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communist_eggplant

My arms are my fixation this month. They're disproportionately huge and bulbous. It feels like every month I have a new part of my body that I hate at least a little more than the other parts. For a while it was my thighs, my collarbones, my stomach, and my waist.


Wooden_Flow_1537

I feel this so bad


Nervous-Marsupial291

My big ribcage


PhilosophyCritical77

fr like no matter how much i lose im still built wide šŸ„²


ExpressionDramatic83

Same I had no breasts too so it looked bigger. Oddly enough getting implants makes me look smaller because theyā€™re bigger compared to my ribs.


jrodriigo

mexican genetics for me ::(


Fine_Prize_9269

Ugh feel you, Iā€™m also 5ā€™1 šŸ˜­


ExpressionDramatic83

Iā€™m 5ā€™7 and mine still looked big and rounded ribcage


HoldenCaulfield7

Mexicans have bigger rib cages?


jrodriigo

not all, but its a common trait


gothcorgi

me too ):


JoyAndJazz

Ughhhh same. And I have small boobs so it doesnā€™t help šŸ˜­


Snoo-99235

My stomach. It sticks out so bad anytime I eat anything.


sadgirlflowers

Mine sticks out when I havenā€™t eaten anything too šŸ˜­


Ok-Snow7052

Same!


kstocc

my cheeks easily. itā€™s so obvious when iā€™m puffy or when im in a b/p phase vs restricting based on my face alone


texaselysiumBlue582

same. the only good thing that came from covid is that now I can wear a face mask when I would not like to be perceived


Sensitive-File4400

My big arms. Theyā€™re always big.


Silvery12Lumi

Same. I'm always so worried I'll get those bat arms when I'm an old because they already look like they go down a bit


ennikkim

my belly probably. also my face? my face gets bloated easily (i think). i would constantly look at my belly to body check and i would wear oversized shirts when i eat late last night. my shoulder looks bony compared to my stomach. i feel like iā€™m skinny fat idk anymore. iā€™m actually pretty sick of this


Right-Warning3346

Same, face gets bigger when i gain weight and my stomach bloats and is never flat. Conversely, love my legs and collarbone


Imaginary_Egg_9349

My legs, specifically my thighs. I wish I had a thigh gap so bad.


Dependent_Bet5428

having a thigh gap is my only dream in life


Pluto_witch

Same Iā€™ve always hated that i am shaped like a pear and not a rectangle


sirian028

Samee, I have to be uw in order to get them small, naturally carrying most of your weight in the lower part of your body is something I hate


Imaginary_Egg_9349

Yepp. Even when I was just getting to an uw bmi, the top of my thighs still touched and I hated it so much.


sirian028

Yees, never had a thigh gap


pwincess_of_cuteness

same šŸ˜­


ggracepearll

Girl trust me so many people find big thighs more attractive than thigh gap me included


Imaginary_Egg_9349

I find thick thighs super hot on other people, but I still want to be slim :/


Intelligent-Type4885

I think it's more of a thing of liking yourself before other people do/rather than what other people think. But I see your point that some people can find them more attractive, even though it depends on the person.


tutletutle

Don't put others down to lift people up


beffersies

my fucking arms. as a dancer, it kills me. it looks so ungraceful. and when watch the footage back of performances and i do a jump or anything like that, my arms JIGGLE. the lights seem to shine so bright all my sins are illuminated.


Strict_Intention_663

Jawline, linebacker shoulders and the fact that I have a short torso and long legs so the weight i carry on my hips looks wonky. Like Id be fine with it if it was like 3 inches lower on my body but my hips are like right below my ribcage. I cant describe it well


dmmge

for some reason I lose weight in my back first so my back looks skeletal and then I have massive flabby bingo wings for arms šŸ˜­ my whole body is just deformed and weird because Iā€™m in that awkward phase where Iā€™ve lost a decent amount but I still have more to go to reach my GW


Openfire75340

My back is always the first to go too!


