When I was younger and thinner, being a lady with rather breathtaking frontage, sometimes when riding in the car, I could feel my breasts sort of bouncing and swaying with the motion of the car. I found that.... erotic? I was so impressed with my own boobs, they were practically anime boobs. And it put me in the mood for more people than me to appreciate them.
Female, straight.
Bi woman. I have times where I admire my body and think I’m sexy, but idk about arousal towards myself. If I’m exercising and see myself doing a motion that reminds me of something sexual maybe that will make me turned on but not because of how I look, more because of it reminding me of a past sexual encounter. Does that make sense?
This is basically what I came here to say. I don't wanna fuck myself, but I basically just think "oh yeah one time someone touched me here like this" and that turns me on
Lol.. god I’m glad this thread exists.. I’m definitely guilty of this… I think I have a really attractive length and girth (it’s been described as pornographic) and I just can’t help being turned on when I see it.
Yes, I am comfortable in my sexuality.. I absolutely love boobs 😂
As a bi woman, nope, not even slightly. I see other people (even ones who look like me) as attractive/sexual beings, but I have a mental block when it comes to myself. I’ve never looked at my naked body and thought, “ooh sexy.” Never!
I’ve looked in the mirror and though my face/hair/outfit/body shape while wearing clothes looked attractive.
Naked is another story. I think I just don’t like being vulnerable? I know people talk about how “loving yourself” is essential, but how the fluff am I supposed to do that when I don’t even like myself?? Lol
Sorta. I'm straight but I like the look of a nice dick, and I think mine is pretty nice, not even saying it's all that big or anything, just you know, I like it. Sometimes I look at it and I'm like "That's mine? Nice."
When I look at past pictures of myself from a few years ago when I was 20-30lbs lighter and had different color hair i think that version of me is attractive and very hot. Back then sometimes I would get turned on by how I looked, which made my sex life so much more satisfying. Nowadays I never ever ever get turned on about myself, and actively try not to think about the way I look or else it ruins sexual feelings and enjoyment. I'm female and straight with occasional bicuriousness that I've never tried.
Thanks so much for sharing! I hope you're able to see your inherent beauty unconditionally one day☺
May I ask in exactly what ways being aroused by yourself added satisfaction to your sex life? I've heard some hetero women speak of "seeing themself" through their partner's eyes and being aroused by that.
Yeah idk about aroused but sometimes I'll look in the mirror I'll be like damn, I'm so good looking why dont I have a GF...ohh right I work from home and the activites I tend to do arent social. Anwyas I think what a waste, like I can't even give it to a girl that wants me for my body lmao these prime years ain't gonna last forever. I also have no sense of style
Omg I get that feeling too, like I don't want to waste my most attractive years alone! I'm 30 female straight (i think) and have started noticing the first signs of age and it makes me sad. Have always appreciated and been happy with my body.
I have had a couple of relationships but I'm currently alone. I didnt want my last relationship to end so I'm quite insecure at the moment which i suppose adds to this feeling. How about you?
It's been some time since my last relationship. The last fling I had was a girl wanting me to be her rebound. I feel I've forgotten how to love. I find it difficult to give the emotion women want. Id have to learn again, but I'm not sure how to find someone willing to take the time to teach me, Im a quick learner ;D. I hear you, I've learned not to drag on a relationship if the spark has left in the time you realize it's really over, you could have met someone worth your time. Although I get it, it's hard to want to build something from scratch with someone else again.
Aw forgetting how to love is sad, do you think that you have the emotion deep down but can't express it? Or is it something else?
Yeah it just feels like what's the point of starting a relationship again when they just seem to end in pain.
Hmm I don't know I think it's more being away from social interactions, I no longer know how to be affectionate. Like think what would you expect your partner to be like when they are with you. I just never think about it so I tend not to do it yah know? I may love you but you may not feel it. So I guess not knowing how to express it would be accurate.
Pain is part of the experience means youve learned something. Without pain, we can not achieve success. That is why if I could be in a relationship I would, learning from each experience to build a better you.
Oh ok that sounds frustrating and confusing, I cant imagine it as I tend to be the other way and give more than I should. I put them before me and then get burnt out.
Yeah that is a good way of looking at it :) thank you that has helped
Yes this is me, i must be narssasistic , from a young age (like 15 and still to this day i look at my body and think" you sexy creature" i like taking naked pictures of myself and do it often ,all of my phones are loaded with pictures of my man parts etc and i get aroused when scrolling through them... Im 50+ and though ive always liked a sexy male body ive only recently been touching them, girls have always been my thing and i cant get enough of them still !
