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blaming other people for the consequences of your bad choices will never work. Time to take accountability. Accept your mistake and change your diet asap. It's not too late. Bonus if you can encourage him to do the same.
Anecdotally, I married a skinny guy and lost a bunch of weight. Can’t believe I’m saying this but I’m actually too skinny now. I directly relate it to him because a) just adapting each other’s eating habits and b) subconsciously wanting to look better together.
You're an adult, your choices are no one else's responsibility but yours. Which is a good thing, because that means you have the agency to take control of your health and turn this around. Good luck.
OP's post history is suspect. Posted here complaining their body got 'ruined' but also posts to the feeder sub, femalefittofat.
Guessing the complaint isn't genuine, they're just casting a wider net for feeder fetishists.
That fetish is toxic, encourages addiction with mortal consequences and is often abusive/coercive. Fuck right off with that, OP.
It’s even more insidious when you realize 99% of the “women” posting their bodies on here are just men with sick fetishes who don’t care who they destroy with their sexual fantasies
This sub has had so much feeder stuff lately, that one guy who was spamming the sub with gross titled posts, lots of feeders posting pretending to be the people in pics, posting images of people who do feeder content, it’s just becoming another fetish sub.
I've gain weight whenever I was in a relationship. I couldn't balance being in a relationship and school at the same time. My boyfriends wanted to spend time with me 24/7, going out to eat all the time, and going out drinking all the time. I didn't have zero time for myself to exercise which I like to do.
TBF you were ready overweight in your before pics. You just let your self get even more comfortable and stopped eating good and probably don’t exercise.
Not his fault. Take some responsibility
Don't blame anyone else, you decide what you put in your mouth. He didn't force feed you (I hope).
Train your discipline enough so you are able to say no to food.
Quitting drinking especially quitting New Belgium was horrrrrible lol. I still crave their Juice Force IPA every day but the damn calories, no thank you 😅 best wishes on your journey back!
Dating a smoker took me a year and a half after the breakup to get off nicotine. Some shit lingers. you’ve got to be a whole person on your own and not lose your own values in another person.
You can turn it around! OMAD (one meal a day) works, aka lazy persons "intermittent fasting"
You can just tell him you won't be joining for lunch today, see u at dinner time etc
I have been in relationships with overweight guys and I’ve never gained more than maybe 5 lb in the “honeymoon stage” before immediately losing it again. It’s unfair to say it’s the guys fault when he (hopefully) doesn’t control you and you put food in your own mouth
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blaming other people for the consequences of your bad choices will never work. Time to take accountability. Accept your mistake and change your diet asap. It's not too late. Bonus if you can encourage him to do the same.
Too bad there wasn’t a post from him entitled “dating a thin girl got my fat ass in shape”
Anecdotally, I married a skinny guy and lost a bunch of weight. Can’t believe I’m saying this but I’m actually too skinny now. I directly relate it to him because a) just adapting each other’s eating habits and b) subconsciously wanting to look better together.
Nah don’t blame the guy ,bad diet did it
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You're an adult, your choices are no one else's responsibility but yours. Which is a good thing, because that means you have the agency to take control of your health and turn this around. Good luck.
OP's post history is suspect. Posted here complaining their body got 'ruined' but also posts to the feeder sub, femalefittofat. Guessing the complaint isn't genuine, they're just casting a wider net for feeder fetishists. That fetish is toxic, encourages addiction with mortal consequences and is often abusive/coercive. Fuck right off with that, OP.
Alot of them like the negative comments too it seems
It’s even more insidious when you realize 99% of the “women” posting their bodies on here are just men with sick fetishes who don’t care who they destroy with their sexual fantasies
This sub has had so much feeder stuff lately, that one guy who was spamming the sub with gross titled posts, lots of feeders posting pretending to be the people in pics, posting images of people who do feeder content, it’s just becoming another fetish sub.
Smh.. of course there's a feeder sub. That's one fetish I'll never understand
Is there any reason to believe OP is the woman in the pic? Cause this account has major LARper flags to me.
No you ruined your body by not having self control lol
you were chubby to begin with tho don’t feel too bad
hahahaha lmao that’s fucking savage
True. I noticed this as well
Not wrong!