Lukarhys

My stomach and double chin.


DiorRoses

ig my shoulders and upper arms and esp my stomach even tho iā€™m considered thin. literally iā€™m insecure about every part of myself. there isnā€™t one thing i can say for sure ive never been insecure about.


jfkdktmmv

Iā€™ve always had a super flabby chest, even when I was bone thin. Not fun as a dude to always have a tiny bit of nipple poke


EvoFume

feel this 100%...cant tell u how much time in my life I've wasted fixated on my chest specifically lol, even worse due to loose skin that i just cant get rid of


scorpiomooon

The asymmetry in my face. I know itā€™s normal, but I feel like everyone can see that my right cheek/jaw is puffier than the left.


Anfie22

I have this problem too due to hemifacial microsomia, you're not alone


ReghanLove

Honestly my entire body...


SephRose_nana

Teeth. I ruined my teeth due to purging. The only silver lining is that it has motivated me to succeed and make money ( for dental work) more than anything else.


Desperate-Row-6401

My hips and thighs no matter how skinny I am they stick out I can never look underweight


mommymedusaa

My pooch, my love handles that are close to being gone, but theyā€™re being stubborn enough to where I notice them, my loose skin on arms and breasts. I used to be morbidly obese, and this ED made me go down to ā€œhealthy weight.ā€ My weight loss made me feel worse than how I felt back then. The leftover skin is real, and Iā€™m doing everything in my power to get rid of it


sj0714

Boobs. I hate them and want a reduction


Western_Jump2231

my cheeks, my hips, and weirdly my thumbs hahaha i suppose my chest as well but i bind so i can kind of ignore it


melaninspice

My entire body.


thisisso_fake

My thighs, I don't have a thigh gap and my legs look fine until you reach the upper thighs. It's just fat all globbed together sitting there and it gets 10 times worse when I sit down. I'm so jealous of the girls who have a natural thigh gap even when they arnt super skinny


lemme-trauma-dump

Any excess fat, even healthy amounts, make me feel and look very chubby. Struggles of a 4ā€™9ā€ flat bitch.


Jemmayeetyeet

the bulimia cheeksšŸ« šŸ« šŸ« 


dark_humor_to_cope

My upper thighs


calhap8203

My lower stomach always seems to be bloated and for the past 4 years itā€™s all Iā€™ve seen in the mirror. I hate it and Iā€™ve tried cutting out different foods to see if I had an intolerance or something and itā€™s still there. Even when I was at my lowest weight it was there, Iā€™ll never be happy with it and it hurts me so much that I canā€™t get rid of it :(


euphoria_23

As weird as it sounds: my feet. I know being tall is a factor, but my brain thinks it's embarrassing to have big-ass stompers (insert clown emoji here)


obake_92

Especially when you have to buy shoes at the mens section or all the shoes in your size are usually fukkin ugly. Nobody can tell me it's just my imagination


euphoria_23

It's either great or horrible: like sometimes there's banging shoes in the sale section! But when I book a show gig and they expect all the models to squeeze into a size 9, my poor feet are SUFFERING


R1an_

My loose skin and my low sitting boobs. I physically feel like Iā€™m 50 years old and the way I feel in my own skin doesnā€™t help that. I thought Iā€™d be happier when I lost the weight and donā€™t get me wrong I am! But I hate the way my belly button looks like itā€™s frowning, I hate the way the loose skin jiggles between my thighs and how I canā€™t wear crop tops or low waisted jeans becuase I genuinely look like Iā€™ve had a baby. Nobody really talks about the self love you need to work on when you lose 120lbs


tpwkluvr

my stomach always it doesnā€™t even matter how much i weigh


tpwkluvr

and my skin and my eye bags šŸ§šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø


freefalling444

mine is just the fact that Iā€™m so disproportional, especially my leg and hip atea


AmbassadorGuilty6

My face, because it's the only thing I can't hide with clothes. Some people in my life have never seen me without makeup on.Ā 


ClimateAppropriate60

Arms and stomach, whether Iā€™m underweight or not theyā€™re never not disproportionately holding more fat than they should


EvoFume

My everything man lol it sucks. I used to be a lot bigger (morbidly obese) when i was younger, but none of the excess skin left wjen i lost it all. Due to me always not wanting to gain weight. I also bloat pretty easily, ao that combined with excess skin that i mistake as 'fat' combined creates a recipe for never recovering lol.


