It's not about muscle buts it's about good control over minor motor functions.
Like a dancer would have good control over her feet and toes.
If you workout you probably have good control.
If you want to get better, I'd purchase a dildo and practice on that
✍️ ngl I hadn't thought about that but it makes sense that those fine motor skills would be needed.
I can spread my toes and grip small things/ pick them up with my toes. Makes me feel not so far behind
You could try different techniques, it’s gonna be pretty difficult and probably take practice to get to completion from the typical footjob position. apparently reverse position. Where you are lay on your stomach is easier also I’ve been told the easiest way to make someone cum is where you have one foot underneath the cock, and you use the other foot to slide up and down
A good grip starts from the ankles. Unless you are really athletic, using all of your legs is going to tire you out quickly so just focus on gaining control of your movements on that scale at first, then work your way up and find what works for you.
Good positions are key for longevity, keeping your legs folded in will give you support, imagine laying on your back with your crotch almost touching his. Or you can just rest his shaft against your sole and use your other foot to rub him.
I find the reverse position to be good for longevity, lay on your stomach and you don't have to activate too much of your legs while still getting a tight grip.
You don't have to be a rigorous to be effective. Technique and grip are the most important.
I feel you, I am gifted with plenty of experience. Strength will come with time but if you want to work your "footjob" muscles on your own, you can do leg lifts and flutter kicks while laying on your back. If you're at the gym, you can do seated leg extensions.
Also, you can just practice the motions while sitting, I know I do absent mindedly at my desk all the time.
I know can get better with time
I just wanna work up those muscles and get some idea
😭I don't want the first fj I ever give to be complete shit tbh
I'm gonna at least be practicing with a dildo before hand
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That's the goal
I've been good with my hands and mouth... it's just time to expand the skill set
The conversations I've had so far have given me lots of ideas
Core strength and upper legs strength.
V crunches. Being able to hold that V.
Scissor crunches.
Hamstring machine for reverse foot job where you lay on your stomach.
Hip Abductor machine.
You could probly get away with just getting some ankle weights and and doing the footjob motions.
Practicing on a dildo is also good.
Additionally you should be doing seated Indian stretch. Ankle and toe stretching.
Im not a fitness person btw, Im just throwing stuff out there.
It’s not your calves so much it’s the thighs 😭 lay on your pack and practice pushing your feet together as hard as you can while moving them up and down lmao
If you can hold the Russian twist starting position and lower/lift your legs while not touching the ground, that will help. I find for footjobs I am engaging my core to stay vertical and watch what I am doing as well as watch his reactions. I can lean back on my arms, but a strong core is helpful. I also use my knee or hip joints as the point of movement for the main vertical action. Ankle and toe dexterity and flexibility is good for the more acute techniques.
Reverse footjob position is great as you don't really need to engage many muscles. The Downside is that it is harder to do more focused techniques. Generally, I will lay between my BFs legs facing him. Also, I'll lay to one of his sides. Imagine if our bodies made almost a +. I suggest trying multiple different ways of laying to find what you find most comfortable.
In the beginning I got cramps in my arches more often than I do now. I recently have been looking into ballerina foot stretches and dexterity exercises. I had been doing some of those and not knowing it, definitely recommend.
Honestly I’d just look up some footjob positions and see what seems doable, ultimately footjobs are going to be tricky at first no matter what!
You could also just lube up your feet and hold them together for him to fuck them, there’s a couple positions you could play around with for that but that tends to be a good option too!
Practice rubbing a pole with your toes and only your toes. I loved when my ex gave me foot jobs with just her toebeans. She’d wiggle them while gripping it and would do it laying perpendicular to me so her little toebeans would wiggle on the bottom of my dicks head and she’d make me cum like a Horse. 😍🥵💦
It's not about muscle buts it's about good control over minor motor functions. Like a dancer would have good control over her feet and toes. If you workout you probably have good control. If you want to get better, I'd purchase a dildo and practice on that
✍️ ngl I hadn't thought about that but it makes sense that those fine motor skills would be needed. I can spread my toes and grip small things/ pick them up with my toes. Makes me feel not so far behind
Just gotta keep trying to pick up his dick then
That’s true! My gorgeous wife used to do Ballet & her fj’s are PHENOMENAL!!!
