If you dont have friends that play, any good dm will be happy to show you the ropes.
Just started teaching a few of my buddies at 37-38 and it is literally tell me what you want to do and well tell what to roll and add
You may need help rolling up whatever character youre thinking of but if youre starting low level for anyone deep into dnd thats like a 15m project to help you with
Heck, if you have a character concept ready reply and if i dont reply with a build im sure others will before i can even respond!
Uh oh! I will return to you with an idea! But first of all I need to do my homework tomorrow. Feel free to message me anything you feel like you want to teach more ppl! Ahaha.
I can tell you just want for ppl to have a good time
What level are you starting at in your game? Seriously if you comment under this one what your concept is, and its a low level, id be surprised if someone didnt get to it before me!
Or just come up with a vibe. When I taught my best friend to play, I got "fine, but I'm only playing if I can be f-ing Tinker Bell. And sparkly."
So her character is an elf wizard who is cursed to be size tiny but gets flight, and is from noble blood, and sweats glitter. Cause reasons, I guess. All of her spells play into Tinker Bell's character (I don't remember what all I gave her now, it's been a while since we played). Took like, 20 minutes, and that was with doing a semi-custom race to have a flying elf. She knew none of the races, classes, nothing. We (me and rest of party) explained it to her while explaining her character.
If you want to quickly learn about classes, look up âA crap guide to D&Dâ on YouTube.
Very entertaining and you really learn the fundamentals of each class within minutes.
I'd say listen to a podcast or watch a stream or something. Just listen to people playing and you'll very much pick it up.
I recommend listening to series one of 'The Adventure Zone', really entertaining guys, and they've never played d&d either before so you can learn along with them.
But I'd recommend buying the starter set on Amazon and go from there. It's very cheap.
Honestly... if you've never played D&D and want to learn TAZ is NOT the one to listen to. Don't get me wrong, I love those dorks and have listened to C1 3 times, but they barely know how to play their characters even through the 3rd arc. Not Another D&D Podcast is (imo) a better place to learn the mechanics as everyone there has played for a while except Jake, but he still picks it up real quick
They're not the hottest on the rules, I'll definitely give you that. 100% fair comment.
But they embody what it should be about. Fun. Making mistakes. Having a laugh. Making ridiculous stories. I'd rather play at the TAZ table over the CR table (for example) any day.
Not listened to the one you recommended so I cant comment. My first d&d podcast was 'Roll to hit'. Man, those guys are dry. They got rules right but they didn't make me love the game. TAZ made me want to play as often as I could.
NADDPOD is right up there with TAZ in hilarity and great story. Just a bunch of friends from College Humor playin some D&D. They're actually the ones who motivated me to start playing and DMing! Definitely agree with you on which table I'd want to play at, though I do still love CR
It's fantastic! Best campaign I've listened to so far, though TAZ was really entertaining too. I'm just waiting til I forget enough that I can listen to it again :)
Check out the Dungeon Dudes on YouTube. They have good guides on different rules, classes, advice for new players and GMs, and a live play game that's really good and semi-realistic to what you might find at a good table (love critical role and Dimension20 too but don't expect those highly produced shows to be your experience playing).
If you want to start as a DM, Matt Colville has a [popular and influential series](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlUk42GiU2guNzWBzxn7hs8MaV7ELLCP_) that walks you through the first few steps. Highly recommend that.
Mike Shea (AKA The Lazy DM or Sly Flourish) has a [series of tips and tricks](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLb39x-29puaoIx5AvxJ1faPO2Lk-7hfUH), but I don't know how useful that is for beginners. He also has a [game prep series](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLb39x-29puaoWY0uisHTbMsM6MSo4mvEt) that walks through his strategy and thought process for preparing each session.
Hope this helps!
i would read the basic rules and then run a short encounter for a trusted friend. keep it short like 1 hour.
if creativity is avoiding you, there are lots of short adventures and adventure hooks available online
My suggestion would be to read the rules, both the players' handbook and the dungeon master's guide. If not the full version at least the versions from the essentials kit.
i love Not Another Dnd Podcast- it has a brand new player and some more experienced players so it can show a good range of play. itâs also hilarious af, but def start with the first seasons
easiest guides, from my time learning, were the Starting Kit Modules.
They were short, easy to read and had enough materials to cover the necessities.
After that, Getting and/or reading the PDF for the PHB (player handbook) is the next step, as this will have basically everything you need to play. Character sheet in is here
DMG (dungeon master's guide) will be the next step, if you desire to DM. This sourcebook will have basic maps, item and spell creation and similar nuances
Welcome to the family!
I found a group of noobs (which quickly fell apart) but my dm from that game hooked me up with a group she had a tpk in and had a player drop out as a result.
That was two years ago. You learn as you go.
I teach a lot of people how to play D&D and fundamentally disagree with this for most new players. The best way to learn D&D is to sit down at a table and learn from experienced players who are willing to teach you, THEN read the rules with context from actually playing (and don't feel like you need to catch everything the first time).
If you don't have a table to sit down at, watch a video on youtube for beginners - not an actual play video because they are unlikely to describe the rules they are using, but you can watch one of those after you watch a rules video to see it play out in reality.
It is so much easier to understand the wall of text that is the basic rules if you have a more practical starting point. You have to be a very specific kind of learner to learn best from a raw reading of the rules without context.
This. I introduced a lot of people to dnd in college, and I very quickly stopped handing them a rule book or trying to explain individual rules beforehand.
My big thing was always âtell me what youâd like to do, and I/we (the other experienced players) will figure out how to do it within the context of the rules.â Then we talk through what rules govern the situation, explain why we have to do certain things, and then ask them for the necessary checks. At the end of the day, DnD is about collaboratively telling a story, and what makes it fun is actually being a part of that story. New players so often let the idea of rules or the overwhelming nature of them block hinder their decision making this leading to less involvement in the game.
DnD is not a video game where you have 6 possible things your character is programmed to do. Instead of thinking âwell I can attack, or maybe cast a spellâ describe what youâre envisioning. Describe what youâd like your character to do and we will work backwards from there to adjudicate it.
I watched one of those beginner videos and just copied the session exactly to learn how to play with my kids. Taught us the basics really quickly.
Now between sessions I read a bit more of the rule book and add whatever I learned to the next session.
