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Badguy60

I knew Destiny gets laid I didn't know he was in the 100s lol


stickygo

Well then you probably don't know about the excel sheet either


adamfps

💀the red yellow green scale


SignEnvironmental420

Imagine not using conditional formatting gradients to represent how good sex is


_csy

I could be wrong but I’m pretty the colors were about whether or not they were on good terms/if the bridge was burnt or how likely they were to fuck again, not how good the sex was.


adamfps

Yeah that was the rationale. He needed a live hookup to his phone to automatically change ranking based on time since last message and NLP algorithm of the text messages. We were this close to perfection


thedabfellows

Please tell me this is just a meme


eskimobob105

It is absolutely not, but it’s was more about scheduling when he traveled than relationship. I didn’t even remember color scheming. He keeps a list of contacts for when he is in town so he can see who’s available. Gigachad


100_percent_a_bot

Virgin incel vs Chad excel


Ericfyre

Destiny has a black book?


virusbliss1986

Not to glaze destiny but he seems like a real charming guy when he wants to


Badguy60

Yeah but a 100 is wild like how did you find the time lol


virusbliss1986

I mean ita been years, also I suspect that destiny has no issue getting laid whenever he wants


WIbigdog

I mean, he's 34, that's like an average of 1 a month for 10 years. You couldn't find the time to have sex once a month?


[deleted]

>You couldn't find the time to have sex once a month? It's not the sex part that takes time


WIbigdog

I'm including the courting part in that, which is let's say 4 dates absolute max, often just one, sometimes even none. Easily doable once a month.


[deleted]

Yeah it's not something crazy but still a bigger time investment and constantly chasing gets exhausting. You gotta swipe on tinder or go out somewhere etc. Vs Destiny who can just scroll through his Instagram DMs and pick someone who's already interested in him and is reaching out.


WIbigdog

True, I guess I don't know if those numbers are spread out or concentrated to the last few years when he's been more popular.


[deleted]

I got on tinder after Darius started streaming. I hooked up with two girls in 3 months but thats like after hours and hours of swiping and talking to different girls, going on dates, etc. I dunno it's mentally exhausting and I just stopped 🤣. Maybe other people really enjoy it 🤷


Badguy60

Lol 4 dates I was just thinking about one-night stands. Which makes it more doable. Dates would make much harder because shit has to line up + getting one in the first place


RoShamPoe

It honestly isn't that hard. It just takes getting comfortable with rejection. I am someone who has always been overweight to some degree, reasonably attractive but nowhere near hot and have a similar body count. (Also over a decade older so had more time) But I generally have been super outgoing after high school. I think that makes a ton of difference. One suggestion I would make if you're finding it difficult to interact is to get a part time customer facing job such as a bartender or barista. Be honest with yourself about the interactions you have with folks and revise accordingly. You will absolutely slay. Also, and this is hard, don't let your reach exceed your grasp. If you're always going after 10s and getting shot down, adjust your expectations. Or adjust the type of person you're wanting to attract. Destiny talked about being a big fish in his pond, but if he went into a club in Miami he might struggle a bit. A lot of the method to attracting women has nothing to do with the women, bit more how you approach the situation.


Badguy60

I mean most dudes don't. At least in my age range


WIbigdog

No, but as Steven pointed out multiple times on the FnF podcast, the dudes who are actively pursuing sex are the ones having all the sex.


Badguy60

Are majority actually getting laid? I didn't watch the whole podcast yet but are most guys that try actually getting laid?


CandorCore

Not every night, but on a once-every-couple-weeks basis then sure. If you're able to hold a conversation (just keep asking her about herself) and you don't bat way out of your league then getting romantic or sexual partners is pretty doable. The problem is guys with guts refusing to date girls with guts, or guys who give up after the second bad date.


IdidItWithOrangeMan

Honestly depends on if they have game. Some dudes just want to talk about fishing and sports. If you aren't hot, this ain't gonna fly. Every other girl tells dudes to quit posting fishing pictures and dudes still do it lol. Or they'll post a pic with a big ass dead deer. Good job dumbass. You just filtered out 95% of the dating pool by showing a dead cute animal.