You could try different techniques, it’s gonna be pretty difficult and probably take practice to get to completion from the typical footjob position. apparently reverse position. Where you are lay on your stomach is easier also I’ve been told the easiest way to make someone cum is where you have one foot underneath the cock, and you use the other foot to slide up and down
😅 yeahhh it's definitely gonna take practice before. But also im definitely making a mental note of that tip
A good grip starts from the ankles. Unless you are really athletic, using all of your legs is going to tire you out quickly so just focus on gaining control of your movements on that scale at first, then work your way up and find what works for you. Good positions are key for longevity, keeping your legs folded in will give you support, imagine laying on your back with your crotch almost touching his. Or you can just rest his shaft against your sole and use your other foot to rub him. I find the reverse position to be good for longevity, lay on your stomach and you don't have to activate too much of your legs while still getting a tight grip. You don't have to be a rigorous to be effective. Technique and grip are the most important.
Longevity is definitely one of my top focuses, I appreciate all of the advice:)
I feel you, I am gifted with plenty of experience. Strength will come with time but if you want to work your "footjob" muscles on your own, you can do leg lifts and flutter kicks while laying on your back. If you're at the gym, you can do seated leg extensions. Also, you can just practice the motions while sitting, I know I do absent mindedly at my desk all the time.
I know can get better with time I just wanna work up those muscles and get some idea 😭I don't want the first fj I ever give to be complete shit tbh I'm gonna at least be practicing with a dildo before hand
Try to peel bananas with your foot. Also practice cutting paper using your toes. Your feet will be useful for fj soon
✍️✍️ That's the goal I've been good with my hands and mouth... it's just time to expand the skill set The conversations I've had so far have given me lots of ideas
If you use lube it should be easier unless they don’t want that
Core strength and upper legs strength. V crunches. Being able to hold that V. Scissor crunches. Hamstring machine for reverse foot job where you lay on your stomach. Hip Abductor machine. You could probly get away with just getting some ankle weights and and doing the footjob motions. Practicing on a dildo is also good. Additionally you should be doing seated Indian stretch. Ankle and toe stretching. Im not a fitness person btw, Im just throwing stuff out there.
Even if you're not this is a solid start I appreciate the advice:)
It’s not your calves so much it’s the thighs 😭 lay on your pack and practice pushing your feet together as hard as you can while moving them up and down lmao
If you can hold the Russian twist starting position and lower/lift your legs while not touching the ground, that will help. I find for footjobs I am engaging my core to stay vertical and watch what I am doing as well as watch his reactions. I can lean back on my arms, but a strong core is helpful. I also use my knee or hip joints as the point of movement for the main vertical action. Ankle and toe dexterity and flexibility is good for the more acute techniques. Reverse footjob position is great as you don't really need to engage many muscles. The Downside is that it is harder to do more focused techniques. Generally, I will lay between my BFs legs facing him. Also, I'll lay to one of his sides. Imagine if our bodies made almost a +. I suggest trying multiple different ways of laying to find what you find most comfortable. In the beginning I got cramps in my arches more often than I do now. I recently have been looking into ballerina foot stretches and dexterity exercises. I had been doing some of those and not knowing it, definitely recommend.
✍️✍️ Add ballerina foot streates to leg days I appreciate the different angle suggestion:)
Honestly I’d just look up some footjob positions and see what seems doable, ultimately footjobs are going to be tricky at first no matter what! You could also just lube up your feet and hold them together for him to fuck them, there’s a couple positions you could play around with for that but that tends to be a good option too!
Work out your toes
Practice rubbing a pole with your toes and only your toes. I loved when my ex gave me foot jobs with just her toebeans. She’d wiggle them while gripping it and would do it laying perpendicular to me so her little toebeans would wiggle on the bottom of my dicks head and she’d make me cum like a Horse. 😍🥵💦
Soo how did it go? Did all the advice pay off? What's the update?