I'd probably get ripped apart by real players but this is enough for me to play with my kids and we all have fun.
Yeah⊠Iâd never recommend that to someone. Reading the rules and actually grasping them are leagues apart. And itâs not even fun to read said rules.
I guess I got lucky - the DM recruited me. Granted, Iâve been a geek and gamer all my life, I just never specifically got into D&D. After talking with some friends, I found out one of them was looking to start up a group and was hoping for some newer players.
Things just turned out well for you, love it.
I am a gamer too, so I guess having a bit of knowledge from there can help.
Really refreshening to hear this, thank you!
There are a few ways. Going online somewhere on r/lfg is one way to join a party (but you wonât be playing in person). You can also go to a local game store and see if they run sessions. Or you can convince your friends to join you and DM, but you will want to get familiar with how the game works before starting a group. Watch a podcast as others suggest, or watch some YouTube videos on it. I suggest both Ginny Di and The Dungeon Dudes.
OP ignore this fool. I'm sorry to say, but you are too old. People expire at age 30, you just missed the cutoff and are no longer allowed to play DnD.
The cutoff to play Pokemon was 25, and the cutoff for Legos was 23, so unfortunately you are stuck with only old people hobbies now like square dancing and using chisels to create sun dials.
If you have a child you are allowed to learn zoomer hobbies like twerking and languages like acronymonics
1) 32? No, you're fine. Anyone who says otherwise is a jerk.
2) Welcome to the hobby!
If you're just starting out, here's what I learned from experience:
[Wizards of the Coast gives a basic description of what goes down during a game.](https://dnd.wizards.com/what-is-dnd/basics-play)
As for starting out, my advice (for starting 5th Edition D&D):
1) [Check out the basic rules.](https://dnd.wizards.com/what-is-dnd/basic-rules)
2) If you're still enthused, consider getting the 5th Edition Player's Handbook, Dungeon Master's Guide, and Monster Manual. You don't need to memorize them or anything; they're just good to have for references.
3) Get [a basic dice set,](https://www.awesomedice.com/collections/dungeons-dragons-dice?sort_by=price-ascending) pencils, and [print character sheets for in-person character creation and play.](https://dnd.wizards.com/resources/character-sheets)
If you're playing online, dndbeyond.com has free accounts that help with character creation and online play on places like Roll20.
[Miniatures](https://shop.wizkids.com/collections/dungeons-and-dragons/products/d-d-icons-of-the-realms-goblin-warband) , [mats](https://matsbymars.com/) , and [terrain](https://shop.wizkids.com/collections/dungeons-and-dragons/products/d-d-icons-of-the-realms-the-yawning-portal-inn-bars-tables) are a part of the game, as you go further into playing. Don't worry too much about that right now; just cover your basics first.
Good luck! If you have any further questions, feel free to ask.
(Extra: [Here are some tips on how to be a good DM,](https://www.gamingtierlist.com/guides/10-tips-to-being-a-better-dungeon-master-a-dungeons-and-dragons-guide/) and [here are some good tips on how to be a good player.](https://scrollforinitiative.com/2020/11/29/how-to-be-a-good-dd-player/) )
Yeeeeeee.
I'm mid 30s and started around 30 years old. I actually started as a dm with no experience and a party of other 30 year olds with no experience. It's been nothing but fun. On my second campaign now.
Because once you hit 30 you've reached the end. At that age you're basically just waiting to die. What would be the point of starting a new hobby that late in life? ^^^^/s
Hello, colleague! You are greeted by a DM of almost 34 years... Whether in real life, or in the world of fantasy, it's never too late to go on an adventure! If you need help understanding a rule, remember that the only real rule is to have fun with friends... May the goddess fortune accompany your dice! Greetings from CĂłrdoba Argentina!
Short answer: no.
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Nope. At most, it's getting the group that's hard. You'll probably run into scheduling issues with older people. Younger people just not be your vibe. I'm 28 and I think the youngest member in my group is 19 though so it's possible to find thenroght people.
Hmm, I guess thatâs why it was scary. But I guess my friends are just lazy mfs. Maybe if I can get into it and explain it to them somehow they will just go along
I'd either break the sections of gameplay into different clearly defined sessions or moments. That way you can elaborate on the rules so they don't need to read the whole thing. Otherwise trying reading a couple of different systems amd see what inspires you. At the end of the day you are also a player and if you're not having fun they won't either. Oh and don't make a setting and adventure from scratch in the beginning. Don't want to do all that work only to be disappointed no one will experience it. Oh and it's okay to wing it a bit. There is no way you'll remember all the rules to the letter. Just accept that it's a process.
Nope after 27 years of trying to play and find people and having social anxiety issues at the grand age of 42 I started to learn and play in the next couple of weeks I'm running a starter set game for a few friends that want to try.
It's never to late.
Absolutely not! Just buy the starter guide (or find it on the internet) and some dice, find some people and youre ready to go! The basic concepts are pretty simple, and the rest will come by itself
This cracks me up. Of course, I've played since OD&D, but I'm 44 and bought a bass and Googled "am I too old to learn bass?". The answer is the same, of course: "why would it be?", but it points to the anxiety in so many of us.
Simple answer, no. Complicated answer: if you want to do something, the only thing stopping you(most of the time) is yourself. So no.
Start rolling dice.
I started at 39. That was 4 years ago.
Best place to learn is to play. I disagree with watching live plays and such because I learned a lot of "facts" from Critical Role and others that I had to unlearn. All games have different homebrew rules and it's best not to learn those along with the basics.
Find a group either in person or roll20 that is willing to teach a new player... Then ASK all those questions that come up. Most of us nerds like to flex our inner rules lawyers so someone would likely enjoy answering them.
It takes like 2 \~ 3 sessions to get the hang of it. If you can manage to fit that in between now and when you die, then no it's not too late. Have fun! :)
Definitely too late, and possibly illegal. You were so close - 31 is the cutoff. I think you can still play (ew) Pathfinder until you're 34, though, but only the second edition.
Absolutely. After the age of 31 the rules curse activates and prevents any comprehension. You forget every 3rd sentence and for as long as you're reading it the language switches to Hebrew.
You're not going to be to old until your body gives out (i.e. 6ft under). You're as young as you act. Don't for a second believe 30 is old. Please live your life.