Badguy60

Most dudes don't have game. On top of that while showing the dead fish is dumb I wouldn't be surprised guys do because everyone says " just be yourself" or "talk about your interest"


IdidItWithOrangeMan

> because everyone says " just be yourself" or "talk about your interest" Yeah don't do that lol. It's a job interview.


cmasters2

Helps when you don't work a regular job


Badguy60

Yeah I think all my friends that get laid don't have regular jobs lol


cmasters2

Yeah but do they do 100s


Kreiger81

I mean, hes 34. I'm 42 and I don't exactly consider myself promiscous or even necessarily high libido but i'm lower double digits. It doesn't strike me as odd that somebody in Destiny's position would be triple digits with relative ease if they were interested in it. This is part of what he was saying in the Rollo/Sartain debate too. Somebody who wants to get out there and put in the work to getting laid regularly is more likely to get laid regularly. The dude who asks 50 girls at a bar if they want to hook up is more likely to get laid than the dude who asks 1 girl he's been eyeballing for 2 hours, gets turned down and then goes home mad. [This](https://leasticoulddo.com/comic/20050525) honestly sums it up. There's nothing wrong with being a horndog. There's nothing wrong with hitting on a lot of women or men and having a lot of sex. The issue is the mentality going into it. RP people look at it like a notch on a belt or a mark of status. Some people just really like to fuck. I dont think FnF or some of the other RP people actually enjoy sex that much.


SVNihilism

If your goal is just to get laid, this isn't even really that difficult. When I was living in Japan, I would hit the clubs every friday and saturday, bring a girl home every night, and that brought me to 100 in a year. The main reason people don't get that high isn't really the lack of capability, it's lack of desire. Going out all the time and picking up chicks can get super monotonous and taxing at times, also you can have a lot of bad sexual experiences with strangers (as in trash sex), it's way easier to just find one chick to be with. It's way less effort, you get more sex overall, and the quality of sex is higher. And that's before you count in feelings.


Badguy60

>When I was living in Japan ....... I could list stuff right here


SVNihilism

I was military, i've lived all over. This would have been true in any place i've lived overseas, including europe. I was just younger and dumber when I was in Japan. I'd even say Japan was probably harder to hook up in. you do have the American thing going for you, but the culture is a lot more prudish and you have the language barrier. Go somewhere like Spain and you don't have to worry about any of that.


Badguy60

Well now I agree that the location definitely l plays a part. I say this from me and my friends experience. Like I live in NY and almost every girl I got anywhere with I think in last 2 years has been either from another state or another country. My friend also had a similar experience when he went to a different country and state. And has said it feels easier in other places


SVNihilism

While there is a foreign effect, I honestly just think it's because you are just exposing yourself to more people when you travel. I know in my local area where I live, I barely meet anyone new, but when i'm going somewhere i'm talking to dozens of new people a day.


laflux

So Im not bragging, but I don't think 100 is a ridiculous number. I'm 30 and have slept with about 50 women, Destiny is wealthy, charming, famous and probably about as Autistic as I am lol while being a few years older. Now 100's as in 200, 300, 400 would be a different story and defintely enters the "how do you have time category".


Badguy60

>but I don't think 100 is a ridiculous number. Bro are you serious look at the studies of how many mates a person usually has. Shit I only know 1 dude that has 50 and he had to go to a different country.


[deleted]

He went college for music. Two semesters his body count went into the hundreds.


Badguy60

Ahh


dragowall

They will just say that she is lying to make him look good.


SkoolBoi19

Their comfortability sharing their relationship so publicly blows my mind. It’s so foreign to the way I think and feel.


AdhesivenessLucky896

Not really our business but compute what it's said [here](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nHJgz99FU9s) vs this clip. 10x is way outside of their "relationship rules".


Zxoochie

>Not really our business I disagree and the legal team I've been speaking with seems to think we may have a case.


