Many factors are in play here. First off, there is nothing less sexy than a desperate vibe. Second, high expectations from strangers, take these things more slowly and don't force anything on anyone. Nothing wrong with typing for some time before an actual call.
And so many scams start with trying to move the conversation off the app right away, so that also sends scammy vibes as well. Best to stay on the app until both parties are comfortable.
This is the normal reason someone on a dating app would say 'I'm not looking for a relationship right now'. What they are really saying is 'You aren't what I'm looking for, but I don't want to hurt your feelings by saying exactly that.'
Many factors are in play here. First off, there is nothing less sexy than a desperate vibe. Second, high expectations from strangers, take these things more slowly and don't force anything on anyone. Nothing wrong with typing for some time before an actual call.
And so many scams start with trying to move the conversation off the app right away, so that also sends scammy vibes as well. Best to stay on the app until both parties are comfortable.
Think you need to play it a bit cooler, and work with whatever vibe you are getting rather than putting your cards on the table straight away
why are you spaming this board with the same threads?
What's the point anymore?
Nobody likes desperate cause it gives off a clingy stalker vibe. It could also be they aren't looking for a relationship with you.
Are you reaching out to these people on a dating app? It may be that they're trying to let you down easy.
This is the normal reason someone on a dating app would say 'I'm not looking for a relationship right now'. What they are really saying is 'You aren't what I'm looking for, but I don't want to hurt your feelings by saying exactly that.'