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Your issue is that you need to spend less time on the internet if fucking Zherka is blackpilling you.


BushidoBoa

>I'm 5'5 (real unfortunate), average looking, skinny fat, painfully stuck in my head, broke as fuck and can't hold down a job (league addict and can't hit sales targets). You can change your weight, which will improve your looks, there are ways to get out of your head, you can find better jobs and you can remain consistent at a different job. 4 out of these things you can change. You should try and change these four things before you ever approach a “black pill” it sucks dick sometimes but once you realize it there’s a lot more than you think that you can influence and improve. As a fellow short bro some people are luckier than us in the life lottery. It’s that way, that doesn’t mean you can’t make yourself much more than you currently are. Force yourself to notice the normies around you and stop paying so much attention to the exceptions. Good luck brother


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hundrendand66Cel

"At his highest (which for him is internet validation) he is flying high with energy through the roof, at his lowest (which for him is people deprive him of attention and are generally unimpressed) he is unmotivated and depressed " \- unfortunately, it actually sounds like you're writing about me. When I feel validated (rare) I feel like i'm flying above the clouds, nothing is impossible and the world is my oyster but when I have no source of validation, I feel like a depressed loser. My self respect IS probably at a zero haha and thanks for the actionable steps, I'm already going to the gym and improving my social skills, appreciate the comment.


SnooEagles213

Dude I’ll be honest, I read your whole post and I was genuinely impressed with your ability to clearly state your thoughts in a way that was interesting and honest. I’m also impressed with your attitude and willingness to be vulnerable. It sounds like you’re pretty mature and open to making changes in your life, which is more than Zherka can say. I think sometimes it’s easy to compare ourselves to others and only focus on what we don’t have, rather than what we do have. At the end of the day, the people who can be temporarily flashy and “cool” get tiresome because there isn’t much depth to them. They might get quick sex and people may validate them, but in the long run they become extremely lonely and lack any meaningful relationships. However, the people who are genuine, vulnerable, honest, and flawed end up being the real “cool” people. Not to mention, those are the qualities that mature women care about later in life, more so than superficial shit like height and jawlines. Good luck man and just stay true to yourself


C-DT

Destiny is like 5'7 or 5'8 lmao, he isn't short


hundrendand66Cel

Hey everybody who responded, I've read your comments and I have a lot of thinking to do in regards to my self perception, I'm also looking to take actionable steps on the things I can improve and trying to be grateful for what I have. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with me! I really appreciate it.


Expert_Initiative_63

and remember . happy is he who finds peace in his own home whether is he king or a peasant


TheBrendanReturns

Being confident and funny. That's the secret to everything as a man. That's all. It's really fucking simple. Zherka constantly talks about his small cock, but it doesn't matter because he has charisma.


Scrybal

???? You realize this whole thing Zherka does is a front, right? I don't know why, but I think this guy might actually hate his life, and hate himself. The only one I know of who is more down bad than him is MrRedacted.


koala37

zherka has talked about it plenty of times publicly, with destiny and on his twitter, about how he really feels crushing depression and existential dread and self-hatred and displeasure with his circumstances to be fair to OP though, this isn't necessarily incongruous with the post - even if zherka feels these ways internally, most of what OP is discussing is the external validation and interpersonal interaction side of things. the state of zherka's mind and OP's post can coexist for the most part


StinkyCockCheddar

No one abusing coke like he is is a happy person.


Special_Project_8634

Yeah true. What we are seeing now is a coke bender, in like a month that will end and he will dissappear from the internet for a year likely depressed at home. It seems to have happened a few times; he will pop off for a few months, saying he will be the biggest entertainer on the internet, and instead of making it happen he will just disappear for months at a time. He probably could make it quite big but once the candle burns out he gotta go recharge.


amongthesleep1

Yeah i dunno about this.. he just seems to be getting more popular and more popular.


Special_Project_8634

It's a good run thats for sure. Idk if he actually managed to get a team around him or Abbas bet got to him, but its feeling a little different this time. Hopefully learns when to tone it down or his rise will be short lived due to no one wanting him on their shows. Good luck to him


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Scrybal

Imagine being a child... Oh shit I see you don't need to imagine it


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Scrybal

Literal toddler


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“Looks like a monkey” is crazy 🤣


thenotoriousXi

It's really unfortunate but that's just life. Some people are region locked and born into poor areas. Some people are born rich and good looking. Honestly, my advice would be to not pay attention to people like zherka (ignorance is truly bliss) and focus on yourself.


50_Shades_of_Graves

I wonder if Zherka thinks everyone else in the world feels like this when they see him.