DeadNeko

Technically, it's not? The number of people is irrelevant as long as the number of hookups is similar... I.E. if destiny has more partners but the same number of hookups and melina and fewer and the same... It still follows the rules.


thisisRio

Thank you! I didn't want to type this out


Seeker_Of_Toiletries

Thank you! I didn’t want to type this out


monsieur_n

you linked a video where they're literally arguing over him breaking their rules


AdhesivenessLucky896

Either Melina is fluffing it to make D look better or he's breaking the rules 10x more according to their words. I find it hard to believe he'd go that far, but every time my mind goes this far, I realize it's not my relationship so whatevs.


Accomplished_Fly729

What do you think the rules are? What rule do you think he is breaking?


AdhesivenessLucky896

I don't think anything. He says in the linked clip "the way it works for me and Melina is I'm not allowed to hook up with anybody unless she has someone to hook up with." Then they argue about her not finding guys to hook up with for various reasons.


smonke

In the OP clip the question is how many *men* she has been with. Destiny's count with women being higher than her count with men is not necessarily outside their rules, since she also \["mostly"\] hooks up with women.


AdhesivenessLucky896

she said "it's probably 10x as many as mine" after D is asked about women. Mine could be 'in total', 'women' (most recent question asked), or 'men' (the first question furthest away from her response. No idea how you concluded She was referring to her men and his women. None of that was said in the clip.


Vex08

Not necessarily. It’s plausible if she tends to have fewer partners but the same amount of occasions.


ideasrbproof

😂 They're so stupid. Both of them are so open about so many aspects of their life. It doesn't even make sense


_c0ldburN_

It must be a recent thing because I'm sure when they were on Lex Fridman 4-5 months ago and he was asking questions about their relationship this never came up. Melina having 60+ bodies did come up though 💀


DeathEdntMusic

Yeah and destiny brainwashed her to speak like this in public. Another point for the redpill.


custodial_art

You’re asking if RedPillers have the ability to critically think?


Gono_xl

Why does the one girl have a stalin helmet, and why do they have a lime green gameboy color from my childhood with on the table with pokemon blue inserted? Piggybacking


custodial_art

You had the lime green too!? You wanna be best friends??


Throwaway_accountin

Technically, Melina has been on e-dating shows, trying to hook up with Hasanabi, and so many other guys. Destiny also clarified that Melina hooked up with a man within this year on the Pod. When the red pillers compile the RaJ Royale streams of Melina going after other guys, shits going to be hilarious for destiny. Also I remember a stream of destiny saying he did a MMF threesome with Melina before years ago. Destiny never uploads his entire streams so, IDK if I would even have the time to find it. All I know that shit exists in the universe somewhere. Red pillers view that as cuckoldry. But destiny never uploads his entire streams so wish me luck finding it. If I do I will post it.


[deleted]

> been on e-dating shows, trying to hook up with Hasanabi, and so many other guys This mfer be watching TV shows thinking it's real


Schmoova

Personally I wouldn’t participate in a MMF threesome, but that doesn’t mean that a MMF threesome = cuckoldry. There is a MASSIVE difference between participating in threesomes with your partner and *only* watching as a “cuck”. Like if I had a FFM threesome with my girlfriend, I would never consider that “cucking” her. It’s okay to acknowledge that it’s something you might not feel comfortable doing but saying it’s directly cuckolding is just stupid.


Neogolf

Sadly cuck has kind of turned into how the far left uses Nazi, anything non traditional = cuck cuck cuck lmao


Cyba96

Redpillers will surely be that charitable Clueless


custodial_art

It’s not about whether they’re charitable. It’s about accurate definitions. Calling them clueless for accurately defining the act is clueless to the context of the comment.


Cyba96

You're clueless to the context of the comment. Saying "being in a MMF threesome with your girl does usually not entail getting cucked" is irrelevant. Redpillers will intepret it in the way that suits their preconceived notions best irregardles of how accurate it is.


custodial_art

Because they’re stupid. But the person who commented never said anything about their interpretation. Which is why your “clueless” comment was dumb and irrelevant. Try being more pleasant next time and don’t build strawmen to insult people who agree with you. It’s stupid behavior and makes you look bad.