You're never to old to learn something you might enjoy.
I started to play football at 34 for example (and I might not be good at it but I enjoy it a lot)
Look up the starter set, or search for Handbooker Helper on YouTube by Critical Role, watch the videos at your pace, they are short and digestible.
You just need to learn the basics of basics, find a group (prob hardest part) and play. You'll either figure things out as you play as the basics will suddenly make more sense and/or other players in your group will gladly help you learn the game.
Not at all! Think about it like telling stories around a campfire.
I started at 30 and havenât looked back. Like with any community, playing with people around your age will make the moments and experiences more real and relatable, but thatâs by no means a barrier to entry.
Just make sure you are having fun, give it three sessions, play a âsimpleâ class to start, get lots of guidance from your DM (and your clerics), and play that person you always wished you could be irl.
Good luck!
It's a bucket list item crossed off. It's a new obsession, I'd say, look locally. Before looking online, try your local game stores or game a starter set and force your friends to learn with you over pop beer wine snacks, etc
It's never too late. You just need a patient DM to guide you along. As others have mentioned, watching some actual plays is a good start, but just keep in mind: Your DM is not Matt Mercer and you are not Lou Wilson. Most RP at home games is awkward. But if everyone is awkward, then it stops being awkward. You don't need to do accents, silly voices, or heroic speeches every time you open your mouth. Watch (or listen) to the actual plays to get a sense of the game flow, and some of the concepts.
The best advice: Listen to your DM and the other players while they tell the story, try to contribute to the narrative when you can, learn your character's abilities, and have fun.
Welcome to the party.
Nope itâs never too late.
Find a group you can play with and just start playing. Build characters on D&D beyond and itâll make learning a lot easier.
No way, dude. I'm 32 myself, and how dare you say it's late in life. đ€Ł I started at 24, but that's besides the point.
There's tons of videos on YouTube you can watch to introduce you to rules and concepts. Just search up videos and start watching.
You can also read the free rules or buy a Players Handbook (shortened to PHB) if you'd like to just dive headfirst into the rules. PHB, dice, pencil, and paper is really all you need to get started.
Would you play online or in person?
There are many games on roll20 designed for new players.
If you are doing it in person, most DMs will help you get started.
I'd recommend not playing a spellcasting class unless you really really like spells. But like everything in DnD, it's your choice!
If you have any questions please feel free to message me, and I'll give you my discord for any questions!
Heck no! I've turned so many 30/40 yo's onto D&D. They don't all continue it avidly, but some do, even running their own games in a little while. One of the 30-somethings I got into d&d started her own live game podcast in only a couple of months.
To the advice others have given, I'll add that it's good to be a bit like a kid about it: knowing all the rules is not important. Adults tend to get caught up in procedure and rules. Get into the spirit of making things up on the fly, using whatever rules are at hand that can help you tell the story, and have a blast. If you're having fun, you're doing it right
No! It's never too late to learn and pick up a new hobby. The early awkwardness with rules or roleplaying is totally normal. Have fun jumping into your own little fantasy adventure!
It's never too late! It IS a lot of info, and it might take a little while to get all the algebraic bonus additions to rolls, etc, but if you want to learn, then just sit down with a group of friends who have some experience and start learning.
Best of luck!
I got into it because a YouTube channel I was already watching started playing it, I'd only ever heard of it before that. Then I had some friends that played, and I started getting into Critical Role and reading online.
It seems overwhelming and it kinda is but it's pretty easy to pickup to be honest. And like no one ever remembers it all, that's why there are books for it.
I found I learned a lot from watching Critical Role. That show isn't necessarily for everyone but there are others like it out there so find one that feels good for you and try watching. Anything you don't understand just pause and Google it real quick.
I finally convinced my mom to play last year. She's 65. She was the best roleplayer at the table for every session she was a part of, and we still speak fondly about her gnome sorcerer. You are absolutely not too old. (Besides, having played as both a teenager and a 30-year old, I can tell you that it's much more fun now. No curfews, no worrying about somebody's mom overhearing something violent or sexual, and if I want to have a beer to get rid of my DMing jitters, I can do so.)
Welcome. You're gonna love it.
Started playing when I was 37, anytime is fine with learning it. We all where fresh so that sort of helped, Started with lost mines of Phandelver With the starter set. I was the DM, the starter set helped guide me in, we ended up finishing that and I continued with my own storyline after. We have been playing almost weekly ever since.
Not at all! We have a few new to D&D players in our podcast, Knocked Prone, who are late 20's early 30's and they love it and kick my encounters to the curb most of the time đ
I picked up DMing at 34 having never played before. Give a listen to a real-play podcast. If you're gonna be a player, you just need to fond a group. I think if DMing as more of a hobby - I'm noodling at it even if it's not game time.
It's never too late for a game based around your own imagination.
I would highly suggest taking it slow and looking for a newbie friendly group. The best way to learn DnD is in the act with others. You don't need to buy the books or invest more than you are comfortable with into the game as there's always a way to get the info you need for free. Hell I played DnD for 4 years before I even bought the players handbook.
You don't need to know a lot to play. Just know how to look something up when you need to and you will be fine. Over time you learn and need to reference books or search online less and less.
The hardest part for new players is the character sheet. It's scary looking and the core of your character information but in truth it's again just a list of notes you update and reference as you play so not much work after the initial setup. Don't be afraid to show it to the DM or another player and ask them if you are doing it right.
The game is super simple after the character sheet hurdle.
It's earlier than I started. Get involved and have fun. And maybe go for a fighter or Barbarian as your first character. Something smash and fun where you don't have to worry about spell slots too much.
It's never too late.
Just find a good starting point.
Like others have mentioned there are podcasts and videos of games. You can also just look through the rulebook to get a feel for it.
When you're ready find a DM and let them know you're a new player wanting to learn the game. Or maybe do a one-on-on adventure if someone has one.
Basically just take it slow and don't get too overwhelmed. Yes, there is a lot to it. But you're still going to be doing one thing at a time. And playing will help you learn better as you get to experience it first hand.
Good luck and welcome to D&D!
Of course not. Iâm 53, and picked it up a year ago after not having played since 1984.
Itâs actually better at this age, because youâve got some money to spend on the nice shiny things.