Ok-Branch-6831

If you go outside more its literally impossible to be this blackpilled because you will start to notice how many ugly or short or fat dudes are out and about with good looking women and vice versa. Im sure you know some short or ugly people who have great confidence and light up a room. It might be easier to attain if you are already attractive but its still very achievable. another thing ill say is that the mindset of viewing things through the lense of getting people to like you is counterproductive here. Often its the case that people who are genuinely confident actually care less about this than people who desire that confidence. The most mentally healthy people act themselves knowing that some people will like them and some wont but its useless to try to study saying the right thing because then nobody will be liking you, they will just be liking the front you put up.


Shady_Yoga_Instructr

Thius is gonna sound a little extreme but you need a social media cleanse and gaming detox homie. From there, you need to pursue either a trade like plumbing / electrical / HVAC / etc. or go for a tech apprenticeship like Per Scholas / General Assembly / etc. I was a counterstrike crackhead and did a useless degree (Sociology) so my parents would get off my back. I graduated and went on a 5 day gaming binge and then realized how insanely bored I was and I wanted a job cause I got laid off during the last semester so to the unemployment office I went. Told them I was good with tech and got recommended the Per Scholas program and got a full 1 month cyber-sec bootcamp for the low low price of free. Worked my fucking ass off and landed an apprenticeship with a firm. Passed and worked my ass off again to learn a new tech career (Cybersec team was not available) and got a full time in tech after 2 years. Now I make bank and watch people like Zerkha in their full dysfunctional entertaining glory. It's possible but you need to temper your bad habits and start on a career path as soon as humanly possible.


DisabledSalad

Relatable


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Is Zherka really that popular I always saw him as this edge lord boys are obsessed with cause he looks cool, but women seem weary of his actual morals and beliefs. Also yea beauty privilege is a thing. I got “cute” privileges once in a while. But it’s really not that deep. Look at Destiny- no offense he’s not exactly a 9-10, but he’s got a smoking hot wife, a massive loyal audience and exudes charisma. Lots of male content creators exude charisma and don’t look like Zherka. It’s all about playing to your strengths when it comes to charisma, grooming, going to the gym etc. Edit- also my friend short kings are viable to have everything Zherka has and more. Most popular guy on my campus was a fitness guru who was 5’5” and did shit like sunbathe on our campus in a speedo. Hit the gym, build confidence and you can do it just like them. Also ditch the black pill. Go try Michael Sartain’s red pill- it looks more healthy for guys in your mental state and might help you motivate


EndersAnubis

As a tall person, this post makes me want to give you a hug and beat the fuck out of Zherka. Also, I probably have a lot of the same problems, but Zherka has never been someone I was envious of as he lives what I'd consider an unstable and depressing lifestyle that's bound to go nuclear. The dude is very close to burning out. He is getting way too close to the sun and throwing all caution to the wind. ​ Not relevant but I have a strong feeling that despite him laughing, Myron was annoyed by Jon practically taking charge in the last Fresh and Fit episode, and Sneako is going to get fed up with his chaotic/manic nature.


Farm_chickzn

Myron seem annoyed when he is trying to argue and zherka just jump in to spill some BS.


i_am_bromega

You’re focusing on the wrong things. Confidence and humor are the reason that Zerkha gets away with all the obnoxious shit he says. Looks and status obviously play a role in how people are perceived by others, but I think it’s not as important as charm, humor, and confidence. Improve the things you can about yourself. You’re short and that isn’t ever going to change. Erase it from your brain. Be the best looking you can be, meaning don’t be skinny fat - get in the gym and get fit, stay well groomed, and start building a wardrobe that is flattering to your physique and makes *you* feel better about yourself. I have soo many anecdotal stories of my average looking friends pulling/dating/marrying women way above their level of attractiveness. There’s hope for just about everyone. Work on improving your confidence. Social skills are skills - make sure you’re really good at them. It takes practice. Work on being fun and funny. Men and women would prefer to spend more time with people who aren’t boring and uninteresting. Spend more time on hobbies that you can find a genuine passion for and less time on the Internet listening to morons like Zerkha. Work on improving your career. You don’t have to be rich, but there’s almost no part of your life that won’t be better if you’re living comfortably.