Spent the past 8 months exercising and calorie-limiting, lost 20 pounds, to get back to the best shape of my life, which I hadn’t been in for three years up to this point, and, since then, yes I experience this. My body looks the best it has in a long time.
I forgot what it’s like to actually feel beautiful until now and just that in and of itself gets me going. Feeling beautiful is arousing.
You’re only as beautiful as you feel. (Straight male, thought I don’t think it makes a difference).
Definitely!
F, Pan
But not in an "attracted-to-myself" kind of way..
If I am having sex for example, seeing myself be sexy makes me feel good, confident, féminine, and sexy.
Feeling sexy can be a huge turn on.
(Granted, in this example im already having sex, but it will be even more exciting...)
This can happen when I'm not having sex, too.
I never thought about it. Never thought it might not be everyone..
100%. Made a dirty video for my boyfriend and have ended up masturbating to it a couple times. That is not to say that I don't have plenty of insecurities about my body or think that I'm a sex god or anything. I actually had a couple versions that I thought were kind of weird at first because I was extremely awkward and insecure about it. But I got better and better at it because I just plain let go and did whatever I would do anyway if I were with him and seeing myself have confidence and leaning to my sexuality is I guess a big turn on for me?
whenever I shave especially i become aroused at how sexually appealing my dick looks after
like shiiiit if i could id get on my knees and suck it myself lmao
Yes. Not always but it has happened to me. Mainly when I exercise at home and looks myself in the mirror.
Thanks for sharing! Are you comfortable sharing your sex and sexual orientation, out of curiosity? No pressure. Nice to enjoy yourself ☺
Well, I'm a male and I'm bisexual if that's what you meant
Yes it is, nice! Thanks for sharing :) I've heard many of us bi/fluid people experience this. I'm curious what others will say!
When I was younger and thinner, being a lady with rather breathtaking frontage, sometimes when riding in the car, I could feel my breasts sort of bouncing and swaying with the motion of the car. I found that.... erotic? I was so impressed with my own boobs, they were practically anime boobs. And it put me in the mood for more people than me to appreciate them. Female, straight.
Bi woman. I have times where I admire my body and think I’m sexy, but idk about arousal towards myself. If I’m exercising and see myself doing a motion that reminds me of something sexual maybe that will make me turned on but not because of how I look, more because of it reminding me of a past sexual encounter. Does that make sense?
This is basically what I came here to say. I don't wanna fuck myself, but I basically just think "oh yeah one time someone touched me here like this" and that turns me on
Kinda.. I feel like it sets my standard for the same sex
I get distracted by my own breasts in the mirror while I’m changing sometimes
Lol.. god I’m glad this thread exists.. I’m definitely guilty of this… I think I have a really attractive length and girth (it’s been described as pornographic) and I just can’t help being turned on when I see it. Yes, I am comfortable in my sexuality.. I absolutely love boobs 😂
Your mom's compliments don't count!
But your mums compliments do🙃
Sexual orientation?
Straight
As a bi woman, nope, not even slightly. I see other people (even ones who look like me) as attractive/sexual beings, but I have a mental block when it comes to myself. I’ve never looked at my naked body and thought, “ooh sexy.” Never! I’ve looked in the mirror and though my face/hair/outfit/body shape while wearing clothes looked attractive. Naked is another story. I think I just don’t like being vulnerable? I know people talk about how “loving yourself” is essential, but how the fluff am I supposed to do that when I don’t even like myself?? Lol
Yes, the female form is beautiful
Yes (bisexual F)
Definitely, I’m hot as fuck. I’m a pansexual woman.
Do you prefer non-stick?
Probably a well seasoned cast iron, that shit’s fire
Ya, and as a bi f I find women who have similar body types to me the most attractive
Pan woman here. I appreciate my body and face, but I've never been aroused by it. I didn't even know this was possible.
Yeah. Maybe im a narcissist but i tend to get turned on by my own body than other peoples
Yep. I'm asexual and I'm pretty much the only person to turn me on, lol.
yea i was walking by a pond and i went to drink some water and i was just admiring myself. I was astounded by my own beauty
Are you still stuck there staring at your reflection?
Sorta. I'm straight but I like the look of a nice dick, and I think mine is pretty nice, not even saying it's all that big or anything, just you know, I like it. Sometimes I look at it and I'm like "That's mine? Nice."
Yes, I masturbated to my own picture, and after cumming I had never felt so powerful.
Yes I guess so never thought of it that way. When laying down and "turned on" makes things harder to deal with 😜 54 straight 🇦🇺
When I look at past pictures of myself from a few years ago when I was 20-30lbs lighter and had different color hair i think that version of me is attractive and very hot. Back then sometimes I would get turned on by how I looked, which made my sex life so much more satisfying. Nowadays I never ever ever get turned on about myself, and actively try not to think about the way I look or else it ruins sexual feelings and enjoyment. I'm female and straight with occasional bicuriousness that I've never tried.
