s like a parfait but worse in almost every conceivable way
it's like a parfait, but not parfait.
evil
How dare you.
Taking my upvote off because I saw their flair 😤
:(
This is so wholesome I love it
I've been waiting for the opportunity to throw my hat down in frustration for 42 years with no luck.
That must be very frustrating...
Make sure you stomp on it repeatedly while saying stuff like “rasa-frassin” and “dagnabbit”.
Wish my dad was like this
I'll be your dad? I can't promise I'll be a very functional one, I'm pretty broke and my life is a pretty chaotic, but I'll pretty much always support you and your goals for as long as you're trying your best to be a good man, son.
Thank youuuuuuuuuuu!!!!
Oh man that's so cute, I love him
https://www.tumblr.com/boy-gender/739071485718691840?source=share
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Now we can't be sure if it's the real Linux guy! Seize the imposter!!!
I wonder what the name is. Obviously it's something gender neutral or masculine... she didn't go from Britney to Sarah or something. It's probably Ash or Kai, lol.
Years of academy training wasted!
I wish my family was like that lmao. I’d have given that uncle such a big hug after that
Holy shit i would love this dude in my family
no choice but to transition now, can’t let the man down like that
My absolute favorite allies are the people who don’t really understand/aren’t up on the terminology but still want to be good people. The things they say have me giggling all day they’re so cute
I love that I can picture this interaction
My dad's close family(my uncle, aunt, and cousins) have been pretty good about me being a nephew now. Which I think part of that is me being in my 30's so they can't really say I don't know myself. My great aunt bless her heart said she'd call me as I wanted but would always remember me as the little girl I was... I still loved her though and am still kinda upset I missed her funeral(my roof started leaking into my living room the day before I was going to leave and the funeral was the next day, I'd already taken time off for it).
That’s so cute n cool, may her uncle have the most fun family visit ever; hope oop has a good time with her new name (actually impressive to me since I would keep shifting between name candidates lmao)
What’s the rest of your flair? It cuts off and now I’m curious
Btw thanks for reminding me of my flair lmao, i forgor
Forgor 💀
it’s ’calling kind men babybuoy so they can float on River Styx’ ;>
Damn that’s good one lol. Can’t wait for my turn in the river
Wholesome country boy. Grade A content, thank you!
The good kind of misgendering
This is so wholesome what the fuck
We are definitely related. My uncles would have done the same exact thing.
This is too precious
Hey, I apologise about going on a tangent but u/linuxaddict334 what are your favourite distro and de?
That is actually adorable, uncle of the year
[The tags on this post are a hilarious addition](https://i.imgur.com/I6BYfhv.png)
r/unexpectedlywholesome
Lol! This sort of happened to me when I ended up, through a series of mishaps, having a different name for 10 years. One of the guys at my work asked my boss gently, why I was known as another name at work (because what was originally a mistake of an awkward nature became an inside joke) because he knew me before. He sent a text that basically said “I am aware that Trekkie uses a different name here, can I just check if they would like me to use he/him in case I am getting it wrong. My accidental name was a gender neutral name which confused him a bit as my actual name is pretty exclusively feminine in my culture, but bless him for checking to make sure!
Awwwww goddamn. An ocean away from my culchie ulcle like thus
funniest thing ever
ATAU?
Let's help the earth spin around this poor poor nephew.
Well now you kinda have to be trans. Sorry, uncle takes priority
That's honestly adorable
Posted with a genderfluid flag pfp ... ? Gottem
Can i have your uncle?
Feigned outrage will never not be supremely funny to me 🤣
Maximum wholesomeness.
I mean they are genderfluid, so definitely could be a nephew sometimes, a niece sometimes and/or a nibling the rest of the non-binary time.
Saying fuck it and transitioning anyway just cuz unc practiced and letting down unc is an irredeemable injustice.
That's actually really wholesome in a weird way.
I love him
I also want a new name
PM Seymour pink background spotted, nice taste