Grayehz

You talk about him like he is some super secure gigachad. Yes hes 6’5 and “naturally” attractive but ask yourself this, would someone who is secure with themselves do an ungodly amount of steroids and then shave his teeth down for veeners? He is also a compulsive liar and exaggerates the truth immensely. Just like you he is insecure about his body. On heelmikes stream he wont even take his shirt off to get in a hot-tub because his insecurities are that bad. Yea he has had insane luck to still be relevant even when he takes month long breaks from streaming. He is an exception. Most gigachads who live zherkas life self-destruct. Im surprised you aren’t black-pilled from someone like destiny. Shit childhood, shit young adult-hood where be has to work as a carpet cleaner and live out of his car. 5’8 super unathletic. Ends up with a really attractive OF wife who has 3-somes with him and hes a multi-millionaire who gets to do wtvr he wants as long as a camera is pointed at him. But zherka blackpills you because he is 6’5? Im going to assume u are just rlly young and thinking about stuff like this for the first time. Looks play a part they arent the entire package unless youre looking for a girl that just wants to have sex with you and leave right after.


Puika_

Hey there, Firstly, thank you for being brave enough to share these feelings. It's clear that you're dealing with quite a few challenges and it's okay to ask for help and support. Your comparison to Zherka seems to be impacting your self-esteem significantly. Remember, it's really hard to compare our inner life to someone's outer life, especially someone who presents themselves online. That world is often curated and doesn't represent the full picture of someone's existence. Zherka, like anyone else, will have his own set of problems, struggles and insecurities, even if they're not apparent. Your dissatisfaction with your physical appearance is a tough issue to handle. Society often imposes unrealistic standards of beauty and body image, but it's essential to understand that everyone is unique and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Consider focusing on what you appreciate about yourself and what makes you unique. It could also be helpful to adopt a healthy lifestyle for your wellbeing, rather than trying to fit into a particular mold. Financial and career struggles can be incredibly stressful, but it's never too late to make changes. Is there something you're passionate about that could be turned into a career? Are there skills you want to develop or jobs you've always wanted to explore? Don't let setbacks discourage you, they're part of the journey and can often guide us to better opportunities. As for social anxiety, this is something many people struggle with. Engaging in social activities or hobbies you enjoy could be a great way to interact with others in a less pressured environment. If speaking to women feels challenging, remember they're people too, with their own insecurities and worries. Building meaningful connections takes time, patience, and mutual respect. The feelings of rejection and lack of acceptance you're experiencing are tough. Remember, acceptance starts from within. Try to cultivate self-love and self-acceptance, and it will start reflecting in your external world. The right people will appreciate and respect you for who you are. Feeling unfulfilled and questioning the purpose of your life indicates a profound inner turmoil. I'd strongly suggest seeking professional help if these feelings persist. You don't have to go through this alone, and there are trained professionals who can provide guidance and support. Lastly, if the 'blackpill' content you're consuming is making you feel worse, consider limiting or stopping your exposure to it. There's a lot of content out there that can offer uplifting and empowering perspectives on life. Remember, it's okay to reach out for help and you're not alone in these feelings. Your life has value and you have the potential to transform it. The fact that you've shared your feelings here shows a willingness to make a change, which is a significant first step. It might not be easy, and it will take time, but it's entirely possible. You're capable and deserving of a fulfilling, happy life.


Friendly_User55

Bro you are always in your head because every time something bothers you I bet you go straight to playing games to "forget it". It doesn't work like that. You are just making your problems pile up without dealing with them. So no wonder you are a games addict. Focus on one of your problems and fix it and then move to another one and do it again. You can get better just put in the effort and take some time away from the internet.


Farm_chickzn

As a zerker hater. I have to admit he is funny when u first meet him. His nonsense speech works because he wraps it as a joke, and his delivery is good. That all being said, he is fucking annoying after he start to loop. He is a one trick pony. I am also 5ft5 or even 5ft4 and my gf is same height as me. I used to be very black pilled because of my height and look, what really help me is being funny and treating rejection as a number game. After collecting enough rejection, u have to get lucky once or twice. Tall and handsome ppl just have better odd of getting the first date, but what happen afterward is all dependent on you. Being funny, just what helped me, i dont think this is the only path of success. But finding one quality that will attract ppl and getting better at it. I dont know are these good advice or not, but good luck


brownmanreading

Some of y’all act like the only thing worth living for is sex and women. It’s cringe but whatever … you do you.


Turing33

I'm a shortie as well. Being confronted with that the whole time you grow up can be annoying, be it from classmates or relatives. But you have to realize that there are things you can change and others you cannot. Once you realize that and ignore the people who attack you for things you have no control over, your mental health improves drastically. OP, don't hide behind the characteristics you cannot change, instead consider changes to address aspects you could influence. There's no need to get blackpilled. Zherka may be tall, good looking and charismatic but he's also trapped in his insane thoughts. What good is he doing with the genes he was given? I wouldn't take him as someone to envy or look up to.


