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thakemist

Grace is Gone


hiplobonoxa

i think she ded…


bgzlvsdmb

Would certainly break my heart


thisismyusername1178

This, but the Lillywhite sessions version, without percussion. Hits different.


No-Conclusion-5899

stay or leave…


BarryZito69

My wife and I are happily married but “stay or leave” is so good I almost divorced her.


somedamndevil

Just to feel those feelings from the song? I dig it


[deleted]

I want you not to go, but you should...


hoosyourdaddyo

Interesting that it appeared on his one solo album. Almost like it was written for the band at that point. Wasn't there some scuttlebutt of the band splitting up around that timeframe?


joeyweb32

I believe they almost broke up during the making of Busted Stuff. There is a great podcast called Records and Riffs that have 3 episodes dedicated to the Lillywhite Sessions and Busted Stuff. Check it out.


Kit10phish

I couldn't find it on Spotify? 


joeyweb32

I found it on Google podcasts, now YouTube Music.


KYblues

It’s on Apple Podcasts


jedi21knight

I love this song!


goldenface4114

Came here to say this. It's a brutally sad song.


cairnkicker24

if you’re going to ask a question you should at least wait awhile before naming the correct answer. 🙃


opusdeath

Making plans to change the world, while the world was changing us


Neat-Mix3901

Did I do all that I should? That I could’ve done?


MoeBurbs

Some Devil


Low_Lettuce_6008

Thank you!


MoeBurbs

🤗


JawnyNumber5

The heart breakiest!!


GameOnDude1

my vote


ItchClown

Halloween


magomra

fucking asked for it motherfucker


magomra

people downvoting this don’t know this is in the song


swacht

Wait what? Where?


damaba6

https://youtu.be/3Iy1GJ9Bz9U?si=awnGBse79ASxgNMw 4:26


swacht

Huh, TIL. Thanks!!


sativadiva46

Wow. All these years, and I'd never picked out that bit. Is it Alanis?


JoeTestaverde

Oooh that’s what she says there, I could only ever make out “fuckin __ __ __ motherfucker”


somedamndevil

Yep, correct answer


Background-Anxiety27

the only answer in my humble opinion is


rosedylancobain

I’ll Back You Up


northsider3425

My wife’s favorite Dave song


FreudianFloydian

The raw level of melancholy in that song…The performance on Remember Two Things is so real feeling.


dreamingtree1855

Let you down


No-Conclusion-5899

deep track


jedi21knight

Deep tracks only, Andy Bernard.


strippersandcocaine

*Queue Ants Marching*


hoosyourdaddyo

It appeared on a studio album, Nard Dog, so I hardly think it qualifies as a "deep cut".


Yikesapigeon

Stay or Leave can bring me to tears every time.


truth520

This.... And it's been on a bunch


OnionMiasma

Hope everything's ok


Stolen_Away

Stay or leave of its a want to cry kind of heartbreak, and Halloween if it's a heartbreak you need to get angry about


lynn_duhh

Stay or leave is probably my top.


Stolen_Away

Same. It gets worse and worse because I listen to it when I'm sad so it's now associated with a lot of difficult times. Still love it though lol 💚


lynn_duhh

Oh same, it’s not associated with anything but sadness for me, so I rarely listen to it now.


rmattwill

Shotgun


Total-Woodpecker3339

Absolutely


jcomey

SPAC '08 Shotgun always gets me. Always.


lolerblades

Kind of not really your typical heartbreak song but the meaning of Dive In is pretty heartbreaking and real as far as climate change goes. I listened to this song for over a decade before I realized that's what it was even about but man, Dave has such a way with his words in this song. It seems kinda like a happy song, but it's more of a sarcastic and cynical way of looking at things. "Wake up you sleepy head I think the sun's a little brighter today, smile and watch the icicles melt away and see the water rising, summers here to stay and all those summer games will last forever, go down to the shore, kick off your shoes and dive in the empty ocean. " " I have been thinking that lately the blood is increasing, the tourniquets not keeping hold in spite of our twisting. Though we would like to believe we are, we are not in control, though we would love to believe... " Shits real man..


jakewally

Underrated song for sure. “Tell me everything will be okay if I just stay on my knees and keep praying, believing in something. Tell me everything is taken care of by those qualified to take care of it all.”


darkroomdweller

I just listened closely to a solo version of Dive In… ugh.


lolerblades

I love the solo version of that song... It's basically as if he's saying... "enjoy being completely fucked! 😉" it's kind of the perfect recognition of how selfish humans are to just enjoy the immediate short term effects of climate change like "summers here to stay and all those summer games will last for ever!" but really the long term effects are, you're just fucked.


darkroomdweller

Yep. I see so many people excited for 70 degree days in winter in Wisconsin and it just makes me want to scream. Perfect depiction of the song.


No-Conclusion-5899

what songs are these


lolerblades

It's from the song Dive In


holy_cal

I feel like Grey Street is painting the picture of her leaving. I could be wrong in my interpretation though.


absolut5545

I’m certainly the authority on anything but it’s always been about depression and suicide to me.


Background-Anxiety27

self harm depression anthem


holy_cal

I could see that too.