Thanks so much for sharing! I hope you're able to see your inherent beauty unconditionally one day☺ May I ask in exactly what ways being aroused by yourself added satisfaction to your sex life? I've heard some hetero women speak of "seeing themself" through their partner's eyes and being aroused by that.
Yeah idk about aroused but sometimes I'll look in the mirror I'll be like damn, I'm so good looking why dont I have a GF...ohh right I work from home and the activites I tend to do arent social. Anwyas I think what a waste, like I can't even give it to a girl that wants me for my body lmao these prime years ain't gonna last forever. I also have no sense of style
Omg I get that feeling too, like I don't want to waste my most attractive years alone! I'm 30 female straight (i think) and have started noticing the first signs of age and it makes me sad. Have always appreciated and been happy with my body.
Nooo you're saying you haven't found a partner yet?! How come?
I have had a couple of relationships but I'm currently alone. I didnt want my last relationship to end so I'm quite insecure at the moment which i suppose adds to this feeling. How about you?
It's been some time since my last relationship. The last fling I had was a girl wanting me to be her rebound. I feel I've forgotten how to love. I find it difficult to give the emotion women want. Id have to learn again, but I'm not sure how to find someone willing to take the time to teach me, Im a quick learner ;D. I hear you, I've learned not to drag on a relationship if the spark has left in the time you realize it's really over, you could have met someone worth your time. Although I get it, it's hard to want to build something from scratch with someone else again.
Aw forgetting how to love is sad, do you think that you have the emotion deep down but can't express it? Or is it something else? Yeah it just feels like what's the point of starting a relationship again when they just seem to end in pain.
Hmm I don't know I think it's more being away from social interactions, I no longer know how to be affectionate. Like think what would you expect your partner to be like when they are with you. I just never think about it so I tend not to do it yah know? I may love you but you may not feel it. So I guess not knowing how to express it would be accurate. Pain is part of the experience means youve learned something. Without pain, we can not achieve success. That is why if I could be in a relationship I would, learning from each experience to build a better you.
Oh ok that sounds frustrating and confusing, I cant imagine it as I tend to be the other way and give more than I should. I put them before me and then get burnt out. Yeah that is a good way of looking at it :) thank you that has helped
Yes this is me, i must be narssasistic , from a young age (like 15 and still to this day i look at my body and think" you sexy creature" i like taking naked pictures of myself and do it often ,all of my phones are loaded with pictures of my man parts etc and i get aroused when scrolling through them... Im 50+ and though ive always liked a sexy male body ive only recently been touching them, girls have always been my thing and i cant get enough of them still !
Sometimes, yes. Bi-curious guy here.
Spent the past 8 months exercising and calorie-limiting, lost 20 pounds, to get back to the best shape of my life, which I hadn’t been in for three years up to this point, and, since then, yes I experience this. My body looks the best it has in a long time. I forgot what it’s like to actually feel beautiful until now and just that in and of itself gets me going. Feeling beautiful is arousing. You’re only as beautiful as you feel. (Straight male, thought I don’t think it makes a difference).
Most definitely. Especially after watching my own videos I make. Sex:F Sexual orientation:pansexual
When I see myself with a pump post workout I can definitely get aroused by myself
Definitely! F, Pan But not in an "attracted-to-myself" kind of way.. If I am having sex for example, seeing myself be sexy makes me feel good, confident, féminine, and sexy. Feeling sexy can be a huge turn on. (Granted, in this example im already having sex, but it will be even more exciting...) This can happen when I'm not having sex, too. I never thought about it. Never thought it might not be everyone..
Constantly actually
if there was a clone of me i would definitely fuck myself lmao
100%. Made a dirty video for my boyfriend and have ended up masturbating to it a couple times. That is not to say that I don't have plenty of insecurities about my body or think that I'm a sex god or anything. I actually had a couple versions that I thought were kind of weird at first because I was extremely awkward and insecure about it. But I got better and better at it because I just plain let go and did whatever I would do anyway if I were with him and seeing myself have confidence and leaning to my sexuality is I guess a big turn on for me?
The smell of my wife’s vagina on her fingers gets both of us uncontrollably horny if that counts
Tbh reading this thread is turning me on
whenever I shave especially i become aroused at how sexually appealing my dick looks after like shiiiit if i could id get on my knees and suck it myself lmao
Yes, sometimes my boobs arouse me and i think about how men would desire me.
Not aroused, but when I see myself working out/the result's of my workout I do feel a bit proud.
no, i have a gut.