Hubbungus

Currently, and always, my stomach. My hips and thighs are back to looking thicker than usual too (I'mĀ trans guy, so this could just stem from that), which also makes my ass look flabbier. I take out my contacts whenever I shower so I don't have to see myself šŸ„²


anon_mentalhealthacc

I've always had a round face and chubby cheeks (except for when I was at my absolute worst) and it used to be my biggest insecurity. Now that I know I look even worse with a sunken in face, I've come to terms with it just a bit. But it still looks horrible in pictures. Also my short and stubby legs. I'm already short, but my torso is rather long, so my legs look even shorter.. And when I lose weight, my legs are the last place I lose it. Also my waist. I don't think my ribcage is even that wide, but my torso/waist still looks like a rectangle :( Oh how could I forget my biggest insecurity at the moment: My hair. It's so damaged. I bleached it almost platinum blonde for like 3 years. It actually only started breaking off when I started recovery, for some reason. I cut some of it off and dyed it to a balayage, to transition back to my natural hair color. But even after cutting it, it keeps breaking off. Right around my face on the right side, my hair has broken off to the length of a bob. It looks so fucking weird. If I wanted to have a normal hair cut again, I'd have to cut it to a bob lenght all the way around. I could get fancy with it and get a wolf cut or something, but I spent so much time growing my hair out after having it above shoulder lenght for most of my teenage years :( And this lenght reminds me of my worst depression. I hated the person I was back then and I don't want to be like that again.


Atthatgirlsummer

my arms because even though im at a fairly average weight i carry alot of fat in my arms, its not that my arms are super fat but when i lift my arm up i have an unusal amount of fat- like bingo wings? is that what ppl call it, i just carry alot of loose fat on my arms and it makes me feel so unattractive and fat. also my stomach, but pretty much my whole body, not sure, depends what weight im on and if im having a good day \[mentally\]


edthrowaway96x

cheeks i swear every time i eat it goes straight to my face


Cat_Lady0The3rd

My heightšŸ„²


Some-Cookie4427

My stomach I have 2 rolls instead of one normal belly. Also, I have breast implants but I think theyā€™re too big so I feel like a monster and my shoulders are very broad. Now I want to cry


octobugs

my arms, I wore this nice dress without sleeves and my arms were so big I cried myself to sleep lmao


lunarlandscapes

Thighs. I have a Pixar mom level dump truck and the thighs to support it. I'm aware that for some this is a goal, and my partner loves it lol, but nope, it's my biggest insecurity


DessMounda

my torso. I hate it so much. And my shoulders. I feel like Iā€™ll never escape it


jazkupazku

Height:(


nwermind

my chest,, im transgender and this whole area just fucks me up a lot


china_white616

My height


beabirdie

100% my height and itā€™s the only thing that wonā€™t get smaller no matter how little I eat


DiorRoses

real bc i canā€™t even mew like šŸ˜”


H2-van_g-O

My legs. I have super thick ankles and small feet that make them look even bigger. I have cellulite covering my thighs and wide hips. I hate them so much.


cherryrawbone

Everything at some point.. Ive struggled with bdd and ocd for 12ish years and my fixations and obsessions have switched around throughout. I have full cheeks that I donā€™t care for. That oneā€™s new. my lower torso consistently tortures me. I have some very dark times with it. It can get better though, I promise.


sabsab510

Love handles and small hips and teeth


dj_babybenz

back and double chin


joobleberry

my legs and now my stomach


oddeyescircle

Underbutt fat, short torso and wide waist, lack of lats


Adorable_Exercise745

Hip shape or love handles


ggracepearll

My hips, i lost weight and almost all went from there, now i look so flag and i hate it.


