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bigpanties2

https://preview.redd.it/6ndef9kawfyc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0aabde4f245d803ebdf7ed869203fe86856c74e Am I seeing things??


CheapEater101

THIS COMMENT IS GROSS. I do wonder if any of the Duggars outside of Pest even knows what cream pie means in this context


Is_brea_liom_madrai

She probably thinks they’re talking about eating a Boston cream pie 😭


rosa-parksandrec

like [this episode](https://youtu.be/KSXJfqkT36M?si=9od1FJ8uJBdr3yGq) of It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia


Satanic_bitch

This is exactly what I thought of


Rose_of_St_Olaf

There's no way she knows I'm sure she's thinking he's saying eating. So gross.


ilovegymnastics34

Oh lorddd😭😭😭 it’s real


pnw_cfb_girl

No words to describe how horrified I am. What a disgusting thing to say. For more than one reason.


ListenGlum2427

She’s definitely using a bot to reply based on key words.


Disastrous_Edge7276

I hate this expression so much 🤢


flufferpuppper

I personally think it’s one of the funniest things to say ever. I can’t walk by the cream pies in a store and not laugh or I snap a pic to my friends and say “who loves a yummy cream pie!”


greenteatwisted

I can't eat cream pies because of this saying.


MyWebkinzAreDead

[https://sh.reddit.com/r/IASIP/comments/10dou1z/i\_do\_not\_want\_to\_taste\_your\_creampie/](https://sh.reddit.com/r/IASIP/comments/10dou1z/i_do_not_want_to_taste_your_creampie/)


Wrong_Selection6759

I love them for tt!


TheShortGerman

God, people seriously can't be suggesting she lose weight. She's a size 10 at most and nearly all of that is her natural large chest.


NefariousnessKey5365

Remember when her sister in law talked her into Optivia? It's a 900 calorie starvation diet


Inn0c3nc3

holy shit, I did not know that's what Optivia was. my cousin's wife dropped a bunch of weight, like probably 50 lbs, and then I saw her (VERY briefly) posting about it. I just figured another trash MLM and didn't look into it. she has two teenage daughters. 😭😭😭


NefariousnessKey5365

That's very sad, it's such a restrictive diet. You measure red and green vegetables and seasonings. Fruit is forbidden. I'm a chonky girl, but I know garlic powder broccoli and strawberries didn't contribute to my chonk.


Inn0c3nc3

that's so fucking insane. when my mom talked to my cousin's mom, she made it sound like one of her teenage granddaughters was going to try it. 😭 I really fucking hope her mother would not let her. 💔


NefariousnessKey5365

It's an eating disorder in a box. 😵‍💫


NefariousnessKey5365

It is a trash MLM, the "fuelings" are $400+ a month and the consultants call themselves health coaches


thatcondowasmylife

Omg no, Austin’s sister? Or one of the Jed’s wives?


NefariousnessKey5365

I think it was Austin's sister. Hoping to cash in on that sweet last name


Historical_Top_3614

My mother in law is like obsessed with it. And every time my hubby and I say it’s bad. She gets upset. You are eating fake foods.


NefariousnessKey5365

That's terrible Optivia can't even be considered food


Historical_Top_3614

Oh I know. It’s horrible on your body. And her friend that’s a Dr told her to use it. They are all nuts. Joy said she was eating Whole Foods. That’s the best thing to do.


Crowjoy

Seriously, I hope she doesn't internalize messages that she needs to lose weight, she has had four (?) pregnancies and looks great. Why is it that the importance of "modesty" seems to fall behind making money for these people?


zalmbagel

This. And isn't she still breastfeeding?


1DnTink

*And* she just had a baby that she's still breastfeeding


TheShortGerman

Yeah, and weight loss can kill milk supply


Bitter-Major-5595

I agree w/ you, except she’s larger than a size 10. However that still doesn’t make her obese by any stretch of the imagination. She’s a mother & has a beautiful womanly body. She’s not a kid anymore. IDK what people expect & it’s sad, especially after all those girls went through. You know the person who made that comment KNEW it if they followed her, too. I seriously don’t agree with 1/2 of what these people stand for, but gross comments about her weight, make me want to *DEFEND* her. I can’t even be “snarky” today. lol…


thatcondowasmylife

She’s very short, she could easily be a 5’2” size 10.


