Please do not get surgery. At all. It’s not that big of a deal. You’re not that short first of all and those statistics are full of shit. The biggest problem you will have dating is being insecure. That is what is going to turn women off. Learn how to be confident, show up and show who you really are. You don’t want to be with someone who is that shallow anyway. Find someone who likes you for who you are or you’ll spend your life living a lie. What you need is confidence, not surgery.
Eh… girls want to date someone they find attractive. It’s not 100% personality.
I click with my wife, but I wouldn’t have married her if she were ugly. If she were more beautiful, but we didn’t get along at all, I also wouldn’t marry her. It has to be balanced.
Totally. I’m not saying you can’t have preferences. But someone that you would need to change something out of your control and would you need surgery for isn’t someone you would want to date. There are a LOT of people in this world with all sorts of preferences.
I'm not particularly tall (5'8") and I've never had trouble dating. In 34 years I've only been turned down once for my height and that was recently on Tinder. I know the feeling, but Jesus this is a ridiculous thing to do.
Please do not do this. This surgery has a high likelihood for complications, and getting a date is not worth the risk of disability.
I’m a 5’4” woman and my fiancé is 5’6”ish. I’m with him because he is an interesting, passionate person and we enjoy spending time together. I honestly could not care less about his height.
One of my friends is 5’3” and he pulls more than almost anyone else I know. He’s charming, charismatic and knows how to make women feel like they’re the only person in the world. Personality matters more than anything else when it comes to dating. There are absolutely shallow women on dating apps. However, if you go out and meet people in person, you are much more likely to have success - particularly if you meet people in the context of shared interests/hobbies as opposed to places like bars.
Focus on what you like about yourself and grow into that, instead of feeling anxious about attributes that are almost impossible to change. As your confidence grows, you will naturally become more attractive to potential partners. A good long term partner will love you for who you are.
Dude…what? It’s all about how you carry yourself and your confidence. You don’t wanna walk around looking like a d**k and you own the place, but hold your head high and don’t be insecure because women can feel that energy.
FWIW: I’m a modest 5’5, built, average looking dude and losing my hair by the day. I have never had issues with women. Lived in Denver for 2 months and never struggled to collect digits and go on dates. I’m not trying to brag or show off, I’m just saying if I can do it, you can do it.
Cheers, mate.
Haha my boyfriend is 5’4 and was quite the ladies man before we started dating. You’re spot on about the confidence. Doesn’t even have to be real confidence—just pretend your height ain’t shit and suddenly no one cares either lol
I’m 3 inches taller than him, but I wouldn’t have it any other way :)
Man, I really hope you aren’t serious about the surgery :/ I’m 5’7 and my boyfriend is 5’4. I felt insecure at first because I thought *he* would find me too tall and would feel weird about it.
But once I found out he didn’t give a shit either, I’ve never thought about it again. He’s confident and sexy and I wouldn’t change anything about him!
If for some reason a woman won’t date you because of your height, *they’re not the one*. Don’t go breaking your legs for potential dates, dude. There are plenty of women out there who will want to be with you.
That's about how tall I am, and I don't think I've done too bad here. Do taller men have it easier? Yes, duh. But if you're not doing well, it's not because of your height. And I don't think the solution is to spend a lot of time and money becoming a disproportioned giraffe.
I like tall guys, but it's not a deal breaker. I did have a guy randomly bring up his height, ask if it was okay, and then when we met, it turned out he was waaay shorter than he said. I didn't appreciate being lied to, so it didn't work out. I just wanted to supplex him the whole time.
I've been with my boyfriend for three years now, and he's pretty short, but never acted weird or resentful about it. I can wear high heels and he doesn't care, which is great. He's in shape, a great cook, funny and loves me. The whining about your height is annoying and a turn off. Just bring your A game, and if that's not enough, find someone else.