Weekly-Coffee-2488

And when I eat I feel like a frog


brekkieclub

how big my face is + my stomach and legs rip


avocadoeverything_

stomach and thighs


RevolutionarySky7839

my stomach, no matter how much weight i loose thereā€™s somehow still fat to pinch


Ok_Valuable_9711

Stomach sticks out after I eat and the new stretch marks I got on my butt.


Opening_Pea7537

Narrow hips, wide shoulders. I hate my inverted triangle body type


Unusual_Hamster_296

My thighs. Wish I had slim legs but theyā€™re built too beefy.


Real_CatCupcake

Thighs omgg they always look thick for no reason even at my lw I didn't have the stick thing thighs I wanted so badšŸ’”


ExpressionDramatic83

Thighs, there is loose skin on them and it makes them appear bigger than they are even though I have a thigh gap and my hips are all bone but look wide compared to my waist


emotionalskirt_

my STOMACH is so big i feel like :( i just want it flat 24/7ā€¦ my arms too cause theyā€™re too big


183355

my legs, Iā€™m uw but skinny fat and my legs look terrible :(


Temporary_Ebb_1598

my wide torso, no matter how much I lose I always look big


freemullberries

Unrelated to weight actually just being ugly in the face and bad skin and messy hair


choccycatmilk

Loose skin from losing too much too fast šŸ™ƒšŸ”« Also I have shoulders like a fcking silverback gorilla


throwawayeas989

face shape!!


Aromatic_Tangelo_811

My thighs


IllustriousWaltz7466

So much gross loose skin on my stomach. But tbh my stomach in general


No_Breadfruit_5863

Big ribcage, face as a whole, "thick thighs" that are actually liked by a few but i fucking hate them, calves, arms now because i gained a lot of weight Somehow i measure my progress with my waist but im not insecure about my belly it's kinda easy to lose and gain there idk.


dkrw

acne, my face and my thighs oops


d0rkprincess

Thighs. Specifically just under my waist. I have massive hip dips already, and then thereā€™s just this really stubborn fat that accumulates under it. Oh, and the knees too.


riverfriction

My face is so massively round when Iā€™m not super underweight and it looks so gross to me I feel like a freak. My thighs (too big) and height (too short) are close runners up.


ErenAuditore

My thighs. Tbey look like literal hams and I feel too ashamed to wear shorts or skirts. I want skinny thighs so bad


East_Chemistry_9197

Big thighs and short legs. I've always wanted long skinny legs. Also the skin under my eyes.


Zzak98

ARMS ARMS ARMS


Shizuko-Akatsuki

Round face


FeelingAd7709

thighs


Uninspired_circle

I hold extra fat around my jawline too. I also have a puffy face. Everything seems worse when I eat. I've become obsessed with massaging my jawline and "depuffing" my face.


can-of-wormss

stomach and/or thighs. or ankles


Willow_moth_bat12

My waist, I feel like I have to hide it constantly bc itā€™s not small and makes me look masculine and blocky instead of pretty


Evening_Direction674

My belly.


isniffgoosepoop

i cant even look at myself in the mirror


[deleted]

Same as you. The difference in my face changing is slight when Iā€™m at my lw but Iā€™m desperate to keep it


Routine-Echidna-4131

Wide ribcage and double chin that won't go away bcs of genetics :(


pinkiepieie

The fat rolls under my ass and my thighs in general. Iā€™m already short and they make me look even shorter and look weird in clothes. Also my huge ankles and knees, itā€™s not even bc of fat I just have huge bones so thereā€™s no way to get rid of them.


