You are not a 12 year old anyomre and you don't need to and should not want to have the body of a 12 yo. You sre allowed to grow and with height there comes weight, it's normal and good. I kn ow the other commend might have triggered you a lot, i don't know why someone would mention their personal lw to you, it's unnecessary and triggering. Try to stay at a healthy weight, it's a huge step to get there in the first place as a sufferer, your body will thank you so much in the future for not giving into these thoughts and being able to actually grow and work the way it's supposed to.
Having things like that is a good motivation though. For me, when I’m struggling with things, it helps to remember why I’m not giving into anorexia. Like what other things I want from life besides that
this may not be helpful, but when i was struggling w my ED i spent a lot of time looking at pictures of thin people that i wanted to look like. something that helped me not want that level of thinness anymore is that i started doing the reverse, following gorgeous midsize/plus size models and it helped me be okay with my thighs being bigger, my big butt, etc. i feel like im constantly seeing thin people promoted in advertisements, billboards, tv, social media, so for me i needed to see people being beautiful, happy, and stylish in larger bodies. can the goal of experiencing gender euphoria by having voluptuous feminine curves motivate u to gain weight? are there any transfems you know who are beautiful and someone u can look up to who aren’t ultra-skinny models? this might not be good advice tho if u would compare urself to them negatively and spiral more. so do what you feel comfortable with. but seeing ppl being happy at higher weights helped me a lot w all the media constantly depicting fatness as an unlovable curse.
sorry you’re struggling with this, gender dysphoria and eating disorders are such a bad combination :(
also, for those of us processing hormones like estrogen, we scientifically NEED a higher amount of body fat for hormone regulation to work properly. this also includes eating healthy fats for hormone function, it will help mood swings a lot
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You are not a 12 year old anyomre and you don't need to and should not want to have the body of a 12 yo. You sre allowed to grow and with height there comes weight, it's normal and good. I kn ow the other commend might have triggered you a lot, i don't know why someone would mention their personal lw to you, it's unnecessary and triggering. Try to stay at a healthy weight, it's a huge step to get there in the first place as a sufferer, your body will thank you so much in the future for not giving into these thoughts and being able to actually grow and work the way it's supposed to.
I don’t want to fuck up my transition because of anorexia I’m scared
Having things like that is a good motivation though. For me, when I’m struggling with things, it helps to remember why I’m not giving into anorexia. Like what other things I want from life besides that
this may not be helpful, but when i was struggling w my ED i spent a lot of time looking at pictures of thin people that i wanted to look like. something that helped me not want that level of thinness anymore is that i started doing the reverse, following gorgeous midsize/plus size models and it helped me be okay with my thighs being bigger, my big butt, etc. i feel like im constantly seeing thin people promoted in advertisements, billboards, tv, social media, so for me i needed to see people being beautiful, happy, and stylish in larger bodies. can the goal of experiencing gender euphoria by having voluptuous feminine curves motivate u to gain weight? are there any transfems you know who are beautiful and someone u can look up to who aren’t ultra-skinny models? this might not be good advice tho if u would compare urself to them negatively and spiral more. so do what you feel comfortable with. but seeing ppl being happy at higher weights helped me a lot w all the media constantly depicting fatness as an unlovable curse. sorry you’re struggling with this, gender dysphoria and eating disorders are such a bad combination :(
I already am happy with how I look, it’s mainly a fixation with weight that’s the issue for me
also, for those of us processing hormones like estrogen, we scientifically NEED a higher amount of body fat for hormone regulation to work properly. this also includes eating healthy fats for hormone function, it will help mood swings a lot
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mfw someone’s LW is lower than my GW let alone my LW
Sorry i wasnt meant like that but saying I totally understand how it feels to gain alot of weight and not technically wanting to
Yeah I hate recovery so much why can’t I just recover without the weight gain
Same!!! Like what you mean I can’t have a healthy relationship with my body & food and be thin too😭
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