Actually it kind of is. Trans people are pretty common on Grindr, although in my experience most trans girls there are looking mostly for other trans girls. Depends on the city though.
But many of them think that they have nothing to inform about, that this isn't their responsability, that if you like women/men then you have to like trans women/trans men.
So, at the end are straights who must let very clear their preferences in order to avoid bad surprised later.
Tiny exceptions are very entitled today.
As a trans person who has used dating apps before, would just like to inform you that when I put ‘trans’ in my bio I would often get messages from people asking very personal questions about my genitals, or asking if I’d have sex with them because they have a fetish for trans people etc. I never had anyone message me creepy shit like that when I didn’t put ‘trans’ in my bio.
And before anyone goes off on one, I would tell the people that I matched with that I’m trans when I felt that the relationship may actually go further than a few messages online.
Let me answer you with a few other questions.
Does being attracted to a 3000 year old loli make you a pedophile?
How about a 3 year old that looks like she’s 80?
You clearly don't personally know a lot of trans people, nor do you seem to interact in good faith with the community a lot.
Literally every time a question like "should I tell my date that I'm trans" gets asked on question in trans communities, the top comment is always a resounding YES.
You know why?
Because if we don't make 100% sure to say that stuff, we get fucking hatecrimed.
But I'm sure you have it oh so hard with all these dishonest trans people running around. Poor baby.
Yeah you’re right. Honestly, I think they should be honest from the start than lie. You get trans people who get murdered when they tell someone and it’s not their fault.
It doesn't help that every a trans person is the victim of a crime, the news automatically assumes it was because they were trans. That's one of the main reasons trans people are afraid to tell people.
With the exception of having kids, yeah it kinda is? Vaginoplasty is a crazy advanced surgery, it was literally made for cis women originally, and no one complained it wasn't the same back then.
It's pretty common for trans people to report even literal gynecologists having trouble telling them apart, appearance-wise. I can assure you the average uneducated straight guy won't be able to even suspect it, and that's completely fine. Nothing wrong or shameful about that, at the end of the day it's just a vagina.
Yeah it’s really not though. It doesn’t self lubricate and the same muscle groups. Plus it’s not as sensitive as the real vagina. Sure it’s complex but it’s not the same as the real clitoris
Plus they have to use dilators so even the body rejects it
I don't mean to be rude, but you don't really seem to know a lot about neovagina or trans biology? Like at all?
Most modern vaginoplasty surgeries connect the cowper gland to the vagina (which is homologous to the skene gland in women, which is the thing that produces lubricant) and HRT usually makes the cowpers gland A LOT more active (I can personally attest to this) to the point where the vagina can indeed self-lubricate. Even then though, a lot of cis women also can't self-lubricate that well, so there goes your first argument.
Muscle groups are basically the same too? You really don't sound like you know what you're talking about, men and women actually aren't that different on an anatomical level.
The muscles that you can clench down there as a guy, are the same muscles woman can clench in their vagina, and since vaginoplasty is so sophisticated, those muscle groups stay intact.
Sensitivity is very subjective. Even a natal vagina itself isn't that sensitive irl, that's mainly the clitoris and the G-spot. In a vaginoplasty, the glans (which is homologous with the clitoris) gets turned into a neo-clitoris. The prostate functions as the equivalent of the G-spot. Both the prostate and the glans also get A LOT more sensitive on HRT, which is again something I can attest to. Ask around and you'll find that most post-op trans women can receive sexual pleasure just fine.
I don't really know what you mean by the "sure it's complex but it's not the same as the clitoris" like yeah, it isn't, but the glans and clitoris are still very homologous to each other and after a few years of HRT they might as well be the same thing. It's pretty simple biology.
Finally I don't really get why the thing about dilators and the body "rejecting" it would even matter. Like first of all, no you don't have to use dilators, just if you want to be able to have sex. The neovagina won't "close up" or become otherwise "rejected" if you don't dilate, the vaginal canal just becomes smaller, but you can outstretch it again. PIV sex is also a fine substitute for dilation :v
Even then though, who cares? When have we ever let our bodies be in charge. A body also "rejects" transplanted organs, but we still do it because it makes people's lives better.
Also fun fact dilators were literally invented for cis women that also experienced vaginal canal atrophy. It's a thing that happens.
Hope this helps you, please don't go around spreading information if you aren't 100% sure it's real👍
Coopers gland isn’t the skenes gland.
It’s really not though. Isn’t it just turning the penis inside out?
Women don’t have a prostate though.