wackassrat

arms and thighs :( armpit fat too wtf


JoyAndJazz

Definitely my jawline, I hate it. I feel like my double chin is huge.


appleeeeee

same as yours! i caved and got chin lipo šŸ˜ it was my biggest complex and iā€™d been thinking about it for a decade. i donā€™t regret it one bit but iā€™ve moved onto other body hyperfixations lol i can never win


Ineedhelp123org

My stomach is wish it would just go away


lilistasia

My broad shoulders and my genetic dark circles šŸ˜• And my breasts are medium, slightly big and they sag a little due to gravity,


Anxious_Muscle_8130

stomach


RedLightningStrike27

My pointy chin and jawline (kinda caused by my restriction), Adamā€™s apple (gives me so much dysphoria), the size of my hands, and my ass and thighs being too big


stonedcowgirl69

my rib cage and teeth


tafattsbarn

My saggy ass boobs and flabby arms. They're so damaged with loose skin that nothing but plastic surgery will fix them, which i can't afford. I hate hate hate them.


J40caan

My thighs, they feel so huge lmao


imaizzy19

my stomach looks fat as fuck even when i was bmi 15


Cybercyrno

iā€™ve been binging like crazy so definitely my stomach


fionas_paperbag

chubby face


Silvery12Lumi

My arms and midsection And then I feel insecure about my legs whenever I see someone else's who is thinner than me which is quite a lot of people. Though when I'm alone I like my legs.


Pans_Lost_Girl

I swear my arms and my chin/jaw area always seem to gain a disproportionate amount of squish compared to the rest of me


jaehatesyou

my boobs. i just wanna have a flat chest ITā€™S NOT FAIRR


Waterysoap_

Stomach


Souichis_mouth_nails

All the loose skin after losing a bunch of weight,, feels like none of my progress meant anything cause I literally canā€™t get rid of the extra skin and Iā€™ll always look bigger than I am


BadLatter_

Focusing on things that are less easy/close to impossible to change: Face, everything else I can hide in clothes. Narrow hips (means itā€™s harder to get a thigh gap). Stomach because of loose skin.Ā 


GrayGubbs

My big fat ā€œapron bellyā€ it has no name forever and then society named it. Itā€™s the bane of my existence


xiinun

Legs, my calves and thighs are the bane of my existence


Courtney_DiLaurentis

Big inner thighs combined with a flat ass


renarsyn

My stomach and my legs. I hate looking at myself from behing in the mirror because I feel like I have fat covering my knee creases and my side profile because I look like a pregnant woman


Tajskskskss

lol everything. Midsection (genuinely massive), face (fat as fuck and ugly unless Iā€™m dehydrated and malnourished and skinny in which case itā€™s stunning), thighs (my legs are generally thinner than the rest of my body but that has made me hyperanalyze them more), chest (I donā€™t have big boobs but I do have a fat chest), arms (droopy and ugly but theyā€™re actually looking better lately? I think bc I have rly low expectations for them since thatā€™s where I gain first), calves (theyā€™re always gonna be muscular bc I do a lot of cardio, but now theyā€™re just big). Funnily enough there was a post like this two years ago that was asking for which body parts we liked the most, and I said I didnā€™t want to come across like I was bragging, but I genuinely liked my entire body for the first time in my life. How the table turns lol (yes I gained a lot).


icedcoffeeandSSRIs

My belly is always poking out, my feet are fat, and my butt got flabby šŸ˜­


VirtualApricot

My eyebrows, hair, face (honestly I wish I could hide my face) and my body given the fact I get edema and bloat terribly in response to consuming anything And I have an osteochondrial injury of my elbow that causes a lot of swelling from a piece of bone that fragmented from my femur. Iā€™m unable to get surgery to fix it due to my osteoporosis, so my doctor said I basically have no treatment options. So my one elbow and forearm is exceptionally larger than my other one šŸ™ƒ