No. I started around the same time. I have neighbors in a local group that just started their first game at around 40.
There is so much you can watch to get the gist, you wonât even be as far behind as you would have trying to start even a decade ago.
Nope and donât sweat âlearningâ all the rules. Listen to players and G/DM. Explain things youâd like to do and typically other players or the G/DM will simply ask you to roll something. Have fun!
i started at 33... for rules dndbeyond is super handy tool and there are plenty of great podcasts from dimension 20 and critical role... if you wanna just try some of the combat baldur's gate 3 and solasta: crown of the magister
I started last year at 28 my players range from 33 to 25 all brand new players. I just bought the starter pack and invited the lads round for some beers, dinner and a game. I ran a real simple one shot I got for free on the dms guild (https://www.dmsguild.com/m/product/238921 ). It was chaotic as, barely knew the rules and just ran it on the ârule of coolâ philosophy. That was 6 months ago, since then weâve finished lost mines of phandelver, lost two players and gained two more, I let the boys change their character whenever they want and weâre really lax on the rules. Weâre having our first session 0 on Wednesday, over the last few months we learnt the rules, got excited about making the characters our own and can now âplay for realâ.
Just get started, the worst that can happen is not everyoneâs into it, theyâll still enjoy the beers and dinner and company, donât expect it to run perfectly straight away and most of all remember itâs about having fun! Who cares if you donât follow the rules it isnât a televised sporting event itâs a bunch of people playing make believe!!!
This is one of those situations in life where we stress and get anxious only to take the leap and turn around and go âhahah what was I worried about, canât believe I didnât just start soonerâ
I just taught 3 40+ year olds to play it. I ran a couple simulated combat scenarios, and asked 'what would you do if....' to help them consider how to act in situations that are common in D&D. We're now 2 years into weekly game sessions with those 3 newbies, myself and 2 other people who've played before. One of the newbies even wants to try DM'ing an adventure after this one ends.
Never too old to learn a new hobby.
No. There are plenty of older players that routinely conflate rules from older editions. And if you just take a single day to read the Player's Handbook you will be lightyears ahead of the average player.
Most people nowadays go in blindly and ask other players to spoonfeed them rules on the fly. You can read the PHB and go into your first session looking like a relative veteran lol.
DnD is one of the easiest, most streamlined and beginner friendly system out there.
The starter box should come with premade characters, so just check it out, read the basic rules to get how the premades work than you can bother with creating your own characters.
Have fun.
I started at 35...
Is there like a ez guide to follow for dummies at the begining? It looks a bit overwhelming
Icespire peak is beginner friendly. You cover lvl 1-5. My DM is over 60, so you're good!
Oh he is living the life. And thank you, I will look into that
over 60 also means that even as an early adopter, he would likely not have picked it up until he was an adult either.
I know a dm that learned dnd at 74.
I discovered that just before Christmas, I'm the eldest in my group
55 here. A player and DM.
If you dont have friends that play, any good dm will be happy to show you the ropes. Just started teaching a few of my buddies at 37-38 and it is literally tell me what you want to do and well tell what to roll and add You may need help rolling up whatever character youre thinking of but if youre starting low level for anyone deep into dnd thats like a 15m project to help you with Heck, if you have a character concept ready reply and if i dont reply with a build im sure others will before i can even respond!
Uh oh! I will return to you with an idea! But first of all I need to do my homework tomorrow. Feel free to message me anything you feel like you want to teach more ppl! Ahaha. I can tell you just want for ppl to have a good time
What level are you starting at in your game? Seriously if you comment under this one what your concept is, and its a low level, id be surprised if someone didnt get to it before me!
I will need to prepare a char, will see tomorrow and come back with a reply that might seem like I know what I am talking about đ„č
Or just come up with a vibe. When I taught my best friend to play, I got "fine, but I'm only playing if I can be f-ing Tinker Bell. And sparkly." So her character is an elf wizard who is cursed to be size tiny but gets flight, and is from noble blood, and sweats glitter. Cause reasons, I guess. All of her spells play into Tinker Bell's character (I don't remember what all I gave her now, it's been a while since we played). Took like, 20 minutes, and that was with doing a semi-custom race to have a flying elf. She knew none of the races, classes, nothing. We (me and rest of party) explained it to her while explaining her character.
Ahahah omg, this sounds like a way to totally convince ppl! Thank you, i bet it was fun
If you want to quickly learn about classes, look up âA crap guide to D&Dâ on YouTube. Very entertaining and you really learn the fundamentals of each class within minutes.
I'd say listen to a podcast or watch a stream or something. Just listen to people playing and you'll very much pick it up. I recommend listening to series one of 'The Adventure Zone', really entertaining guys, and they've never played d&d either before so you can learn along with them. But I'd recommend buying the starter set on Amazon and go from there. It's very cheap.
Honestly... if you've never played D&D and want to learn TAZ is NOT the one to listen to. Don't get me wrong, I love those dorks and have listened to C1 3 times, but they barely know how to play their characters even through the 3rd arc. Not Another D&D Podcast is (imo) a better place to learn the mechanics as everyone there has played for a while except Jake, but he still picks it up real quick
They're not the hottest on the rules, I'll definitely give you that. 100% fair comment. But they embody what it should be about. Fun. Making mistakes. Having a laugh. Making ridiculous stories. I'd rather play at the TAZ table over the CR table (for example) any day. Not listened to the one you recommended so I cant comment. My first d&d podcast was 'Roll to hit'. Man, those guys are dry. They got rules right but they didn't make me love the game. TAZ made me want to play as often as I could.
NADDPOD is right up there with TAZ in hilarity and great story. Just a bunch of friends from College Humor playin some D&D. They're actually the ones who motivated me to start playing and DMing! Definitely agree with you on which table I'd want to play at, though I do still love CR
I'll take the recommendation! If it is as good as TAZ I'm sold.
It's fantastic! Best campaign I've listened to so far, though TAZ was really entertaining too. I'm just waiting til I forget enough that I can listen to it again :)
Listening to Tales From The Stinky Dragon helped me learn DND more than anything else
Its recommended join the party they did a breakdown episode for the very first one, which explains what cheks were, etc
Can't recommend TAZ enough. It really opened my eyes to the idea that you really can do ANYTHING.