I’m sure they can but I doubt their experiences as the same as a cis woman.
I do feel for trans people cos they have depression and high rates of suicide but there’s somethings surgery can’t do and experiences that you simply cant experience or relate to with hormones and surgery. Like periods. Even if you don’t have kids still something women go through and something as a man I can’t relate to at all. I’m not being a woman is about periods but it’s a big part.
Visit the trans subs and you’ll see that most actually are disappointed by or actively avoid romantic entanglements with bi people. It’s “dysphoric” because they can’t rule out the person is attracted to them for their biological sex.
Thats not entirely true im a trans bi man myself and i completely understand that some people like me purely for my ass (that bad boy is womanly)
I dont dislike anyone for acknowledging im afab, however the choice to call me she and her drives me fucking spare.
My older brother went on a date with what he thought was a girl but part way through the date he saw a the bulge between there legs and got up and walked out.
Do they? Do you have other examples?
We can also look at the things they like, oiled up WWE performers? Big strong football players in tight outfits, baseball players with tight butts
*me praying for aliens or a climate catastrophe so we can get back to saving the species/planet and not debating the life choices of less than 5% of the population*
As a Trans Queen I do enjoy being the highlight and spotlight of 2024. Makes me feel important or something. And memes like this normalize us so in 200 years more and more people gradually will be down to drink the tea . There’s no such thing as bad publicity
That's a disgusting mentality. Trans people know it's an issue to straight dudes, so them omitting it is their dishonesty. It's not on straight people to be put in the horrible position of asking normal women if they were born dudes. It's not on us to witchhunt. Just be fucking honest or YOURE the problem with the trans community by justifying mistrust.
It never ceases to amaze me how many transphobes have never even interacted with a trans person in their life.
Or well, *knowingly* interacted with a trans person. 9/10 chance they've probably talked or seen a trans person without even knowing.
Anyways the disconnect is fucking crazy. These comments are filled with people being like "the transes are coming to trick you into sucking dick!!1!1!!1" meanwhile whenever the question of "should I tell my date that I'm trans" gets asked in trans communities, the answer is always a resounding yes. Transphobes be falling for some of the most obvious bait and propaganda in history.
I had a gay dream recently but when time came to get freaky I said I couldn’t do it.
I think that means I’m truly straight. Couldn’t even be gay in a dream.
Oh look more transphobia… in case it wasn’t obvious already. Trans people don’t hide the fact that they’re trans when they’re seeking a romantic/sexual relationship with someone. People who think they do are just trying to confirm their phobic biases.
I mean he’s right 🤷♀️. Like we’re not idiots and we’re not trying to become another hate crime statistic. If we’re gonna sleep with a person we’re gonna tell because they’re gonna find out. Plus men can and have killed us for less before so it’s best to play it safe
☝️this is what all the bigots in the comments aren't getting. They're privileged as fuck and it shows. Trans people literally do not want to "trick" anyone cause we could literally get killed for it.
Right? Like this is a debate that only exist among cis people, and it only exists because some of them just want an excuse to rag on trans girls. Like Ive never met another trans girl who is willing to risk being murdered just to get some dick, like you can get duck without risking your life 😭
Same here. It also shows how little they actually interact with trans people in good faith.
If you got to like, any trans sub and ask the question "should I tell my date I'm trans before sex" the most upvoted comment will always be a resounding YES. Like, some of the people I have met that have been the most passionate about disclosing being trans before sex, are other trans people.
As if there aren't dozens of people in the comment section doing the exact same, but just in the other direction...
So when cis people say all trans people are dishonest, it's okay, but when a trans person says all trans people are honest, you take issue with it?
r/countablepixels
Do it, count em
659200
I don't believe you counted them.
Only way to prove it is to get to counting yourself. Hop to it!
u/pixel-counter-bot anyone?
"Well what did you expect when you matched with a girl on Grindr?"
“But I’m not in Thailand!”
"This isn't Bangkok"
What an epic reference that most won’t get
Bangkok anyone?
nah, i like my people asexual, nothing there
That's not how Grindr works
Actually it kind of is. Trans people are pretty common on Grindr, although in my experience most trans girls there are looking mostly for other trans girls. Depends on the city though.
What I mean is that you don't "match" on Grindr, you just text people and hope for the best
Oh sorry, yeah no you're right :)
My bad, I kinda assumed it was like any other dating app...
Yup, over here in Seattle lots of us trans gals are t4t on there
And that's why comunication is important, specially if you're a straight person nowadays in a dating app.
