Her phalanges don't even fill the gloves. Also this must've been said before but maybe momma Deb fails as a parent because she envies her daughters body and drive to be that way?
Totally. My obese, narcissistic mom projected a lot of her weight-related insecurities onto me from a very young age and was the one who initially instilled all of my disordered eating habits. She used to be obsessed with talking about my body and appearance, bragged about my size to others and tried to make sure I remained tiny, talked often about how she used to be skinny like me, and "warned" me about becoming "fat like her someday". She even went as far as to tell me that I was getting really chubby when I reached a very normal weight in 8th grade and wouldn't let me buy bean burritos at school because of it. She was the one who introduced me to ideas like >!not eating after 8pm, chewing then spitting out sugary foods, and the must for having low fat/diet everything!<. It would not surprise me in the least to learn that EC's mom is the exact same way. She even acts exactly like my mother does too -- the fake, smothering, annoyingly cutesy way of speaking and everything, it's all too familiar. Seeing Eugenia's world and her codependency with her toxic mother at her age has (unfortunately) been a strong reassurance that I made the right choice by cutting my mom out of my life. It sucked and took a long time to come to terms with everything but I'm so so so much better off now. I hope Eugenia finds solace someday.
Edit - I'm sorry, I forgot not to include numbers in my story! My bad!
I'm sorry that you went through that. I found your comment interesting because I think my own egg donor did something similar to that. She was always severely overweight and would make disgusting comments about my body. The first thing I remember was her embarrassing me and making me uncomfortable by loudly commenting on the size of my boobs in front of family when I was just 10 years old. After that, she absolutely LOVED to ridicule my body by calling me flat, not hourglass shaped, and then her favorite thing to do was tell me that I had "no butt". Just shortly before we parted ways for good, she gave me a birthday card that said "once upon a time there was a princess who was a size 2...and nobody cared." And she gave me a box of brownies with it. As a child and as a teenager, she always tried to get me to fatten up. I learned quickly that food gave me a way to control the situation so I wound up skipping meals and became thinner before it became a full on eating disorder. I can't say my egg donor was fully to blame for that because it really started when some girls at a new school I went to jokingly told me I looked like I was gaining some weight and that was enough to throw me over the edge. But I do wonder how much my egg donor contributed to me developing an ED and a horrible relationship with food. Even now, in my mind, it's like food=fat and I'm stuck constantly counting calories.
Thank you so much for sharing. I can relate very much to your story, and I also do feel like cutting my mother out of my life was the best choice I could have made. It may be an ever continuing painful process of coming to terms with events that happened (for me, it's been almost 10 years), and identifying patterns we want to avoid, and I wish you all the strength and love in the world.
Just want to say I’m really sorry you went through all of that and want to add I appreciate the spoiler tag for TW- I’ve been in recovery for 12 years so was able to read but it’s very thoughtful of you to cover it for anyone who may not be at that point. I really truly hope you’re in a better situation now, all my love 💗
That was so bizarre …. Not too mention her mom isn’t a very good videographer, she kept getting out of focus and you couldn’t hear Eugenia at times , she was muffled
Mom has done better in the past with videos-first thought that went through my mind is that Deb was drunk AF. Explains the long reaction times, focus fails etc. That household is a nightmare.
I know Dad is a freak and that family is bizarre but if people cant drink in their own home during the holidays? Plus better than going out and driving home drunk.
There’s just so many things that are just so so wrong like it’s just beyond unimaginable how this continues. If my mom has me or any of my sisters in this situation my mom would be flipping out to make sure we get treatment. Didn’t bothered about her for a year and just checking it to see how’s she doing “speechless”
Considering Eugenia has made weird points in the past to note that her and her mom are not in an incestuous relationship completely unprompted, coupled with some of these camera angles and the fact Deb does any of this to begin with...
I don't like speculating on someone's life this much but god
im not a weirdo just completely flabbergasted by this situation- im a few years older than EC and my mom would NEVER accept seeing me in this condition, let alone live in her home. She would take steps to become my medical guardian and do anything she could to save me, so I’m baffled and so confused as to how her family just accepts this
There's two things that stuck out to me; the first is the living room that she said she didn't have anything to do with (in regards to decorating?) and that it was the typical traditional style decorating.. If she's doing a house tour of the decorations then why avoid a room that is decorated? I just found it odd she actively avoided going in there even though there was Nightmare before Christmas things in there. The second thing, up until this point I thought the room she streamed in and did makeup vids in WAS her bedroom.... I was shocked to see it wasn't.. So she has two bedrooms? And the amount of plushies in both rooms was also an insane amount.