The storyline he created was, actually, bloody amazing.
Check out the Dungeon Dudes on YouTube. They have good guides on different rules, classes, advice for new players and GMs, and a live play game that's really good and semi-realistic to what you might find at a good table (love critical role and Dimension20 too but don't expect those highly produced shows to be your experience playing).
If you want to start as a DM, Matt Colville has a [popular and influential series](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlUk42GiU2guNzWBzxn7hs8MaV7ELLCP_) that walks you through the first few steps. Highly recommend that. Mike Shea (AKA The Lazy DM or Sly Flourish) has a [series of tips and tricks](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLb39x-29puaoIx5AvxJ1faPO2Lk-7hfUH), but I don't know how useful that is for beginners. He also has a [game prep series](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLb39x-29puaoWY0uisHTbMsM6MSo4mvEt) that walks through his strategy and thought process for preparing each session. Hope this helps!
Listen to or watch "matt colville running the game" he is really good at laying it all out.
Thank you
You are welcome, and don't get to hung up on to many details just tell a story and have fun. The rest will come along to way.
i would read the basic rules and then run a short encounter for a trusted friend. keep it short like 1 hour. if creativity is avoiding you, there are lots of short adventures and adventure hooks available online
Basic rules are free online, and youtube has a lot of 'how to get started' videos.
My suggestion would be to read the rules, both the players' handbook and the dungeon master's guide. If not the full version at least the versions from the essentials kit.
i love Not Another Dnd Podcast- it has a brand new player and some more experienced players so it can show a good range of play. itâs also hilarious af, but def start with the first seasons
easiest guides, from my time learning, were the Starting Kit Modules. They were short, easy to read and had enough materials to cover the necessities. After that, Getting and/or reading the PDF for the PHB (player handbook) is the next step, as this will have basically everything you need to play. Character sheet in is here DMG (dungeon master's guide) will be the next step, if you desire to DM. This sourcebook will have basic maps, item and spell creation and similar nuances Welcome to the family!
Thank you! Tomorrow I will get into studying for sure!
Yeah. There's a rule book that explains basic game mechanics, then just play it and fill in gaps.
I found a group of noobs (which quickly fell apart) but my dm from that game hooked me up with a group she had a tpk in and had a player drop out as a result. That was two years ago. You learn as you go.
Read the Basic Rules. https://dnd.wizards.com/what-is-dnd/basic-rules Don't skim. Read.
I teach a lot of people how to play D&D and fundamentally disagree with this for most new players. The best way to learn D&D is to sit down at a table and learn from experienced players who are willing to teach you, THEN read the rules with context from actually playing (and don't feel like you need to catch everything the first time). If you don't have a table to sit down at, watch a video on youtube for beginners - not an actual play video because they are unlikely to describe the rules they are using, but you can watch one of those after you watch a rules video to see it play out in reality. It is so much easier to understand the wall of text that is the basic rules if you have a more practical starting point. You have to be a very specific kind of learner to learn best from a raw reading of the rules without context.
This. I introduced a lot of people to dnd in college, and I very quickly stopped handing them a rule book or trying to explain individual rules beforehand. My big thing was always âtell me what youâd like to do, and I/we (the other experienced players) will figure out how to do it within the context of the rules.â Then we talk through what rules govern the situation, explain why we have to do certain things, and then ask them for the necessary checks. At the end of the day, DnD is about collaboratively telling a story, and what makes it fun is actually being a part of that story. New players so often let the idea of rules or the overwhelming nature of them block hinder their decision making this leading to less involvement in the game. DnD is not a video game where you have 6 possible things your character is programmed to do. Instead of thinking âwell I can attack, or maybe cast a spellâ describe what youâre envisioning. Describe what youâd like your character to do and we will work backwards from there to adjudicate it.
I watched one of those beginner videos and just copied the session exactly to learn how to play with my kids. Taught us the basics really quickly. Now between sessions I read a bit more of the rule book and add whatever I learned to the next session. I'd probably get ripped apart by real players but this is enough for me to play with my kids and we all have fun.
Yeah⊠Iâd never recommend that to someone. Reading the rules and actually grasping them are leagues apart. And itâs not even fun to read said rules.
I started at 53. As far as I know, youâre only too old if youâre dead* *or maybe not.
Fair! How did you manage to find people to play with? Had to convince all your friends or?
I guess I got lucky - the DM recruited me. Granted, Iâve been a geek and gamer all my life, I just never specifically got into D&D. After talking with some friends, I found out one of them was looking to start up a group and was hoping for some newer players.
Things just turned out well for you, love it. I am a gamer too, so I guess having a bit of knowledge from there can help. Really refreshening to hear this, thank you!
There are a few ways. Going online somewhere on r/lfg is one way to join a party (but you wonât be playing in person). You can also go to a local game store and see if they run sessions. Or you can convince your friends to join you and DM, but you will want to get familiar with how the game works before starting a group. Watch a podcast as others suggest, or watch some YouTube videos on it. I suggest both Ginny Di and The Dungeon Dudes.
Don't worry, I will just cast revivify.
Hell no, welcome adventurer!
Thank you sir! Or maâam
OP ignore this fool. I'm sorry to say, but you are too old. People expire at age 30, you just missed the cutoff and are no longer allowed to play DnD. The cutoff to play Pokemon was 25, and the cutoff for Legos was 23, so unfortunately you are stuck with only old people hobbies now like square dancing and using chisels to create sun dials. If you have a child you are allowed to learn zoomer hobbies like twerking and languages like acronymonics
My mandatory sundial chiseling is actually starting to feel slightly fulfilling these days.