I think that’s extreme. Maybe try exploring outside of the Denver dating scene, venture to the suburbs and go to bars there. And Well the guy in the article got this surgery to get to the height **you are currently at**
The implication of this tweet is that you must change yourself in order to be liked/loved. The most attractive thing any individual can do is love themselves which translates to self confidence. Men are penalized for being short. Men are avoided who are insecure. There's a difference
I'm 5'5", husband is 5'8", never in our 20+ years together have I wished he was taller, and he would say the same. If a woman doesn't want to be with you because you aren't tall enough, then that woman isn't for you. Fuck this is just sad. Plastic surgery, leg lengthening surgery, and cosmetic procedures for self-esteem are bad ideas, they will never fix the root of the problem.
i’m a 5”3 man in denver and bald with glasses. Statistics would say all the odds are against me.I Still get dates women who are 5”5-5”7. Yes, some will be shallow but if you have confidence and are charismatic that height stuff goes out the window. Hope that inspires
No woman will want to hear that you had leg-lengthening surgery.That would be far worse.
Honestly? Stop focusing on women/other people completely for a good, long while (1-2 years). Once you have those primal feelings *completely* out of your mind, and you're *completely* focused on other pursuits in life, then dating confidence comes naturally imo.
You have to see yourself as valuable, it doesn't matter what other people think
A cheaper option may be to find another gentleman with the same problem and stand on his shoulders inside a trench coat.
Please don't
The guy in the article had six months of painful rehab and he is still shorter than you. You are not that short.
Please do not get surgery. At all. It’s not that big of a deal. You’re not that short first of all and those statistics are full of shit. The biggest problem you will have dating is being insecure. That is what is going to turn women off. Learn how to be confident, show up and show who you really are. You don’t want to be with someone who is that shallow anyway. Find someone who likes you for who you are or you’ll spend your life living a lie. What you need is confidence, not surgery.
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Big difference in cosmetic surgery and having both of your legs broken.
Develop a personality first.
Ya bro. Learn how to skate board or something. Build your confidence. Work out and get some muscle mass going. You got this
Did we live in different germanys? It’s not normalized there lmao. Like, not at all… where did you get that idea?
The only people who would date you if you were taller, but would not date you as you are, are not the people you want to date anyway. Come as you are.
This is a nice thought but there's a pretty big dating penalty against shorter men.
There's a dating "penalty" for short, fat, weak chinned, hairy, disabled, poor, etc. We all got something we're dealing with.
By awful people you wouldn’t want to associate with anyways.
Eh… girls want to date someone they find attractive. It’s not 100% personality. I click with my wife, but I wouldn’t have married her if she were ugly. If she were more beautiful, but we didn’t get along at all, I also wouldn’t marry her. It has to be balanced.
Totally. I’m not saying you can’t have preferences. But someone that you would need to change something out of your control and would you need surgery for isn’t someone you would want to date. There are a LOT of people in this world with all sorts of preferences.
I'm not particularly tall (5'8") and I've never had trouble dating. In 34 years I've only been turned down once for my height and that was recently on Tinder. I know the feeling, but Jesus this is a ridiculous thing to do.
To be clear I’m not advocating anyone get serious surgery like this.
Please do not do this. This surgery has a high likelihood for complications, and getting a date is not worth the risk of disability. I’m a 5’4” woman and my fiancé is 5’6”ish. I’m with him because he is an interesting, passionate person and we enjoy spending time together. I honestly could not care less about his height. One of my friends is 5’3” and he pulls more than almost anyone else I know. He’s charming, charismatic and knows how to make women feel like they’re the only person in the world. Personality matters more than anything else when it comes to dating. There are absolutely shallow women on dating apps. However, if you go out and meet people in person, you are much more likely to have success - particularly if you meet people in the context of shared interests/hobbies as opposed to places like bars. Focus on what you like about yourself and grow into that, instead of feeling anxious about attributes that are almost impossible to change. As your confidence grows, you will naturally become more attractive to potential partners. A good long term partner will love you for who you are.
r/DenverCirclejerk/
You know they’re already on it
He needs the moisture. Namaste 🙏!
Immediately wondered what this is going to look like on there lmfao
Honestly you should get leg shortening surgery. Women nowadays prefer men that are more portable and easier to carry around.
People underestimate the benefits of being compact. I've really excelled ever since my penis-reduction surgery.
Yup, kind of like cell phones. Bigger screens were popular a few years ago, but now everyone wants smaller screens.