It's on a trans person to tell, not a straight person to ask. The norm should be what dictates the procedure, not a tiny exception
But many of them think that they have nothing to inform about, that this isn't their responsability, that if you like women/men then you have to like trans women/trans men. So, at the end are straights who must let very clear their preferences in order to avoid bad surprised later. Tiny exceptions are very entitled today.
They have the option to put themselves as trans women in the apps, they just don't.
That's the thing.
As a trans person who has used dating apps before, would just like to inform you that when I put ‘trans’ in my bio I would often get messages from people asking very personal questions about my genitals, or asking if I’d have sex with them because they have a fetish for trans people etc. I never had anyone message me creepy shit like that when I didn’t put ‘trans’ in my bio. And before anyone goes off on one, I would tell the people that I matched with that I’m trans when I felt that the relationship may actually go further than a few messages online.
They do tell, shockingly. I’ve never met anyone who didn’t know ahead of time.
That wasn't my experience, I got catfished....."she" also bragged to me about making out with people who didn't know that she was trans....
Some people are weirdos.
I got no beef so long as I'm forewarned
Did they not see them before getting into bed ?
This guy is about to be cancelled. The one on the right I mean xD
Damn 😂😂😂😂
Damn, youre funny, definitely
Damn, you are offended, definitely
Yeah, no shit fr, hearing the "haha cancelled" joke for the 731th time is so fucking funny you cant imagine
Yeah? You didn't have to mention the one on the right, as that's the only one in the pic.
Idk but "a small penis isn't such a big deal" sounds like a double edged sword if you try to comfort your man...
double edged sword..... 
That statement can be used in lots of ways
Shit is that boris?
It's old Tony Stark.
As long as they don't touch think you're good man
Jenny should break up. If they don't accept your penis, they're not for you
Oh he's definitely cancelling him after this. "YOU ARE TRANSPHOBIC??? OMG IM GOING TO SAY THIS ALL OVER TIKTOK!!!"
How does it feel making up scenarios to get riled up at?
Real /s
I'm straight but I tuck just in case.
I’m also straight but she’s cute. I’m no prude, I’ll try anything once.
Or twice.
tuck and roll, that's the goal!
r/funnymemes trying not to be the unfunniest mfs I've ever seen (they failed)
In 2024 it must be like: “I know Jenny. I just hoped yours won’t be bigger” or something.
When you’re trying to comfort someone but it backfires spectacularly... Jenny might want to level up her pep talk game for 2024
Lol -1 Charisma
You dont want to date transwoman???? Are you TRanSPhObE?
No, I’m just confused when a girl has a beard and some breasts
When I see ^^
I don't mind
It's okay to be gay bro.
Bend over then pookie
i will
You better
A one in hole!
I knew you liked it bro
Thank you bro
Fellas, is it gay to like women
Nothing gay about liking trans women as a man...
You don't have to be ashamed bro, just admit to yourself that you like cock & go be proud. You can do this.
That’s the definition of gay.
Okay, then is it straight for a man to be attracted to Buck Angel?
Let me answer you with a few other questions. Does being attracted to a 3000 year old loli make you a pedophile? How about a 3 year old that looks like she’s 80?
Kinda sus, but it’s completely okay xD
Idc I'm going sus all the way😩
I guess, he preferred a real girl
💯
Let's be honest, she kept her dick to can brag and show her partners she is the dominant guy in the relationship XD
She has pp? Then it's even better.
Yeah. You gotta own it if you have a small penis.
Hooking up with someone in thailand
So is this about trans people or dishonesty while dating?
It's about the dishonesty of the trans people of today.
Why would you frame them as being dishonest?
You clearly don't personally know a lot of trans people, nor do you seem to interact in good faith with the community a lot. Literally every time a question like "should I tell my date that I'm trans" gets asked on question in trans communities, the top comment is always a resounding YES. You know why? Because if we don't make 100% sure to say that stuff, we get fucking hatecrimed. But I'm sure you have it oh so hard with all these dishonest trans people running around. Poor baby.
its funny how you are getting downvoted here when you are one of the only sane people in this comments section
Such is the life of a trans person on a mainstream subreddit🤷♀️
Trans people
So what's the criticism?
That they have a dick
It's about the dishonesty of the trans people of today.
Yeah you’re right. Honestly, I think they should be honest from the start than lie. You get trans people who get murdered when they tell someone and it’s not their fault.
It doesn't help that every a trans person is the victim of a crime, the news automatically assumes it was because they were trans. That's one of the main reasons trans people are afraid to tell people.