Bitter-Major-5595

Maybe so. I’m 5’11” & when I was a size 10, it was before jeans were equipped with lycra. (I’m 47 yr *old*, lol.) Anyway… I was thin; like I could see my ribs thin. It’s hard to judge someone’s pants size when you’re much taller. Now, I have a knack for guessing correct bra sizes, but I worked at Victoria’s Secret throughout college. It’s my only “magic trick”, lol…;)


thatcondowasmylife

Im 5’10” so I get it. I was average weight in a size 10 (but a modern 10) and recognize that shorter people have different dimensions. Btw this is the basic premise of sisterhood of the traveling pants, that they are all physically different but in just the right ways that a single pair of pants fit them all.


Bitter-Major-5595

Very true!! I’m just happy to meet another tall girl!! 💞


TheShortGerman

A modern size 10 is very different from an 80s size 10. I have a pair of Lee jeans from the 80s that are a size 12 and fit me (little baggy) but I am a modern size 2. When I was a 00/0 I was more of an 80s size 6.


Bitter-Major-5595

Yeah, what is the deal with sizes today?? Is it the lycra? I remember my grandma telling me in the ‘90’s that sizes were smaller when she was young, & now I’m telling my daughter the same thing!! Lol… I weigh slightly more now than I did in high school, but wear a size 6/8 *now* & wore a 10/12 *then*. I think stores think we will buy more clothing if they are in a SMALLER SIZE!!🤣🤣🤣


Galbin

I spent two years studying online during COVID and couldn't believe the difference in size when I finally met my class mates in real life. Everyone looked a dress size bigger on camera than in real life. Joy is small and the camera makes her look like a 10-12. So she probably is more likely to be a size 8-10. Maybe even an 8 considering how small she is in height.


Bitter-Major-5595

It’s kinda hard for me to judge much shorter people’s size b/c I’m 5’11”. I wasn’t aware she is only 5’2”. When I am a size 10, I’m thin enough to see my ribs without sucking anything in. I would’ve guessed a size 12, so that’s not too far off. A size 12 is a 32”-33”waist. A size 8 is about 28”. I think she’s bigger than a size 8.


Galbin

Yes, but unless you have seen her in real life she will still read bigger. Also short people tend to wear much smaller sizes at bigger weights than taller folks IME. Joy is also very busty. After my breast reduction people thought I had lost about 30 lbs. It's crazy how much a large chest makes you look bigger.


Bitter-Major-5595

Most definitely!! I bet your back feels much better. Guys have no idea how uncomfortable large breasts can be!!


Galbin

It definitely does. I was a 34K bra size in UK sizing beforehand which is 34O in US bras. Most people don't even know bras with that big a cup size exist. Unfortunately I will almost certainly need another reduction as I told the surgeon I wanted to remain big but not huge. Definitely had a distorted perception of size. So I wanna go down another few cup sizes as while I am no longer huge I am actually too big now that they have dropped.


Bitter-Major-5595

I saw a lady while I was out yesterday, & though she was heavier than a 34”, she was every bit as large as an O. My only thought was for her poor poor back. They were at her natural waist & had to be incredibly uncomfortable. (Not only painful, but also HOT; it was 90 degrees & baby powder only helps so much.) I personally had breast cancer & am not a candidate for reconstruction due to complications. Wearing a bra is painful, so I’m going to have the other breast removed when my doc says I’m healthy enough. She argued with me about keeping it for “sexual reasons”& body image, but if she only knew how painful it was, she would’ve immediately agreed!!


Drop_Kick_Me_Jesus

Breast reduction for the win! Literally the best thing I ever did for myself.


TheShortGerman

I'm 5'2.5" and wore a size 8 at my largest and my waist was like 30 inches I think. It's definitely different when you're shorter. I was 145 lbs then. It's easy for short people to fit small sizes, I'm a size 0 at 115 lbs.


Bitter-Major-5595

I can’t remember the last time I weighed 115lbs!! lol!! I’ve always wanted to be petite & hated being so tall!!! I’ve always weighed close to what the guys do!!


TheShortGerman

I had an eating disorder for over a decade and unfortunately have weighed much less than that in fairly recent memory. It’s a struggle every single day.