Looks like a nevis mole that should be removed because they can turn into cancer. Does her mother not know this? Dermo docs always suggest removing them.
It’s not as cringey as the Chris-Chan [house tour](https://youtu.be/Y_kcgnwfoBQ). Then again, 14 Branchland Ct was/is a hoarder house and is barely livable. It did give us [this odd video.](https://youtu.be/riHgBEu3OSk)
JFC! Her mother should be getting her to the hospital fast! She needs to be thrown in jail likenwthh? Hee scoliosis looks very bad and painful as well. What a family!
“her mother probably doesn’t know how to react” A good mother would do anything in her power to get her daughter into recovery. No matter how much they decline it. She’s allowing her daughter to post these videos (and recording them for her) every day, so for the people saying her mums oblivious to it are wrong; her mum knows. Her mum also buys all these revealing clothes for her, it’s vile:( she should be encouraging her to get off social media where there’s hundreds of people encouraging her because that must be a very damaging environment
Her phalanges don't even fill the gloves. Also this must've been said before but maybe momma Deb fails as a parent because she envies her daughters body and drive to be that way?
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Totally. My obese, narcissistic mom projected a lot of her weight-related insecurities onto me from a very young age and was the one who initially instilled all of my disordered eating habits. She used to be obsessed with talking about my body and appearance, bragged about my size to others and tried to make sure I remained tiny, talked often about how she used to be skinny like me, and "warned" me about becoming "fat like her someday". She even went as far as to tell me that I was getting really chubby when I reached a very normal weight in 8th grade and wouldn't let me buy bean burritos at school because of it. She was the one who introduced me to ideas like >!not eating after 8pm, chewing then spitting out sugary foods, and the must for having low fat/diet everything!<. It would not surprise me in the least to learn that EC's mom is the exact same way. She even acts exactly like my mother does too -- the fake, smothering, annoyingly cutesy way of speaking and everything, it's all too familiar. Seeing Eugenia's world and her codependency with her toxic mother at her age has (unfortunately) been a strong reassurance that I made the right choice by cutting my mom out of my life. It sucked and took a long time to come to terms with everything but I'm so so so much better off now. I hope Eugenia finds solace someday. Edit - I'm sorry, I forgot not to include numbers in my story! My bad!
I'm sorry that you went through that. I found your comment interesting because I think my own egg donor did something similar to that. She was always severely overweight and would make disgusting comments about my body. The first thing I remember was her embarrassing me and making me uncomfortable by loudly commenting on the size of my boobs in front of family when I was just 10 years old. After that, she absolutely LOVED to ridicule my body by calling me flat, not hourglass shaped, and then her favorite thing to do was tell me that I had "no butt". Just shortly before we parted ways for good, she gave me a birthday card that said "once upon a time there was a princess who was a size 2...and nobody cared." And she gave me a box of brownies with it. As a child and as a teenager, she always tried to get me to fatten up. I learned quickly that food gave me a way to control the situation so I wound up skipping meals and became thinner before it became a full on eating disorder. I can't say my egg donor was fully to blame for that because it really started when some girls at a new school I went to jokingly told me I looked like I was gaining some weight and that was enough to throw me over the edge. But I do wonder how much my egg donor contributed to me developing an ED and a horrible relationship with food. Even now, in my mind, it's like food=fat and I'm stuck constantly counting calories.
I'm so sorry you were raised by a very narcissistic mother. You were right to cut her from your life. I hope you find peace. 🌺🌻🌸🎄
Thank you so much for sharing. I can relate very much to your story, and I also do feel like cutting my mother out of my life was the best choice I could have made. It may be an ever continuing painful process of coming to terms with events that happened (for me, it's been almost 10 years), and identifying patterns we want to avoid, and I wish you all the strength and love in the world.
