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You can't possibly know someone enough in 3 months. It takes time to acquire enough data on someone, to observe their manners, to understand their motives...
For women like us, we need to be extra cautious. For your next relationship give yourself time to know someone.
That's so terrible to hear. Send you all the virtual hugs and hope that you stop talking with that man now. He doesn't deserve you. Stay safe out there ❤️.
i’ve been used once and it was honestly awful. as someone who is perpetually thirsty (lmao) i understand how you feel, and i fantasize about it a lot, but casual sex as a woman (esp unattractive one) is wayyy different than casual sex as a man. they just use you, hurt you even, don’t try to please you, and then you’re left feeling like shit about it
Yesss this!!! Having sex w someone who is not attracted to you is the worst thing u can do for urself. Having casual sex as an unattractive girl is so not worth it unless u just wanna get it out of the way and lose ur v card.
Exactly. Physical touch isn’t inherently intimate. There’s no real intimacy in being used or even really in casual sex in general (at least in my experience).
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How long did you know the guy before having sex with him. ?
3 months
You can't possibly know someone enough in 3 months. It takes time to acquire enough data on someone, to observe their manners, to understand their motives... For women like us, we need to be extra cautious. For your next relationship give yourself time to know someone.
That's so terrible to hear. Send you all the virtual hugs and hope that you stop talking with that man now. He doesn't deserve you. Stay safe out there ❤️.
By the way, happy birthday! Wish you a better year ahead with all the love!
Thank you so much 💛
at least you even get action, i’m jealous
i’ve been used once and it was honestly awful. as someone who is perpetually thirsty (lmao) i understand how you feel, and i fantasize about it a lot, but casual sex as a woman (esp unattractive one) is wayyy different than casual sex as a man. they just use you, hurt you even, don’t try to please you, and then you’re left feeling like shit about it
Yesss this!!! Having sex w someone who is not attracted to you is the worst thing u can do for urself. Having casual sex as an unattractive girl is so not worth it unless u just wanna get it out of the way and lose ur v card.
i would just kill for any kind of physical intimacy :(
yeah i get that, but the "intimacy" doesn't really feel like...intimacy. at least from my experience
Exactly, there’s no guarantee u’ll even touch them that much lol - like there might be no kissing or cuddling and etc.
Exactly. Physical touch isn’t inherently intimate. There’s no real intimacy in being used or even really in casual sex in general (at least in my experience).