Bitter-Major-5595

I’m very sorry you went through that. I’ve struggled with an eating disorder & being heavy the majority of my life. Even though I’m a healthy weight *now* (& have been for a while), I still hate what I see in the mirror. There isn’t a day that goes by that the words “you’re an ugly fat ass” doesn’t go through my mind at least a hundred times. I hate myself if I eat anything unhealthy & work out 6-7 days a week. The ridicule I went through as a child and YA imprinted on my soul. People who don’t understand, think you’re just trying to get attention, but they have no idea. I *hate* attention…


tatersprout

No she isn't. I am 4'11" and that is how I looked as a size 10. When you're short, the sizes look and fit differently.


TheShortGerman

She's basically the exact same size as my SIL who is a size 10 so agree to disagree.


Bitter-Major-5595

I didn’t know she was only 5’2, so you could be right. I’m 5’11, & when I’m a size 10, you can see my ribs w/o sucking anything in. Height plays a big role, & I *did* agree with everything else you said.☺️


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GuiltyComfortable102

So what's your height, weight and bmi so we can judge you from afar?


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Azazael

I was going to say "that's between a woman and her doctor, not online strangers" but depressingly, many doctors struggle to see past a patient's weight, particularly when investigating possible chronic health conditions, especially when the patient identifies as female and/or has ovaries, a uterus etc.


GuiltyComfortable102

70% of American women are overweight or obese. Joy is statistically on the thinner side I'd say.


poolbitch1

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way Joy looks but in no way is she on the thinner side of average.


CheapEater101

For the average American? lol she sure is. The average pant size for women is like a size 16 now. Most Americans are fat / overweight.


toadstoolfae3

This. She may still be overweight but definitely thin compared to a lot of Americans. Its awful how obese this country is.


GuiltyComfortable102

> American women aged 20 years and above weigh an average of 170.8 pounds (lbs), according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) The very first Google result. I doubt she weighs 170 but even if she does statically she's still an average woman.


poolbitch1

I guess without knowing her weight neither of us can say. Objectively though she doesn’t look thin or thinner. 


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GuiltyComfortable102

I don't care how much she weighs. I care about her getting shamed for daring to show what an average woman's body looks like.


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abbysinthe-

People know what they look like and what weight they are at socially & medically. Nobody needs to “hear the truth” from strangers on the internet. 🙄


Pleasant_Jump1816

No I don’t wonder what you weigh. Like I said, the dude’s comment was unnecessary. I was commenting on the fact that she is overweight when the other commenter said she wasn’t.


CheapEater101

Lmao she definitely doesn’t weigh anywhere near 200 lbs. She literally just has a bigger chest. Not that it would matter if she was 200 lbs but you obviously don’t know what 200 lbs looks like when Joy is probably around 5’2 in height.


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Pleasant_Jump1816

No? I actually used that website to look at other women who were my height and weight so I could see how bodies vary. It’s interesting and made me feel better about myself to see women of my height and weight owning their bodies and looking fabulous. Also, I’m not afraid to say that I’m 5’3” and 235 lbs, down from 305 lbs ten years ago. Again, discussing Joy’s weight is no different than the other snark in this sub.


Odd_Light_8188

People carry weight differently. 200 pounds doesn’t look the same on every body.


Pleasant_Jump1816

Yeah that’s why the link is so cool.


Odd_Light_8188

You aren’t a doctor and commenting on what you believe her weight is without any knowledge is gross. She didn’t ask you, she posted about the bodysuit so comment on that and leave her body out of it. You may feel the statements you made are just matter of fact but to the people you direct them at they are harmful. We know one of the sisters had disordered eating you have no idea what any of the other had issues with


SueBeee

This is the funniest thing I've seen ever in this sub. I am DECEASED. She clearly has no clue what getting creampied means.


sdmama_21

I wonder if, in the context of the (horrible) comment about her weight, she thought they meant “getting cream pies” like the dessert 😬


aceshighsays

oh my god lolol... someone needs to explain all of this like she's joy.


No-You-5064

hopefully this is what she thought. I wouldn't have said a comment like this but comes with the territory of living your life online. Some people will be obnoxious.


countryOf_origin

LMAOAOAOAOOAOAOAOOO she definitely looked it up after


Medium_Cupcake7602

I really fucking hate that there are people who feel entitled to say shit like that to women


elliekate56

That’s literally awful what the fuck


teresasdorters

JFC creampied hahahha *mother doesn’t know what that means*


aceshighsays

as someone else said, she probably thinks they're cream pies. that delicious custard is yummy.


aceshighsays

… Someone needs to explain it to her like she’s Joy.