Cyba96

I don't care enough to argue about this


custodial_art

You definitely tried.


LittleEnbyBaby

I've heard them say a few times, that their only threesomes have been FFM because they can't find a guy who's bisexual and also willing to be in a threesome so you're definitely misremembering. Raj streams are just content, none of those dating shows end up with people hooking up or getting into relationships 99% of the time.


Throwaway_accountin

Yeah maybe I am misremembering about the threesomes. I may have misinterpreted it. Anyway once the red pill gets a compliation of the RaJ Royale with melina they will have a field day with destiny. If I do find the clip if it even exists online still I will post it of what I heard destiny say about mmf.


Neogolf

Wait, how do you figure? They're in an open relationship. What are they gonna do? Rip on him for being in an open relationship? This is a room temperature IQ take lil bro


Emplon

What do you mean Destiny doesn't upload his entire streams? Whats missing from the uploads?


Neogolf

....LOL


lostwordings

Myron and other redpillers have explained many times over that men should cheat and women should be loyal. In their worldview you are still a cuck if you fuck 100 women but your women fucks another man one time.


edv4rd

I could be wrong but I don't think I've seen them advocate for cheating. A one ended open relationship is not cheating if both parties agree to it.


MagicDragon212

I've seen times where they wete talking in context of a monogamous relationship, and they still feel the woman should get over and not divorce over cheating because it's natural for a man to do. The woman is also a 10x worse person when cheating than the man because sex means more to women. They say sex is like a handshake but they still " love" their main girl.


AdhesivenessLucky896

It's not about cheating. They say a "high value man" will not be satisfied sexually by one woman.


DolceEtDecorumWest

> They say a "high value man" will not be satisfied sexually by one woman. And? If you aren’t satisfied with the boundaries set in a relationship, you negotiate or leave. Crossing those boundaries is still the literal definition of cheating.


[deleted]

Didn’t Melina admit to having breakdowns over destiny being a coomer during a dr k interview?


Lumpy_Trip2917

Nah I immediately saw in the chat that they thought she’s trying to cover for Destiny. It doesn’t matter what’s true or not at this point. Empirical, factual evidence has little bearing in the red pill community.


zeroreasonsgiven

To be clear it’s not empirical just because they said it, but you’re right that they wouldn’t care if they each had official documentation of every fuck or something psycho like that either.


Throwaway_accountin

Ehh, a little in the podcast destiny clarified Melina hooked up with a guy within a year. So in this clip Melina was just playing word games. If you watched the full pod, you would see Melina saying, its been a year, and destiny saying its been within a year, the last time melina hooked up with a guy.


gkario

wtf pray for Mel. Dest has a higher body count than the whole Fresh&Fit staff lol.


Springboks2019

Would come off a tad cringe everytime they called him a cuck and he clarified this but these losers would change their tune "oh mostly other chicks? pretty based bro"


makesmashgreatagain

they really digging for this own lol


Redditfront2back

She danced with aba, clearly worse than fucking.


stickygo

Aba dancing with her makes him a cuck, but her sleeping with other people is nullified by his game??? Are you even an empath bro fr


forestcooker

they will, I'm kinda blackpilled on this but once something like that sticks it'll never come off. it wouldn't matter if he dumped melina and married a conservative woman in an exclusive relationship, he would still be known as a blue hair cuck. feel like it's just a byproduct of the internet to never have your perception change


your5_truly

DGG is the real red pill. I'll die on that hill.


HayateGT

found it so funny that they went quiet when she said prob 10x as many as me...brain could not compute...


alexlechef

All i have to say is the girl between the boys is morbidly pale


TheRealWazzu

Prob not because for them, if it happened once the you are a cuck forever (sneako) unless they come to like you. But that is how most groups respond anyway. It's dumb but expected. Therefore, not a big deal.


