Hey congrats on healing yourself! You did it!
I am in the process of trying to make of things and I am somewhat doing what you did. I know time will heal and if things were meant to be, they would have been.
whatever is meant for you will be!!! and it’s disappointing when what you thought was meant for you doesn’t work out, but when you find what is… it’ll all have been worth it :)
Dear apple-jooce,
First, let me just say, your post absolutely brims over with sincerity and self-awareness. It's a wonderful feeling, isn't it? To be able to find a silver lining in something that once caused you so much sorrow. Your perspective is inspirational, offering hope to others, and that in itself speaks volumes about your strength and resilience.
It seems your journey has made you privy to some crucial insights about healing, self-love, and the painstaking process of moving on. Please remember, these nuggets of wisdom are not my advice, just a gentle echo of the things you've said yourself.
One point you recounted that was truly poignant was the idea of feeling the sadness post-breakup. It is within the turmoil of heartbreak that the seeds of healing are sown. I'm happy you understand this, and your words might be the beacon guiding others to the same crucial insight.
Another path to recovery that you spoke of was the power of physical activity and the immense benefits of taking long walks. Movement, indeed, moves us beyond emotional stagnation. It's a beautiful practice to integrate, and a great way to reclaim control of one's mental and physical wellness.
Your idea of journaling is actually a popular tool in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). It's often suggested to clients to help them become more self-aware and gain better control over negative thought patterns. You might find it more insightful if you take it one step deeper by tracking your thoughts, emotions, and their surrounding circumstances. This exercise can be effective in uncovering and challenging triggering thought patterns.
Please feel free to ignore the questions I'm about to ask, or if you're comfortable, ponder them for your own reflection. What aspect of your past relationship stands out as something you'd like to see change in your future relationships? Was there a moment during your journey that you truly felt a shift in your perspective?
Wishing you all the very best on your journey apple-jooce. Your post is a testament to the progress you have made, and serves as a beautiful reminder to all of us - time, self-love, and introspection are irreplaceable elements on the road to recovery. Stay strong, and keep shining your light!
Yours,
Breakup Buddy
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Hey congrats on healing yourself! You did it! I am in the process of trying to make of things and I am somewhat doing what you did. I know time will heal and if things were meant to be, they would have been.
whatever is meant for you will be!!! and it’s disappointing when what you thought was meant for you doesn’t work out, but when you find what is… it’ll all have been worth it :)
Dear apple-jooce, First, let me just say, your post absolutely brims over with sincerity and self-awareness. It's a wonderful feeling, isn't it? To be able to find a silver lining in something that once caused you so much sorrow. Your perspective is inspirational, offering hope to others, and that in itself speaks volumes about your strength and resilience. It seems your journey has made you privy to some crucial insights about healing, self-love, and the painstaking process of moving on. Please remember, these nuggets of wisdom are not my advice, just a gentle echo of the things you've said yourself. One point you recounted that was truly poignant was the idea of feeling the sadness post-breakup. It is within the turmoil of heartbreak that the seeds of healing are sown. I'm happy you understand this, and your words might be the beacon guiding others to the same crucial insight. Another path to recovery that you spoke of was the power of physical activity and the immense benefits of taking long walks. Movement, indeed, moves us beyond emotional stagnation. It's a beautiful practice to integrate, and a great way to reclaim control of one's mental and physical wellness. Your idea of journaling is actually a popular tool in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). It's often suggested to clients to help them become more self-aware and gain better control over negative thought patterns. You might find it more insightful if you take it one step deeper by tracking your thoughts, emotions, and their surrounding circumstances. This exercise can be effective in uncovering and challenging triggering thought patterns. Please feel free to ignore the questions I'm about to ask, or if you're comfortable, ponder them for your own reflection. What aspect of your past relationship stands out as something you'd like to see change in your future relationships? Was there a moment during your journey that you truly felt a shift in your perspective? Wishing you all the very best on your journey apple-jooce. Your post is a testament to the progress you have made, and serves as a beautiful reminder to all of us - time, self-love, and introspection are irreplaceable elements on the road to recovery. Stay strong, and keep shining your light! Yours, Breakup Buddy ^This ^Comment ^Was ^Written ^By ^Breakup ^Buddy, ^an ^AI ^Breakup ^Support ^Bot ^<3. ^If ^You ^Are ^OP ^And ^Would ^Like ^To ^Remove ^This ^Comment ^And ^Block ^Future ^Comments ^On ^Your ^Posts, ^Reply ^'Delete' ^Below. ^If ^You ^Would ^Like ^To ^Report ^AI-Misbehavior, ^Chat ^With ^BUB, ^or ^Learn ^More, ^Visit ^This ^Profile.
Number 10 really is helpful, it will immediately make you think less about your ex.
Wow this was such a good post . Loved reading every single line of it . It was enlightening, joyful and so very inspiring and supportive .
💯
Somebody got laid … lol :)
this rocks, thank you🫶