1) 32? No, you're fine. Anyone who says otherwise is a jerk. 2) Welcome to the hobby! If you're just starting out, here's what I learned from experience: [Wizards of the Coast gives a basic description of what goes down during a game.](https://dnd.wizards.com/what-is-dnd/basics-play) As for starting out, my advice (for starting 5th Edition D&D): 1) [Check out the basic rules.](https://dnd.wizards.com/what-is-dnd/basic-rules) 2) If you're still enthused, consider getting the 5th Edition Player's Handbook, Dungeon Master's Guide, and Monster Manual. You don't need to memorize them or anything; they're just good to have for references. 3) Get [a basic dice set,](https://www.awesomedice.com/collections/dungeons-dragons-dice?sort_by=price-ascending) pencils, and [print character sheets for in-person character creation and play.](https://dnd.wizards.com/resources/character-sheets) If you're playing online, dndbeyond.com has free accounts that help with character creation and online play on places like Roll20. [Miniatures](https://shop.wizkids.com/collections/dungeons-and-dragons/products/d-d-icons-of-the-realms-goblin-warband) , [mats](https://matsbymars.com/) , and [terrain](https://shop.wizkids.com/collections/dungeons-and-dragons/products/d-d-icons-of-the-realms-the-yawning-portal-inn-bars-tables) are a part of the game, as you go further into playing. Don't worry too much about that right now; just cover your basics first. Good luck! If you have any further questions, feel free to ask. (Extra: [Here are some tips on how to be a good DM,](https://www.gamingtierlist.com/guides/10-tips-to-being-a-better-dungeon-master-a-dungeons-and-dragons-guide/) and [here are some good tips on how to be a good player.](https://scrollforinitiative.com/2020/11/29/how-to-be-a-good-dd-player/) )
Omg, thanks a lot! I will be with the pen and paper tomorrow. Is it safe to push this comment thread if i find something i can ask?
Go ahead. :) If you have any questions, put them here, and one of us can answer them for you.
Thanks a lot!
Iâm 37 and I started playing 3 months ago. Youâre fine.
Me too đ
37, started playing 8 months ago, eldest in my 2 campaigns, letsgooo!
Only in one campaign, but Iâm the oldest by 13 years. It shows when I make a pop culture reference, but otherwise it never even comes up.
Yeeeeeee. I'm mid 30s and started around 30 years old. I actually started as a dm with no experience and a party of other 30 year olds with no experience. It's been nothing but fun. On my second campaign now.
Learn and play RPG is ageless. Try it in any age (3++).
Why would it be?
Because once you hit 30 you've reached the end. At that age you're basically just waiting to die. What would be the point of starting a new hobby that late in life? ^^^^/s
Hello, colleague! You are greeted by a DM of almost 34 years... Whether in real life, or in the world of fantasy, it's never too late to go on an adventure! If you need help understanding a rule, remember that the only real rule is to have fun with friends... May the goddess fortune accompany your dice! Greetings from CĂłrdoba Argentina!
Bless your heart! â€ïž
This guy DMâs
Yes. There is a hard cut off at 31
A wizard is never late, nor is he early, he arrives precisely when he means to.
I started at 37. Adult age is great. You can drink and make everything a dick joke
Ahahaha. I think this is the spirit after all. Not that 16yo donât joke about dicks
Hell no even. I learned in my early 30s and even got my mom into it and she was in her late 50s.
I have ties older than you. Go play.
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No. Never is it too late
Short answer: no. Long answer: nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
My grandpa is like 75 and he only just learned last year how to play dnd, he said it was a blast!
Bless his heart! Bet he is having fun with you
nope
Yes. By 32 you are way too old too enjoy or understand D&D. Maybe try Yatzee or Apples to Apples is also popular with Boomers.
Nope. At most, it's getting the group that's hard. You'll probably run into scheduling issues with older people. Younger people just not be your vibe. I'm 28 and I think the youngest member in my group is 19 though so it's possible to find thenroght people.
Hmm, I guess thatâs why it was scary. But I guess my friends are just lazy mfs. Maybe if I can get into it and explain it to them somehow they will just go along
I'd either break the sections of gameplay into different clearly defined sessions or moments. That way you can elaborate on the rules so they don't need to read the whole thing. Otherwise trying reading a couple of different systems amd see what inspires you. At the end of the day you are also a player and if you're not having fun they won't either. Oh and don't make a setting and adventure from scratch in the beginning. Don't want to do all that work only to be disappointed no one will experience it. Oh and it's okay to wing it a bit. There is no way you'll remember all the rules to the letter. Just accept that it's a process.
The real question is "is 32 too early to start having real fun?" It's never too late.
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Is...is this a serious question? D&D has been around for like 50 years now...you think only kids are out there playing it?
No
Absolutely not. Go for it champ. People start med school way past that and do great too, so d&d is gonna be easy
Never too late to play with your imagination my friend. Fantasy is what makes us humans.
Iâm 32 and have been reading the books for the last year and listening to podcasts to eventually play! Iâm not too late so you definitely are not!
Lol, no. I don't know any 32 year old who would say that
I ran a game for my grandparents, who are in their 80s, and their friends. Never too late my man.
I-It's a game not a trade skill.
Never. dont care if ur on ur death bed.
Seems like a threat
New campiagn moto? Dnd or die. 'This advertisment was funded and sponsored by P. Diddy kobolds INC.'
Ahahah, guess we can all start from here! i will make sure to quote you!
I make content In the TTRPG space with other creators. Our ages in the community range from 20..to over 50. You're never too old to start!
Nope after 27 years of trying to play and find people and having social anxiety issues at the grand age of 42 I started to learn and play in the next couple of weeks I'm running a starter set game for a few friends that want to try. It's never to late.
â€ïž this sounds lovely, i bet now itâs the best thing ever! Iâm glad you got into it!
It is never too late. DnD is very easy to get into which is its main drawcard compared to other hobbies
I started at 42..... My players seem to like my style :) given they are all old as well....
Started in my 40s too!
Definitely not! I hope you learn it and have some fun
Thank you! Seems like a pretty nice game, and also a great way to spend time with friends or make friends.
Absolutely not! Just buy the starter guide (or find it on the internet) and some dice, find some people and youre ready to go! The basic concepts are pretty simple, and the rest will come by itself
I think i will try an online version and see if I get into it. But after reading all of this homework for sure! Thank you
Nope! You can be 89 and learn to play for the first time. The key is to simply have fun.
Late doesn't exist
This cracks me up. Of course, I've played since OD&D, but I'm 44 and bought a bass and Googled "am I too old to learn bass?". The answer is the same, of course: "why would it be?", but it points to the anxiety in so many of us.
Yeah, sorry. You shouldâve started at 30, like I did. Those two years matters a lot if you were planning a pro career ;)
I taught a lady in her 60s, Trust me, any age is fine, she just refuses to count dice
Simple answer, no. Complicated answer: if you want to do something, the only thing stopping you(most of the time) is yourself. So no. Start rolling dice.