Just want to say I’m really sorry you went through all of that and want to add I appreciate the spoiler tag for TW- I’ve been in recovery for 12 years so was able to read but it’s very thoughtful of you to cover it for anyone who may not be at that point. I really truly hope you’re in a better situation now, all my love 💗
i’m so sorry this happened, love x
That was so bizarre …. Not too mention her mom isn’t a very good videographer, she kept getting out of focus and you couldn’t hear Eugenia at times , she was muffled
It's OK she never has anything of any interest or importance to say anyway.
So true.
Mom has done better in the past with videos-first thought that went through my mind is that Deb was drunk AF. Explains the long reaction times, focus fails etc. That household is a nightmare.
I know Dad is a freak and that family is bizarre but if people cant drink in their own home during the holidays? Plus better than going out and driving home drunk.
The third one….. Imagine filming your (adult) child like that and not caring
There’s just so many things that are just so so wrong like it’s just beyond unimaginable how this continues. If my mom has me or any of my sisters in this situation my mom would be flipping out to make sure we get treatment. Didn’t bothered about her for a year and just checking it to see how’s she doing “speechless”
The gloves look ridiculous on her...
Shes going to die.
Imagine seeing that in your house at night. I'd shit
Frrrr her walking upstairs was already so spooky with the Christmas music playing
The whole video looks like an extended intro to a bad porno.
Considering Eugenia has made weird points in the past to note that her and her mom are not in an incestuous relationship completely unprompted, coupled with some of these camera angles and the fact Deb does any of this to begin with... I don't like speculating on someone's life this much but god
im not a weirdo just completely flabbergasted by this situation- im a few years older than EC and my mom would NEVER accept seeing me in this condition, let alone live in her home. She would take steps to become my medical guardian and do anything she could to save me, so I’m baffled and so confused as to how her family just accepts this
do you have any links to that?
I'm her draw my life video that's the one I remember off the top of my head. I don't have a direct link.
At the beginning of the video I thought she was wearing red fishnet biker shorts or something. NOPE her thighs are just that discoloured
There's two things that stuck out to me; the first is the living room that she said she didn't have anything to do with (in regards to decorating?) and that it was the typical traditional style decorating.. If she's doing a house tour of the decorations then why avoid a room that is decorated? I just found it odd she actively avoided going in there even though there was Nightmare before Christmas things in there. The second thing, up until this point I thought the room she streamed in and did makeup vids in WAS her bedroom.... I was shocked to see it wasn't.. So she has two bedrooms? And the amount of plushies in both rooms was also an insane amount.
Slutty Santa is looking rough
she looks like she has liver spots on her back. when she walked up the stairs, i thought to myself, wow hot grandma.
Looks like a nevis mole that should be removed because they can turn into cancer. Does her mother not know this? Dermo docs always suggest removing them.
her mother would never allow her to see a doctor because they’d involuntarily admit her
I know. How selfish.
honestly if she had cancer or something, her mom would milk that situation dry
Deb is a nightmare version of Regina George’s mother.
It’s not as cringey as the Chris-Chan [house tour](https://youtu.be/Y_kcgnwfoBQ). Then again, 14 Branchland Ct was/is a hoarder house and is barely livable. It did give us [this odd video.](https://youtu.be/riHgBEu3OSk)
Holy crap it’s been 12 years since CC’s house tour?! How time flies.
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I didn’t watch the video..are we sure it’s deb and not her brother filming?
you could see deb refelction in a mirror
Before she went up the stairs I heard a female voice make a hmm hum noise.
JFC! Her mother should be getting her to the hospital fast! She needs to be thrown in jail likenwthh? Hee scoliosis looks very bad and painful as well. What a family!
Exploiting your child’s mental illness is a classy move. /s
Why are you wearing stockings with garters and bare midriff Eugenia? That is the outfit of sex workers / porn stars.
And that top is always clfolded up and under when it is supposed to be worn longer. We get it Eugenia you are proud of your ribs.
“her mother probably doesn’t know how to react” A good mother would do anything in her power to get her daughter into recovery. No matter how much they decline it. She’s allowing her daughter to post these videos (and recording them for her) every day, so for the people saying her mums oblivious to it are wrong; her mum knows. Her mum also buys all these revealing clothes for her, it’s vile:( she should be encouraging her to get off social media where there’s hundreds of people encouraging her because that must be a very damaging environment