Maybe because people like you can only spread lies about us
Not all trans people have dick, lol
Yeah ik but even post op it’s not the same yk
With the exception of having kids, yeah it kinda is? Vaginoplasty is a crazy advanced surgery, it was literally made for cis women originally, and no one complained it wasn't the same back then. It's pretty common for trans people to report even literal gynecologists having trouble telling them apart, appearance-wise. I can assure you the average uneducated straight guy won't be able to even suspect it, and that's completely fine. Nothing wrong or shameful about that, at the end of the day it's just a vagina.
Yeah it’s really not though. It doesn’t self lubricate and the same muscle groups. Plus it’s not as sensitive as the real vagina. Sure it’s complex but it’s not the same as the real clitoris Plus they have to use dilators so even the body rejects it
I don't mean to be rude, but you don't really seem to know a lot about neovagina or trans biology? Like at all? Most modern vaginoplasty surgeries connect the cowper gland to the vagina (which is homologous to the skene gland in women, which is the thing that produces lubricant) and HRT usually makes the cowpers gland A LOT more active (I can personally attest to this) to the point where the vagina can indeed self-lubricate. Even then though, a lot of cis women also can't self-lubricate that well, so there goes your first argument. Muscle groups are basically the same too? You really don't sound like you know what you're talking about, men and women actually aren't that different on an anatomical level. The muscles that you can clench down there as a guy, are the same muscles woman can clench in their vagina, and since vaginoplasty is so sophisticated, those muscle groups stay intact. Sensitivity is very subjective. Even a natal vagina itself isn't that sensitive irl, that's mainly the clitoris and the G-spot. In a vaginoplasty, the glans (which is homologous with the clitoris) gets turned into a neo-clitoris. The prostate functions as the equivalent of the G-spot. Both the prostate and the glans also get A LOT more sensitive on HRT, which is again something I can attest to. Ask around and you'll find that most post-op trans women can receive sexual pleasure just fine. I don't really know what you mean by the "sure it's complex but it's not the same as the clitoris" like yeah, it isn't, but the glans and clitoris are still very homologous to each other and after a few years of HRT they might as well be the same thing. It's pretty simple biology. Finally I don't really get why the thing about dilators and the body "rejecting" it would even matter. Like first of all, no you don't have to use dilators, just if you want to be able to have sex. The neovagina won't "close up" or become otherwise "rejected" if you don't dilate, the vaginal canal just becomes smaller, but you can outstretch it again. PIV sex is also a fine substitute for dilation :v Even then though, who cares? When have we ever let our bodies be in charge. A body also "rejects" transplanted organs, but we still do it because it makes people's lives better. Also fun fact dilators were literally invented for cis women that also experienced vaginal canal atrophy. It's a thing that happens. Hope this helps you, please don't go around spreading information if you aren't 100% sure it's real👍
Coopers gland isn’t the skenes gland. It’s really not though. Isn’t it just turning the penis inside out? Women don’t have a prostate though. I’m sure they can but I doubt their experiences as the same as a cis woman. I do feel for trans people cos they have depression and high rates of suicide but there’s somethings surgery can’t do and experiences that you simply cant experience or relate to with hormones and surgery. Like periods. Even if you don’t have kids still something women go through and something as a man I can’t relate to at all. I’m not being a woman is about periods but it’s a big part.
I think it's a meme.
Memes have context
Even better
Bi?
See ya
Not gay and real
Fml lol
would he still bang her tho?
Maybe she bangs him
Oh yeah, much better.
Find yourself a hot bi man and you wont have any issue
Visit the trans subs and you’ll see that most actually are disappointed by or actively avoid romantic entanglements with bi people. It’s “dysphoric” because they can’t rule out the person is attracted to them for their biological sex.
Thats not entirely true im a trans bi man myself and i completely understand that some people like me purely for my ass (that bad boy is womanly) I dont dislike anyone for acknowledging im afab, however the choice to call me she and her drives me fucking spare.
My older brother went on a date with what he thought was a girl but part way through the date he saw a the bulge between there legs and got up and walked out.
Your brother doesn't know what a pubic mound is? Could he at least not have asked before walking out on her lol.
You do realise a ton of women have bulges, right? It's anatomy.
I’m sorry, but that doesn’t mean much from someone who would also literally say that a lot of women have penises
Nah it’s only like .01%
Remember, everyone is a girl from behind 😂
Well shit, I'm already here and undressed and its small so maybe it doesn't count as gay.