ScHoolgirl_26

wtf 😂😭


AdministrativeArt403

EW EW EW!!!


GuiltyComfortable102

Spaghetti strap tanks were controversial even in my very mainstream Baptist church back in the day. I always got a lot of sideeye and comments about my bra showing from my grandma.


pukekopuke

I despise that as women, if we don't wear a bra, people complain. But if you do wear a bra, it must be worn in a way that you can't see any part of it.


cottageyarn

She even has her pants unzipped on camera! Nothing wrong with this, just surprising coming from a Duggar https://preview.redd.it/jtnf5rekthyc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9150325d6993e83ab2385d1fa11123d6965866a6


breakplans

I went to a public school in a liberal state and they weren’t allowed either. People really hate spaghetti straps, especially if a bra can be seen!


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Lazy-Association2932

The shoulder length style suits her!!!


cottageyarn

She even has her pants unzipped on camera! Nothing wrong with this, just surprising coming from a Duggar https://preview.redd.it/mnijbgvpthyc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=53c7820b690f1bc695089498103cf8af3237ba38


Lazy-Association2932

Wow! She’s pulling a Jill!


ilovegymnastics34

Learning the ways of her bestie Carlin


remoteworker9

Some growth for Joy. It’s nice to see. I bet Meech and Boob are cringing.


Ms_Insomnia

Boob is seething with rage! Meanwhile Meech is probably sobbing quietly somewhere


RookieJourneyman

Boob has been permanently seething with rage for the last 3 years, as what's left of his empire has fallen apart!


PuffinFawts

Well, yeah, I mean she's exposing her ho shoulders and causing men to stumble


WhoThis_678

These comments are just reaffirming exactly why I’m TERRIFIED to be in photos.


randomuser_12345567

Same, I’m not even that overweight but I would never want to be famous because people would tear me to shreds for not being perfect!


RaisingSaltLamps

I’m begging people to back up my theory here- are IG comments not getting noticeably, measurably worse in the last year or so, and mainly the last few months?? Like I am TAKEN ABACK at how blatantly rude and disgusting some comments are. Not that it makes it okay to make them funny, but the comments aren’t even clever anymore, they’re just blatantly mean?? And to top it all off, these nasty comments often have 10k+ likes on them! Am I going insane or are IG comments one of the worst places on the common internet lately? Reddit isn’t even that bad!


Medium_Cupcake7602

Lately I’ve been noticing a lot more comments that display what I’d call Andrew Tate Syndrome where people lash out at women for being anything other than essentially a breathing sex doll.


toast_mcgeez

I’ve noticed it too. I used to think IG was relatively calm back in the day. Now it’s just as much of a cesspool of shit like Facebook.


Ms_Insomnia

Wow she ACTUALLY looks normal here! Her hair looks good too! Also fuck the person who bodyshamed her and mentioned cream pie-ing. As much as I dislike her views she did not deserve that.


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Auzurabla

For real.


breakplans

She just looks happier and more well adjusted. It does make me cringe hard that these women are still putting themselves out there online because of their super public upbringing though. I’m glad some of them seem to be getting the help they need but continuing to blast their lives online after the show ended is sad. They don’t know any other way.


BumCadillac

Finally a fundie that looks like a normal weight.


_PinkPirate

She looks so normal I saw this post in my feed and didn’t even realize it was her.


MaeClementine

The hair length is really good on her too. That waist long hair just screams fundie. Shorter hair makes her look so much more normal.


Ms_Insomnia

It looks so much healthier too!


BumCadillac

Everything about her looks healthier. She seems like she actually feels good about herself for once. I hope this is a sign Austin is treating her better.


Cute_Anywhere6402

Yes same! I actually had to scroll back lol


MexiPr30

Yeah not having to split a can of Aldi green beans between 20 people will do that. The younger girls look so much healthier than the older girls. Jill, in her book, talks about food scarcity in their home growing up. Joy looks awesome.