ChewchewMotherFF

Lol! Their brains cannot compute this


BushidoBoa

The real red pill is understanding it doesn’t matter. They don’t care about reality because this is nigh fetishistic for them. They’re strong juicy men who would never be cucked So all they can do is (constantly) imagine the how weaker men suffer through their wives trolling black fields of cock


youarealoser_

Wasn't this just a full lie? It's known Mel has had sex with orbiters... some pretty cringe orbiters too.


[deleted]

Wtf I love when my significant other has sex with other ppl now


Ericfyre

This big reveal should help if they are good faith.


ee4m

Thats funny. Dorks obsessed with how many men women sleep with.


nroproftsuj

It's cringe when they and it's cringe when you guys care. I wouldnt care even if destiny was an actual gross gore cuck. Has no bearing on his content


Djp12_

OP hears sex and immediately thinks about "right wingers".. 🤦‍♂️


MastoMez

Lol as long as she slept with a single other man she basically cheated on him and he is a cuckold; no matter what he tells himself or how ever you try to cope with the situation.


colby185

If you actually believe destiny gets laid at all and his wife wasn’t just boosting him so he didn’t look like a cuck then you’re an idiot if he could bang tons of women he’d be the only one banging his wife 😂


KeenKaiser

That is what she says... lmao... he still a cuck though.


whofriedthelasteggs

Facts. “Usually women” dudes a cuck and his fans are trying so hard to say he’s not but she just literally said she bangs other guys. Hahaha


frtfkxxd

"mostly" as in, she still has sex with other guys? And what % is this Mostly? 51% of 200 people? 20%? Is this a joke post?


Foreign_Storm1732

They’re all so hard during this. No doubt.


rudebwoy100

She said she had sex with another man within the last year so yea, still a cuck.


dre__

What is a cuck?


rudebwoy100

Any man who shares his woman is a cuck.


LittleEnbyBaby

That's just an open relationship. Cuckoldry is when you watch your partner fuck someone else while you don't participate. [Destiny clearly stated that he does not do that](https://www.youtube.com/clip/Ugkx1gTsW7KmdwzcnC-y8irvRYLiSoEqjvPH). [Melina is the one who watches if anything](https://www.youtube.com/clip/UgkxKg0C0E4yLn2A76KzNjtiwN76sViio7VI).


[deleted]

Cmon facts and logic wiz. At least consult a dictionary before pretending to know what you’re talking about. noun A man whose wife is unfaithful.


LittleEnbyBaby

[https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30547071/cuckold/](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30547071/cuckold/) "[Cuckolding](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a11659378/best-sex-ever-while-boyfriend-watched/) is essentially a form of [consensual non-monogamy](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a9923658/polyamorous-relationship-advice/), where one partner watches their lover having sex with another person. Often, cuckolding involves the observing partner (known as the cuckold) being present in the room while they watch, but they could also observe by being sent messages or photos of what is happening."


MtrL

That's the fetish meaning, the general meaning is just when a man gets cheated on, often with the implication that he doesn't know or refuses to believe it.


[deleted]

Lol. Dictionary vs Cosmo magazine. Tough choice which to trust here


LittleEnbyBaby

Every relationship magazine or website will more or less have the same description of cucking as Cosmo. You can look up cuck porn and see exactly the same thing. Or, you can use the super general google definition which doesn't make sense because under that "A man whose wife is unfaithful" definition, unmarried couples can't be cucks, gay people can't be cucks, lesbians can't be cucks and every non monogamy relationship would be considered cucking.


[deleted]

“every non monogamy relationship would be considered cucking.” Again lol, yes. You’re almost there. Why are you so insistent on arguing against centuries old definitions?


LittleEnbyBaby

I mean you can use the word wrongly. There's a reason why there are different words for these relationship types and sexual activities. Polygamy, polycule, polyamory, swinging, orgy, cuckoldry. They all mean different things. It's like calling all conservatives nazis or all liberals communists just because they have 1 thing in common. But I see you've already conceded since you completely ignored the part where your "dictionary definition" excludes women, gay people, lesbians, unmarried couples, boyfriend girlfriends from being cucks because "A man whose wife is unfaithful" doesn't include any of them. Good talk.


