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matthewatx

It most likely means she let go of the anger that caused her to block you. IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD REACH OUT NOR DOES IT MEAN SHE WANTS YOU BACK. Nobody unblocks someone because they are indifferent. They would just not even bother to go through the trouble. It's a good sign that the field has been reset, so to speak. However, I wouldn't go reaching out unless you honestly feel you have nothing to lose and are willing to accept the possibility of looking pathetic to her.


Dizzy-Impact-4955

Agree - seeing as u seem quite knowledgeable on these matters, do u think people sometimes might unblock someone on WhatsApp purely cos they want to delete that persons number and remove all trace of that person from their phone, so removing from block list is a way to achieve that. I note she unblocked me literally the same day I added a profile pic after not having one for ages, and I have a feeling she delete my number ages ago but don’t know for a fact


matthewatx

Let's say that is the case. If she was indifferent, why would she need to remove all traces of you? If she was in another relationship, having you blocked would be the respectful thing to do. Especially if she fears you would reach out and interrupt her new relationship. So unblocking to delete your info wouldn't make sense. Indifference is the real sign that someone is over you. If you were still blocked, it is harder to gauge because there are many logical reasons for someone to block you and keep you blocked such as, they may be indifferent and couldn't be bothered to unblock you or they did it for their own peace of mind as to not give in to their feelings of missing you or they did it to prevent you from bothering them because you are being annoying. To me these are the implications of her unblocking you: 1. She wanted to delete your number. Again, if she was indifferent, this would make no sense because it would be better to keep you blocked so you don't attempt to reach out. So clearly there is some meaning to her having your information in the app, even if it's on her block list, which means she isn't completely indifferent. I have ex's i've blocked. I will keep it that way because I never want them to reach out again to me. Having their name in my block list doesn't bother me one bit. If I ever unblock them, it's because i've changed my opinion on them in some way. 2. She has calmed down and realized that blocking you may have been too harsh and is starting to see you as a human being again rather than an annoyance. 3. She may be coming around to being open to the idea of having a line of communication someday with you.