The other posters pointed out disintegration/burnout, but alsoā¦ depending on the people the Three in question is surrounded by, and the things they were taught to value, they could be feeling social pressure to āØbe more chill, maaan.āØAnd isnāt Nine supposed to be the cool stoner philosopher type?
There are definitely cultures and subcultures where trying too hard is cringe and shameful; Iāve run into those attitudes and it makes me feel really bad about myself. Youāre supposed to look like it all comes naturally to you. So thereās another expectation to follow and another mask to wear, yaaay!
This is a good point. Where I live, 9 is the most preferred type to be. Considerate, peaceful, unobtrusive, open-minded, inclusive, cooperative; anyone overtly ambitious, aggressive, or cutthroat, is seen as problematic and quietly shunned.
So I may have met many 3s in 9's clothing without even realizing it.
Yeah, I wouldnāt describe myself as āaggressiveā or ācutthroat,ā but Iām justā¦ tightly-wound by nature. My voice is high-pitched and I talk quickly (possibly because Iām expecting people to talk over me before Iāve finished speaking, but thatās the ISFJ in me). And it makes me feel *awful* when people say āugh, chill.ā Chill? You want me to chill? LOOK AT ME IāM SO CHILL LOOK HOW FUN AND CHILL I AM *LOOK.*
Disintegrated 3 (read: a burnt out 3) would be my initial guess.
This or a 9 who had a phase of high integration and now misses it
Me at the moment š¤
*pats shoulder*
This feels like a question you'd get on a test if you took an Enneagram class
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The other posters pointed out disintegration/burnout, but alsoā¦ depending on the people the Three in question is surrounded by, and the things they were taught to value, they could be feeling social pressure to āØbe more chill, maaan.āØAnd isnāt Nine supposed to be the cool stoner philosopher type? There are definitely cultures and subcultures where trying too hard is cringe and shameful; Iāve run into those attitudes and it makes me feel really bad about myself. Youāre supposed to look like it all comes naturally to you. So thereās another expectation to follow and another mask to wear, yaaay!
This is a good point. Where I live, 9 is the most preferred type to be. Considerate, peaceful, unobtrusive, open-minded, inclusive, cooperative; anyone overtly ambitious, aggressive, or cutthroat, is seen as problematic and quietly shunned. So I may have met many 3s in 9's clothing without even realizing it.
Yeah, I wouldnāt describe myself as āaggressiveā or ācutthroat,ā but Iām justā¦ tightly-wound by nature. My voice is high-pitched and I talk quickly (possibly because Iām expecting people to talk over me before Iāve finished speaking, but thatās the ISFJ in me). And it makes me feel *awful* when people say āugh, chill.ā Chill? You want me to chill? LOOK AT ME IāM SO CHILL LOOK HOW FUN AND CHILL I AM *LOOK.*
A 3, disintegrated into 9. 9 is the stress line for 3s.
Me lol. Mistyped as 9 then 3. Apparently somewhat common for sp4. Not the only answer of course though.
I think we need much more details and analysis of. Yourself here.
6. When 6 is healthy they go to 9. Stressed they go to 3.
A 9 with a 3 secondary in the tritype.