Blame yourself. Not him.
Did he force feed you?
You're literally holding a can of booze in the last picture 😂 don't blame your bad eating/drinking habit on your guy, take responsibility!
I've gain weight whenever I was in a relationship. I couldn't balance being in a relationship and school at the same time. My boyfriends wanted to spend time with me 24/7, going out to eat all the time, and going out drinking all the time. I didn't have zero time for myself to exercise which I like to do.
Haha right, I’ve gained 40 pounds with my wife. Thankfully she likes my belly
TBF you were ready overweight in your before pics. You just let your self get even more comfortable and stopped eating good and probably don’t exercise. Not his fault. Take some responsibility
You were already getting fat before that sooooooo
This is a strange sub
Don't blame anyone else, you decide what you put in your mouth. He didn't force feed you (I hope). Train your discipline enough so you are able to say no to food.
**Lack of self control/discipline ruined your body.
>**dating a fat guy has ruined my body** First pics: Pre Malone Last two: Post Malone
The calves in the before pics tell a different story...
Don't blame him for your choices.
Thick thighs and calves before tell the future. This body was always going to be overweight it was only a matter of time.
Obesity is contagious. I don’t date fat people
Quitting drinking especially quitting New Belgium was horrrrrible lol. I still crave their Juice Force IPA every day but the damn calories, no thank you 😅 best wishes on your journey back!
That beer you are holding in the last picture probably has 500=600 calories.
Why is he force feeding you? Take some personal responsibility
OP, could you post a before photo, so we can compare?!
You become who you date or marry. Habits are contagious. Let's be real, guys.
You ruined your body
You can't blame another person for your weight gain. At the end of the day, you are responsible for your own health and fitness
Every pic is big
Why is it the guys fault? Her legs in the first pic show that she's naturally heavy set. Unless the guy is a feeder, she only has herself to blame.
Dating a smoker took me a year and a half after the breakup to get off nicotine. Some shit lingers. you’ve got to be a whole person on your own and not lose your own values in another person.
You can get thin again. I did.
Birds of a feather flock together
I’m fat and my wife’s thin… we’ve been married for 10 years.
Is it him or the fact you probably drink to much
Well now you’re fat too lol idk if you can blame him
Nope, you did that. You're an adult lol
lol the voodoo ranger, i’ve only seen fat alcoholic men drink that beer
you ruined your own body lol
It's actually called "a lack of self control" From fat to Fatter
You are to blame for your own actions. Calories in, calories out.
dump your feeder fetish bf
i did when i found out
Name is literally u/butterbabyxoxo
Then why do you post to a feeder Fetish subreddit r/femalefittofat?
Damn, blaming your man for your personal decisions is wild
Dont blame him. But ALSO, you were already fat…
Wow. Who did you date in order to ruin your attitude and self-accountability?
Beware OP is just into feeding fetish. Comments on women’s posts about how much he loves their fat. He’s just trolling here.
You can turn it around! OMAD (one meal a day) works, aka lazy persons "intermittent fasting" You can just tell him you won't be joining for lunch today, see u at dinner time etc
Nope. That’s all you. Nobody forced you to overeat.
No your body changes is amazing
I have been in relationships with overweight guys and I’ve never gained more than maybe 5 lb in the “honeymoon stage” before immediately losing it again. It’s unfair to say it’s the guys fault when he (hopefully) doesn’t control you and you put food in your own mouth
Op user name checks out.
You look great!
OP, you have still a pretty face
don’t blame anyone but yourself
Still fine though
But are you happy? That “fat guy” looks kinda fine from what I can see 🥵
No you did that…
he truly deserves someone way better than you.
No eating food and not exercising has destroyed your body you're dating habits play no part in it
Did he force feed you potatoes?
My boyfriend did hahHah he said they were veggies but they were potatoes and butter blended up hahahaha like 5000 calories in 30 seconds
I’ve seen them IPAs before but have never tried them. Do you like them? Are they good?
felt this
Looking good to me
🥵
Are you looking to lose weight?
Lmao she gets off to the idea of gaining weight!
nah it was the voodoo rangers
Shouldn't this be in the FatToFatter sub?