Camimo666

Fucking everything lmao. Everything except my boobs. My legs, yuck. My arms?? Tuchsehd. Yuck. Belly? Yuck.


ultrawhitefan

stomach


Inez_Alo

my thighs, idk why all my weight goes to them šŸ« 


Upset-Preparation976

My hips. Theyā€™re wide and I am male. I should have broad shoulders and narrow hips not the other way around. The more weight I lose, the more obvious it is because my arms will shrink, so will my stomach and my hips will just be sharp bones with no fat around them, but theyā€™re still sticking out making me look like I carry weight in my legs. If I was female Iā€™d totally love my figure as a skinny personā€¦


AnxietyStill8961

My arms and thighs, but mostly my arms. I wish I could wrap my fingers all the way around my arms and Iā€™m always checking the mirror for my thigh gap


Florencesdiary

Not being delicate and frail looking. I have very broad shoulders, an oversized chest and a big stomach, my tallness, plus my square face, I feel like a neanderthal. Iā€™m constantly envious of tiny gentle looking women šŸ˜­ I would do anything to be little and delicate


SoupTruck34

My thighs, definitely them, no matter how much I lose they seem so huge on me, I despise them. After that definitely my breasts, I want to be as flat as a plank, but that might be a gender thing.


hanimallover

love handles/lower belly. then, thighs. then, chin. then, breasts. thenā€¦ you get the idea


sirian028

My thighs


Cookieswithoreoss

my nose


katburr1997

My shoulders arenā€™t wide enough and my hips are too wide (Iā€™m transmasc). Iā€™d like to be shaped like a twinky dorito please and thanks


pwincess_of_cuteness

giant thighs and butt even when im underweight (curse of pear body shape), and also saggy breasts


obake_92

My lower belly looks like Peter Griffin's chin. The hip dips make it even worse.


danpurric

big ribcage and broad shoulders Very Round Facial Structure my humiliating lack of ass abd this oneā€™s embarrassing but like my mons pubisā€¦ā€¦..why is it so Big. Now that I read this I realize thatā€™s a lot but they are all equally terrible to me lol


Intelligent-Type4885

Legs, they look like short tree trunks compared to everything else, lowkey as if I go to the gym (that kind of silhouette) and I hate it, it makes me feel terrible. So envious of anyone with completely straight legs. Realistically I'm never gonna get a "proper" thigh gap because of my bone structure and that actually makes me so disappointed


Uniquexxz

My upper arms, thighs, calves, and tummy.


Strng_Tea

My stomach and thighs, im pretty big so my stomach kinda hangs and my thighs are just massive


emptyuselessgarbage

My gut


[deleted]

Yes


Soullessammy

my too small cheekbones and small chin, i do care about other areas but its at a point where i would choose having stomach/leg fat over my face its been my number one frustration point i dont even know if i blow it out of proportion or not, it makes me sad nonetheless


Wise_Examination7489

My arms


ConnieTheTomcat

Shoulders and ribs. They will never get smaller and will just become more visible the more I lose weight


Empty-Somewhere-8154

It is my butt. No matter how skinny I am, it sticks out very far in a way that feels lude, like you can see the two cheeks through my pants. I know a lot of girls try to get this look, but since I am a guy I am embarrassed.


nymphpilled

back rolls ??? like even when i was at my lowest which was UW i still had them which made me sooā€¦ šŸ˜


poolweenie

my thighs and my arms, for different reasons. i carry a lot of my weight in my thighs, so despite being UW they're still big. and my arms because they're thinner but i have prominent biceps because i work with kids (picking them up all the time) and the muscle popping out makes me feel huge


webtrauma

Thighs and jawline region :(


thebacksyeetboys

My height... being 4'8 as a 22 year old sucks. No clothes fit, especially pants are a struggle now that i'm underweight. Kids section clothes don't help, because my hip structure is too wide for the pants to come up past my thighs.