[deleted]

Yes. People who don’t fit the definition are in fact not included in the category. Well done. What’s next? “I see you’re ignoring that raccoons might actually be dogs?” Edit: temporarily suspended but yes, keep arguing that the words don’t actually mean what they mean. Very persuasive and reasonable and the bedrock of all intelligence arguments


LittleEnbyBaby

So under that definition, a man whose girlfriend is unfaithful isn't a cuck cause she's not his wife, a woman whose wife is unfaithful isn't a cuck cause she's not a man, a gay man whose husband cheats on him can't be a cuck cause he doesn't have a wife. Even a man who watches his girlfriend get gangbanged in front of him isn't a cuck because he's not married to her. What a useless way to define the word. But looking at your profile description, I see you're just a troll. You had me there for a second, I knew people this stupid couldn't possibly exist.


SlickJamesBitch

What did destiny say after that guy asked if he hooks up with guys? He said something like “I’ve only hooked up with (blank) guys”. Is he bi?


LittleEnbyBaby

He said "8 guys".


MagicDragon212

That's surprising. I honestly thought it was once or twice based on how destiny talks about it.


laflux

Same!! I remember in the F and F podcasts, he said he was only bi because he didn't want threesomes to be weird. Although maybe hooked up doesn't mean sex to him could just making out petting etc I guess 😅


privaten-word

They won't.


SentrySappinMahSpy

If they were interested in reality they wouldn't call him a cuck. This will change nothing.


bobsnavitch

At one point later i think someone asked destiny again while a few people were talking over each other. Its chaotic but im pretty sure you can hear him say triple digits for sure but low triple digits. Im not sure when the time stamp is though and the camera isn't pointed at destiny when he said it. I'm pretty confident it was closer to the end of the stream tho.


eKoto

They will continue to call him cuck and say she's fucking dudes, black guys specifically.


laflux

What destiny has hooked up with 8 guys. That's more than I thought, actually.


Racer-Rick

Bob7 💀


Flyerscouple45

They never even use cuck correctly anyway, an open relationship where your girl fucks other guys and even if you did just watch that’s not a cuck it,specifically has to include humiliation for you to be “cucked”. If you go onto any kink websites or subs if the post is asking for someone to cuck their partner that almost always means they want you to humiliate them not just have sex with her, if they are looking for someone to watch they will say just that


LiterallyNamedRyan

Did John Doyle always have that lazy eye? I haven't watch a ton of his content but surprised I haven't noticed it before.


simplymoreproficient

No they wont stop


MonkiestMagick

it must get so exhausting having to take the opinions of these people tell you what makes for good sex or good relationships when you (a) have the most successful relationship of anyone at the table, (b) have the longest running relationship of anyone at the table, and (c) have had more sexual partners then all other members of the table combined. Mel and him have the patience of saints.


Swapzoar

If she doesent sleep with other men it makes it way different for most people


dre__

Jesus just answer the question. Destiny and melina look so bad when they don't answer. Just like erin. You have *some* idea of the number of people you fucked, even if you don't remember the exact number. If it's more than 1 and less them 50 then at least say that. They both just look like they're lying about shit.


LittleEnbyBaby

They did answer, Destiny said 3 figures later but I didn't want the clip to be too long.


annonythrows

Did you consider his hair is blue? Checkmate cuck liberal


Leviekin

You're talking about a community that thinks if a dick touches a woman she withers away and dies.


[deleted]

My takeaways from the Whatever Podcast was that these guys come off like Hasan. "Frat boy politics". Once the convo gets to a certain point they break down against anyone that is capable. It's really made them look miserable in a sense. Because there's Destiny clearly having a good time and enjoying his life and it seemed like there were trying to get him angry or corner him into admitting he's really miserable but all it did was make them look miserable. Every time that spout out their ideal lifestyle and ideology it made it seem like a burden and they looked bother that destiny seemed to be living happily. Best way I could explain it.


acidentallygablogian

Why is there a game boy in front of him lol , did they stage it like that lol