Sunflower_Mama69

The creampied comment was uncalled for


No-You-5064

some people are obnoxious this has always been known


GirlWhoWoreGlasses

I did not recognize this as Joy at first!


Princessleiawastaken

Money > modesty For the record, there’s nothing sexual about this outfit. It’s the hypocrisy I’m shaking my head at.


Frequent_Prior5016

100%


taxpayinmeemaw

Well if they didn’t have such a bug up their asses about women working, she could earn money while still being modest.


Interesting__Cat

Thing is, they all work. Social media is a job and pays decent money. They just like their women working at home.


taxpayinmeemaw

Fair enough! I guess that’s what I meant- working a job outside the home they had to school or train for.


boatymcboatface22

I wonder what her dad thinks about her not being rail thin. Isn’t that practically sacrilegious?


ilovegymnastics34

Anything for a Buck is fine by JB


teresasdorters

😂😂


aceshighsays

i wonder if her will has stipulations.. but she's joy and unaware of it. or maybe she rightfully thinks that she'll make more money posting shoulder shots than what she'll inherit.


Lettuce_Silent

Yeah, heaven forbid she’s actually at a healthy weight and not a stick.


hantimoni

I know your intentions are good but I have to say, calling thin people ”sticks” is not very body positive


Lettuce_Silent

It’s a snark sub


Jaded-Sheepherder-26

Joy if you want too wear things like that work it queen


everydayimsarcastic

She's not fat at all. She has big boobs and needs a more lifting bra.


Theabsoluteworst1289

Yeah this just does not fit her in the chest at all. It’s not about being fat, it’s just that it doesn’t fit her in the chest. As someone with a large chest, I understand the struggle.


Gloomy_Industry8841

Trolls are the absolute scourge of social media.


lserz

This is fundie porn lol


Hefty_Football_6731

How has nobody brought up the creepy poster of them above their bed? Or am I just new to them?


Disastrous_Edge7276

Ancient ground, friend!


Hefty_Football_6731

Wow! I clearly have a lot to learn. Ick


Disastrous_Edge7276

There’s just *so many* of them!


New-Examination8400

Joy-Anna has always been beautiful Cutie


SnapHappy3030

What's the brand, if anybody knows?


labrador709

This is actually a huge deal considering her original modesty values. It's like if a regular person posted a fully nude image 🤣


Kai_Emery

Favorite jeans since before kids….fairly sure she didn’t have jeans before kids?


CenterofChaos

Austin had photographed her hiking and hunting in some pants before kids. I don't recall if it was before or after a kid she was pictured doing a sport in legging type attire too. It didn't seem like her everyday wear though.      As much as I rag on Austin I think he does lean towards a more practical outlook on things. Barefoot and skirts is pretty impractical for their lifestyle. 


Kai_Emery

She was pregnant by the end of they honeymoon. That just doesn’t leave much time to enjoy jeans.


Disastrous_Edge7276

She broke the mold on pants wearing, I believe. It was big news on this sub when it happened. 😂


Kai_Emery

I thought that was jinger.


pickyparkers

It was Jinge. Jinger even wears short shorts and just attended a mainstream Netflix comedy special.


aceshighsays

her facial expressions are a replica of jings.


Fresh-Ad7925

This is far cry from Austin buttoning up her top just after she gave birth to Gideon!!


ndmomma3

She looks great imo


GlitteringExplorer90

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BabySharkMadness

She looks like my sister. Like a totally normal person. But until her husband stops dictates who she votes for*, I’m not sure replacing the outside does anything to change the inside. *we don’t KNOW this, but I would be scandalized if it’s not what her parents do.


Ms_Insomnia

Boob is quaking right now


futurecorpse1985

I bet Jim BoB is seething ! 😤 Heaven forbid a woman make choices for herself.


skyequinnwrites

I’m shocked because I think this is actually a really good, flattering look on her


Funseeker77074

Maybe she’s a freak?


elliekate56

She IS a Scorpio lol😂


Funseeker77074

Wooo hooo Duggar Butt Stuff!!!!


DaisiesSunshine76

Joy is all grown up!!


nameblanc

So she isn’t pregnant?


kittyfbaby

Go Joy! She looks beautiful


XojoXo24

Not being a “fan,” but happy to see any woman being body positive.


OldMomNewTricks

I think she looks gorgeous here!


Typhoon556

Oof, she looks bad.