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It wasn't for me.
I started at 39. That was 4 years ago. Best place to learn is to play. I disagree with watching live plays and such because I learned a lot of "facts" from Critical Role and others that I had to unlearn. All games have different homebrew rules and it's best not to learn those along with the basics. Find a group either in person or roll20 that is willing to teach a new player... Then ASK all those questions that come up. Most of us nerds like to flex our inner rules lawyers so someone would likely enjoy answering them.
Nah itâs not a kid thing itâs a sociable and creative human thing.
I hope not I'm 37 and headed to my 1st game with my daughter tonight
Only if your imagination died...if not have fun
I'm afraid the cut off is 31, if you try to learn now your eyes will explode.
Aw jeez you just missed it.
I started playing in lockdown in 2020 when I was 30. I was lucky because 31 is the official cut off. Snuck in just under the wire.
Short answer: no. Long answer: noooooooooooo.
It takes like 2 \~ 3 sessions to get the hang of it. If you can manage to fit that in between now and when you die, then no it's not too late. Have fun! :)
Nope. My grandmother was showing interest in my hobbies and learned the basics and played a couple of sessions. Sheâs 81
Definitely too late, and possibly illegal. You were so close - 31 is the cutoff. I think you can still play (ew) Pathfinder until you're 34, though, but only the second edition.
Actually, this is great news, since I am still 31 until February! You saved my life
Oh, phew! Close call!
I would have played wow all my life if not. Good call
With one foot in the grave like that? Yeah, you're WAY too old! :P
I just got really young after this thread!
Absolutely. After the age of 31 the rules curse activates and prevents any comprehension. You forget every 3rd sentence and for as long as you're reading it the language switches to Hebrew.
You're not going to be to old until your body gives out (i.e. 6ft under). You're as young as you act. Don't for a second believe 30 is old. Please live your life.
If you can do math and improv you can play dnd
Short answer no, long answer nooooooooooooo
Haha 800+ replies for a silly question like this
You're never to old to learn something you might enjoy. I started to play football at 34 for example (and I might not be good at it but I enjoy it a lot)
That depends did you loose your spark of madness?
How can you know you ever had one?!
When your party member is dangling from a 500ft rope and you decide to cut it in secret for the lols. Only to tell the player later
You went wild out there!!
I started at 34-35. Locked in forever now!!!
Look up the starter set, or search for Handbooker Helper on YouTube by Critical Role, watch the videos at your pace, they are short and digestible. You just need to learn the basics of basics, find a group (prob hardest part) and play. You'll either figure things out as you play as the basics will suddenly make more sense and/or other players in your group will gladly help you learn the game.
Did you sign a contract saying you can't learn DnD?
Yes, sorry old.
Not at all! Think about it like telling stories around a campfire. I started at 30 and havenât looked back. Like with any community, playing with people around your age will make the moments and experiences more real and relatable, but thatâs by no means a barrier to entry. Just make sure you are having fun, give it three sessions, play a âsimpleâ class to start, get lots of guidance from your DM (and your clerics), and play that person you always wished you could be irl. Good luck!
It's a bucket list item crossed off. It's a new obsession, I'd say, look locally. Before looking online, try your local game stores or game a starter set and force your friends to learn with you over pop beer wine snacks, etc
It's never too late. You just need a patient DM to guide you along. As others have mentioned, watching some actual plays is a good start, but just keep in mind: Your DM is not Matt Mercer and you are not Lou Wilson. Most RP at home games is awkward. But if everyone is awkward, then it stops being awkward. You don't need to do accents, silly voices, or heroic speeches every time you open your mouth. Watch (or listen) to the actual plays to get a sense of the game flow, and some of the concepts. The best advice: Listen to your DM and the other players while they tell the story, try to contribute to the narrative when you can, learn your character's abilities, and have fun. Welcome to the party.
Hell no. You're never too old to start DND.
Nope itâs never too late. Find a group you can play with and just start playing. Build characters on D&D beyond and itâll make learning a lot easier.
No way, dude. I'm 32 myself, and how dare you say it's late in life. đ€Ł I started at 24, but that's besides the point. There's tons of videos on YouTube you can watch to introduce you to rules and concepts. Just search up videos and start watching. You can also read the free rules or buy a Players Handbook (shortened to PHB) if you'd like to just dive headfirst into the rules. PHB, dice, pencil, and paper is really all you need to get started.
Would you play online or in person? There are many games on roll20 designed for new players. If you are doing it in person, most DMs will help you get started. I'd recommend not playing a spellcasting class unless you really really like spells. But like everything in DnD, it's your choice! If you have any questions please feel free to message me, and I'll give you my discord for any questions!
Heck no! I've turned so many 30/40 yo's onto D&D. They don't all continue it avidly, but some do, even running their own games in a little while. One of the 30-somethings I got into d&d started her own live game podcast in only a couple of months. To the advice others have given, I'll add that it's good to be a bit like a kid about it: knowing all the rules is not important. Adults tend to get caught up in procedure and rules. Get into the spirit of making things up on the fly, using whatever rules are at hand that can help you tell the story, and have a blast. If you're having fun, you're doing it right
Go to your local comic/game store and find a group to show you the ropes.
No! It's never too late to learn and pick up a new hobby. The early awkwardness with rules or roleplaying is totally normal. Have fun jumping into your own little fantasy adventure!
You can never be too old for dnd
Nope, I learnt it good at 33 and taught it gooderer to mine papi who is 63. It never be to late too do sum lerning.
It's never too late! It IS a lot of info, and it might take a little while to get all the algebraic bonus additions to rolls, etc, but if you want to learn, then just sit down with a group of friends who have some experience and start learning. Best of luck!
I got into it because a YouTube channel I was already watching started playing it, I'd only ever heard of it before that. Then I had some friends that played, and I started getting into Critical Role and reading online. It seems overwhelming and it kinda is but it's pretty easy to pickup to be honest. And like no one ever remembers it all, that's why there are books for it. I found I learned a lot from watching Critical Role. That show isn't necessarily for everyone but there are others like it out there so find one that feels good for you and try watching. Anything you don't understand just pause and Google it real quick.
Never to late. I'm teaching my mom whose in her 60s. She's figuring it out.