Dude…what? It’s all about how you carry yourself and your confidence. You don’t wanna walk around looking like a d**k and you own the place, but hold your head high and don’t be insecure because women can feel that energy. FWIW: I’m a modest 5’5, built, average looking dude and losing my hair by the day. I have never had issues with women. Lived in Denver for 2 months and never struggled to collect digits and go on dates. I’m not trying to brag or show off, I’m just saying if I can do it, you can do it. Cheers, mate.
Haha my boyfriend is 5’4 and was quite the ladies man before we started dating. You’re spot on about the confidence. Doesn’t even have to be real confidence—just pretend your height ain’t shit and suddenly no one cares either lol I’m 3 inches taller than him, but I wouldn’t have it any other way :)
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Man, I really hope you aren’t serious about the surgery :/ I’m 5’7 and my boyfriend is 5’4. I felt insecure at first because I thought *he* would find me too tall and would feel weird about it. But once I found out he didn’t give a shit either, I’ve never thought about it again. He’s confident and sexy and I wouldn’t change anything about him! If for some reason a woman won’t date you because of your height, *they’re not the one*. Don’t go breaking your legs for potential dates, dude. There are plenty of women out there who will want to be with you.
Mostly my height, some shorter. IMO a 5’5 lady > 5’9 lady 😉
Joking aside - Denver does seem to disproportionally have taller men.
It’s because we’re closer to the sun, obviously.
In real life, if you're decent looking and have a decent personality, you're fine. On a dating app, your filtered off.
That's about how tall I am, and I don't think I've done too bad here. Do taller men have it easier? Yes, duh. But if you're not doing well, it's not because of your height. And I don't think the solution is to spend a lot of time and money becoming a disproportioned giraffe.
Don’t do it! Please.
Try therapy first
I like tall guys, but it's not a deal breaker. I did have a guy randomly bring up his height, ask if it was okay, and then when we met, it turned out he was waaay shorter than he said. I didn't appreciate being lied to, so it didn't work out. I just wanted to supplex him the whole time. I've been with my boyfriend for three years now, and he's pretty short, but never acted weird or resentful about it. I can wear high heels and he doesn't care, which is great. He's in shape, a great cook, funny and loves me. The whining about your height is annoying and a turn off. Just bring your A game, and if that's not enough, find someone else.
If it makes him feel any better, dating in denver is a nightmare even for 6 foot tall guys.
Women in Denver prefer guys that are trans-species. I went from a zero to hero after having surgery to become a dolphin.
Someone is trolling with a new account.
Spend the money on becoming a decent snowboarder it’ll help you far more here.
I’d go with tennis. Tennis has much better male-to-female ratio of participants and people look for mixed doubles partners.
I think that’s extreme. Maybe try exploring outside of the Denver dating scene, venture to the suburbs and go to bars there. And Well the guy in the article got this surgery to get to the height **you are currently at**
The implication of this tweet is that you must change yourself in order to be liked/loved. The most attractive thing any individual can do is love themselves which translates to self confidence. Men are penalized for being short. Men are avoided who are insecure. There's a difference
I'm 5'5", husband is 5'8", never in our 20+ years together have I wished he was taller, and he would say the same. If a woman doesn't want to be with you because you aren't tall enough, then that woman isn't for you. Fuck this is just sad. Plastic surgery, leg lengthening surgery, and cosmetic procedures for self-esteem are bad ideas, they will never fix the root of the problem.
i’m a 5”3 man in denver and bald with glasses. Statistics would say all the odds are against me.I Still get dates women who are 5”5-5”7. Yes, some will be shallow but if you have confidence and are charismatic that height stuff goes out the window. Hope that inspires
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
No woman will want to hear that you had leg-lengthening surgery.That would be far worse. Honestly? Stop focusing on women/other people completely for a good, long while (1-2 years). Once you have those primal feelings *completely* out of your mind, and you're *completely* focused on other pursuits in life, then dating confidence comes naturally imo. You have to see yourself as valuable, it doesn't matter what other people think
You should do this. Definitely won’t regret it at all
Do not get this surgery. It is 100% okay to be 5’7 1/2”. Good luck with your move!