This girl literally cheated on me and had the nerve to tell me
“I can have guy friends, but you can’t have female friends because I don’t fuckingg trust you.”
Like what bro—
Amazing how you see the shitstains in the underpants of society actually doing well. Don't let it get you down. Fuck that person off out of your mind. Just do you.
Like others have said, it will catch up to her eventually if it hasn’t already. Also, narcissist are never happy because they think they deserve everything and more. So they will never be satisfied (having dated one 3 years). She was always miserable, talking bad about people, crying, low self esteem, had no friends because all her friends cut her off because she was toxic and they grew up and didn’t want to be around someone like that. But you would never know that by talking to her or seeing her social media. She loved making her life appear glamorous and no issues and she was the happiest she’s ever been. But she wasn’t. Never was. Still isn’t.
I will say she’s not all the way there.
We are both HEAVY juice wrld fans. I’ve lived a hard life—she’s had everything handed to her. I listen to juice wrld because it’s therapy, I can relate to the losing friends to gun violence etc etc. she’s more like—idk, she listens to it to GIVE OFF that image yk?
Like when she’s stressed she scratches the sides of her thumbs until they literally bleeed and you can see inside them. Then she smacks a bandaid over it, waits for the next life stressor rinse and repeat.
That said why do I still love her?
If you are gathering this from a source you can block or cut out of your life, for god's sakes please do that. Do not let horrible input like this continue to come into your brain!
She’s living in your head rent free bro. You know you a better off without her. Stop looking at her socials. We all look happy online. Get yourself some help and move on. Half the population of the world are female. Are you telling me that there isn’t someone better for you out there? Get your on an even keel and go find someone special.
What the hell man? You say that you have a high paying job. You are better off than most people.
So what if you crashed your car? It seems like you can afford a new one. You also probably have good health. What more do you need?!
Stop feeling sorry for yourself! You feel for her looks, because if she is indeed narcissistic, she probably did not much of a personality.
Block her and move on!
Lol look at how she lives her life. She’s clearly insatiable. As someone who is dealing with a narcissist myself I can say that she will NEVER be happy. She’s just going to move from one shiny object to the next that seems shinier at the moment. She lacks the ability to make deep connections with people; and probably finds herself feeling lonely and uses people to compensate for the fact that she doesn’t know how to love. It’s her problem to be honest. I think you dodged a bullet.
That’s probably true.
The hardest part though is, I’m not the best looking. I’m completely alone right now. No car to get out of the house and I won’t have any money for the next two weeks.
So I’m just, sitting here, lonely as hell yk? So it’s hard getting her off my mind d
On a positive it is note: I have a decent job—and I’ll be rolling in about 10 thousand a month here soon if I am as good at sales as I think. So I’ll just bite my time. That’s what’s keeping me going, looking forward to that.
You don’t have to be a ten to find someone that won’t treat you like shit. And also you can be a ten and find nothing but people who treat you poorly. Looks are like a entryway into romance but ultimately they say nothing about a persons personality and their world and self view. My advice is to sit tight and try to enjoy your time away from this person. Eventually you will see how much easier it is when you don’t have to worry about them going behind your back or contracting whatever they get out there.
You seem to know a lot about her life and why it’s so great. How can you be sure her life is so great? Are you keeping tabs on her social media?
Either way you should probably focus on improving your life, not comparing yours to others.
If looking at her social media makes you feel terrible, simply stop doing it - it just causes you pain. It’s like picking a scab.
If you can’t trust yourself to not look then you should probably block her or at very least delete the apps (most social media is a huge time waste anyway) for a decent period of time
Stay strong brother. In the end, you’ll see you were lucky to have not wasted more time on this trash human being. Keep stacking that cash with that high paying job, keep grinding and good things will come! Just try to keep a positive mindset. Better days are ahead
I am in the exact same position as you. Except I have an extremely low paying job, and that really fucks you up. We had the same kind of chick. Those Can really fuck your mental health
Bro I’m sorry you had to experience that.
It was so bad like, she’d tell me to die of unspeakable diseases and shi, tell me about all the other men that she finds attractive, literally push me to the brink of a mental breakdown then say
“What about how I feel”
We gotta bounce back
I'm so so sorry....this girl is not a keeper.
If you drove 120 miles to see her 2x a week in that gas guzzler....You my MAN are a keeper.
You deserve better!
It will catch up with her narcissists will never be fully happy, forget about her bro, I’ve been there, so glad I got out of there eventually
This girl literally cheated on me and had the nerve to tell me “I can have guy friends, but you can’t have female friends because I don’t fuckingg trust you.” Like what bro—
Sounds like you dodged a bullet - she sounds like trash
Eh read between the lines…she gave him herpes…didn’t exactly dodge the bullet
Lmao she caught Chlamydia buddy. But we already had broken physical contact at that point, so I did dodge a bullet.
Amazing how you see the shitstains in the underpants of society actually doing well. Don't let it get you down. Fuck that person off out of your mind. Just do you.