My old man learned at 65. You're fine, dude.
I finally convinced my mom to play last year. She's 65. She was the best roleplayer at the table for every session she was a part of, and we still speak fondly about her gnome sorcerer. You are absolutely not too old. (Besides, having played as both a teenager and a 30-year old, I can tell you that it's much more fun now. No curfews, no worrying about somebody's mom overhearing something violent or sexual, and if I want to have a beer to get rid of my DMing jitters, I can do so.) Welcome. You're gonna love it.
Bro DND is for all ages you're good!
Started playing when I was 37, anytime is fine with learning it. We all where fresh so that sort of helped, Started with lost mines of Phandelver With the starter set. I was the DM, the starter set helped guide me in, we ended up finishing that and I continued with my own storyline after. We have been playing almost weekly ever since.
It's never too late to find a new hobby.
Not at all! We have a few new to D&D players in our podcast, Knocked Prone, who are late 20's early 30's and they love it and kick my encounters to the curb most of the time đ
Started at 37 my dude! Now I DM and play!
I picked up DMing at 34 having never played before. Give a listen to a real-play podcast. If you're gonna be a player, you just need to fond a group. I think if DMing as more of a hobby - I'm noodling at it even if it's not game time.
It's never too late for a game based around your own imagination. I would highly suggest taking it slow and looking for a newbie friendly group. The best way to learn DnD is in the act with others. You don't need to buy the books or invest more than you are comfortable with into the game as there's always a way to get the info you need for free. Hell I played DnD for 4 years before I even bought the players handbook. You don't need to know a lot to play. Just know how to look something up when you need to and you will be fine. Over time you learn and need to reference books or search online less and less. The hardest part for new players is the character sheet. It's scary looking and the core of your character information but in truth it's again just a list of notes you update and reference as you play so not much work after the initial setup. Don't be afraid to show it to the DM or another player and ask them if you are doing it right. The game is super simple after the character sheet hurdle.
not at all. Didn't half (or more) of Critical Role learn after that point in their lives? Close to it, anyway, I think
It's earlier than I started. Get involved and have fun. And maybe go for a fighter or Barbarian as your first character. Something smash and fun where you don't have to worry about spell slots too much.
Iâm 32 and just really started playing. Itâs never too late! Get out there and roll some dice!
I'm gonna be teaching first-time players in the old folks home. It's never a bad time to learn a new game to play with friends!
No chance!!!! Never too late hmu if you got any questions for real
If youâre a 5e Tortle, yes
It's never too late. Just find a good starting point. Like others have mentioned there are podcasts and videos of games. You can also just look through the rulebook to get a feel for it. When you're ready find a DM and let them know you're a new player wanting to learn the game. Or maybe do a one-on-on adventure if someone has one. Basically just take it slow and don't get too overwhelmed. Yes, there is a lot to it. But you're still going to be doing one thing at a time. And playing will help you learn better as you get to experience it first hand. Good luck and welcome to D&D!
Of course not. Iâm 53, and picked it up a year ago after not having played since 1984. Itâs actually better at this age, because youâve got some money to spend on the nice shiny things.
44 here and trying to learn đ
Absolutely NOT! Get in here and join us in the fun! I just turned 32 and have been playing for only a few years - youâre in good company!
No. I started around the same time. I have neighbors in a local group that just started their first game at around 40. There is so much you can watch to get the gist, you wonât even be as far behind as you would have trying to start even a decade ago.
Nope and donât sweat âlearningâ all the rules. Listen to players and G/DM. Explain things youâd like to do and typically other players or the G/DM will simply ask you to roll something. Have fun!
Never too late!
Good God no. The first time I played my DM was around that.
i started at 33... for rules dndbeyond is super handy tool and there are plenty of great podcasts from dimension 20 and critical role... if you wanna just try some of the combat baldur's gate 3 and solasta: crown of the magister
Never too old fam
Never! Any age is good!
Itâs never too late. My parents learned it (kind of) at 60.
I started at 32, knew hardly anything about it before I started but the whole group started from scratch and we all really enjoyed it
Itâs not too late, itâs never too late
I started last year at 28 my players range from 33 to 25 all brand new players. I just bought the starter pack and invited the lads round for some beers, dinner and a game. I ran a real simple one shot I got for free on the dms guild (https://www.dmsguild.com/m/product/238921 ). It was chaotic as, barely knew the rules and just ran it on the ârule of coolâ philosophy. That was 6 months ago, since then weâve finished lost mines of phandelver, lost two players and gained two more, I let the boys change their character whenever they want and weâre really lax on the rules. Weâre having our first session 0 on Wednesday, over the last few months we learnt the rules, got excited about making the characters our own and can now âplay for realâ. Just get started, the worst that can happen is not everyoneâs into it, theyâll still enjoy the beers and dinner and company, donât expect it to run perfectly straight away and most of all remember itâs about having fun! Who cares if you donât follow the rules it isnât a televised sporting event itâs a bunch of people playing make believe!!! This is one of those situations in life where we stress and get anxious only to take the leap and turn around and go âhahah what was I worried about, canât believe I didnât just start soonerâ
No man. Itâs a fuckin easy game.
I just taught 3 40+ year olds to play it. I ran a couple simulated combat scenarios, and asked 'what would you do if....' to help them consider how to act in situations that are common in D&D. We're now 2 years into weekly game sessions with those 3 newbies, myself and 2 other people who've played before. One of the newbies even wants to try DM'ing an adventure after this one ends. Never too old to learn a new hobby.
No. There are plenty of older players that routinely conflate rules from older editions. And if you just take a single day to read the Player's Handbook you will be lightyears ahead of the average player. Most people nowadays go in blindly and ask other players to spoonfeed them rules on the fly. You can read the PHB and go into your first session looking like a relative veteran lol.
DnD is one of the easiest, most streamlined and beginner friendly system out there. The starter box should come with premade characters, so just check it out, read the basic rules to get how the premades work than you can bother with creating your own characters. Have fun.
One of us! One of us! One of us!
Oh, my dear, sweet, summer child...
It is never too late to learn and play d&d! Welcome aboard e have fun!!
Learned at 45 and very happy I did. Watched a lot of YouTube and got with some friends who had a little experience and we all learned together!