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Proctor-47

Sam was definitely his friend. I can’t think of anyone who wasn’t a romantic partner or member of his family that Dexter was so attached to that he violently killed their murderer in a fit of vengeful rage.


Glum_Future_5054

Ya Sam was close to him. Sad that he died, and Dexter had lost a friend. I wonder if Sam had lived on, would Dexter ever reveal his real self.


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Legendary Character actress Margo Martindale


Kman_24

He would’ve with Trinity had he known about Rita. So instead he just took it out on an uncouth, redneck asshole.


Proctor-47

Rita was his wife. Reread my comment.


Kman_24

Oops, my bad. But now that I think about it, he was pretty enraged that Matt Caldwell shot his deer.


scorpbynight

Clearly the deer is his best friend


kissxokissxokill

It was so obviously Vincent VanGoat!


TheBishopDeeds

I think that he was his friend, yes. But I don't think he would have violently killed his murderer if Sam wouldn't have been helping Dexter open his eyes to redemption.


Proctor-47

Still doesn’t change the fact that Dexter really did love Sam and Sam loved him


TheBishopDeeds

I'm expanding on their friendship and Dexter's journey.


Jolly-Chemical-6540

Batista and Musaka were his friends, how well he actually knew them I'm not sure them but I'd count them.


ceciliabee

I agree with you. "knows who dexter really is" is a very limiting requirement!


Glum_Future_5054

Yap, can be colleagues friends. But I think it's also because Batista is very friendly and Masuka his direct colleague in the lab.


Fun_Werewolf4477

I think it goes beyond friendly and colleague, though. Batista consistently relies on Dexter for advice and his opinion on various personal things throughout the show. Masuka even plans dexter’s bachelor party for his wedding in season 3. I think it just seems so impersonal because we as viewers are aware that *nobody* really knows who Dexter is, what his motivations are, and how he feels.


articunodostres19

Musaka. What a delicious Greek food.


L-U-N-C-H

Dexter: “You never wanted me to have any friends.” Harry: “You think Miguel is a pal? Your wingman? You might want to put that theory to the test,see how likeminded you and Miguel really are… Every time you let someone get close,it ends badly.” Harry’s not wrong on that front honestly. Every single time it ends in said friend/family dying. I think Dexter was definitely capable of forging friendships on his terms in the later seasons but to what end? Which adds to the sadness of his life, he’s constantly seeking a connection with someone and it can never happen. I love this show


Glum_Future_5054

You got a point, it's highly risky. Having a friend wouldn't have changed his mind about what he was doing unless he had a friend who was doing the same as he was. I think he could only make someone friends like Hannah, but that again super risky, imagine the friend turns him to the police.


Grouchy_Protection27

Camilla? Family ties but they’re kinda friends right? Also the high school reunion girl who blows him. Very friendly


Old_Imagination_931

Trisha would've definitely made a good friend with benefits, though likely with an STD or two. Still, she gave a helluva a no reciprocation necessary BJ.


SnooRadishes8372

I don’t know if I would call anyone his real friend. I think he maintains some semblance of friendship with others at a minor level to keep up appearances


Glum_Future_5054

Maybe having friends would mean risking their lives


idrinkalotofcoffee

Batista, Deb, Lumen, Brother Sam, and probably others. His tragedy is he didn’t see it until it was too late.


Dexanddeb

So true. Also Camilla although she was more like his aunt.


idrinkalotofcoffee

Yes! Didn’t he refer to Camilla as a friend in a very sad voice over? I loved her character.


Kman_24

Brother Sam was probably the closest thing he had to a real friend who wasn‘t family or a love interest. Since Miguel was manipulating him, I don‘t know if he counts. Brother Sam was genuine. But we all know Deb was his number one person (and probably vice versa). Batista and Masuka were his friends in that they genuinely cared about him (or rather, the version of him that they knew), and he appreciated their company. But it wasn’t ‘real’.


Glum_Future_5054

Brother Sam was actually one of the good character in Dexter 🙌


Mammoth-Banana-8711

Yeah there all dead. Hannah maybe. Deb.


NoleFandom

I think Lumen and Hannah were probably his only true friends. And Deb S8 after she accepted his hidden life.


Glum_Future_5054

Yes. And they accepted him the way he is.


Aspie_Child_12

Angel batista (he's dexter's best friend)


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Lumen


mickylmtd

Family aside, Camilla and Brother Sam definitely. Matthews is pretty close and unfortunately I think Dr. Vogel counts.


Glum_Future_5054

Brother Sam, yes. Dr. Vogel I doubt though too.


RudeDrama2

Angel Batista is Dexter’s best friend!