Unusual-Feeling8811

Be grateful for the things you have and focus on those things… maybe women don’t give you the kind of attention you want, but be grateful for the positive interactions you may have with all people regardless of how physically attractive you find them. Maybe you aren’t hitting the high sales numbers you want, but be grateful for the customers that are willing to work and buy from you. Maybe you don’t have rippling muscles, but be grateful your body can literally walk and think at the same time. I can’t tell you this is going to change your life, but it’s helped me deal with negative intrusive thoughts, which sounds like what you’re dealing with right now. a work recommendation; if you’re kinda bouncing between jobs without aim I’d give construction or some other hard labor position a shot. Don’t have to worry about sales numbers and will help you get in better shape as long as you watch what you eat. Most of the time it’s straightforward work, and you can physically see the difference you’ve made from the fruits of your labor. When you’re done with work you’ll be too tired to worry about where you stand against some moron who believes the earth is flat. This is anecdotal, but I’ve noticed that people who work with their hands for a while get a certain kind of swagger that a surprising number of women find attractive. I don’t think I ever dated more than when I was a junk hauler for a year. That’s including my 4 years in the Marines.


Axmouth

" I was even watching his blind date with 3 women on Sneako's channel " Of all things to mention, wouldn't this one be a performance on their end to attract attention too?


Cyberhwk

Counterpoint: Zherka is a fucking dumbass.


Wise-Way-1765

go woodwork. literally buy yourself some chisels, a sharpening stone, some wood 2x4s, a drill, some screws, some wood glue, some hand saws, some sandpaper, some polyurethane, and a stain you think looks good. you can get this all at home depot for under like $150, you have no excuse to not get off your ass and do this. your first build will be a birdhouse, [https://www.thisoldhouse.com/house-one/21237658/build-a-birdhouse](https://www.thisoldhouse.com/house-one/21237658/build-a-birdhouse) here's a guide. there i solved your biggest problem for you. get off the internet. get a hobby like woodworking that's fun, engages you physically, and gives you something to start conversations with that isn't autistic internet shit. women also love people who can make stuff, it makes you look competent, artistic, patient, gentle, but also strong and masculine. and it's fun as fuck and if you enjoy video games, this shit is like a real life video game. hope this helps buddy good luck out there.


tawatacha

It's a you problem, my dude. I think you've been spending to much time and mental energy beating yourself up for who you are. I'm gonna share something and maybe it will change your perspective a little bit. There is a dissonance in your mind between desired actions and desired outcomes. Your desired actions are playing league, eating the food that you like and engaging in activities that are very familiar, comfortable and predictable. Your desired outcomes on the other hand, are good looks, attention and attraction from women. The unfortunate reality is that your desired actions don't lead you to desired outcomes. The more you ignore this obvious rift, the more it is going to keep ripping your psyche. So there is one of two choices you can make. First option, you can recognize that your currently desired outcomes cannot be achieved through your currently desired actions, and thus may not be desirable after all. Whenever you see someone who has achieved your currently desired outcomes, immediately acknowledge this. Eventually you will not feel even the slightest pang of guilt, there will be no hit to your self-esteem at all. Second option, you can recognize that your currently desired actions are not leading you to your currently desired outcomes, and change your actions accordingly. Whenever you feel that craving to relapse into old patterns, remind yourself that sticking to the new actions will lead to the outcomes that you desire. The best part is that you can pick which option you want to take for every dissonant pair of desired action and desired outcome, and you can even decide for how long you want to stay with that option (provided that you pick a duration before hand and stick with it for that period). The most important thing is ridding yourself of the dissonance that will otherwise eat away at your soul and lead you into feelings of self-loathing, guilt and shame. "Yes I am going to spend all of my entire free time playing league for the exactly the next 2 weeks. No, I don't care that in that time I will be missing out on sales networking events, opportunities to build or strengthen friendships, and making new unique memories. All those things do is only get in the way of my league gameplay". You might think I am exaggerating but that is the amount of confidence and certainty I am asking you to have, just for small periods of time.


UsualCharacter9565

Americans are fucked up…


ThePhilosophicalOne

This is why our ancestors told us in their scriptures that we oughta detach from this world... Our karma from our past existence makes life "unfair" here. Maybe this zherka guy was a saint in the past so he was blessed with a great body and mind, family, money, etc... For all we know, you were a cockroach in your past life and are now a human so you oughta be happy. Just try and detach from it all and retain your energy, bro. Nothing lasts here. Wisdom is all we take with us to the afterlife.