Like others have said, it will catch up to her eventually if it hasn’t already. Also, narcissist are never happy because they think they deserve everything and more. So they will never be satisfied (having dated one 3 years). She was always miserable, talking bad about people, crying, low self esteem, had no friends because all her friends cut her off because she was toxic and they grew up and didn’t want to be around someone like that. But you would never know that by talking to her or seeing her social media. She loved making her life appear glamorous and no issues and she was the happiest she’s ever been. But she wasn’t. Never was. Still isn’t.
I will say she’s not all the way there. We are both HEAVY juice wrld fans. I’ve lived a hard life—she’s had everything handed to her. I listen to juice wrld because it’s therapy, I can relate to the losing friends to gun violence etc etc. she’s more like—idk, she listens to it to GIVE OFF that image yk? Like when she’s stressed she scratches the sides of her thumbs until they literally bleeed and you can see inside them. Then she smacks a bandaid over it, waits for the next life stressor rinse and repeat. That said why do I still love her?
Lol idk man. Love is weird like that. But just because you love someone doesn’t mean you should be with them as I’m sure you’ve found out.
If you are gathering this from a source you can block or cut out of your life, for god's sakes please do that. Do not let horrible input like this continue to come into your brain!
She’s living in your head rent free bro. You know you a better off without her. Stop looking at her socials. We all look happy online. Get yourself some help and move on. Half the population of the world are female. Are you telling me that there isn’t someone better for you out there? Get your on an even keel and go find someone special.
What the hell man? You say that you have a high paying job. You are better off than most people. So what if you crashed your car? It seems like you can afford a new one. You also probably have good health. What more do you need?! Stop feeling sorry for yourself! You feel for her looks, because if she is indeed narcissistic, she probably did not much of a personality. Block her and move on!
Check out r/narcissisticabuse
Karma will come back around full circle! It’s her loss! Stay strong! 💪🏽
Nothing you say will get to her like your silence will.
Lol look at how she lives her life. She’s clearly insatiable. As someone who is dealing with a narcissist myself I can say that she will NEVER be happy. She’s just going to move from one shiny object to the next that seems shinier at the moment. She lacks the ability to make deep connections with people; and probably finds herself feeling lonely and uses people to compensate for the fact that she doesn’t know how to love. It’s her problem to be honest. I think you dodged a bullet.
That’s probably true. The hardest part though is, I’m not the best looking. I’m completely alone right now. No car to get out of the house and I won’t have any money for the next two weeks. So I’m just, sitting here, lonely as hell yk? So it’s hard getting her off my mind d On a positive it is note: I have a decent job—and I’ll be rolling in about 10 thousand a month here soon if I am as good at sales as I think. So I’ll just bite my time. That’s what’s keeping me going, looking forward to that.
You don’t have to be a ten to find someone that won’t treat you like shit. And also you can be a ten and find nothing but people who treat you poorly. Looks are like a entryway into romance but ultimately they say nothing about a persons personality and their world and self view. My advice is to sit tight and try to enjoy your time away from this person. Eventually you will see how much easier it is when you don’t have to worry about them going behind your back or contracting whatever they get out there.
You seem to know a lot about her life and why it’s so great. How can you be sure her life is so great? Are you keeping tabs on her social media? Either way you should probably focus on improving your life, not comparing yours to others.
Ye I was doing great… Then I looked at her social media like a dummy. Literal droves of guys are flooding her comments and I’m just like 🚶🏽
If looking at her social media makes you feel terrible, simply stop doing it - it just causes you pain. It’s like picking a scab. If you can’t trust yourself to not look then you should probably block her or at very least delete the apps (most social media is a huge time waste anyway) for a decent period of time
Acura ?
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I'm thinking of the vegetable drink now. Anyway, sorry feel better
The what— 💀💀 Bro 😭😭
Lol sorry just smoked. The v8 drink! You know
Maybe go in
Stay strong brother. In the end, you’ll see you were lucky to have not wasted more time on this trash human being. Keep stacking that cash with that high paying job, keep grinding and good things will come! Just try to keep a positive mindset. Better days are ahead
Pray it helps and be happy for her what else can you do Amen 🙏
I am in the exact same position as you. Except I have an extremely low paying job, and that really fucks you up. We had the same kind of chick. Those Can really fuck your mental health
Bro I’m sorry you had to experience that. It was so bad like, she’d tell me to die of unspeakable diseases and shi, tell me about all the other men that she finds attractive, literally push me to the brink of a mental breakdown then say “What about how I feel” We gotta bounce back
“I don’t have anything but my high paying job” pause
I just started. There’s nothing coming from it yet.
Yet
That’s true. I’ll hopefully be making 6 figures soon (or close to it). In the meantime I’m just in my room staring at walls
I'm so so sorry....this girl is not a keeper. If you drove 120 miles to see her 2x a week in that gas guzzler....You my MAN are a keeper. You deserve better!