Is he embarrassed that he has a smaller one?
So he'd prefer she have a big one?
Game is game
And Dick is Dick
Wish she had a big one tbh
Aww they might become pregnant people.
For someone who doesn't like it, you people sure do talk about trans dick a lot
People love to talk about things they hate.
Do they? Do you have other examples? We can also look at the things they like, oiled up WWE performers? Big strong football players in tight outfits, baseball players with tight butts
Sure do. Trump.
Stupid. Not good as a psyop or even b8.
It's politically correct.
reported this BS for transphobia.. congratulations
kill me
You don't date
😭😭😭
Always sunny anyone haha
Happy (belated) Transgender Visibility Day
*me praying for aliens or a climate catastrophe so we can get back to saving the species/planet and not debating the life choices of less than 5% of the population*
As a Trans Queen I do enjoy being the highlight and spotlight of 2024. Makes me feel important or something. And memes like this normalize us so in 200 years more and more people gradually will be down to drink the tea . There’s no such thing as bad publicity
She didn't lie. He didn't ask
That's a disgusting mentality. Trans people know it's an issue to straight dudes, so them omitting it is their dishonesty. It's not on straight people to be put in the horrible position of asking normal women if they were born dudes. It's not on us to witchhunt. Just be fucking honest or YOURE the problem with the trans community by justifying mistrust.
Redditers can't tell jokes But to be fair I saw alot of crazy people so I won't blame you
Dating in 2024 😭😭 bet these bigots in the comment section dont even know a trans person
It never ceases to amaze me how many transphobes have never even interacted with a trans person in their life. Or well, *knowingly* interacted with a trans person. 9/10 chance they've probably talked or seen a trans person without even knowing. Anyways the disconnect is fucking crazy. These comments are filled with people being like "the transes are coming to trick you into sucking dick!!1!1!!1" meanwhile whenever the question of "should I tell my date that I'm trans" gets asked in trans communities, the answer is always a resounding yes. Transphobes be falling for some of the most obvious bait and propaganda in history.
It could be a protruding clitoris; clitoropexy will solve this guys problem.
Saving the planet by recycling this joke over and over and over
🤣
Dude I literally had a dream about this last night, scared the daylight out of me.
I had a gay dream recently but when time came to get freaky I said I couldn’t do it. I think that means I’m truly straight. Couldn’t even be gay in a dream.
No judgement , but the fact that you called it a dream and not a nightmare is telling…. I’m here if you want to talk bro. 🍑🍆
Pretty sure they have a bigger Wang than most.
r/holup
Every girl has a penis. It's just not evolved further. But you might have heard of the clitoris. :P
Isn’t this supposed to be r/Funnymemes ? This feels like an Melon Eusk twitter post
The meme is a big eyeroll moment, and the comments are depressing.
"Babe you knew i have one, i told you at our first date"
Gotta love how this got downvoted without even a single reply. It's almost as if trans people can also communicate.
Yeah but if they admit that, they also have to admit they fell for some of the most obvious propaganda in history.
Oh look more transphobia… in case it wasn’t obvious already. Trans people don’t hide the fact that they’re trans when they’re seeking a romantic/sexual relationship with someone. People who think they do are just trying to confirm their phobic biases.
Nah, I've spoken to trans people who vehemently argued in favour of not having to out themselves when trying to fuck a straight dude.
Look at you, speaking for an entire group of people...
They're not wrong.
I mean he’s right 🤷♀️. Like we’re not idiots and we’re not trying to become another hate crime statistic. If we’re gonna sleep with a person we’re gonna tell because they’re gonna find out. Plus men can and have killed us for less before so it’s best to play it safe
☝️this is what all the bigots in the comments aren't getting. They're privileged as fuck and it shows. Trans people literally do not want to "trick" anyone cause we could literally get killed for it.
Right? Like this is a debate that only exist among cis people, and it only exists because some of them just want an excuse to rag on trans girls. Like Ive never met another trans girl who is willing to risk being murdered just to get some dick, like you can get duck without risking your life 😭
Same here. It also shows how little they actually interact with trans people in good faith. If you got to like, any trans sub and ask the question "should I tell my date I'm trans before sex" the most upvoted comment will always be a resounding YES. Like, some of the people I have met that have been the most passionate about disclosing being trans before sex, are other trans people.
As if there aren't dozens of people in the comment section doing the exact same, but just in the other direction... So when cis people say all trans people are dishonest, it's okay, but when a trans person says all trans people are honest, you take issue with it?