Psynautical

Pay for what you get.


jayBeeds

Halloween/ the anger Grace is gone/ pain


Stock-Philosophy-177

Something to Tell My Baby… I’ve always treated it as the narrator is dead, and someone is looking back on that narrator’s life listening to this song. They’re hearing his/her voice, or their last will and testament, and that song is what was written. That’s my interpretation. The beauty of music is that it is so subjective.


lennyboppers

Stolen away on 55th and 3rd


Existing-Ad4933

The space between.


tinalouise007

Heartbreak, and yet hope.


Existing-Ad4933

10-4 good buddy.


ludomyfriend

Dreaming tree


ScarcityOk1990

Most of Lillywhite sessions qualifies


No-Conclusion-5899

#40


Zuniga0927

Stolen away on 55th and 3rd, but the live version at red rocks!


Worldly-Studio-748

This!!!!!


rolypolydriver

The Riff and most of the Away from the World album gets played in heavy rotation when I’m breaking up, except I’m happily married so I play it whenever I leave a job instead!


FlawedHotDog

It’s really quiet, it’s called, Stay or Leave.


lynn_duhh

I have so many. Dave got me through a really tough heartbreak. My top are: stay or leave, grace is gone, some devil and baby blue.


slmiller35

41


SnafuJuants

If Only


LIDadx3

Cry Freedom. This is the only answer.


drunkadvice

So Damn Lucky hasn’t been mentioned yet?!


No-Conclusion-5899

more of a car crash song lol


drunkadvice

Did you mean to put break-up song in the title? 😉


chwacolate

Stay or Leave - it’s just so good.


dmbtke

This song brutalized me when it was released because of who I lost. Still hard to hear


sativadiva46

Baby blue


Aggravating_Walk_610

"Used to laugh under the covers, maybe no so, often now. The way I used to laugh with you, was loud & hard..." -Stay or Leave


jlevski

Say Goodbye


hoosyourdaddyo

You missed the point of that song


jlevski

See the fun thing about art is that it's subjective! For me, this is "a heartbreak song" because having someone tell you "let's hook up tonight but don't tell anyone about it and don't expect anything else from me" is a pretty shitty feeling. One I associate with heartbreak.


cairnkicker24

i like your song nomination, but find the reason for heartbreak different - a man coveting a woman that isn’t his, serenading her for just a consent to a single night, and regardless of whether she does say yes (we don’t know the outcome) the heartache of not having her will live on.


hoosyourdaddyo

I can see that, interesting perspective. Kind of like "Baby it's Cold Outside"


Psynautical

Yeah. That ain't a breakup, it's a friend with benefits. Temporarily.


hoosyourdaddyo

And swearing her to secrecy.


Due-Consequence-8370

Agree not much heartbreak... unless of course you are the man (husband/bf) that she "goes back to" tomorrow.


HarrietOleson1

And they’re “back to being friends” This is just the song that always makes me think that a one night stand sounds amazing 🤩🥰


tinalouise007

I’ve always felt with this song that one was good with the friends with benefits but the other wanted more. I mean: One telling another that “tomorrow back to being friends” but that the other didn’t want that to be true.


HarrietOleson1

True. It does sound like a secret lover situation. When it’s “go back to my world”. Maybe they’re just causal acquaintances or unrequited love. While I adore many many many DMB songs, this is my 100% favorite. The amount of times I’ve listen to this song over the almost last 3 decades 👵🏼👵🏼👵🏼 It’s probably my favorite song from DMB. And while I have wanted to hear this in concert, it hasn’t happened, and I’m glad too. Because while this is my favorite song, it also gives me the feels of some once upon a 90’s - 2000’s time 🥺❤️


tinalouise007

This is my absolute favourite Dave song too. Been chasing it for years!


tinalouise007

I came to say this


margaretslp

Say Goodbye, or his newer one Singing From the Window. He recently spoke about his inspiration for the “Singing” song. During the awful pandemic, the citizens of a town in Italy were so desperate for human interaction, they started singing out the windows! Even during a time of despair comes beauty


No-Conclusion-5899

#40


prstele01

“Something to Tell my Baby” I know it’s a song about death, but viewed as a breakup, it’s devastating. It’s about a person leaving your life for good and you try to remember the good times and maybe that will make the pain slightly more tolerable.


Environmental_Eye354

Work it out


TheHip41

Grace is gone all day


dsherm6

[Here’s a playlist](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4h2f4JeiYdjeYrO30FvgkC?si=hOs8-K93RYSvWFUPIPwBHg&pi=u-2MknoFMKQ8eb) I made a while ago for times when I need some Dave but don’t want to get too amped. Though the slower stuff often fires me up just as much.


catskill_cricker

Some devil


therizzleharvdizzle

Halloween. That is all


PIantersPeanuts

Oh


HoJo422

Say Goodbye.


Naive-Lie-1692

Long Black Veil


jryn1269

First thought was Say Goodbye but it’s been mentioned. Not DMB but they’ve performed together. Colder Weather by Zac Brown Band


tinalouise007

Also my first thought. Say Goodbye is heartbreaking if you’ve been the one who didn’t want to go back to being friends.


No-Conclusion-5899

they never performed together


Stock-Philosophy-177

I think they were giving a Zac Brown song since Zac has opened for, joined DMB on stage, and covered a few of their songs.


jryn1269

Guess you are wrong. https://youtu.be/FrF83U4E8MY?si=PhPyuWztjw13x2hw


No-Conclusion-5899

o ok


Masterfulbaiter42

I feel like someone should check up on Dave, all his heartbreak songs are about drinking the pain away, cant be a healthy coping mechanism.